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A Cup of Tea and Practical Business Insights on China
***Scan the WhatsApp QR code above to connect with us.*** (Hint: Save the image to your phone, then open it. Press and hold on the image, and your WhatsApp app will open and prompt you to add the contact.)
The picture above was taken in the compound of **Baoshan Temple** (寶山寺), it is a Buddhist temple located on the banks of the Lianqi River in the town of Baoshan District, Shanghai.
Hi, my name is Nigel.
I graduated from Nanjing University of Aeronautics and Astronautics and began my career designing rocket components for China’s aerospace program. So unlike the so-called “rocket scientists” on Wall Street, I am the real deal.
For the past 20 years, I have helped foreign businesses achieve a smooth landing in China, navigating everything from market strategy and regulatory compliance to local partnerships and execution. I speak the languages of engineering, mathematics, and cross-border business.
Let us have a cup of tea at a peaceful Buddhist temple and talk business. We can brainstorm practical, real-world approaches to doing business in China.
My associate and I also host business networking events and organize trips around China for professionals and entrepreneurs.
Please add the WhatsApp contact above to connect and confirm details.
let's weekly meetup for stock investing, trading
since I don't have idea what is the best way to do it,but you can contact/message the members who signed up the meetup to coordinating the meeting.
also check out http://papertradecontest.net/
see if you have any input, comments to discuss in our meetup.
also check out this video introduction
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_GrpmXYEClM&t=7s
cheers
【Authentic China Tastes】Cooking Class with Michelin Chef
**\*\*About Activity\*\***
Unlock the flavors of authentic Chinese cuisine in our exclusive Private Cooking Class! Learn to create irresistible dishes like Kung Pao Chicken and Shepherd's Purse Wonton using traditional techniques that bring bold, fresh flavors to life.
**\*\*Highlights\*\***
\*\*\*\*\*Kung Pao Chicken highlights the bold and exciting flavors of Sichuan cuisine, where tender chicken is stir-fried with a medley of crunchy peanuts, fresh vegetables, and fiery Sichuan peppercorns.
With its origins in Sichuan province, Kung Pao Chicken showcases the art of combining bold flavors with a satisfying crunch, making it a beloved classic in Chinese cuisine.
\*\*\*\*\*Shepherd's Purse Wonton presents a delicate yet flavorful blend of traditional Chinese ingredients, with plump wontons filled with fragrant Shepherd’s Purse leaves, minced meat, and seasonings. The wontons are gently steamed or boiled to perfection, it highlights the harmony between fresh herbs and tender fillings, making it a cherished comfort food with a timeless appeal.
**\*\*About Chef\*\***
\- Chef Tony Jiang Founder & Director of Chinese Famous Media Chef Michelin\-Star Restaurant Associator Principle Director of Zwilling Gourmet SchoolVice President of Disciples Escoffier China
Awards:
\- 2025 Michelin Bib Gourmand Hong Kong \- 2021 Outstanding Chef of the Year\, The Best Restaurant Awards \- 2019 Authoritative Chef of the Year The Best Restaurant Awards\- 2017 Best Contributor Discuples Escoffier China Delegation \- 2015 French Gastronomic Spirit \- Sopexa
**\*\*Itinerary\*\***
\- 4:45pm: Gathering & Introduction
\- 5:30pm: Chef's Demostration
\- 6:30pm: 3\-4pax/station\, each team to prepare
\- 7:00pm: Food appreciation & Photo Taking
**\*\*Detailed Info\*\***
**Time&Date: 16:30 - 19:00 Every Wednesday & Sunday, 2026**
**Meet up Location:** Jing An Temple Metro Station (Line2) Exit 1
**Activity Duration:** 2 - 3 Hours
**Price:** 500 RMB / Pax
**Group size:** 4-20 People
**What's included in the price:**
· Food Ingredients
· Cooking Utensils
· Apron
· Tableware
· Chef instruction service
· Complimentary Water + Soft Drinks
· First-Aid Kit
**What's not included in the price:**
· Your own expenses
**\*\*Trip Inquiry\*\***
Telephone/WhatsAPP:0086 15001791355
Wechat: OKDealTravel
Email: [contact@okdealtravelchina.com](http://mailto:contact@okdealtravelchina.com/)
**\*\*Full payment** is required when signing up for this activity. If cancel above 3 days prior to departure, full refund will be offered; if cancel 0-3 days prior to departure, 100rmb cancellation fee will be charged.
People square - Jingan Citywalk
Historic Jing'an Citywalk.
Meeting time: Wednesday evening 7:00 PM
Cost: free to participate, no show penalty is RMB 18 after sign up.
After sign up, Please add the host wechat via hawk_cn
Meeting point: Exit 3 of People Square metro station, Line 1/2/8
This Wednesday evening, let's explore historic Jing'an area. Starting from Starbucks Rostery near West Nanjing road metro before we stroll to just renovated Zhangyuan. Then we pall Fun min road before we arrive at Jing'an temple.
Starbucks Roastery in Shanghai, the world’s largest and a Flagship for Starbucks. The Roastery is both a factory and store, creating a rich sensorial experience wherein customers can watch and follow the coffee roasting process while sampling a variety of coffee beans and preparation styles from around the world.
Historic Zhang's Garden reopens as a boutique destination
Zhangyuan, or Zhang's Garden, opened in 1885 as China's first modern pleasure garden, but it later decayed into a neighborhood of dilapidated houses. Its former glory has now been restored in the latest round of urban renewal.
Zhang Yuan, a community of hundreds of shikumen (a style featuring Western and Chinese elements) houses in downtown Shanghai's Jing'an district, reopen to the public on Dec 1 2022 after four years of protective renovation.
Zhang Yuan, a community of hundreds of shikumen (a style featuring Western and Chinese elements) houses in downtown Shanghai's Jing'an district, will partially reopen to the public on Dec 1 after four years of protective renovation.
Located just off Nanjing Road West at the corner of Taixing Road and Wujiang Road, Zhang Yuan - or Zhang's Garden - is widely known as Shanghai's largest, best-preserved and most diverse shikumen compound.
The compound was named after its founding owner Zhang Shuhe (1850-1919), a merchant from Wuxi in Jiangsu province. Zhang had bought a piece of farmland in Shanghai from a Briton named Francis Groom before building a garden home for his mother.
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2026 Full Year【8-D Classic Tibet】Lhasa-Yamdrok-Shigaste-EBC Weekly Depart
✅ Small group (4-12ppl)
✅ Tibet permit handled for you
✅ Authentic experiences of Tibetan culture
✅ All iconic attractions included
✅ 1-2 people to sign up
A classic 8-day tour that includes all of the iconic Tibet destinations, offering fabulous **monasteries**, breathtaking **high-altitude walks**, stunning views of the world’s **highest mountains** and one of the **warmest cultures** you will ever encounter.
An ideal choice to fully experience the magnificient nature and fascinating culture of the sacred land of the Himalaya.
**Destination:** Tibet, China
**Accommodation:** 4 star hotel in Lhasa and Shigatse; one night in dorm room hostel or tent in Rongbuk with limited condition
**Airport Free Picking up and Seeing Off -**
Picking Up at 10:00,13:30,16:00,18:30 everyday from Lhasa airport to city downtown
Seeing off at 06:30,08:00, 12:00 from Lhasa city downtown to the airport
**(\*if your time falls off from these committed pickup times, there will be extra 400rmb/car for private airport pickup)**
**Train station** picking up and seeing off are all **free of charge on your committed arrival and departure date.**
**Notice**
1\. Each group will be confirmed with minimum of **4** guests and **12** guests maximum
2.The dates in the form highlighted **in bold** indicate that the groups have been confirmed with more than 4 guests signed up.
📅 Trip Dates & Pricing
**Slow Season**
Jan 11-18, **16-23, 19-26,** 22-29, **25- Feb. 1,** 29 - Feb. 5
Feb 1-8, **3-10,** 5-12, 6-13, **8-15,** 9-16, 12-19, **15- 22,19-26,** **22-Mar. 1,26- Mar. 5**
Nov 1-8, 5-12, 8- 15, 12- 19,15-22, 19-26, 22-29, 26- Dec 3, 29-Dec 6
Dec 3-10, 6-13,10-17, 13-20,17-24,20-27, 24-31, 27-Jan3, 31-Jan7
**·** **Price:** RMB 6990
**·** **Single Supplement:** RMB 1400
**Normal Season**
**Mar 1-8,** 4-11, 5-12, 8-15, 12- 19,**15-22,** **19-26,** 22-29, **25-Apr 1, 29 - Apr 5,** 30 - Apr. 6
**Apr. 1-8, 3-10, 5-12, 7-14, 9-16,11-18, 13-20, 16-23,**18- 25, **20-27, 23-30, 25- May 2, 27-May 4, 29-May 6**
**May 1-8,** 3-10, 6-13, 8-15, **10-17,**11-18, 13-20, **14- 21,** 16-23,**17 -24,19-26,** 20-27, 22-29, **24-31,** May 25- Jun 1, 27 - Jun 3, 29-Jun 5
Oct 11-18, 12-19,14-21, 16-23, **19-26,** 21-28, 23-30, 25-Nov 1, 27-Nov3, 29-Nov5
**·** **Price:** RMB 7890
**·** **Single Supplement:** RMB 1560
**Peak Tour Season**
June. 1-8, 3-10, **5-12, 7-14,** 9-16, 11-18, **14-19,**15-22, **16-23,** 17-24, 19-26, 21-28, **25 - July 2, 27 - July 4,** 29 - July 6
July. 1-8, 3-10, **5-12,8-15**
**Aug. 21-28**, 23-30,**26-Sep 2**, 28-Sep 4, 30-Sep6
Sep 2-9, 4-11, 6-13, 9-16, **11-18,**13-20,16-23,**18-23**
**·** **Price:** RMB 8390
**·** **Single Supplement:** RMB 1740
**TOP Peak Tour Season**
July 10-17, 12-19, **15-22,**17-24, 20-27, 22- 29, 24-31, 26-Aug 2, 29-Aug 5, 31-Aug 7
Aug 3-10, 5-12, 7-14, 9-16, **11-18,** 14-19, 16-23, 18-25
Sep 20-27, 23-30, **25-Oct 2,** 27-Oct4, 30-Oct 7
Oct1-8, 4-11, **6-13,** 8-15
**·** **Price:** RMB 8990
**·** **Single Supplement:** RMB 1980
**Discounted Price For -**
\* **200rmb/person off** discount price for **citizens from China including HK&Macao**
\* Free of Charge for the children under 3 years old, half price for children between 4-11 years old and full price charged to children above 12 years old
**🗺️ Itinerary Highlights**
**Day 1 · Lhasa arrival, free time**
🚌 70kms \| 1h
🏨 Thangka Hotel Lhasa or similar
⛰️ 3650m
**Day 2 · Lhasa City Sightseeing**
✨Visit Drepung Monastery and Sera Monastery Debating
🏨 Thangka Hotel Lhasa or similar
🥞 Breakfast; Welcome Dinner
⛰️ 3650m
**Day 3 · Lhasa City Sightseeing**
✨Potala Palace; Local Folks Activities; Johkang Temple;Local Tea House Experience
🏨 Thangka Hotel Lhasa or similar
🥞 Breakfast; Tea Break
⛰️ 3650m
**Day 4 · Lhasa - Yamdrotso - Gyatse - Shigatse**
✨ Yamdrotso Lake, Local rural family visiting & Farm lunch; Karola Glacier
🏨 Schery Hotel Shigatse or similar
🚌 360kms \| 8h
🥞 Breakfast; farm lunch
⛰️ 3650m - 5030m - 3600m
**Day 5 ·Shigatse - Tingri - Everest Base Camp**
✨ overlooking Mt. Everest and the Gawula view point visit Rongpuk Monastery (3.3km to EBC, you could take a short hike there if you like)
🏨 Everest Base Camp Guest House (dorm bed)
🚌 340kms \| 8h
🥞 None
⛰️ 3650m - 4300m - 5200m
**Day 6 ·Mt. Everest - Dingyal-Shigatse:Everest East sideViewpoint, Farewell Dinner**
✨Savor the beautiful moments of the early morning. Visit Rongbuk Monastery, the world's highest-altitude monastery. Drive to the Xilin View point to admire the breathtaking views of the eastern slope of Everest, and Mt. Lhotse. Share a traditional Tibetan dinner and enjoy the distinctive folk songs and dances of Shigatse.
🏨 Schery Hotel Shigatse or similar
🚌 360kms \| 8h
🥞 Breakfast; Dinner with Song and Dance Performance
⛰️ 5200m - 4300m - 3600m
**Day 7 · Shigaste - Lhasa**
**✨** Tashilhunpo Monastery; Yarlung Zangbo River
🏨Gang-Gyan Hotel Lhasa or similar
🚌 280kms; 5h
🥞 Breakfast
⛰️3650m
**Day 8 · Lhasa departure**
**🥞** Breakfast
**Price includes:**
**√ All necessary travel permits for Tibet** (mainland Chinese/HK citizen waived)
√ Tourist bus/minibus transportation with experienced local driver during tour and between airport/train station and Hotel at designated period of time
√ 6 nights accommondation: twin shared rooms with breakfast - 6 nights at 4-star hotel; 1 night at EBC area with limited condition and no breakfast.
√ All admission fee of tourists sites listed in the itinerary
√ Welcome dinner in D2, Tea break in D3 and Dinner with song and dance performance in D6.
√ Experienced Local Tibetan private guide
√ Travel insurance
**Price does not include:**
× Main transportation (flights/train)
× Lunches except D4 and dinners Except D2 during the trip
x Tips to driver and tour guide \*not mandatory
× Single room supplement
× Invoice and all personal expenses
× Airport/train station pickup/see off out of your group dates dates or shuttle bus schedule
**What you should bring:**
**1\. Clothing**
1-2 pairs of durable shoes, mid-weight (may-sep) waterproof clothes (dress in layers); hat (to prevent from UV and strong wind); high-quality socks
**2\. Personal Hygiene and Toiletry Items**
Sun block SPF 50+, lip balm SPF 50+, moisturizing skincare products, anti-bacterial hand sanitizer, wipes, feminine products, shaving products; (for 1 night in Rongbuk: travel size soap and shampoo, toothbrush and tooth paste, disposable towel, ear plugs, etc)
**3\. Others**
Original passport, basic medicines, waterbottle, camera, energy snacks, power bank, books, etc
**About high altitude sickness:**
The average altitude of Tibet is about **4000 meters** above the sea level (Lhasa: 3700m; Shigatse: 3836m; EBC: 5100m;). You may suffer from High Altitude Sickness in the beginning days of your Tibet trip. But don’t worry too much, **the high altitude can be acclimatized usually in 2\~3 days**. Our suggestion is to take a physical examination and get suggestions from your doctor, and medicines like aspirin is helpful to ease the headache. (drinking coke is also helpful). While in Tibet, you should **keep warm all the time**, avoid running, drink more water and eat more vegetables and carbohydrates. We suggest you to not take showers during the first day after your arrival at Tibet. If you don’t feel well, get help from your tour guide or go to the hospital without any delay.
🍹🌇 Afterwork: Sips & Social Evening Meetup
If you want to make new friends in town
If you would like to extend your network on top of your normal circle
If you feel like having a relaxing night talking with friendly people and exchanging interesting stories and experiences.
Then this is the place to be!
**Welcome to our Social Meetup at Koala Bar 🐱🍻**
**DETAILS**
1. **Where:** Koala Bar 树袋熊酒吧
2. **When:** Wed once every 2 weeks, 19h - 22h
3. **Address:** Huaihai west road 280, near Panyu road
4. **How to get there:** Shanghai jiaotong university Metro Station, Line 11. Nearest Exit: 5
**If you wanna join, WeChat or Email us**
**WeChat:** M2adventure3
**Email:** M2adventurers@gmail.com
**How many ppl will be there?**
We usually have 20+ people each time.
**How to find us?**
Go in the shop and turn right at the counter, there is a hallway/space near the back door!
If you find many people talking in English, that's probably us. Don't be shy and come up to ask if we are the Social Meetup group.
**RULES**
1\. If you sign up\, show up\!
2\. Please don't bring your own drink/food and **consider ordering a drink** or food
3\. This is **NOT** a commercial event! You're not here to promote other groups or businesses. If you want to do so, please talk to the main Organizers first.
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《Why Men Love Bitches》 英文读书会 bookclub, Language meetup
交流无国界,友谊亦无边,英缘际会,语挚情深, 欢迎参加2026年2月8日城市部落英文读书会,社交英语角 weekly Language exchange & bookclub meetup
Topic discussion主题讨论: **《Why Men Love Bitches》**中文译名:《“坏”女人有人爱》
✨**媒体评价**:
**"One of the ten most iconic relationship books of the past decade." --Yahoo News**
**Discover why men are attracted to strong, independent women with this straight-forward, accessible dating guide from New York Times bestselling author Sherry Argov.**
✨**畅销记录**:
**[#1]() INTERNATIONAL BESTSELLER, NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER, TIMES OF LONDON BESTSELLER, TIMES OF INDIA BESTSELLER, LOS ANGELES TIMES BESTSELLER, and GLOBE AND MAIL BESTSELLER**
参加请扫码报名:
Venue: People Square in Shanghai 上海人民广场
Cost: 早鸟小红书转发分享活动公益免费,空降票50元/人,.
Date & time: Feb 8th 上午 10:00-12:3
Sherry Argov’s “Why Men Love Bitches” serves as a refreshing viewpoint on women’s relationships with men. The book dispenses advice on how to break from the cycle of being too accommodating in relationships. It challenges women to empower themselves and uphold their self-respect. Using humor and straightforward language, Argov clarifies the qualities of a “bitch”—a strong woman who knows her worth and stands firm in her identity. Focusing on relationship dynamics, she addresses the reasons men gravitate towards confident women instead of “nice girls.
💡**重新定义 BITCH**
书中赋予这个词全新含义:
**B.I.T.C.H = Babe In Total Control of Herself**
(完全懂得经营好自己的女性)
拆解来看,BITCH 可以是:
**B**rave · **I**ntelligent · **T**rendy · **C**harisma · **H**umorous
她并非真正意义上的“坏”,而是:
✅善良体贴,但不受摆布
✅独立自主,不牺牲自我
✅个性鲜明,赢得尊重
🔑 **“坏”女人吸引力法则**
* 保持独立,不围绕他转
* 不主动追求,保持神秘
* 重视自我价值与生活节奏
* 对身体与精神自律而珍视
* 保留空间,不咄咄逼人
* 思想独立,经济自足
* 温柔与坚定并存
💬**别急着“贤妻良母”。越容易得到越不愿意珍惜,人性如此。**
If you smother him, he’ll go into defense mode and look for anescape route to protect his freedom.A bitch gives a man plenty of space.
**保持自己的生活节奏,该锻炼的锻炼,该读书的读书,不要因为男人冷落了周围的朋友。盯着屏幕几个小时只为等他一条简讯一通电话毫无意义**。
Keep moving to your own rhythm.Live by your own rules.
**思想独立,财务独立,自尊自爱。**
Stand on your two feet financially.
Be an independent thinker.The most attractive quality of all is dignity.
**没有让你去做无坚不摧的女强人,请别忘了——温!柔!**
When you appear softer and more feminine, you appeal to his instinct to protect.
**别那么急着倾诉衷肠。问及前任,轻描淡写一句带过。唠唠叨叨让你不再神秘。偶尔聊聊相处感受,但注意频率和强度\~**
When you nag, he see weakness.Never pull out your guts on the first few dates.Never talk constantly.Keep cool and quiet.Talking about feelings to a man will feel like work.
“One of ‘The 10 Most Iconic Relationship Books of the Past Ten Years."
—Yahoo!
Do you feel like you are too nice? Sherry Argov'sWhy Men Love Bitches delivers a unique perspective as to why men are attracted to a strong woman who stands up for herself. With saucy detail on every page, this no-nonsense guide reveals why a strong woman is much more desirable than a "yes woman" who routinely sacrifices herself. The author provides compelling answers to the tough questions women often ask:
· Why are men so romantic in the beginning and why do they change?
· Why do men take nice girls for granted?
· Why does a man respect a woman when she stands up for herself?
Full of advice, hilarious real-life relationship scenarios, "she says/he thinks" tables, and the author's unique "Attraction Principles," Why Men Love Bitches gives you bottom-line answers. It helps you know who you are, stand your ground, and relate to men on a whole new level. Once you've discovered the feisty attitude men find so magnetic, you'll not only increase the romantic chemistry—you'll gain your man's love and respect with far less effort.
This book addresses the dynamics of modern relationships. Sherry Argov argues that men are attracted to strong, independent women. Instead of being a “doormat,” women can gain respect and love by valuing themselves and setting boundaries.
**An Overview of “Why Men Love Bitches”**
Sherry Argov’s “Why Men Love Bitches” serves as a refreshing viewpoint on women’s relationships with men. The book dispenses advice on how to break from the cycle of being too accommodating in relationships. It challenges women to empower themselves and uphold their self-respect. Using humor and straightforward language, Argov clarifies the qualities of a “bitch”—a strong woman who knows her worth and stands firm in her identity. Focusing on relationship dynamics, she addresses the reasons men gravitate towards confident women instead of “nice girls.”
**Understanding Men’s Behavior**
One central theme of Argov’s advice tackles men’s romantic behavior. Why do men often seem enamored at first, only to withdraw later? Argov claims that once they perceive a woman as a “sure thing,” they lose interest. Men are drawn to the hunt, frequently motivated by the challenge. She suggests that withholding certain intimate aspects initially can heighten his respect and interest. The book offers practical steps to maintain this intrigue. For example, the author recommends creating an air of mystery around feelings and availability. This doesn’t imply manipulation; it’s about being genuine while developing a healthy balance of interest. The advice also includes classic tricks, like introducing playful teasing to defuse tension during awkward moments, keeping the relationship exciting and vibrant.
*Why Men Love Bitches explores the dynamic of modern dating, shedding light on why independent and assertive women attract men more than those who are overly accommodating or submissive.*
*The book “Why Men Love Bitches” by Sherry Argov offers a fresh perspective into dating and relationships. The author breaks down the idea that many women mistakenly believe that being nice and overly accommodating will earn them the love and admiration of men. Instead, Argov argues that the opposite is often true. Men are attracted to women who exude confidence, independence, and assertiveness. This book emphasizes the importance of self-respect and self-worth in relationships, guiding readers toward fostering a personality that commands respect and attracts quality partners.*
*Why Men Love Bitches* (WMLB) has completely reshaped how woman approach relationships. In this fun & engaging read by *New York Times* bestselling author, Sherry Argov, women learn about the importance of standing your ground, knowing who you are, and holding your own in a relationship. Argov shares advice & stories that highlight the value of being a “bitch” in a relationship.
This book separates women into one of two categories: a nice girl vs a bitch.
A**“bitch”** in this book is not the stereotypical bitch most people automatically think of. In this book, being a bitch means you are sassy and confident. You are kind, yet strong and never chase a man. If he doesn’t want you — that’s fine, you don’t want him.
The**nice girl** is someone who gives too much and doesn’t receive anything back. She often overcompensates and will do anything to keep her man because she thinks she is nothing without him.
**The Balance of Independence and Togetherness**
This guide doesn’t just criticize the overly nice; it offers hope, encouragement, and reaffirmation of one’s individuality. While the book prioritizes independence, Argov also emphasizes the importance of partnership. A relationship flourishes when both partners can be secure within themselves while still supporting one another. By communicating clearly and confidently, each partner should celebrate the other’s space instead of monopolizing it. This balance deepens intimacy while simultaneously preserving individuality, which is the essence of healthy love. Argov completes her exploration of relationships by reinforcing a key takeaway. A happy woman is the most attractive person in the room. When partnered with someone who understands their significance, a woman becomes magnetic. Sherry Argov’s “Why Men Love Bitches” is an assertive manifesto that advises women to love themselves fiercely. Through this perspective, readers can harness confidence, self-love, and respect within love, ensuring that they are never seen as a mere doormat but rather as the queen of their life’s narrative.
阿尔戈列举了一般情况下分成两类的女人:乖乖女和坏女人。先不说什么是坏女人,来看一个典型的乖乖女—
♀对喜欢的男人象忠犬,招之即来挥之即去;又象电视机,他想开就开,想关就关;
♀本来周末已有安排,对方一个电话过来,就扔下一切,驱车几十公里赴约;
♀对于从来不同意事先约好见面时间的男人也十分顺从;
♀没车坐机场巴士也要去接远道而归的男人;
♀为了捧红心上人的作品自己从零开始学做经纪人;
1、“坏“女人从不立刻回应男人的短信和电话,即使手机就在她手边。
对策:无需等待她的回复,忙你自己的事情,但一定要通过社交网络,展示你充实且美好的生活。实际上一直在监控你社交网络的她,总会忍不住想融入其中。这时候,你的手机就会响起短信提示音了。
2、“坏”女人不肯改变自己的既定行程,时常拒绝你的诚挚邀约。
对策:这并代表她不在乎你,反而恰恰证明她把你当男朋友,而不是“男闺蜜”。被拒绝后,请绅士的祝她既定行程顺利,并表示愿意等她的聚会结束后,开车接送她回家,这比请她吃晚餐更贴心。
3、“坏”女人让男人们感觉到,她爱自己胜过一切。
对策:收起你的玻璃心,她最爱自己并不代表她不爱你。每一个成熟的人都应该先学会“自爱”,然后才有资格去爱别人。让“坏”女人认识到你也是爱自己胜过一切,因为她喜欢懂得爱自己的男人。
4、“坏”女人不断声明,对于犯错的男人,她随时都会转身离去。
对策:离开并不等于不会回来,你无需因为害怕失去,而受“坏”女人摆布。你需要提前做好工作的是,让“坏”女人明白,你是一个能够独立思考的人,是非准则不由她一人决定。
5、“坏“女人从不让男人掌控自己,谁都不能独有她。
对策:这是“坏”女人在故意激发男人的征服欲,她深谙“得不到才是最好的”这个道理。你要配合她演好这出戏,然后给她最多自由的你,渐渐就成了她最不舍得离开的“牢笼”。
6、“坏”女人喜欢玩“一个耳光加一个糖豆”的游戏。
对策:“坏”女人会以有事为由,拒绝明晚与你约会,可当晚她又会临时告知你,她可以赴约。因为她盘算着,你会像个心爱玩具失而复得的小孩,对她感激不尽。这种情况下,你的正确回应是,告诉她你已经约好朋友一起去打球了。
7、“坏”女人好像能看穿你的小心思,你的情话总被她冷漠应对。
对策:在恋爱博弈中,人人都难免犯贱,聪明的“坏”女人早已洞悉一切。所以你不要刻意的去讨好她,不要把甜言蜜语挂在嘴边。有事说事,没事就闭嘴,是与“坏”女人交往的最好模式。
8、“坏”女人的床总是很难上,在楼道里就与你道晚安。
对策:做爱之前,男人糊涂,女人清醒;做爱之后,男人清醒,女人糊涂。承认吧,如果第一次约会时,“坏”女人就把身体给了你,你反而会担心更多。保持你的耐心,按捺你的欲望,当她缓缓解开睡衣的那一瞬间,你会发现等待是值得的。
9、“坏”女人从不做出承诺,让你倍感不安。
对策:“坏”女人是只狡猾的狐狸,她很会装聋作哑,虽然嘴上不说,但她心里和明镜似的。不要强迫“坏”女人做承诺,但你要主动向她做承诺。虽然表面上,她对此只会轻蔑一笑,但这只狐狸心里已经吃到了甜葡萄。
10、“坏”女人似乎并不需要你,你感觉自己可有可无。
对策:“坏”女人和你在一起,并不是因为她“需要“你,而是因为她“选择”了你,你们是平等的伴侣。因此,你无需主动给她什么,只需向她展示你可以提
**[#Redefine]() the word BITCH#**
**She maintains her independence.**
**She doesn't pursue him.**
**She is mysterious.**
**She maintains a sense of humor.**
**She places a high value on herself.**
**She is passionate about something other than him.**
**She treats her body like a finely tuned machine**
**Event schedule活动环节安排:**
本活动参与人群定位为上海工作和生活的喜欢英语、热爱交流分享的青年白领,
Other Schedule 其它环节:
Heads up words guessing欢乐猜词,
MBTI自我介绍 What is your personality,
Never have I ever我有你没有,
英文私董会 Mentor for each other.
British Parliamentary Mini Debate, 小型英式辩论会
话题抽签,即兴发言 Topic lucky draw
Free talk for networking自由社交英语
Welcome to our weekly booking reading sharing + British Parliamentary Debate, language & cultural exchange meetup event which focus on informal and fun way to meet new people and cultural discussion. All learning levels are welcome to join. We organize weekly events such as book reading sharing, language & cultural exchange, topic presentation, speech and debate. Embrace the opportunity to mingle with like-minded individuals who share a passion for English language learning, cross culture communication and meeting new friend
我们是一群热爱中外跨文化交流的年轻人,致力于连接拥有相同志趣的朋友,通过组织基于英语交流的多元化的趣味活动,认识一群热爱学习,挑战自己舒适圈的小伙伴,一起探索语言的无限可能!
Are you a bookworm looking for a fun group to discuss your favorite reads with?If you’re interested in meaningful discussions with fellow readers. Look no further and join us! Our book reading meetup is the perfect place for book lovers to come together, share their thoughts, and enjoy an engaging discussion with fellow readers. Our book club sharing session is a great way to engage in lively and friendly discussions, share insights, and meet fellow book lovers. Besides presentation and group discussion about the book of the week, our meetup also includes time to guess words, language games, free talking, mingling and socializing. As always, there's no pressure to have finished the book, we're just here for vibes. Our gathering is not about analyzing the book like a seminar, but more about connecting, sharing ideas, and enjoying a relaxed, social afternoon with fellow book lovers. Also, our discussion topics may go beyond the book, touching on a variety of themes and interes
放下手机,拒绝宅家。读有趣的书,见有趣的人,欢迎参加本周六城市部落英文读书会,英式辩论赛,用知识链接彼此,让思想碰撞出火花,遇见与你同频共振的朋友。新的一年,给自己的心灵来一场洗礼。遇见城市部落英文读书会欢迎所有喜欢思考,热爱阅读和分享,希望寻求生命里积极的改变的朋友到来。通过阅读分享来进行一场跨越语言与时空的相逢,让我们在繁忙的生活中寻得一片宁静又充满趣味的阅读天地。读书会有团队讨论和自由分享环节,请自由分享自己的观点和看法,也许你就能遇见灵魂的知音。期待与你相遇在知识的殿堂,共同开启一段美好的旅途
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Topic discussion主题讨论: **《Why Men Love Bitches》**中文译名:《“坏”女人有人爱》
✨**媒体评价**:
**"One of the ten most iconic relationship books of the past decade." --Yahoo News**
**Discover why men are attracted to strong, independent women with this straight-forward, accessible dating guide from New York Times bestselling author Sherry Argov.**
✨**畅销记录**:
**[#1]() INTERNATIONAL BESTSELLER, NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER, TIMES OF LONDON BESTSELLER, TIMES OF INDIA BESTSELLER, LOS ANGELES TIMES BESTSELLER, and GLOBE AND MAIL BESTSELLER**
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Venue: People Square in Shanghai 上海人民广场
Cost: 早鸟小红书转发分享活动公益免费,空降票50元/人,.
Date & time: Feb 8th 上午 10:00-12:3
Sherry Argov’s “Why Men Love Bitches” serves as a refreshing viewpoint on women’s relationships with men. The book dispenses advice on how to break from the cycle of being too accommodating in relationships. It challenges women to empower themselves and uphold their self-respect. Using humor and straightforward language, Argov clarifies the qualities of a “bitch”—a strong woman who knows her worth and stands firm in her identity. Focusing on relationship dynamics, she addresses the reasons men gravitate towards confident women instead of “nice girls.
💡**重新定义 BITCH**
书中赋予这个词全新含义:
**B.I.T.C.H = Babe In Total Control of Herself**
(完全懂得经营好自己的女性)
拆解来看,BITCH 可以是:
**B**rave · **I**ntelligent · **T**rendy · **C**harisma · **H**umorous
她并非真正意义上的“坏”,而是:
✅善良体贴,但不受摆布
✅独立自主,不牺牲自我
✅个性鲜明,赢得尊重
🔑 **“坏”女人吸引力法则**
* 保持独立,不围绕他转
* 不主动追求,保持神秘
* 重视自我价值与生活节奏
* 对身体与精神自律而珍视
* 保留空间,不咄咄逼人
* 思想独立,经济自足
* 温柔与坚定并存
💬**别急着“贤妻良母”。越容易得到越不愿意珍惜,人性如此。**
If you smother him, he’ll go into defense mode and look for anescape route to protect his freedom.A bitch gives a man plenty of space.
**保持自己的生活节奏,该锻炼的锻炼,该读书的读书,不要因为男人冷落了周围的朋友。盯着屏幕几个小时只为等他一条简讯一通电话毫无意义**。
Keep moving to your own rhythm.Live by your own rules.
**思想独立,财务独立,自尊自爱。**
Stand on your two feet financially.
Be an independent thinker.The most attractive quality of all is dignity.
**没有让你去做无坚不摧的女强人,请别忘了——温!柔!**
When you appear softer and more feminine, you appeal to his instinct to protect.
**别那么急着倾诉衷肠。问及前任,轻描淡写一句带过。唠唠叨叨让你不再神秘。偶尔聊聊相处感受,但注意频率和强度\~**
When you nag, he see weakness.Never pull out your guts on the first few dates.Never talk constantly.Keep cool and quiet.Talking about feelings to a man will feel like work.
“One of ‘The 10 Most Iconic Relationship Books of the Past Ten Years."
—Yahoo!
Do you feel like you are too nice? Sherry Argov'sWhy Men Love Bitches delivers a unique perspective as to why men are attracted to a strong woman who stands up for herself. With saucy detail on every page, this no-nonsense guide reveals why a strong woman is much more desirable than a "yes woman" who routinely sacrifices herself. The author provides compelling answers to the tough questions women often ask:
· Why are men so romantic in the beginning and why do they change?
· Why do men take nice girls for granted?
· Why does a man respect a woman when she stands up for herself?
Full of advice, hilarious real-life relationship scenarios, "she says/he thinks" tables, and the author's unique "Attraction Principles," Why Men Love Bitches gives you bottom-line answers. It helps you know who you are, stand your ground, and relate to men on a whole new level. Once you've discovered the feisty attitude men find so magnetic, you'll not only increase the romantic chemistry—you'll gain your man's love and respect with far less effort.
This book addresses the dynamics of modern relationships. Sherry Argov argues that men are attracted to strong, independent women. Instead of being a “doormat,” women can gain respect and love by valuing themselves and setting boundaries.
**An Overview of “Why Men Love Bitches”**
Sherry Argov’s “Why Men Love Bitches” serves as a refreshing viewpoint on women’s relationships with men. The book dispenses advice on how to break from the cycle of being too accommodating in relationships. It challenges women to empower themselves and uphold their self-respect. Using humor and straightforward language, Argov clarifies the qualities of a “bitch”—a strong woman who knows her worth and stands firm in her identity. Focusing on relationship dynamics, she addresses the reasons men gravitate towards confident women instead of “nice girls.”
**Understanding Men’s Behavior**
One central theme of Argov’s advice tackles men’s romantic behavior. Why do men often seem enamored at first, only to withdraw later? Argov claims that once they perceive a woman as a “sure thing,” they lose interest. Men are drawn to the hunt, frequently motivated by the challenge. She suggests that withholding certain intimate aspects initially can heighten his respect and interest. The book offers practical steps to maintain this intrigue. For example, the author recommends creating an air of mystery around feelings and availability. This doesn’t imply manipulation; it’s about being genuine while developing a healthy balance of interest. The advice also includes classic tricks, like introducing playful teasing to defuse tension during awkward moments, keeping the relationship exciting and vibrant.
*Why Men Love Bitches explores the dynamic of modern dating, shedding light on why independent and assertive women attract men more than those who are overly accommodating or submissive.*
*The book “Why Men Love Bitches” by Sherry Argov offers a fresh perspective into dating and relationships. The author breaks down the idea that many women mistakenly believe that being nice and overly accommodating will earn them the love and admiration of men. Instead, Argov argues that the opposite is often true. Men are attracted to women who exude confidence, independence, and assertiveness. This book emphasizes the importance of self-respect and self-worth in relationships, guiding readers toward fostering a personality that commands respect and attracts quality partners.*
*Why Men Love Bitches* (WMLB) has completely reshaped how woman approach relationships. In this fun & engaging read by *New York Times* bestselling author, Sherry Argov, women learn about the importance of standing your ground, knowing who you are, and holding your own in a relationship. Argov shares advice & stories that highlight the value of being a “bitch” in a relationship.
This book separates women into one of two categories: a nice girl vs a bitch.
A**“bitch”** in this book is not the stereotypical bitch most people automatically think of. In this book, being a bitch means you are sassy and confident. You are kind, yet strong and never chase a man. If he doesn’t want you — that’s fine, you don’t want him.
The**nice girl** is someone who gives too much and doesn’t receive anything back. She often overcompensates and will do anything to keep her man because she thinks she is nothing without him.
**The Balance of Independence and Togetherness**
This guide doesn’t just criticize the overly nice; it offers hope, encouragement, and reaffirmation of one’s individuality. While the book prioritizes independence, Argov also emphasizes the importance of partnership. A relationship flourishes when both partners can be secure within themselves while still supporting one another. By communicating clearly and confidently, each partner should celebrate the other’s space instead of monopolizing it. This balance deepens intimacy while simultaneously preserving individuality, which is the essence of healthy love. Argov completes her exploration of relationships by reinforcing a key takeaway. A happy woman is the most attractive person in the room. When partnered with someone who understands their significance, a woman becomes magnetic. Sherry Argov’s “Why Men Love Bitches” is an assertive manifesto that advises women to love themselves fiercely. Through this perspective, readers can harness confidence, self-love, and respect within love, ensuring that they are never seen as a mere doormat but rather as the queen of their life’s narrative.
阿尔戈列举了一般情况下分成两类的女人:乖乖女和坏女人。先不说什么是坏女人,来看一个典型的乖乖女—
♀对喜欢的男人象忠犬,招之即来挥之即去;又象电视机,他想开就开,想关就关;
♀本来周末已有安排,对方一个电话过来,就扔下一切,驱车几十公里赴约;
♀对于从来不同意事先约好见面时间的男人也十分顺从;
♀没车坐机场巴士也要去接远道而归的男人;
♀为了捧红心上人的作品自己从零开始学做经纪人;
1、“坏“女人从不立刻回应男人的短信和电话,即使手机就在她手边。
对策:无需等待她的回复,忙你自己的事情,但一定要通过社交网络,展示你充实且美好的生活。实际上一直在监控你社交网络的她,总会忍不住想融入其中。这时候,你的手机就会响起短信提示音了。
2、“坏”女人不肯改变自己的既定行程,时常拒绝你的诚挚邀约。
对策:这并代表她不在乎你,反而恰恰证明她把你当男朋友,而不是“男闺蜜”。被拒绝后,请绅士的祝她既定行程顺利,并表示愿意等她的聚会结束后,开车接送她回家,这比请她吃晚餐更贴心。
3、“坏”女人让男人们感觉到,她爱自己胜过一切。
对策:收起你的玻璃心,她最爱自己并不代表她不爱你。每一个成熟的人都应该先学会“自爱”,然后才有资格去爱别人。让“坏”女人认识到你也是爱自己胜过一切,因为她喜欢懂得爱自己的男人。
4、“坏”女人不断声明,对于犯错的男人,她随时都会转身离去。
对策:离开并不等于不会回来,你无需因为害怕失去,而受“坏”女人摆布。你需要提前做好工作的是,让“坏”女人明白,你是一个能够独立思考的人,是非准则不由她一人决定。
5、“坏“女人从不让男人掌控自己,谁都不能独有她。
对策:这是“坏”女人在故意激发男人的征服欲,她深谙“得不到才是最好的”这个道理。你要配合她演好这出戏,然后给她最多自由的你,渐渐就成了她最不舍得离开的“牢笼”。
6、“坏”女人喜欢玩“一个耳光加一个糖豆”的游戏。
对策:“坏”女人会以有事为由,拒绝明晚与你约会,可当晚她又会临时告知你,她可以赴约。因为她盘算着,你会像个心爱玩具失而复得的小孩,对她感激不尽。这种情况下,你的正确回应是,告诉她你已经约好朋友一起去打球了。
7、“坏”女人好像能看穿你的小心思,你的情话总被她冷漠应对。
对策:在恋爱博弈中,人人都难免犯贱,聪明的“坏”女人早已洞悉一切。所以你不要刻意的去讨好她,不要把甜言蜜语挂在嘴边。有事说事,没事就闭嘴,是与“坏”女人交往的最好模式。
8、“坏”女人的床总是很难上,在楼道里就与你道晚安。
对策:做爱之前,男人糊涂,女人清醒;做爱之后,男人清醒,女人糊涂。承认吧,如果第一次约会时,“坏”女人就把身体给了你,你反而会担心更多。保持你的耐心,按捺你的欲望,当她缓缓解开睡衣的那一瞬间,你会发现等待是值得的。
9、“坏”女人从不做出承诺,让你倍感不安。
对策:“坏”女人是只狡猾的狐狸,她很会装聋作哑,虽然嘴上不说,但她心里和明镜似的。不要强迫“坏”女人做承诺,但你要主动向她做承诺。虽然表面上,她对此只会轻蔑一笑,但这只狐狸心里已经吃到了甜葡萄。
10、“坏”女人似乎并不需要你,你感觉自己可有可无。
对策:“坏”女人和你在一起,并不是因为她“需要“你,而是因为她“选择”了你,你们是平等的伴侣。因此,你无需主动给她什么,只需向她展示你可以提
**[#Redefine]() the word BITCH#**
**She maintains her independence.**
**She doesn't pursue him.**
**She is mysterious.**
**She maintains a sense of humor.**
**She places a high value on herself.**
**She is passionate about something other than him.**
**She treats her body like a finely tuned machine**
**Event schedule活动环节安排:**
本活动参与人群定位为上海工作和生活的喜欢英语、热爱交流分享的青年白领,
Other Schedule 其它环节:
Heads up words guessing欢乐猜词,
MBTI自我介绍 What is your personality,
Never have I ever我有你没有,
英文私董会 Mentor for each other.
British Parliamentary Mini Debate, 小型英式辩论会
话题抽签,即兴发言 Topic lucky draw
Free talk for networking自由社交英语
Welcome to our weekly booking reading sharing + British Parliamentary Debate, language & cultural exchange meetup event which focus on informal and fun way to meet new people and cultural discussion. All learning levels are welcome to join. We organize weekly events such as book reading sharing, language & cultural exchange, topic presentation, speech and debate. Embrace the opportunity to mingle with like-minded individuals who share a passion for English language learning, cross culture communication and meeting new friend
我们是一群热爱中外跨文化交流的年轻人,致力于连接拥有相同志趣的朋友,通过组织基于英语交流的多元化的趣味活动,认识一群热爱学习,挑战自己舒适圈的小伙伴,一起探索语言的无限可能!
Are you a bookworm looking for a fun group to discuss your favorite reads with?If you’re interested in meaningful discussions with fellow readers. Look no further and join us! Our book reading meetup is the perfect place for book lovers to come together, share their thoughts, and enjoy an engaging discussion with fellow readers. Our book club sharing session is a great way to engage in lively and friendly discussions, share insights, and meet fellow book lovers. Besides presentation and group discussion about the book of the week, our meetup also includes time to guess words, language games, free talking, mingling and socializing. As always, there's no pressure to have finished the book, we're just here for vibes. Our gathering is not about analyzing the book like a seminar, but more about connecting, sharing ideas, and enjoying a relaxed, social afternoon with fellow book lovers. Also, our discussion topics may go beyond the book, touching on a variety of themes and interes
放下手机,拒绝宅家。读有趣的书,见有趣的人,欢迎参加本周六城市部落英文读书会,英式辩论赛,用知识链接彼此,让思想碰撞出火花,遇见与你同频共振的朋友。新的一年,给自己的心灵来一场洗礼。遇见城市部落英文读书会欢迎所有喜欢思考,热爱阅读和分享,希望寻求生命里积极的改变的朋友到来。通过阅读分享来进行一场跨越语言与时空的相逢,让我们在繁忙的生活中寻得一片宁静又充满趣味的阅读天地。读书会有团队讨论和自由分享环节,请自由分享自己的观点和看法,也许你就能遇见灵魂的知音。期待与你相遇在知识的殿堂,共同开启一段美好的旅途
Frequently asked questions:
**Do I have to finish the book to attend**?
Not at all. If you plan to read or have read it, that’s great; if you haven’t touched it, you’re still more than welcome to join. Come and meet like-minded people and connect over the topic as well as the book.
**How can I contribute to the discussion if I haven’t read the book?**
The book is simply a conversation starter - our discussions often branch out into related themes, personal experiences and broader topics of interest. Our gathering is more about socialising and engaging in decent conversations with book lovers, rather than a formal seminar.
**Can I also discuss my own fav book or the book I recently read?**
Absolutely! Our gatherings are all about open conversations, and we’d love to hear your thoughts on any book that’s been captivating to you.
**Is this group open to everyone?**
Yes - this is a friendly and inclusive group, welcoming everyone regardless of gender, sexuality, or background. The event is designed to make it easy to meet and connect with fellow book lovers in our community.
**What if I'm shy about speaking in front of the group?**
No pressure! You're welcome to participate in the way that feels most comfortable for you. Whether you share your views or just listen, your presence is valued. A lot of people come alone - so don't be shy!!
This event will be photographed for promotional purposes. By purchasing a ticket you are consenting to the team using these pictures for our social media channels but you are able to withdraw your consent at any time during the event.
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50% off ERA- Spirt of Shanghai ,a Romantic and Wonderful Show in Shanghai
The multimedia spectacular show, "Era – Spirit of Shanghai," has been hailed for its blend of Chinese acrobatics, extreme sports and dance along with Western theater and cutting-edge technologies, as well as a distinctive storyline and spectacular scenes that are full of Chinese elements. the hit residency is an of Shanghai's vibrancy. Entitled "Spirit of Shanghai," the show follows a young couple's tour around the city, exploring its past, present and future.
A cooperation between the French troupe Le Cirque Phenix, Shanghai Acrobatic Troupe, Era 2 returns to the Chinese city with more fashionable elements and a jaw-dropping experience.
Original Price for B area tickets is 480 RMB/person, group purchase only 239RMB/person. Original Price for A area tickets is 580 RMB/person, group purchase only 289RMB/person. More than 50% discount!
How to book
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YEJO-2.6-8 Tune Into Nature:Hike the Mindful Way归融自然正念徒步精品酒店
YEJO Circle-Refreshing, Inspiring & Empowering Life
云玖精社 - 清新 启迪 有力 之 生命
Tune Into Nature:Hike the Mindful Way (boutique hotel)
归融自然正念徒步 (精品酒店)
Per Person: 1999 RMB 费用
Booking at page end 请至页面底部报名
Itinerary 日程安排
一日 Day 1
13:00 Gathering and departure from Shanghai 上海集合出发
16:30 Arrival Mountain area first tea field hike 茶园正念徒步
18:30 Dinner and back to hotel, sleep晚餐后回酒店
20:30 Meditation & free time 冥想 自由时间
22:00 Sleep 静睡
二日 Day 2
06:30 Embracing the pleasantness of Morning 晨修
Morning meditation 晨起 冥想
07:30 Vegetarian Breakfast 素食早餐
08:45 Induction to Midnfulness and its practice 正念介绍及修习
One workshop: The awakening of the awareness 觉照的开启
One Practice: Mindful Walk
10:00 Start the Mindful hike into the mountain
One Workshop: Right Movement: Bliss-full Body
正行: 欢喜心照耀下的身心
One Practice: Mindfull Hike 正念徒步
12:00 Vegetarian Lunch 素食午餐
14:00 Start the afternoon hike
One Workshop: ( to determine )
One Practice: Gong Bathing in the nature 沉寂之音
17:30 Vegetarian dinner 素食晚餐
19:30 Evening sharing 老师分享:觉性的开发
21:30 Sleep
三日 Day 3
06:30 Embracing the pleasantness of Morning 晨修:
Morning meditation 晨起 冥想
07:30 Vegetarian Breakfast 素食早餐
08:45 Morning Mindful Hike
One Workshop: Movement to Stillness to Silence
由动 入静 至寂
One Practice: Mindful Hike
正念徒步
12:00 Vegetarian lunch 素食午餐
13:30 Meditation 冥想
14:00 Summary & Return Shanghai 返程上海
19:00 Arrive Shanghai 回到上海
Transportation
A private bus will be arranged from/back to Shanghai downtown.
关于交通
我们将安排自集合点到当地的往返专车
Gathering
Time: 13:00
Place: (unless notified differently)
Zhongshan Park Subway Station, Line 3-4, Exit 3
关于集合
出发前,组织邮件将发给每一位参加者,通知集合时间地点,携带物品,及注意事项
集合时间:13:00
集合地点:中山公园地铁站,3-4号线,3号出口
Equipment
(Need to be prepared by each participant)
* Hiking: Quickdry TS, Pants, Hiking shoes,warm layers
* Passport or Chinese ID card
* Your own Yoga mat
* Sports Shoes
* Personal toiletries and towel.
* Mosquito Repelling Spray
* Drinking bottle (no soft plastic as often the refill is with boiled water and it melts)
* Rain Coat
* Weather protection according to the season
携带的物品
(需要每一位参加者自己准备)
* 户外徒步:快干衣,保暖层,快干裤,徒步鞋
* 护照或者身份证件
* 行李简单。适合瑜伽练习的衣服,舒适,柔软,颜色简单
* 运动鞋或者单鞋
* 雨衣或雨伞(以防下雨)
* 个人水杯(只提供开水)如需矿泉水请自己准备
* 个人洗漱用品,毛巾等
* 开放的精神和思想,利于人生每一步:)
Included
* Transportation From & Back to Shanghai
* Insurance
* Meals as per itinerary
* Guiding & Coaching
* Accommodation
费用包含
* 往返集合点的接送包车
* 户外保险
* 教学
* 食宿
Not Included
* Other personal expenses not mentioned in the itinerary
不包含
* 其他个人消费
Booking & Contact
YEJO Jeff
Chinese/English Speaking
wechat: 13301666580
jeff.yejotravel@outlook.com
YEJO WeChat Account: YEJOCIRCLE-SHANGHAI
Website: www.yejocircle.com
Extreme Programming Events Near You
Connect with your local Extreme Programming community
Cocoaheads
Come out to Improving for our monthly iOS and Mac meetings.
This Month's Presentation:
Bring a lightning talk with you and let's learn some quick things.
What is Cocoaheads (http://cocoaheads.org/)?
CocoaHeads is a group devoted to discussion of Apple Computer's Cocoa Framework for programming on MacOS X and iOS (including the iPhone, iPad and Apple Watch). During monthly meetings, members present on their projects and offer tutorials on various programming topics.
What is BuckeyeCocoa (http://buckeyecocoa.org/)?
BuckeyeCocoa is a group of Objective-C/Swift developers/enthusiasts. We host monthly Cocoaheads and near-weekly NSCoder meetings in Columbus, Ohio. The meetings are free to attend.
Presentations!
Presenters welcome! We are always in need of people willing to present material. Any Swift and/or Objective-C related topic is welcome. Times can be 5 minutes (i.e. lightning talks) to a maximum of 2 hours. Interested? Contact info is on the BuckeyeCocoa website.
To volunteer for a presentation contact us at @BuckeyeCocoa on Twitter.
Follow us on Twitter! @BuckeyeCocoa (https://twitter.com/#!/Buckeyecocoa/) For more information: http://buckeyecocoa.org/
IxDA Chat n Pancakes
Join members of the local UX and Digital Design community for a casual monthly breakfast. There _might_ be a little snow, but there _will_ be effectively infinite serve-yourself coffee, so it evens out if you ask me.
Just a reminder, while the other locations are great too, we’re at the Lane Ave one this time.
[Gary Yu: GIS and Software Programming] (In-Person) #8
**GIS and Software Programming** (with a focus on Python and JavaScript) by **[Gary Yu](https://www.linkedin.com/in/gary-yu-analyst/)**
* GIS Overview
* Programming Overview
* GIS History
* History of Programming
* A Cluster of GIS Software
* A Tale of Two Programming Languages (Python and JavaScript)
* How to integrate GIS Software in Python
* How to integrate GIS Software in JS
***Bring your laptop and expect to write some (non-AI generated) code!***
*(title subject to change)*
Food and drinks will be available.
**LOCATION:**
6515 Longshore Loop, Suite 300, Dublin, OH 43017
**FREE PARKING:**
6725 Longshore Street, Dublin, OH 43017
AI Development Risk Case Studies and how Agentic AI is the future of Appsec
OWASP is ending use of Meetup, so I built an eventbrite for the event.
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/ai-development-risk-case-studies-and-how-agentic-ai-is-the-future-of-appsec-tickets-1981450622150?aff=oddtdtcreator
AI is transforming how software is designed, developed, and deployed, dramatically accelerating velocity while introducing new categories of risk. As organizations adopt AI-assisted coding, autonomous agents, and increasingly complex model interactions, traditional application security approaches struggle to keep pace. This talk examines emerging AI-driven risks through real case studies from the field, highlighting issues such as insecure code generation, data-leakage pathways, model manipulation, and evolving supply-chain threats. We will explore how engineering teams must adapt their people, processes, and governance models to secure AI-augmented development workflows effectively. The session will then introduce agentic AI as the next evolution in application security—autonomous systems capable of continuous analysis, multi-step reasoning, and real-time remediation. Attendees will learn how combining agentic AI with modern practices can reduce developer friction, improve coverage, and create a future-ready application security strategy designed for the demands of AI-native software development
Free Seminar: How to Improve Your Self Confidence & Social Life
Come attend a free in-person seminar where you will find out why you:
-Feel isolated
-Can't express yourself openly
-Get nervous or anxious in front of people
-Run out of things to say or feel tongue-tied
-Feel introverted
-Don't feel comfortable in any social setting
-Can't make more friends
-Are shy and miss opportunities to connect in a meaningful way
And we cover what you can do about any one, some or all of the above.
This seminar is the weapon against loneliness, isolation and boredom, come join us!
COME TO THIS SEMINAR AND LEARN THE SECRETS TODAY
This seminar is brought to you by the Dianetics & Scientology Life Improvement Center.
1266 Dublin Road, Columbus, Ohio 43215
Columbus Code & Coffee 83 @ Improving
Columbus Code & Coffee is an inclusive, informal co-working session. People of all skill levels attend, and we love it that way. Many people (optionally) bring projects to work on, and many other people (optionally) socialize the entire time. It's entirely up to you!
**What to Expect at the Intro Circle**
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Near the beginning of the event (1:30 pm), we do a standup:
* Organizer announcements, updates, and logistics
Round 1 - (7 secs max):
* Your name
* What you're working on
* What you can help others with
Round 2:
* Community events you wanna plug. If none, that's cool too.
Round 3:
* Job opportunities you're hiring for OR announce that you are looking for one. If none, that's cool.
After the introduction circle, everything is self-organized! Feel free to work alone, pair up, attend one of our workshops/presentations, or mingle!
DoJo (Informal Python Meeting)
**New Dojo Location!**
**Draft Day Columbus**
1130 Dublin Road
Columbus, OH 43215
We're going to try a new dojo location for a few weeks and see how it works
Dojos are informal Python group study sessions where everyone interested in Python gathers to learn about Python, help others with Python, or just hang out. Everyone is welcome from Python beginners to experts. Bringing a laptop is encouraged (we'll have extension cords and power strips). If there's something you want to learn leave a comment on this invite so we can plan ahead.
We're looking for topic suggestions and people interested in presenting at our monthly meetings. To this end we've set up a survey form at [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/15eBKF1nQQ2XS5gzD4rvhVRHMBEj7lJtHuA9wXupS3Uc](https://docs.google.com/forms/d/15eBKF1nQQ2XS5gzD4rvhVRHMBEj7lJtHuA9wXupS3Uc)


















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