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Singles Over 40 Events Today
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Singles' Mixer @ Ted's Bulletin in Reston🍷❤️
**Join us for a fun afternoon of awesome conversations & genuine connections!**
Whether you’re here to make new friends, spark a romance, or simply enjoy your Saturday afternoon, this social event is your chance to bring more fun into your life.
**Cost:** $10
**RSVP through**: Venmo @Irena-Polyakova (1469)
or on [Eventbrite. ](https://www.eventbrite.com/e/1981545404647?aff=oddtdtcreator)
As a[ life and relationship coach](https://lovedandfulfilled.com/ "https://lovedandfulfilled.com/"), I host various events, and I will ensure you feel comfortable at the event.
Conversation ice breakers will make socializing easier.
**Come with an open heart and curious mind❤️**
Meet Point: Front Bar Area
I am looking forward to seeing you at my event.
\~ Irena
Singles' Mixer @ Ted's Bulletin in Reston, VA🍷❤️
**Join us for awesome conversations & genuine connections at Ted's Bulletin❤️**
Whether you’re here to make new friends, spark a romance, or simply enjoy your Sunday afternoon, this social event is your chance to bring more fun into your life.
**Cover Cost:** $10
**Payment** **Options:** Venmo @Irena\-Polyakova \(1469\) \|
or RSVP on[ Eventbrite](https://www.eventbrite.com/e/1981545404647?aff=oddtdtcreator)
As a[ life and relationship coach](http://%5Bhttps//lovedandfulfilled.com/%5D(https://lovedandfulfilled.com/) "\[https://lovedandfulfilled.com/\](https://lovedandfulfilled.com/)"), I will facilitate & ensure you feel comfortable at the event.
I will have prepared ***conversation ice breaker***s for you to make socializing easier.
**Come with an open heart and a curious mind❤️**
***Meet Point:*** Front Bar Area
I am looking forward to seeing you at my event.
\~ Irena
Bingo Night
$25 per ticket (includes meal + 1 Bingo card)
Starts at 5:00PM onwards.
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For ticket reservation and payment, call or text: Mang Eton +1 (571) 265-4062
20s/30s Coffee Meetup - Ridgetop Coffee and Tea
Regular coffee meetup for people to meet, make new friends, or enjoy general conversations with coffee. Great for those who are new in town or looking for new activities to do!
This will be held at Ridgetop Coffee and Tea in Sterling.
Additional Note: If you are on the Wait List, you can still feel free to attend if you wish.
Sync Social: The 10am Social | 25-40 ages
Tired of awkward mixers and dating apps that go nowhere?
This is a low-pressure morning singles social designed so everyone actually meets.
Join us at Caboose Commons in Fairfax for coffee, brunch, and real conversations. We’ll start with a light, guided format to break the ice (nothing cringey), then open things up for relaxed mingling.
This event is about connection—not speed dating, not swiping, not standing around wondering who to talk to.
Date Change for Fleetwood!
I am changing the date to Saturday Feb 7th because of the predicted Snowmaggedon . If you are on the RSVP list and can't[ make it, please remove your name.
Let's try this again! Join us as we gather on a January Sunday at one of our old favorites, Fleetwood Farm Winery. This time I am sure that they will be open...
Let's get toasty in front of their roaring stone fireplace in the main tasting room. They have a good selection of red and white Virginia wines, many that have been produced exclusively for them. The grounds are designed to be an escape from the Northern Virginia hustle bustle without the long drive.
Outside food is not permitted but they have a full menu of flatbreads, Charcuterie boards, wings, sliders, etc. We will not go hungry!
Singles Over 40 Events This Week
Discover what is happening in the next few days
Step One - Talk it out!
Let's meet up at Starbucks at Northpoint Shopping Center. Sometimes the best thing is to have someone to listen to. Let's dish it all out and just be humans for a minute.
SATURDAY 40s & Up Social
This is where you meet the area's 40 and 50 years young; 40 somethings, 50 [somethings.......as](http://somethings.......as/) they are known as GENERATION Xers....., who are active, self accomplished, sophisticated, young at heart, empty nesters; who would like to do things and enjoy life; who has got time and could afford it as well!
***GRAB A DRINK AND YOU WILL BE ALL SET TO ENJOY THE EVENT. YOU NEED TO GRAB AT LEAST A DRINK OR A FOOD ITEM :) To get the event going and show support. We know that you like our events. P.S. : We have non-alcoholic drinks as well.***
We have a tiny venue and we hit capacity often and early arrival is suggested. Direct RSVP required.
We have the discretion to decide entry.
Many of you were not born while we were partying:) The profile picture of this invite was taken while we were having a blast. One of our members was buying us rounds of shots. He almost spent $ 1K just on shots. LET US DO IT AGAIN!
They also make us feel loved and honored, by serving, one of our signature cocktails, which is named after us - MerTini:) It will be one of the featured cocktails. Ask your bartenders:)
DETAILS :
* We will have a registration station and check you in.
* Most of our members complained about people writing in the comment box. Since it sends notification to all attendees. If you have any questions, send a message to the organizers. Don't write in the comment box.
DRESS CODE :
Unacceptable Attire:
1. Athletic Clothing: This Includes gym attire, sweatpants, yoga pants, and tracksuits
2. Baggy Clothing: Clothing that is excessively loose-fitting or oversized, such as baggy jeans, sagging sweatpants or oversized t-shirts.
3. Sportswear: Jerseys, team logos, and other sport-specific attire
4. Beachwear: shorts, tank tops, swimwear, and revealing clothing
5. Flip Flops: Open-toe sandals, thong sandals, and flip flops are not allowed
6. Timberlands and Steel Toed Shoes.
PARKING INFO
Parking might be a challenge and the event involves drinking. We highly encourage you to take a public transportation, taxi service or a ride share. DRINK RESPONSIBLY.
***N.B. : We have ZERO TOLERANCE for solicitation. We don't allow anyone to run their own agenda at the Event. If you are interested to promote/sponsor/collaborate; contact us via ([info@merevents.com](http://info@merevents.com/)).***
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SOCIAL SIPS & BITES NIGHT OUT - Kalypso’s
RESTON - HERE. WE. COME
**This isn’t just a meetup. This is a full-night vibe.**
A new spot for us, but the same legendary Social Sips & Bites energy you know and love.
Join Social Sips & Bites for an all-out night of dinner, drinks, DJ-driven music, and dancing-the kind of night where the plan is simple: show up, relax, and let the evening unfold.
Early vibes
We kick things off with dinner and drinks, easy conversations, familiar faces, and new connections. It’s the perfect warm-up- lots of laughs, great energy, and that unmistakable feeling that the night is about to level up.
9:00 PM - GAME ON
The DJ turns it up.
The dance floor comes alive.
The room shifts from hangout to full celebration.
And before you know it, we’re dancing well into the early hours of the morning.
What to expect
• DJ and dance floor
• High-energy music, great food, strong drinks
• A welcoming crowd that knows how to have a good time
• One of those nights you swear you’re leaving… but somehow stay
Come early to connect. Stay late to dance. Lose track of time somewhere in between.
This is Social Sips & Bites — and we’re just getting started.
Simply Social - Reston
Simply Social is tucked away off Sunrise Valley in Reston. They've got a good selection of savory bites, and their matcha and espresso drinks are always tasty. They've got a decent amount of seating and a nice community vibe here. Grab a pastry (or not) and let's enjoy another winter Sunday morning.
(No discussions on politics, religion or potentially controversial topics. We're here to relax and have fun. Just be respectful and we'll be alright. Pay your own way, and enjoy!)
Let’s Celebrate Our February Birthdays at King Spa! 💆♀️💆♂️✨️
Hey everyone! 👋 It’s time to celebrate all the amazing people with February birthdays — including me! 🥳 If you have a February birthday or just want to spend the day soaking, relaxing, laughing, and making some great memories together at one of the best spots in town, then this event is for you!
✨ Whether you love relaxing in saunas, soaking in hot baths, or just want to chill with friends, this is the spot to celebrate all February birthdays in style!
Welcome to King Spa, the premier Korean day spa in Virginia, offering a unique blend of traditional wellness and modern luxyry. Voted ‘Best Day Spa’ three years running by Northern Virginia Magazine, King Spa provides a sanctuary of healing through detoxifying saunas, signature body scrubs, rejuvenating facials, and more. Each treatment is designed to leave you feeling rejuvenated, refreshed, and truly cared for.
💛 What to Expect:
🎉 Multiple Saunas and Aqua Pools
🧖♂️ Access to spa amenities (facials, massages, body scrubs (a la carte pricing)
🥙 Food court
🎂 Cake Cutting
💬 Hangout time with fellow February birthdays + friends
👚Dress code: You will be given a robe and slippers so wear something comfy under the robe (leggings, yoga pants, t-shirt, shorts). Of course , if you plan to swim in the pools and sit in the jacuzzi , then wear your bathing suit 🩳🩱under the robe.
💲 Admission & Details
$70 per person for the full day event. You can purchase your ticket online here:
https://ticket-virginia.kingspa.com/Admission/AdmissionDetail?Id=ITMMAA17PYLOKZMT The $70 rate is a special they have going on now. not sure how long it will last so book ASAP!
RSVP so we know you’re coming!
Feel free to invite other February birthday friends 🎈
Can’t wait to celebrate with you all! 🎂💛
*If you need to cancel your RSVP do it 24 hours before the event. No shows and late cancellations may be subject to removal from the group by the organizer. We will be checking everyone in - so we will have a tally of who does and does not come."
See you at King Spa! 🧖♀️💆♂️
Singles Over 40 Events Near You
Connect with your local Singles Over 40 community
SLOW SPEED DATING: Matchmaking done for you
**Leave behind the rushed pace of traditional speed dating and embrace a more relaxed approach to meeting new people, facilitated by a [Dating Coach](https://lovedandfulfilled.com/) with prepared Conversation Icebreakers.**
**💕** All ages!
💕Different sections for different age groups.
Must[ ](https://www.eventbrite.com/e/1657502206719?aff=oddtdtcreator)**[RSVP HERE](https://www.eventbrite.com/e/1981447001320?aff=oddtdtcreator)**
(Event is posted on multiple platforms, attendees displayed here doesn't reflect the actual number)
* Easy going greet and meet to socially warm up
* Prepared questions to facilitate meaningful conversations to assess compatibility
* Engaging discussions in small groups
* Opportunity to talk to every single person present
* Stress free matchmaking by the coach after the event (no need to ask for contact info on the spot, you will get it after the event)
Whether you are an introvert or an extravert, welcoming and easy-going environment is guaranteed. You won't have to sweat the small talk, and event will be structured and organized to make connecting effortless.
**Cost:** $35 (Pay through[ ](https://www.eventbrite.com/e/1299434316019?aff=oddtdtcreator)**[Eventbrite](https://www.eventbrite.com/e/1981447001320?aff=oddtdtcreator)**[ ](https://www.eventbrite.com/e/1972845805913?aff=oddtdtcreator)or **Venmo** to @Irena-Polyakova (1469)-include your email address if using Venmo)
**Location**: Uncle Jalapeno Restaurant in Herndon, VA
**Time**: 3:00 pm
\~ Irena
BreadBreakers Community Dinner: Dialogue Over Divisions
**In a time of division and isolation, come be part of the community that's rebuilding the town square, one table at a time.**
In BreadBreakers, we use the common space of the dining table to have conversations where neighbors can **hear, be heard, and know one another.** If you're hungry for good discourse and deeper community, join us for a Community Dinner in Reston and help blaze the trail to a healthier, more connected society and democracy.
Here’s how it works: For just two hours, multiple tables of people set aside the need to "win" and instead focus on sharing, listening, and connecting. Guided by experienced table hosts, we'll tell our stories, try to understand each other, and practice being in community with those with different views or backgrounds.
**At this dinner, participants will get to choose between three different topics, including some current events.** Topics range from the political, to the spiritual, to the philosophical, to the off-the-wall - but no matter which table you choose to sit at, you can be sure it'll be like no dinner conversation you've had before! You can also **suggest a topic** by emailing us at [BreadBreakersInfo@gmail.com.](http://BreadBreakersInfo@gmail.com./)
Food will be provided for free. For those who wish to provide a donation to help fund BreadBreakers, you can [give here](https://pushpay.com/g/restorationrestonumc?fnd=pO6G-N7oO7FH7Mp1u-x6mA&fndv=Lock&r=No&lang=en&src=pcgl) or at the event.
We'll have vegetarian and gluten-free options available. If you have any additional dietary restrictions (Celiac Disease, vegan, etc.) please let us know at [BreadBreakersInfo@gmail.com](mailto:BreadBreakersInfo@gmail.com) so that we can implement the appropriate food handling procedures.
**Join us, invite a friend, and be a part of the movement to mend our fractured society and normalize a better way of talking with one another.**
BreadBreakers, an initiative by [Restoration United Methodist Church](https://restorationreston.org/breadbreakers) in Reston, VA, is a religiously inclusive community. All faiths and all stripes are welcomed. Our leadership, volunteer team, and community include people who attend Restoration and people who don't.
SLOW SPEED DATING: Matchmaking done for you
**Leave behind the rushed pace of traditional speed dating and embrace a more relaxed approach to meeting new people, facilitated by a [Dating Coach](https://lovedandfulfilled.com/) with prepared Conversation Icebreakers.**
💕 All ages!
💕Different sections for different age groups.
Must[ ](https://www.eventbrite.com/e/1972845805913?aff=oddtdtcreator)**[RSVP HERE](https://www.eventbrite.com/e/1981447001320?aff=oddtdtcreator)**
(Event is posted on multiple platforms, attendees list on Meetup does not reflect the actual number of RSVPs)
* Easy-going meet & greet to socially warm up
* Prepared questions to facilitate meaningful conversations and to assess compatibility
* Engaging discussions in small groups
* Opportunity to talk to every single person present
* Stress free matchmaking by the coach after the event (no need to ask for contact info on the spot, you will get it after the event)
* Fun games to play together
Whether you are an introvert or an extravert, welcoming and easy-going environment is guaranteed. You won't have to sweat the small talk, and event will be structured to make connecting effortless.
**Cost:** $35 (Pay through[ ](https://www.eventbrite.com/e/1299434316019?aff=oddtdtcreator)**[Eventbrite](https://www.eventbrite.com/e/1981447001320?aff=oddtdtcreator)**[ ](https://www.eventbrite.com/e/1981447001320?aff=oddtdtcreator)or **Venmo** to @Irena-Polyakova (1469) include your email address if using Venmo)
**Location**: Uncle Jalapeno Restaurant in Herndon.
**Time**: 3:00 pm
\~ Irena
❤️ A Chill Valentine’s Day event for Divorced / Separated (Location: Ashburn)
**A relaxed, good-vibe Valentine’s Day afternoon for adults who don’t want the pressure, awkwardness, or heaviness today.**
Not a dating event. Not a support group.
Just a warm room, good people, and simple **conversation games that make it easy to meet others who are also starting fresh.**
If Valentine’s Day feels weird, quiet, or emotionally loaded this year, spend it in a space where you can actually laugh, feel lighter, and connect with grounded adults who get it.
***
**🔍 What You’ll Experience**
• Simple partner rotations (guided and easy)
• Light, feel-good Valentine’s prompts
**• Fun conversation games (not cheesy, not romantic)**
• A mix of divorced and separated adults in similar life chapters
• A comfortable, pressure-free room
• Good energy without oversharing or awkward silence
**Everything is structured. You show up — the flow does the rest.**
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**💼 Who It’s For**
• Divorced adults
• Separated adults
• People navigating midlife transitions
• Anyone starting fresh and not wanting to spend Feb 14 alone
Most attendees are in their **late 30s to mid 50s** — grounded, normal people who want something better to do today than sit at home replaying the past.
This is a chance to be around others in similar seasons without labels, pressure, or expectations.
***
**✅ Location, Cost & Time**
📍 **Rented facility:** **Ashburn (zip 20147)** — exact address shared after RSVP
🕒 **2:00 PM – 4:00 PM**
💵 **$15 per person —** feel free to bring a guest (just have them RSVP separately).
☕ **Coffee + light snacks provided**
***
**🎯 The Vibe**
Think: **calm, warm, easy, friendly, real.**
Not romantic. Not forced. Just a space where people talk, laugh, and feel human again on a day that can feel heavy.
**And if a natural connection happens — great.**
If not, you still walk away lighter than you came.
**✅ Space is limited to keep the room comfortable and conversational.** RSVP if you’d like to join this small-group Valentine’s gathering.
🌐 Explore more: [https://midlifereinvention.co](https://midlifereinvention.co)
New Small Group Bible Study
Finally, a young adult group that includes ages 25+
This is a brand new small group!
We will be studying the sermon on the mount 🤗





















