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How can two people long to be supportive and generous to one another and yet lack all the skills to deliver on their good intentions?
Why do we take our own preferred style of being soothed as the natural starting point for how to soothe others?
In what ways can we understand the particular way in which we, and our partner, need love to be delivered in order to feel that it is real?
How can the different styles of listening, solutions, optimism, pessimism and cuddles help?
Does recognizing that there are different styles of help alert us to the severe risks of misunderstanding?
Let's think about it in North County! (thanks to Helen for the location suggestion)