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小酌消烦暑，人间正清欢 周末的时光，不应该空白！ 炎炎夏日 | 微醺才是打开盛夏的正确方式 遇见·城市部落诚挚的邀请您参加： 和新老朋友一起假期小酌，邂逅漫时光。酒到微醺，开启夏日的时尚社交！ 邀清风作陪，与明月对饮 这一刻，是独属于你的微醺！ 时间：晚7:30-10点 地点：Calypso地中海酒廊 报名费含指定鸡尾酒或葡萄酒，啤酒一杯 Meetup Citywalk invite you to join our Holiday drink & mingle with fellows at Calypso Lounge this Saturday evening. Meet and mingle with fellows, enjoy a drink or two and have fun! Don't be afraid to come alone. You'll make new friends quickly. See you there! Ticket price RMB 68 including one drink(Cocktail or wine, beer)

Meet other local people interested in Language Exchange: share experiences, inspire and encourage each other! Join our Shanghai Language Exchange group. Do you speak Spanish🇪🇸, French🇫🇷, German🇩🇪, Hebrew, Portuguese🇵🇹, Italian🇮🇹, Russian🇷🇺, Japanese🇯🇵, Korean🇰🇷, Chinese🇨🇳, Arabic🇦🇪 or English🇬🇧🇺🇸?Practice your Spanish, French, German, Hebrew, Portuguese, French, Italian, Russian, Japanese, Korean, Chinese, Arabic, and English All language levels are welcome! Follow us for upcoming events! 📆Saturday 【周六】 🟢 International Students Talkspace留学生交流会🟢 🎟#小程序://互动吧/Sl7QHUqQbsY1pHC ⏰:19:00-22:00 【Saturday】 🏠: 复旦科技园副楼一楼 📍Fudan science park ▶️location video guide： [https://maps.app.goo.gl/bmf1TkzZ45SUR2nX8](https://maps.app.goo.gl/bmf1TkzZ45SUR2nX8) 🎫：Early-bird: 35 RMB = 5$ 【set going before 】 normal 40 RMB = 6$ At the Door 50RMB = 7$【At the door buy 】 #公众号：说会英语 #视频号：说会英语 #小程序://互动吧/h1LX5oWSDmgO10v #小程序://微博/H1VOJN21MjI0Tjx #公众号：说会英语 #视频号：说会英语 #[小红书：说会英语](https://www.xiaohongshu.com/user/profile/5f2ccb430000000001000244) Talkspace help visitors, international friends, business professionals, and newcomers integrate into local life, explore local culture, and build language and emotional connections. Breaking language barriers · Creating spaces for dialogue. Through cultural exchange and interactive communities, we connect the world, helping people quickly integrate into new cities and experience authentic local culture. By combining linguistic, physical, and cultural spaces, we promote both cultural development and individual growth.

# 🌅 Event Description Join us for a relaxed **morning social run in the Jing’an neighborhood of Shanghai** — a great way to explore the city, stay active, and meet new people. I’m visiting Shanghai from Tokyo and thought it would be fun to organize a small community run while I’m here. Whether you’re a local runner, an expat, or just visiting the city, you’re welcome to join. We’ll meet near **Jing'an Temple** and run together through some of the most charming streets in the area, including the historic neighborhood of **Anfu Road**. The pace will be **easy and social**, so runners of different levels are welcome. This is not a race — the goal is simply to enjoy the morning atmosphere of the city and connect with others. After the run, anyone who would like to join can grab **coffee or breakfast together at a nearby café**. *** ## 📍 Meeting Point Outside **Jing’an Temple Metro Station (Exit 1)** Please arrive about **10 minutes early** so we can start the run on time. *** ## 🏃 Route Jing’an Temple → Anfu Road → Wukang Road area → Jing’an Park Distance: **about 4–5 km** We will run at a comfortable group pace and stop if needed. *** ## 🕰 Schedule Meet & introductions — 7:50 AM Start running — 8:00 AM Finish run — around 9:00 AM Optional coffee / breakfast afterward Total event time: about **1–1.5 hours** *** ## 💴 Participation Fee Free Coffee or breakfast after the run is optional and not included. *** ## 🎒 What to Bring • comfortable running shoes • water if needed • positive energy 🙂 *** ## 🌿 Who This Event Is For • people who enjoy running and exploring the city • locals, expats, and travelers in Shanghai • anyone who wants to meet new people in a relaxed setting *** ✨ Let’s start the day with a run and good company.

Connect with fun-loving, young-at-heart single players (ages 20–45) at a relaxed, board games-inspired evening. Talkspace help visitors, international friends, business professionals, and newcomers integrate into local life, explore local culture, and build language and emotional connections. Talkspace 帮助新到一个城市的旅游者、出差者、工作者能够更加快速的融入到这个新的城市和了解更加地道的当地文化。致力于帮助个人培养语言、沟通能力。建立人与人的语言链接与情感链接空间。 目前我们已经在中国6个城市 组织社群语言活动 🇳🇱🇦🇷🇬🇭🇿🇦🇧🇩🇫🇯🇦🇪🇷🇺🇵🇦🇯🇲🇵🇪🇵🇷🇹🇷🇬🇷🇺🇦🇦🇿 🍹🍻🥤🧉🍹🥤🥂🍇🍒 现场也会有一些零食和水果 There will also be some snacks and fruits available. 🎫：【All Tickets Includes One Drink】 STUDENT学生票¥30 【Show Us your Student Card or ID】 EARLY BIRD早鸟票¥40 = 6$ 【set going On meetup before is early bird 】 REGULAR 预售票¥50 = 7$ AT DOOR现场票¥60 = 8$【At the door buy 】 🍹🍻🥤🧉🍹🥤🥂🍇🍒 📆Saturday 【周六】Fudan Discount ticket特惠¥ 25 only tonight 🟢Talkspace International Students Language Exchange 复旦同济留学生交流会🟢 ⏰:19:00-22:00 【Saturday】 🏠: 复旦科技园副楼一楼路演大厅 📍No 11, Guotai Road,Yangpu District, Shanghai WeChat：17317121983 WhatsApp：+8617317121983 [https://wa.me/8617317121983](https://wa.me/8617317121983) [https://maps.app.goo.gl/bmf1TkzZ45SUR2nX8](https://maps.app.goo.gl/bmf1TkzZ45SUR2nX8)

Chinese Corner in Jing an(Line 7 Changping Lu station) Please free free to join us. All levels are welcome! Don’t worry about your Chinese level, we have mandarin teachers here to help you, any questions free to ask. More informations Welcome to add WeChat : ZoeMandarinClass

Trying to prepare for your first time eating hairy crab this season? http://photos2.meetupstatic.com/photos/event/6/0/2/2/600_443484610.jpeg With an estimated five tons of hairy crabs due to crawl onto Shanghai dining tables from now till winter, its high time to conquer your fear of whole steamed hairy crab, which is the best way to savor the crustacean. http://photos3.meetupstatic.com/photos/event/6/0/7/3/600_443484691.jpeg Tour Highlights Chinese hairy crab (Da ZhaXie) is a seasonal delicacy found inrivers and lakes of the Yangtze Delta region during autumn. During this time the best-quality Yangcheng Lake hairy crabs with their green shells, white bottoms, rich in fat and roe, are shipped to restaurants and is the best time for eating crabs in Shanghai. This autumn, don’t miss out on our small group tours to find the best tasting Yangchen hairy crab.We will not be going to traditional restaurants to have this delicacy;however, our exclusive tours will take you on a private yacht heeling over in the Yangcheng Lake. Then, your crab tasting meal will set in the fish man restaurant directly onthis private boat in the middle of the lake. http://photos1.meetupstatic.com/photos/event/7/3/e/b/600_443489675.jpeg Your amazing adventure won’t end at just this cultural food tour, but you will also see the highest and heaviest indoor Buddha figure in China located in the Yangcheng lake peninsula by the Chongyuan temple. Chongyuantemple, originally named Chongxuan temple and constructed about 1500 years ago by emperor Liangwudi, covers an area of over 200000m2. The mid lake Guanyin(Avalokitesvara) tower and Chongyuan temple compliment each other with radiance and beauty as they unfold before one’s eyes through a unique and magnificent look of dedication to Avalokitesvara. Lastly we will travel to the old town of Suzhou. Only a 30KM drive away from YangchengLake, Suzhou is rich in culture, known for its historical wealth,and most famous for the Kun opera and Silk. For our last stop, we will visita silk museum and the Kun opera tea house. Kun Opera is one of the oldest forms of Chinese opera. It evolved from the Kunshan melody and dominated Chinese theatre from the 16th to the 18th centuries. Since 2001, the Kun Opera is listed as one of the Masterpieces of the Oral and Intangible Heritage of Humanity by UNESCO.Here,we will enjoy a lovely drink at the teahouse and soft tender Kun melodies. Tour Duration: 8 Hours Maximum Number of People: 8 Tour price: 1PAX---699RMB/PPL 2PAX---599RMB/PPL 3-4PAX---559RMB/PPL 5-6PAX---499RMB/PPL 7-8PAX---459RMB/PPL We only accept up to 8 people in this tour in order to keep our tour's standard. Please booking in advance ASAP Inclusions • Entrance fees • Shanghai crab and seasoning lake delicacy lunch meal in private boat • Professional English Speaking guide • Private vehicle service using during the tour • Kun opera show and tea service Exclusions • Personal expense Any meals or drinks that are not listed in the itinerary • Any attractions/activities/shows that are not listed in the itinerary • Excess baggage charges • Other expenses not mention in inclusions. Booking To book this tour, please contact us with number of people and we will get back to you promptly.Or send us a message through Wechat for any questions: cindy_wxm Payment To book the tour, we do request a full payment via either wechat or alipay. Also we accept paypal system. For more details please contact Cindy Wechat: cindy_wxm Email: cindy_wxm@icloud.com Tel:0086-13816178983

✨ **NEW Food Tour (New Location)** ✨ Not far from the bund are those lane houses and humble local shops that make you feel like you're getting to know the "real" Shanghai. During this breakfast tour, we will wander through the streets between the Bund and People's Square to glimpse into daily scenes of local life in these soon-to-disappear Shikumen. Along the way, we will taste the authentic flavors of Shanghai's breakfast including Shengjian, Xiaolongbao, Jianbing, soup dumplings, baozi, and more. All well selected local shops run & operated by locals for decade, where you will have a chance to get to chat with them a bit about their daily routine as well as their life and dreams live in this big city. We will then head to People Square matchmaking corner \- kind of an offline Tinder\! \- where parents come hoping to find suitable partners for their unmarried children. 🕤 Tour Duration: 3 hours 😎 Type: Breakfast Walk, \~2.5 kilometers 📸 Meeting details: **Location: People Square metro station** **Breakfast items:** This tour will include at least 12 items from the following list **\- Xiaolongbao/ Steamed Buns** **\- Shenjian/Pan fried Buns** \- Fried Dumplings \- Youtiao/deep\-fried dough sticks \- Sesame balls \- Bean curd - Soy milk \- Siu mai \- Egg\-filled pancakes \- Wonton stew **- Meat Bao/BlackBean Bao/Vegan Bao** \- Rice Balls \- Rice porridge **- Beef Soup** - Tonkatsu/ Fried Pork Chop \- Local Coffee \- and more **Note:** Vegetarians can be accommodated on this tour with meat-free alternatives. For other special dietary needs, please contact M2 staff in advance. **Price** **350rmb** (min 4ppl, max 8) Also can be booked as a private tour, on demand **Included** \- Professional English Speaking guide \- 12\+ breakfast items - Coffee break \- M2 organizing fee

👉 **To join:** Please add Daisy on WeChat at **daisy00233** **We conduct all discussions over WeChat only.** Hello, my name is Daisy Wen. I studied English Literature as an undergraduate and later completed an LLB with the University of London. Beyond academics, I have a long-standing fascination with Chinese tea culture. In China, tea is far more than a beverage. It is deeply woven into history, daily life, etiquette, art, and philosophy. Even the Japanese tea ceremony traces its roots back to tea traditions of the Tang Dynasty. I am beginning to organize small, relaxed visits to tea farms for those who are genuinely curious about tea — how it is grown, harvested, processed, and appreciated. If you enjoy meaningful cultural experiences and good conversation over a proper cup of tea, I am forming a WeChat group for like-minded friends. Let us meet for a cuppa and see where the journey takes us.

✨ 每一本好书都值得反复阅读，每一次阅读都可能遇见新的自己。 欢迎参加2026年3月14日城市部落英文读书会，社交英✨ 每一本好书都值得反复阅读，每一次阅读都可能遇见新的自己。 欢迎参加2026年3月22日城市部落英文读书会，社交英语角 weekly Language exchange & bookclub meetup Topic discussion主题讨论: 《The laws of human nature》 中文名《人性规则》，春季英文读书会。 After sign up, please add the host via wechat: Hawk_cn报名后请添加活动主持微信：Hawk_cn Venue: People Square in Shanghai 上海人民广场 Cost: 早鸟小红书转发分享活动公益免费，空降票50元/人，. Date & time: Mar 22nd 上午 10:00-12:30 From the [#1]() New York Times-bestselling author of The 48 Laws of Power comes the definitive new book on decoding the behavior of the people around youRobert Greene is a master guide for millions of readers, distilling ancient wisdom and philosophy into essential texts for seekers of power, understanding and mastery. Now he turns to the most important subject of all - understanding people's drives and motivations, even when they are unconscious of them themselves. 多数时候，你觉得自己理性？他人善良？ 你以为职场都该正面积极，却看不懂明摆的尔虞我诈？为什么人总爱和人比较？渴望拥有别人的财富、地位甚至外表？为何有人会一再爱上不对的人？为什么英国公民宁愿脱欧？美国人民会挺狂人川普？ 因为「人性」在下棋，我们不过是被摆布的棋子而已。 《人性18法则：认识自己、透视他人, 解码人类行为第一专书》第一本解码人类行为专书，让你浸淫在各式各样的人类行为中，并学会破解这些行为的密码。读完本书，你将彻底改变你看待自己、他人甚至世界的方式。 We are social animals. Our very lives depend on our relationships with people. Knowing why people do what they do is the most important tool we can possess, without which our other talents can only take us so far. Drawing from the ideas and examples of Pericles, Queen Elizabeth I, Martin Luther King Jr, and many others, Greene teaches us how to detach ourselves from our own emotions and master self-control, how to develop the empathy that leads to insight, how to look behind people's masks, and how to resist conformity to develop your singular sense of purpose. Whether at work, in relationships, or in shaping the world around you, The Laws of Human Nature offers brilliant tactics for success, self-improvement, and self-defense. 读完本书，你将： 变成更沉着、更有策略的人类观察者。 更精准判读他人不断释出的讯号，更有识人之明。 变得强大足以对抗人生中躲不掉的损友、小人或各种有毒人格者。 知道想激励人、影响人，要扳动哪一根杠杆才能事半功倍。 能挣脱低潮和困境，顺利摆脱负面行为模式。 变得更具同理心，让你与身边的人建立起更深刻、更满意的关系。 改变看待自身潜力的眼光，察觉内心更理想的自己，并着手去实践 看穿人的面具： 角色扮演法则 人往往会戴上面具来让自己展现出最好的一面──谦虚、自信、努力。他们会谨言慎行，会看起来对我们说的话充满兴趣。他们会学着隐藏自身的不安全感与羡慕之情。若把外表看到的他们当真，那我们就永远不会知道他们内心在想什么。甚至有的时候，我们会被他们突发的抗拒、敌意与操弄所蒙蔽。所幸，这张面具并不是滴水不漏地毫无缝隙。人会持续性地泄漏出自己的本性以及无意识的欲望，因为非语言的线索，如:脸部的表情、音色的转折、身体肌肉的张力与人紧张时的本能反应等并非他们能完全控制。你必须熟练于这种「非语言的语言」，让自己面对不论男人或女人都有一双火眼金睛，不会为他们的浮面所欺。有了这种神功护体，你就能对很多人事物防患于未然。反过来说，由于表象是别人用来评判你的根据，你也必须学着去表现出自己最好的一面，让角色扮 ▌人性和你想的不一样：你没有你想的理性，他没有你想的善良！ 罗伯·葛林（Robert Greene）身为多本国际畅销冠军书作者、全球千万读者追随的人生导师，他最善于从历史取材，将古老的智慧和哲理化为充满洞见的文本，供有心追求成功和影响力的人浸淫、汲取。这次他再将其如剃刀般锋利的文笔挥向「人性」，带你看清决定人类行为背后你所不知的强大力量，如何影响个体的成败，左右人类的命运。 葛林认为，人类是社会动物，我们的生活始终围绕着各种关系存在。理解人类的所作所为，可让我们更能在社会立足，也是我们所能想像得到最有用的工具，或说能力。少了这种能力，即使拥有异禀天赋，也无法带我们走得太远。 本书带你走入历史长河，汲取如雅典领袖伯里克利、苏联头子史达林、催眠之父艾瑞克森、时尚传奇香奈儿、英国女王伊莉莎白一世、人权斗士金恩博士、石油大亨洛克斐勒等多位传奇人物的经历，说明促成人类行为背后你我所不知的18种原始力量，如：不理性、自恋、短视、欣羡、强迫症、防卫心、从众、挫败感和攻击性等，如何导引出许多惊人成就或人为灾难，而透过这些精采绝伦的故事剖析，我们得以学会如何在关键时刻跳脱情绪的控制，培养出自我掌控力、如何通透人性弱点发展出高度同理心、如何看穿人类的面具，以及如何抗拒群体力量，避免随波逐流，找到专属于自己的人生意义与使命感。甚至轮到该你演戏时，知道如何演好、如何适时加入戏剧效果。 ▌通透人性法则，人生不再撞墙！ 人性比我们想的更复杂、神秘且引人入胜。然而，科技进步和社群媒体带来的巨变，使人类比以往更耽溺于自我世界，而其自恋程度也是前所未见。葛林认为，想让人生不再撞墙，或更进一步打进任何群体，发挥你想要的影响力，人性，都是你必须重新通透的一门学问。跟随本书揭示的人性18法则，彻底认识自己，打破负面行为模式，才能趋吉避凶；学会洞察人心，才能掳获人心： ‧不理性的法则：人生有多少决定，是你的情绪作主，而非你的理性？ ‧自恋的法则：人人自恋的时代，学会把自恋炼成自信，再用同理心培养出圈粉超神力！ ‧角色扮演的法则：很少人会有话直说，学会破解非语言线索，你也能像通灵一样善解人意！ ‧强迫症行为的法则：人生不停鬼打墙？有时问题不在你，而在你身边的有毒性人格！ ‧垂涎的法则：如何让人爱不释手？知道何时和如何有所保留，成为别人「渴望」而不可及的目标。 ‧防卫心的法则：如何软化反对你的人?化身深度听众，学会善用对方的话和固执，把他拉到同一阵线！ ▌人性和你想的不一样：你没有你想的理性，他没有你想的善良！ 罗伯·葛林（Robert Greene）身为多本国际畅销冠军书作者、全球千万读者追随的人生导师，他最善于从历史取材，将古老的智慧和哲理化为充满洞见的文本，供有心追求成功和影响力的人浸淫、汲取。这次他再将其如剃刀般锋利的文笔挥向「人性」，带你看清决定人类行为背后你所不知的强大力量，如何影响个体的成败，左右人类的命运。 葛林认为，人类是社会动物，我们的生活始终围绕着各种关系存在。理解人类的所作所为，可让我们更能在社会立足，也是我们所能想像得到最有用的工具，或说能力。少了这种能力，即使拥有异禀天赋，也无法带我们走得太远。 本书带你走入历史长河，汲取如雅典领袖伯里克利、苏联头子史达林、催眠之父艾瑞克森、时尚传奇香奈儿、英国女王伊莉莎白一世、人权斗士金恩博士、石油大亨洛克斐勒等多位传奇人物的经历，说明促成人类行为背后你我所不知的18种原始力量，如：不理性、自恋、短视、欣羡、强迫症、防卫心、从众、挫败感和攻击性等，如何导引出许多惊人成就或人为灾难，而透过这些精采绝伦的故事剖析，我们得以学会如何在关键时刻跳脱情绪的控制，培养出自我掌控力、如何通透人性弱点发展出高度同理心、如何看穿人类的面具，以及如何抗拒群体力量，避免随波逐流，找到专属于自己的人生意义与使命感。甚至轮到该你演戏时，知道如何演好、如何适时加入 Event schedule **活动环节安排：** 本活动参与人群定位为上海工作和生活的喜欢英语、热爱交流分享的青年白领，及高校师生。 Other Schedule 其它环节: Heads up words guessing欢乐猜词， MBTI自我介绍 What is your personality, Never have I ever我有你没有， Truth or Dare, 真心话大冒险 英文版 英文私董会 Mentor for each other. British Parliamentary Mini Debate, 小型英式辩论会 话题抽签，即兴发言 想想签英文版 Question Shaker Free talk for networking自由社交英语时间 Welcome to our weekly booking reading sharing + British Parliamentary Debate, language & cultural exchange meetup event which focus on informal and fun way to meet new people and cultural discussion. All learning levels are welcome to join. We organize weekly events such as book reading sharing, language & cultural exchange, topic presentation, speech and debate. Embrace the opportunity to mingle with like-minded individuals who share a passion for English language learning, cross culture communication and meeting new friend. 我们是一群热爱中外跨文化交流的年轻人，致力于连接拥有相同志趣的朋友，通过组织基于英语交流的多元化的趣味活动，认识一群热爱学习，挑战自己舒适圈的小伙伴，一起探索语言的无限可能！ Are you a bookworm looking for a fun group to discuss your favorite reads with?If you’re interested in meaningful discussions with fellow readers. Look no further and join us! Our book reading meetup is the perfect place for book lovers to come together, share their thoughts, and enjoy an engaging discussion with fellow readers. Our book club sharing session is a great way to engage in lively and friendly discussions, share insights, and meet fellow book lovers. Besides presentation and group discussion about the book of the week, our meetup also includes time to guess words, language games, free talking, mingling and socializing. As always, there's no pressure to have finished the book, we're just here for vibes. Our gathering is not about analyzing the book like a seminar, but more about connecting, sharing ideas, and enjoying a relaxed, social afternoon with fellow book lovers. Also, our discussion topics may go beyond the book, touching on a variety of themes and int 放下手机，拒绝宅家。读有趣的书，见有趣的人，欢迎参加本周六城市部落英文读书会，英式辩论赛，用知识链接彼此，让思想碰撞出火花，遇见与你同频共振的朋友。新的一年，给自己的心灵来一场洗礼。遇见城市部落英文读书会欢迎所有喜欢思考，热爱阅读和分享，希望寻求生命里积极的改变的朋友到来。通过阅读分享来进行一场跨越语言与时空的相逢，让我们在繁忙的生活中寻得一片宁静又充满趣味的阅读天地。读书会有团队讨论和自由分享环节，请自由分享自己的观点和看法，也许你就能遇见灵魂的知音。期待与你相遇在知识的殿堂，共同开启一段美好的旅程。 Frequently asked questions: **Do I have to finish the book to attend**? Not at all. If you plan to read or have read it, that’s great; if you haven’t touched it, you’re still more than welcome to join. Come and meet like-minded people and connect over the topic as well as the book. **How can I contribute to the discussion if I haven’t read the book?** The book is simply a conversation starter - our discussions often branch out into related themes, personal experiences and broader topics of interest. Our gathering is more about socialising and engaging in decent conversations with book lovers, rather than a formal seminar. **Can I also discuss my own fav book or the book I recently read?** Absolutely! Our gatherings are all about open conversations, and we’d love to hear your thoughts on any book that’s been captivating to you. **Is this group open to everyone?** Yes - this is a friendly and inclusive group, welcoming everyone regardless of gender, sexuality, or background. The event is designed to make it easy to meet and connect with fellow book lovers in our community. **What if I'm shy about speaking in front of the group?** No pressure! You're welcome to participate in the way that feels most comfortable for you. Whether you share your views or just listen, your presence is valued. A lot of people come alone - so don't be shy!! This event will be photographed for promotional purposes. By purchasing a ticket you are consenting to the team using these pictures for our social media channels but you are able to withdraw your consent at any time during the event. 本公众号整理的资料均来自网络，仅供学习，请勿商用！如果侵犯，请及时通知，将会在第一时间及时删

✨ 每一本好书都值得反复阅读，每一次阅读都可能遇见新的自己。 欢迎参加2026年3月22日城市部落英文读书会，社交英语角 weekly Language exchange & bookclub meetup Topic discussion主题讨论: 《The laws of human nature》 中文名《人性规则》，春季英文读书会。 After sign up, please add the host via wechat: Hawk_cn报名后请添加活动主持微信：Hawk_cn Venue: People Square in Shanghai 上海人民广场 Cost: 早鸟小红书转发分享活动公益免费，空降票50元/人，. Date & time: Mar 22nd 上午 10:00-12:30 From the [#1]() New York Times-bestselling author of The 48 Laws of Power comes the definitive new book on decoding the behavior of the people around youRobert Greene is a master guide for millions of readers, distilling ancient wisdom and philosophy into essential texts for seekers of power, understanding and mastery. Now he turns to the most important subject of all - understanding people's drives and motivations, even when they are unconscious of them themselves. 多数时候，你觉得自己理性？他人善良？ 你以为职场都该正面积极，却看不懂明摆的尔虞我诈？为什么人总爱和人比较？渴望拥有别人的财富、地位甚至外表？为何有人会一再爱上不对的人？为什么英国公民宁愿脱欧？美国人民会挺狂人川普？ 因为「人性」在下棋，我们不过是被摆布的棋子而已。 《人性18法则：认识自己、透视他人, 解码人类行为第一专书》第一本解码人类行为专书，让你浸淫在各式各样的人类行为中，并学会破解这些行为的密码。读完本书，你将彻底改变你看待自己、他人甚至世界的方式。 We are social animals. Our very lives depend on our relationships with people. Knowing why people do what they do is the most important tool we can possess, without which our other talents can only take us so far. Drawing from the ideas and examples of Pericles, Queen Elizabeth I, Martin Luther King Jr, and many others, Greene teaches us how to detach ourselves from our own emotions and master self-control, how to develop the empathy that leads to insight, how to look behind people's masks, and how to resist conformity to develop your singular sense of purpose. Whether at work, in relationships, or in shaping the world around you, The Laws of Human Nature offers brilliant tactics for success, self-improvement, and self-defense. 读完本书，你将： 变成更沉着、更有策略的人类观察者。 更精准判读他人不断释出的讯号，更有识人之明。 变得强大足以对抗人生中躲不掉的损友、小人或各种有毒人格者。 知道想激励人、影响人，要扳动哪一根杠杆才能事半功倍。 能挣脱低潮和困境，顺利摆脱负面行为模式。 变得更具同理心，让你与身边的人建立起更深刻、更满意的关系。 改变看待自身潜力的眼光，察觉内心更理想的自己，并着手去实践 看穿人的面具： 角色扮演法则 人往往会戴上面具来让自己展现出最好的一面──谦虚、自信、努力。他们会谨言慎行，会看起来对我们说的话充满兴趣。他们会学着隐藏自身的不安全感与羡慕之情。若把外表看到的他们当真，那我们就永远不会知道他们内心在想什么。甚至有的时候，我们会被他们突发的抗拒、敌意与操弄所蒙蔽。所幸，这张面具并不是滴水不漏地毫无缝隙。人会持续性地泄漏出自己的本性以及无意识的欲望，因为非语言的线索，如:脸部的表情、音色的转折、身体肌肉的张力与人紧张时的本能反应等并非他们能完全控制。你必须熟练于这种「非语言的语言」，让自己面对不论男人或女人都有一双火眼金睛，不会为他们的浮面所欺。有了这种神功护体，你就能对很多人事物防患于未然。反过来说，由于表象是别人用来评判你的根据，你也必须学着去表现出自己最好的一面，让角色扮 ▌人性和你想的不一样：你没有你想的理性，他没有你想的善良！ 罗伯·葛林（Robert Greene）身为多本国际畅销冠军书作者、全球千万读者追随的人生导师，他最善于从历史取材，将古老的智慧和哲理化为充满洞见的文本，供有心追求成功和影响力的人浸淫、汲取。这次他再将其如剃刀般锋利的文笔挥向「人性」，带你看清决定人类行为背后你所不知的强大力量，如何影响个体的成败，左右人类的命运。 葛林认为，人类是社会动物，我们的生活始终围绕着各种关系存在。理解人类的所作所为，可让我们更能在社会立足，也是我们所能想像得到最有用的工具，或说能力。少了这种能力，即使拥有异禀天赋，也无法带我们走得太远。 本书带你走入历史长河，汲取如雅典领袖伯里克利、苏联头子史达林、催眠之父艾瑞克森、时尚传奇香奈儿、英国女王伊莉莎白一世、人权斗士金恩博士、石油大亨洛克斐勒等多位传奇人物的经历，说明促成人类行为背后你我所不知的18种原始力量，如：不理性、自恋、短视、欣羡、强迫症、防卫心、从众、挫败感和攻击性等，如何导引出许多惊人成就或人为灾难，而透过这些精采绝伦的故事剖析，我们得以学会如何在关键时刻跳脱情绪的控制，培养出自我掌控力、如何通透人性弱点发展出高度同理心、如何看穿人类的面具，以及如何抗拒群体力量，避免随波逐流，找到专属于自己的人生意义与使命感。甚至轮到该你演戏时，知道如何演好、如何适时加入戏剧效果。 ▌通透人性法则，人生不再撞墙！ 人性比我们想的更复杂、神秘且引人入胜。然而，科技进步和社群媒体带来的巨变，使人类比以往更耽溺于自我世界，而其自恋程度也是前所未见。葛林认为，想让人生不再撞墙，或更进一步打进任何群体，发挥你想要的影响力，人性，都是你必须重新通透的一门学问。跟随本书揭示的人性18法则，彻底认识自己，打破负面行为模式，才能趋吉避凶；学会洞察人心，才能掳获人心： ‧不理性的法则：人生有多少决定，是你的情绪作主，而非你的理性？ ‧自恋的法则：人人自恋的时代，学会把自恋炼成自信，再用同理心培养出圈粉超神力！ ‧角色扮演的法则：很少人会有话直说，学会破解非语言线索，你也能像通灵一样善解人意！ ‧强迫症行为的法则：人生不停鬼打墙？有时问题不在你，而在你身边的有毒性人格！ ‧垂涎的法则：如何让人爱不释手？知道何时和如何有所保留，成为别人「渴望」而不可及的目标。 ‧防卫心的法则：如何软化反对你的人?化身深度听众，学会善用对方的话和固执，把他拉到同一阵线！ ▌人性和你想的不一样：你没有你想的理性，他没有你想的善良！ 罗伯·葛林（Robert Greene）身为多本国际畅销冠军书作者、全球千万读者追随的人生导师，他最善于从历史取材，将古老的智慧和哲理化为充满洞见的文本，供有心追求成功和影响力的人浸淫、汲取。这次他再将其如剃刀般锋利的文笔挥向「人性」，带你看清决定人类行为背后你所不知的强大力量，如何影响个体的成败，左右人类的命运。 葛林认为，人类是社会动物，我们的生活始终围绕着各种关系存在。理解人类的所作所为，可让我们更能在社会立足，也是我们所能想像得到最有用的工具，或说能力。少了这种能力，即使拥有异禀天赋，也无法带我们走得太远。 本书带你走入历史长河，汲取如雅典领袖伯里克利、苏联头子史达林、催眠之父艾瑞克森、时尚传奇香奈儿、英国女王伊莉莎白一世、人权斗士金恩博士、石油大亨洛克斐勒等多位传奇人物的经历，说明促成人类行为背后你我所不知的18种原始力量，如：不理性、自恋、短视、欣羡、强迫症、防卫心、从众、挫败感和攻击性等，如何导引出许多惊人成就或人为灾难，而透过这些精采绝伦的故事剖析，我们得以学会如何在关键时刻跳脱情绪的控制，培养出自我掌控力、如何通透人性弱点发展出高度同理心、如何看穿人类的面具，以及如何抗拒群体力量，避免随波逐流，找到专属于自己的人生意义与使命感。甚至轮到该你演戏时，知道如何演好、如何适时加入 Event schedule **活动环节安排：** 本活动参与人群定位为上海工作和生活的喜欢英语、热爱交流分享的青年白领，及高校师生。 Other Schedule 其它环节: Heads up words guessing欢乐猜词， MBTI自我介绍 What is your personality, Never have I ever我有你没有， Truth or Dare, 真心话大冒险 英文版 英文私董会 Mentor for each other. British Parliamentary Mini Debate, 小型英式辩论会 话题抽签，即兴发言 想想签英文版 Question Shaker Free talk for networking自由社交英语时间 Welcome to our weekly booking reading sharing + British Parliamentary Debate, language & cultural exchange meetup event which focus on informal and fun way to meet new people and cultural discussion. All learning levels are welcome to join. We organize weekly events such as book reading sharing, language & cultural exchange, topic presentation, speech and debate. Embrace the opportunity to mingle with like-minded individuals who share a passion for English language learning, cross culture communication and meeting new friend. 我们是一群热爱中外跨文化交流的年轻人，致力于连接拥有相同志趣的朋友，通过组织基于英语交流的多元化的趣味活动，认识一群热爱学习，挑战自己舒适圈的小伙伴，一起探索语言的无限可能！ Are you a bookworm looking for a fun group to discuss your favorite reads with?If you’re interested in meaningful discussions with fellow readers. Look no further and join us! Our book reading meetup is the perfect place for book lovers to come together, share their thoughts, and enjoy an engaging discussion with fellow readers. Our book club sharing session is a great way to engage in lively and friendly discussions, share insights, and meet fellow book lovers. Besides presentation and group discussion about the book of the week, our meetup also includes time to guess words, language games, free talking, mingling and socializing. As always, there's no pressure to have finished the book, we're just here for vibes. Our gathering is not about analyzing the book like a seminar, but more about connecting, sharing ideas, and enjoying a relaxed, social afternoon with fellow book lovers. Also, our discussion topics may go beyond the book, touching on a variety of themes and int 放下手机，拒绝宅家。读有趣的书，见有趣的人，欢迎参加本周六城市部落英文读书会，英式辩论赛，用知识链接彼此，让思想碰撞出火花，遇见与你同频共振的朋友。新的一年，给自己的心灵来一场洗礼。遇见城市部落英文读书会欢迎所有喜欢思考，热爱阅读和分享，希望寻求生命里积极的改变的朋友到来。通过阅读分享来进行一场跨越语言与时空的相逢，让我们在繁忙的生活中寻得一片宁静又充满趣味的阅读天地。读书会有团队讨论和自由分享环节，请自由分享自己的观点和看法，也许你就能遇见灵魂的知音。期待与你相遇在知识的殿堂，共同开启一段美好的旅程。 Frequently asked questions: **Do I have to finish the book to attend**? Not at all. If you plan to read or have read it, that’s great; if you haven’t touched it, you’re still more than welcome to join. Come and meet like-minded people and connect over the topic as well as the book. **How can I contribute to the discussion if I haven’t read the book?** The book is simply a conversation starter - our discussions often branch out into related themes, personal experiences and broader topics of interest. Our gathering is more about socialising and engaging in decent conversations with book lovers, rather than a formal seminar. **Can I also discuss my own fav book or the book I recently read?** Absolutely! Our gatherings are all about open conversations, and we’d love to hear your thoughts on any book that’s been captivating to you. **Is this group open to everyone?** Yes - this is a friendly and inclusive group, welcoming everyone regardless of gender, sexuality, or background. The event is designed to make it easy to meet and connect with fellow book lovers in our community. **What if I'm shy about speaking in front of the group?** No pressure! You're welcome to participate in the way that feels most comfortable for you. Whether you share your views or just listen, your presence is valued. A lot of people come alone - so don't be shy!! This event will be photographed for promotional purposes. By purchasing a ticket you are consenting to the team using these pictures for our social media channels but you are able to withdraw your consent at any time during the event. 本公众号整理的资料均来自网络，仅供学习，请勿商用！如果侵犯，请及时通知，将会在第一时间及时删

Chinese Corner in Jing an(Line 7 Changping Lu station) Please free free to join us. All levels are welcome! Don’t worry about your Chinese level, we have mandarin teachers here to help you, any questions free to ask. More informations Welcome to add WeChat : ZoeMandarinClass

Time : 14:00-16:00 Venue: Oriental Sports Center Cost: RMB 55/person After sign up, Please add the host wechat via hawk_cn Citywalkers Group invites you to play some badminton games. Do you have your rackets ready? Let's have some smashing fun! Enjoy the badminton! Build friendship. Spread the happiness. We arrange two courts for the two hours and most of us are social players to have fun. Most of time is playing double. Please prepare your own racket and we will prepare feathers shuttlecocks. ​Advance booking and prepaid are required and RSVP will stop after all availble spaces have been filled! Please add tour leader wechat: hawk_cn to register for this event. Cancellation：at least 24hrs before the session start time. This will ensure fair access for everyone. Ignoring RSVPs: Anyone with 2 no-shows (signed up but not played) will be de-prioritized for future sessions, meaning their RSVPs won’t be taken seriously. Badminton is a very intense and high demanding sport, players with heart disease, high blood pressure and other physical condition that may hinder their performance are discouraged from joining. You will need correct shoes and clothing. Please ensure that you stretch and warm up before and after sessions to prevent injury. Your are responsible for your own well-being and we and the sports facility representatives will not be responsible for any injury, stolen or damaged property or any other occurrences during our sessions.

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A great movie deserves a great dinner! Join us after PROJECT HAIL MARY for another fun and tasty dinner at a CMG-favorite restaurant, FUGU SUSHI! RSVPs are limited for the dinner portion of this event! Here are complete details: FUGU SUSHI: Fugu Sushi offers a truly authentic experience that keeps customers (and the Movie Group) coming back for more. They offer an extensive menu with a delightful array of options and something for everyone! From their top-rated sushi, to tasty appetizers, soups, salads, bento boxes, tempura, delicious teriyaki dishes (including chicken, shrimp, salmon, tofu, vegetable and more), and vegetarian and vegan options, you’ll be certain to find something you love! MENU: https://www.fugusushicolumbus.com/menus RSVP: An RSVP here means you're signed up for the DINNER portion of this event. Seating is limited. If you also plan to join for the movie, please also RSVP in the separate event listing for the movie portion of this event. For the movie, we'll meet in the theater lobby at 2:10pm for the 2:30pm SuperScreen DLX showing. Advance ticket purchase for the movie is advised. Please RSVP in both events, if you plan to attend the movie and dinner. Look forward to seeing you there, Dan

While some are still meeting online, this is an in person event. Please note that we have attendees of all levels of speaking, including some native speakers. All are welcome! Also, as we meet at the same time and place each week, many don’t RSVP on the app, so we will likely have more attendees than noted here. Note: if you are asked to pay and upgrade the Meetup app, this is not necessary. You can ignore this and still attend our meetings.

Let’s meet up at this popular sushi restaurant in Gahanna. There are cooked items as sushi. Check out the menu: https://restauranttora.com/columbus-tora-food-menu

Click Here For More Videos: https://www.facebook.com/share/r/17vTa7EuwG/ ********************************* The Biggest Salsa Night to hit your mid-week is happening at Latin City Wednesdays. Get the feel of the Latin Beat as your hips and feet groove the right way. As always, we will provide refreshments and food. ********************************* Viva Dance Columbus (2809 Festival Lane Dublin, OH 43017) 830pm-930pm Cuban Salsa Lessons 930pm-Midnight Open Latin Dance Party $15 With Lesson $10 Just Open Dance ********************************** Free Parking, No Need to Bring a dance partner, No Sandals Please and Plenty of Space to Move Around.

Let’s try some Filipino food at a well known Grandview area restaurant, This is the menu: https://www.canva.com/design/DAHByDNxwDA/TO8oxEmjQrBp_PP_mLPUag/view?utm_content=DAHByDNxwDA&utm_campaign=designshare&utm_medium=link2&utm_source=uniquelinks&utlId=h435abfbbb3#1

Our theme for our next Latin City Wednesday is Puerto Rican Salsa Night! Dance to the best hits of Marc Anthony, El Gran Combo de Puerto Rico, Victor Manuelle, Gilberto Santa Rosa and more. ********************************* Viva Dance Columbus 2809 Festival Lane Dublin, OH 43017 830pm-930pm Casino Style Salsa Lesson 930pm-Midnight Open Dance $15 With the Lesson $10 Open Dance Party Only ********************************** Free Parking, No Need to Bring a dance partner, No Sandals Please and Plenty of Space to Move on the Dance Floor.

We thought of one of the interesting things that can be enjoyed at this time of the year. We will be meeting at Immaculate Conception Catholic Church for a "Fish Fry" in Marian Hall on Friday, March 27th at 5:00 PM. It might be fun for you to experience what has become a tradition on the Fridays before Easter. They will have fried fish or baked fish, French fries and Cole slaw, as well as beverages, all for $16.00 for adults. They will have other beverages and desserts available for sale, as well. We have never tried this, and sometimes there are quite a few people at these events so we hope that we will be able to find each other easily. I'll try to have signs outside Marian Hall that Identify our group. We hope to have you join us!