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## 🌿 The Sober Rebel Club for System-Impacted Women — Bay Area

Alcohol-Free • Wellness • Nature • Connection • Community
Welcome, Rebel.
This is a dedicated alcohol-free community for women who are choosing a sober lifestyle and want a genuine connection without substances.
The Sober Rebel Club is a trauma-informed, women-led space rooted in nervous-system safety, healing, movement, and meaningful friendship — without alcohol.
This is not a general wellness or social group.
It is a sober container designed to support women who are living alcohol-free and want a community that truly aligns with that choice.

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## 🌱 What This Community Is About

We gather for intentional, alcohol-free experiences that support healing, regulation, and joy:
✨ Women’s hikes & nature walks
✨ Paddle boarding & outdoor adventures
✨ Stretch + trailhead movement sessions
✨ Journaling & reflection circles
✨ Weekly virtual sober support calls
✨ Sober movie nights
✨ Fitness & race-training meetups
✨ BYOT (Build Your Own Taco 🌮) nights
✨ Resume & LinkedIn Labs
✨ Empowering book clubs
✨ Nervous-system regulation tools
✨ Resource sharing for sober living
Every gathering is designed to foster emotional safety, presence, and connection — without substances.

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## 🧡 Who This Group Is For

This group is for women who:
✔️ Are living alcohol-free
✔️ Are sober or in recovery
✔️ Are system-impacted (incarceration, rehab, group homes)
✔️ Are healing from trauma, burnout, or anxiety
✔️ Want friendships that don’t revolve around drinking
✔️ Value nervous-system safety and real connection
✔️ Are committed to a sober lifestyle
This group is not for social drinking, “moderation,” or substance-neutral spaces.
You don’t need to label yourself or have a specific sobriety timeline —
but participation does require choosing not to drink.

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## 🔥 Why “Sober Rebel”?

Because choosing sobriety in a culture that glamorizes alcohol is radical.
Because women deserve peace, clarity, and safety.
Because we heal faster when we’re supported — not pressured.
This isn’t about deprivation.
It’s about reclaiming your nervous system, your energy, and your life.

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## 👩🏻‍🏫 Who Leads This Community

Vanessa Ragains (they/them)
Founder of Beyond BARS Coaching, a trauma-informed nonprofit supporting reentry, recovery, and nervous-system healing.
Vanessa brings lived experience, compassionate leadership, and integrative tools, including trauma-sensitive yoga, coaching, and emotional regulation, into every gathering.
This is more than a Meetup group —
It’s a sober support ecosystem.

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## 🤍 What You Can Expect

✨ Zero alcohol
✨ Zero pressure
✨ Trauma-informed facilitation
✨ Clear boundaries
✨ Supportive women
✨ Grounded movement
✨ Honest conversation
✨ A place to belong
💸 Support the Sober Rebel Club:
🔗 https://givebutter.com/SoberRebelClub

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## 📏 Group Guidelines (Please Read)

### 1️⃣ Alcohol-Free Container

All events and spaces are 100% alcohol-free.
This boundary protects the safety and trust of the group.

### 2️⃣ Kindness + Compassion

We lead with empathy, respect, and care.
No shaming, policing, or judgment.

### 3️⃣ Trauma-Informed Community

Many members are healing from trauma or recovery.
We do not offer unsolicited advice or push agendas.
We listen, support, and honor boundaries.

### 4️⃣ Confidentiality Is Sacred

What’s shared here stays here.

### 5️⃣ Inclusivity Matters

All women are welcome — LGBTQ+, BIPOC, neurodivergent, disabled, early or long-term sobriety.

### 6️⃣ No Selling or Soliciting

This is not a promotional or MLM space.

### 7️⃣ RSVP + Safety Respect

Please RSVP thoughtfully and honor shared spaces.

### 🔟 The Rebel Rule

Show up as you are — real, healing, human.

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### 🧭 Final Note

This group exists to protect a sober, supportive, healing environment.
If you’re currently drinking or not seeking an alcohol-free community, this may not be the right space — and that’s okay.
When you’re ready for sober connection,
we’ll be here.
Welcome to the Sober Rebel journey. 🌱🧡

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