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This is a Gay group for anyone interested in participating in fun social events and meeting new people. Since our launch, we have created over 2000 Gay events in NYC.  Every event provides FUN ways to connect with other new people and build friendships (and often more). Enjoy! Hugh Hysell, President of TheMenEvent

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  • Gay Dating Mastery - Free Workshop for Gay Men

    Gay Dating Mastery - Free Workshop for Gay Men

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    Online
    Online

    ### A Free Workshop for Gay Men

    Saturday · 5 PM EST · Live on Zoom · Free
    →
    Click here to register
    You know how to get a match. This is about what comes after — dating with intention, meeting men who are actually available, and refusing to let shame write the script.
    Live and interactive. Bring your questions and your story. Leave with a framework you can use the next time you open an app or walk into a room.

    ***

    ## What We'll Cover

    How to Date Powerfully Stop auditioning for approval. Start choosing from clarity. You'll learn to name what you want, say it without apology, and show up as the man who attracts instead of performs. Power in dating isn't dominance — it's self-possession.
    How to Meet Quality Men Where you look determines who you find. We'll separate volume from quality, show why the apps aren't the problem (your strategy might be), and identify the rooms — social, creative, professional, communal — where emotionally available men actually spend their time.
    How Shame Works Shame is the quiet saboteur of gay dating. It looks like over-apologizing, hiding your wants, settling for less, or chasing the men who confirm your worst fears. We'll trace where it comes from, catch it in real time, and interrupt it before it makes your decisions for you.
    Why Dating Outside of Sexuality Is the Key When sexuality is the only lens, every interaction becomes an evaluation. When you lead with your whole self — your interests, your values, your humor, your ambition — you meet men as people first. That's where real attraction begins.

    ***

    ## Why This Workshop

    Most dating advice for gay men is either shallow or cynical. This is neither. It's a serious conversation about dating, held without shame and without games — among men asking the same questions you are.
    Free. Limited Seats!
    → Click here to register
    Zoom seats are capped so the conversation stays real. Reserve yours.

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    13 attendees
  • Free Community Call — Introduce Yourself! Share Your Story! Meet Gay Men!

    Free Community Call — Introduce Yourself! Share Your Story! Meet Gay Men!

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    Online
    Online

    Join our free online community call to introduce yourself, share your experiences, and meet gay men beyond the profile picture. Tired of being surrounded by gay men online and still having no one to really talk to?

    👉 Click here to register

    Plenty of profiles. Plenty of messages that go nowhere. Yet when you want someone to hear your story, understand your life, or share something meaningful, the connection is missing.
    You want to be known. To feel welcome. To have something to look forward to with other men.
    That begins by giving people a chance to meet you.
    Break the scrolling habit. Bring your voice, your story, and your personality into a live conversation.
    Join our free online community call to introduce yourself, share your experiences, and meet gay men beyond the profile picture.

    👉 Click here to register

    10 Benefits — Turn Disconnection Into Participation

    • Be seen beyond your profile — Let others discover your personality, interests, and values.
    • Share your story — Give your experiences and hopes room in the conversation.
    • Meet gay men outside your usual circle — Open the door to people you might otherwise never encounter.
    • Break the isolation routine — Take a concrete step toward bringing people into your life.
    • Find common ground — Discover shared experiences, interests, and hopes.
    • Feel less alone — Hear from men who understand some of what you’ve been through.
    • Say what matters to you — Talk about the friendship and connection you want.
    • Build confidence — Practice showing up, speaking up, and letting yourself be known.
    • Feel inspired to meet others — Give yourself fresh reasons to participate again.
    • Create momentum — Make connecting with others a monthly habit.
    You don’t have to wait for another disappointing date to decide you need more connection. Take that step now.

    👉 Click here to register

    When & Where

    📅 Next call: Wednesday, October 14, 2026
    🔁 2nd Wednesday of every month
    🕗 8 PM Eastern / 7 PM Central / 6 PM Mountain / 5 PM Pacific
    💻 Online via Zoom
    🎟️ Free to attend

    Let someone hear your story. Discover someone else’s. Give connection a chance to begin.

    👉 Click here to register

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    4 attendees
  • Gay Dating Mastery - Free Workshop for Gay Men

    Gay Dating Mastery - Free Workshop for Gay Men

    ·
    Online
    Online

    ### A Free Workshop for Gay Men

    Saturday · 5 PM EST · Live on Zoom · Free
    →
    Click here to register
    You know how to get a match. This is about what comes after — dating with intention, meeting men who are actually available, and refusing to let shame write the script.
    Live and interactive. Bring your questions and your story. Leave with a framework you can use the next time you open an app or walk into a room.

    ***

    ## What We'll Cover

    How to Date Powerfully Stop auditioning for approval. Start choosing from clarity. You'll learn to name what you want, say it without apology, and show up as the man who attracts instead of performs. Power in dating isn't dominance — it's self-possession.
    How to Meet Quality Men Where you look determines who you find. We'll separate volume from quality, show why the apps aren't the problem (your strategy might be), and identify the rooms — social, creative, professional, communal — where emotionally available men actually spend their time.
    How Shame Works Shame is the quiet saboteur of gay dating. It looks like over-apologizing, hiding your wants, settling for less, or chasing the men who confirm your worst fears. We'll trace where it comes from, catch it in real time, and interrupt it before it makes your decisions for you.
    Why Dating Outside of Sexuality Is the Key When sexuality is the only lens, every interaction becomes an evaluation. When you lead with your whole self — your interests, your values, your humor, your ambition — you meet men as people first. That's where real attraction begins.

    ***

    ## Why This Workshop

    Most dating advice for gay men is either shallow or cynical. This is neither. It's a serious conversation about dating, held without shame and without games — among men asking the same questions you are.
    Free. Limited Seats!
    → Click here to register
    Zoom seats are capped so the conversation stays real. Reserve yours.

    • Photo of the user
    • Photo of the user
    • Photo of the user
    5 attendees
  • Free Community Call — Introduce Yourself! Share Your Story! Meet Gay Men!

    Free Community Call — Introduce Yourself! Share Your Story! Meet Gay Men!

    ·
    Online
    Online

    Join our free online community call to introduce yourself, share your experiences, and meet gay men beyond the profile picture. Tired of being surrounded by gay men online and still having no one to really talk to?

    👉 Click here to register

    Plenty of profiles. Plenty of messages that go nowhere. Yet when you want someone to hear your story, understand your life, or share something meaningful, the connection is missing.
    You want to be known. To feel welcome. To have something to look forward to with other men.
    That begins by giving people a chance to meet you.
    Break the scrolling habit. Bring your voice, your story, and your personality into a live conversation.
    Join our free online community call to introduce yourself, share your experiences, and meet gay men beyond the profile picture.

    👉 Click here to register

    10 Benefits — Turn Disconnection Into Participation

    • Be seen beyond your profile — Let others discover your personality, interests, and values.
    • Share your story — Give your experiences and hopes room in the conversation.
    • Meet gay men outside your usual circle — Open the door to people you might otherwise never encounter.
    • Break the isolation routine — Take a concrete step toward bringing people into your life.
    • Find common ground — Discover shared experiences, interests, and hopes.
    • Feel less alone — Hear from men who understand some of what you’ve been through.
    • Say what matters to you — Talk about the friendship and connection you want.
    • Build confidence — Practice showing up, speaking up, and letting yourself be known.
    • Feel inspired to meet others — Give yourself fresh reasons to participate again.
    • Create momentum — Make connecting with others a monthly habit.
    You don’t have to wait for another disappointing date to decide you need more connection. Take that step now.

    👉 Click here to register

    When & Where

    📅 Next call: Wednesday, October 14, 2026
    🔁 2nd Wednesday of every month
    🕗 8 PM Eastern / 7 PM Central / 6 PM Mountain / 5 PM Pacific
    💻 Online via Zoom
    🎟️ Free to attend

    Let someone hear your story. Discover someone else’s. Give connection a chance to begin.

    👉 Click here to register

    1 attendee

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