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The Agoge is the school all Spartan boys were sent to at the age of 7 to become warriors. --- Today, men are struggling to find meaning and purpose in their lives and in too many cases, hope. Loneliness and a lack of confidence are keeping many of us from feeling like we'll ever find happiness.

I want this group to be a place where we can try different activities and learn new skills. Getting us outdoors, becoming healthier, learning from and teaching one another, pushing each other to keep trying and lifting each other up.

Activities like Camping, Hiking, Rock Climbing, Kayaking, Airsoft, Archery, Biking, Primitive Technology (https://www.youtube.com/@primitivetechnology9550), etc.

Learning skills like Woodworking, Metalworking, Home Repair, Auto Repair, Self Sufficiency, Discipline, etc.

I've wanted to start this group for over 5 years but it always seemed like I had fixing to do in my life. for a couple years it was "When I've been sober for 6 months, I'll do it." Well, I got out of rehab in April, started the Welding course at Boces in May and after talking to some of my classmates about this group, I realized it's been more than 6 months. I'm not waiting any longer, so here we are.

I've run a couple groups in the past, a writers group in Michigan back in 2007ish and a social biking group here in Buffalo about 10 years ago (man time flies). I've learned that I'm good at building successful groups and honestly, I'm happiest when I do it. When I'm having a hard time being accountable to myself, it helps me greatly to be accountable to others. I am both nervous and excited.

If you're interested, here's a Chris Williamson video I listened to a while back that really hit home why I've wanted to start this group for so long:
https://youtu.be/fhkiqRgeX1k