
What we’re about
Are you in your 20s/30s and wondering how to make friends as an adult? Did you just move to Richmond, VA (RVA) and need new friends or things to do? Have you lived in RVA for a while but still would like to diversify your circle of friends? Are you single, engaged, married, or divorced and looking to meet other like-minded friends? Do you like food, beer, wine, cooking classes, games, outdoor activities, music, or anything fun and would rather go with friends?
If you answered yes to any of those questions, this group is for you! Trying to Adult RVA is a membership-based social group. It is open to anyone 21+, of any gender, that want to make friends.
Please ensure you review our rules and policies. We have participation, attendance, return/refund, and social media rules.
Please visit our FAQ page for common questions about our events, membership, tickets, and more!
Please visit our website for more information about Trying to Adult RVA.
Upcoming events
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Coffee Chats
Foxtail Coffee - West Broad Village, 2240 Old Brick Rd, Glen Allen, VA, USUnwind after a long day with coffee, tea, gelato, and great conversation! Join us at Foxtail Coffee for a relaxed evening social where you can sip your favorite drink, treat yourself to something sweet, and connect with new friends in a cozy, welcoming setting.
Whether you’re winding down from work, looking to meet new people in RVA, or just love a good latte, this is the perfect low-key way to spend your evening. Come grab a cup, pull up a chair, and let’s chat!
This is a Special Event. All Trying to Adult RVA events require tickets or access passes, available exclusively through the Trying to Adult RVA website. Members can unlock free or discounted access passes depending on their membership tier. Non-members are welcome to join by purchasing an individual access pass. Spots must be claimed in advance, and you must have a ticket from the Trying to Adult RVA website to secure your place. RSVPing on any other platform does not guarantee your spot.
You can purchase your ticket here.
Parking: there is street parking in front and a free parking garage in the back!
16 attendees
Glass Blowing Class: Create Your Own Pumpkin
The Glass Spot, 2306 Lombardi Street Suite A, Richmond, VA, USOur first offering of this event sold out so fast so we added a second!
Get hands-on and experience the art of glass blowing! In this unique workshop, you’ll design and blow your very own glass pumpkin—just in time for fall. Choose your favorite colors, shape your piece, and work alongside expert instructors who will guide you step by step through the process.
✨ No experience needed—just bring your creativity!
🎨 Pick your own colors and style
👩🏫 Learn from skilled glassblowing artists
🎃 Take home a one-of-a-kind glass pumpkin
👯 Meet new friends in a fun, welcoming settingThis is the perfect blend of art, creativity, and community. Come make something beautiful (and make a few new friends while you’re at it)!
Tickets for this event are $47 for premium members and $52 for all other members. Space is limited to 12 people. Spots must be claimed in advance, and you must have a ticket from the Trying to Adult RVA website to secure your place. RSVPing on any other platform does not guarantee your spot.
You can claim your spot here.
Parking: there are a few spots out front and then additional street parking on side streets.
9 attendees
Spooky Lights Tour
Chopt Creative Salad Co. , 1601 Willow Lawn Dr, Richmond , VA, USHop aboard for a thrilling ride through Richmond to see the spookiest, creepiest, and zaniest Halloween light displays around! This is your chance to experience the biggest, most over-the-top decorations the city has to offer, all while relaxing on a festive BYOB bus tour.
What to Expect:
- A spooky tour of Richmond’s best Halloween lights and displays 🕸️👻
- BYOB – Bring your favorite beer, wine, cider, or seltzer (just no liquor or glass containers).
- No bathrooms on the bus, but we’ll make a pit stop for restroom breaks.
Other Important Info:
- Rain or shine, the tour goes on! 🌧️ You’ll still be able to enjoy the lights, even if it’s a little rainy.
- Gratuities for your driver aren’t required but are always appreciated!
This is a casual, spooky fun-filled night perfect for getting into the Halloween spirit. Grab your drinks, make some friends, and let's enjoy the ride! 🎃🚌
Tickets for this event are $30 for premium members and $38 for all other members. Space is limited to 14 people. Spots must be claimed in advance, and you must have a ticket from the Trying to Adult RVA website to secure your place. RSVPing on any other platform does not guarantee your spot.
You can claim your spot here.
Parking: we will meet at Libbie Mill Library. There is plenty of parking there! Please arrive on time. We will not wait for anyone late as it will take away from tour time for the group.
26 attendees
Sip & Paint
'Harry's At Hofheimer' , 'Harry's At Hofheimer' - 2818 W Broad St, Richmond, VA 23230, Richmond, VA, USUnleash your inner artist and join us for a relaxing evening at Harry’s at Hofheimer for a fun and creative Sip & Paint night!
This event offers the perfect mix of art, drinks, and good company — no experience required. All paint supplies are included, and you’ll get your own canvas to create your masterpiece. Whether you’re a first-time painter or a seasoned creative, this night is all about having fun and expressing yourself.
While you paint, enjoy delicious food and drinks available for purchase from Harry’s menu, featuring tasty appetizers, hearty dishes, and a full selection of alcoholic and non-alcoholic beverages to sip as you socialize.
Tickets for this event are $5 for premium members and $10 for all other members. Space is limited to 20 people. Spots must be claimed in advance, and you must have a ticket from the Trying to Adult RVA website to secure your place. RSVPing on any other platform does not guarantee your spot.
You can claim your spot here.
Parking: limited street parking in the area. Please allow extra time to find a spot or use ride share.
13 attendees
Past events
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