About us
This is a Gay group for anyone interested in participating in fun social events and meeting new people. Since our launch, we have created over 2000 Gay events in NYC. Every event provides FUN ways to connect with other new people and build friendships (and often more). Enjoy! Hugh Hysell, President of TheMenEvent
Upcoming events
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Gay Dating Mastery - Free Workshop for Gay Men
·OnlineOnline### A Free Workshop for Gay Men
Saturday · 5 PM EST · Live on Zoom · Free
→ Click here to register
You know how to get a match. This is about what comes after — dating with intention, meeting men who are actually available, and refusing to let shame write the script.
Live and interactive. Bring your questions and your story. Leave with a framework you can use the next time you open an app or walk into a room.***
## What We'll Cover
How to Date Powerfully Stop auditioning for approval. Start choosing from clarity. You'll learn to name what you want, say it without apology, and show up as the man who attracts instead of performs. Power in dating isn't dominance — it's self-possession.
How to Meet Quality Men Where you look determines who you find. We'll separate volume from quality, show why the apps aren't the problem (your strategy might be), and identify the rooms — social, creative, professional, communal — where emotionally available men actually spend their time.
How Shame Works Shame is the quiet saboteur of gay dating. It looks like over-apologizing, hiding your wants, settling for less, or chasing the men who confirm your worst fears. We'll trace where it comes from, catch it in real time, and interrupt it before it makes your decisions for you.
Why Dating Outside of Sexuality Is the Key When sexuality is the only lens, every interaction becomes an evaluation. When you lead with your whole self — your interests, your values, your humor, your ambition — you meet men as people first. That's where real attraction begins.***
## Why This Workshop
Most dating advice for gay men is either shallow or cynical. This is neither. It's a serious conversation about dating, held without shame and without games — among men asking the same questions you are.
Free. Limited Seats!
→ Click here to register
Zoom seats are capped so the conversation stays real. Reserve yours.13 attendees
Gay Dating Mastery - Free Workshop for Gay Men
·OnlineOnline### A Free Workshop for Gay Men
Saturday · 5 PM EST · Live on Zoom · Free
→ Click here to register
You know how to get a match. This is about what comes after — dating with intention, meeting men who are actually available, and refusing to let shame write the script.
Live and interactive. Bring your questions and your story. Leave with a framework you can use the next time you open an app or walk into a room.***
## What We'll Cover
How to Date Powerfully Stop auditioning for approval. Start choosing from clarity. You'll learn to name what you want, say it without apology, and show up as the man who attracts instead of performs. Power in dating isn't dominance — it's self-possession.
How to Meet Quality Men Where you look determines who you find. We'll separate volume from quality, show why the apps aren't the problem (your strategy might be), and identify the rooms — social, creative, professional, communal — where emotionally available men actually spend their time.
How Shame Works Shame is the quiet saboteur of gay dating. It looks like over-apologizing, hiding your wants, settling for less, or chasing the men who confirm your worst fears. We'll trace where it comes from, catch it in real time, and interrupt it before it makes your decisions for you.
Why Dating Outside of Sexuality Is the Key When sexuality is the only lens, every interaction becomes an evaluation. When you lead with your whole self — your interests, your values, your humor, your ambition — you meet men as people first. That's where real attraction begins.***
## Why This Workshop
Most dating advice for gay men is either shallow or cynical. This is neither. It's a serious conversation about dating, held without shame and without games — among men asking the same questions you are.
Free. Limited Seats!
→ Click here to register
Zoom seats are capped so the conversation stays real. Reserve yours.5 attendees
Past events
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