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What we’re about

This isn’t just another social group—it’s a sanctuary for women who love women. Whether you’re here for friendships, networking, deep conversations, or unforgettable nights out, this community was built for women who refuse to settle for less than real connection.

We’re not about pretense. We’re about presence. We believe in showing up fully—grounded, joyful, and ready to celebrate who we are. From beach walks in Laguna to brunches in Newport, vision-board nights to late-night talks about love and life, this is a space where you can be authentically you while building lasting bonds.

If you’ve ever thought: “I want a community that feels like home. A place where women hold each other to high standards while still holding space for softness.”—you’ve found it.

This is the Real Lesbians of Orange County. Welcome home.

Community Guidelines:
To protect the standard of this space, we have clear boundaries:

  1. Respect First, Always.
    Every member deserves to feel safe, valued, and free to be themselves. Disrespect, judgment, or discrimination of any kind will not be tolerated.
  2. No Drama, No Games.
    We’re not here for chaos, cliques, or competition. Leave gossip, toxicity, and low-energy behavior at the door.
  3. High Standards, High Vibes.
    Come as your best self. Contribute positively to conversations, events, and connections. We grow together by lifting each other up.
  4. Confidentiality Matters.
    What’s shared in the group stays in the group. This is a safe space for open dialogue, personal stories, and honest expression.
  5. Engage & Support.
    Show up. RSVP responsibly. Celebrate others’ wins. Offer kindness, encouragement, and accountability.
  6. Boundaries are Love.
    Flirting is natural, but pressure is not. Honor others’ boundaries in both conversation and connection.
  7. Alcohol & Substances.
    Some events may include cocktails, others may not. Be mindful of your intake, and remember this is a community—not a bar scene.

✨ Our vision: to create a circle of empowered women who know that friendship, romance, and growth all flourish when respect, joy, and authenticity are at the core.

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