What we’re about
Are you in your 20s/30s and wondering how to make friends as an adult? Did you just move to Richmond, VA (RVA) and need new friends or things to do? Have you lived in RVA for a while but still would like to diversify your circle of friends? Are you single, engaged, married, or divorced and looking to meet other like-minded friends? Do you like food, beer, wine, cooking classes, games, outdoor activities, music, or anything fun and would rather go with friends?
If you answered yes to any of those questions, this group is for you! Trying to Adult RVA is a membership-based social group. It is open to anyone 21+, of any gender, that want to make friends.
Please ensure you review our rules and policies. We have participation, attendance, return/refund, and social media rules.
Please visit our FAQ page for common questions about our events, membership, tickets, and more!
Please visit our website for more information about Trying to Adult RVA.
Upcoming events
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Book Club at Brambly Park
Brambley Park, 1708 Belleville Street Richmond, VA 23230, Richmond, VA, USWe welcome you to join us for our monthly book club get-togethers. We will select one book each month and we ask that you read the book so we can discuss it. Be prepared for spoilers! Since we cancelled last month, we’ll be discussing “Water Moon” by Samantha Sotto Yambao in December. This book may be found as physical, digital, or audio copies at local libraries. You don't have to bring a copy of the book to our meeting.
“On a backstreet in Tokyo lies a pawnshop, but not everyone can find it. Most will see a cozy ramen restaurant. And only the chosen ones—those who are lost—will find a place to pawn their life choices and deepest regrets.
Hana Ishikawa wakes on her first morning as the pawnshop’s new owner to find it ransacked, the shop’s most precious acquisition stolen, and her father missing. And then into the shop stumbles a charming stranger, quite unlike its other customers, for he offers help instead of seeking it.
Together, they must journey through a mystical world to find Hana’s father and the stolen choice—by way of rain puddles, rides on paper cranes, the bridge between midnight and morning, and a night market in the clouds. But as they get closer to the truth, Hana must reveal a secret of her own—and risk making a choice that she will never be able to take back.”
We will choose the next month’s book at our meeting so come prepared to pitch your book of choice!
This is a Classic Event. All Trying to Adult RVA events require tickets or access passes, which can be secured through the Trying to Adult RVA website. Members can unlock free or discounted access passes depending on their membership tier. Non-members are welcome to join by purchasing an individual access pass. Spots must be claimed in advance, and you must have a ticket from the Trying to Adult RVA website to secure your place. RSVPing on any other platform does not guarantee your spot.
You can claim your spot here.
Parking: there is a parking lot on site with plenty of spots! When you arrive at the restaurant, let the host know you are with the Trying to Adult RVA group and they will let you know where we are seated.2 attendees
Ice Skating
Stony Point Fashion Park, 9200 Stony Point Parkway, Richmond, VA, USBundle up and come make new friends on the ice with Trying to Adult RVA! We’re heading to the Stony Point Ice Rink, a magical outdoor rink located in Triangle Park at Stony Point Fashion Park, right near Anthropologie.
Whether you’re a pro skater or you cling to the wall the whole time (we support both lifestyles), this is the perfect winter hangout. Glide, laugh, wobble, and meet awesome people in RVA who are also figuring out adulthood one fun event at a time.
What to expect:
✨ Ice skating with a friendly group
✨ A festive winter atmosphere
✨ Easy conversation and new friends
Grab your skates (or rent them there!) and join us for a cozy evening of winter vibes and community. Let’s make this a night to remember!
This is a Special Event. All Trying to Adult RVA events require tickets or access passes, available exclusively through the Trying to Adult RVA website. Members can unlock free or discounted access passes depending on their membership tier. Non-members are welcome to join by purchasing an individual access pass. Spots must be claimed in advance, and you must have a ticket from the Trying to Adult RVA website to secure your place. RSVPing on any other platform does not guarantee your spot.
There will be an additional skating fee paid on arrival to the Ice Rink.
You can claim your spot here.
Parking: there is plenty of parking and a large lot!10 attendees
Dinner at Frank’s Ristorante & Pizzeria
Frank's Ristorante & Pizzeria, 3054 Stony Point Rd, Richmond, VA, USJoin Trying to Adult RVA for a relaxed, delicious night out at Frank’s Ristorante & Pizzeria, a longtime local favorite for classic Italian comfort food. It’s the perfect spot to gather with new friends, unwind, and enjoy a truly satisfying meal.
At Frank’s, you can look forward to:
• Hand tossed pizzas straight from the oven
• Hearty pasta dishes packed with flavor
• Classic Italian entrees made with love
• Fresh salads and familiar appetizers that hit the spot
Everything is made with quality ingredients and that warm, welcoming touch you expect from a family style Italian restaurant.
Come for the food, stay for the company. Let’s share good conversation, great dishes, and a cozy evening together at Frank’s.
This is a Classic Event. All Trying to Adult RVA events require tickets or access passes, which can be secured through the Trying to Adult RVA website. Members can unlock free or discounted access passes depending on their membership tier. Non-members are welcome to join by purchasing an individual access pass. Spots must be claimed in advance, and you must have a ticket from the Trying to Adult RVA website to secure your place. RSVPing on any other platform does not guarantee your spot.
You can claim your spot here.
Parking: there is plenty of parking in the lot!6 attendees
Dinner at Lehja
Lehja Restaurant, 11800 W Broad St, Henrico, VA, USJoin Trying to Adult RVA for a delicious evening of authentic Indian cuisine at Lehja, one of Richmond’s most celebrated dining spots! Known for its bold flavors, modern twists, and stunning presentation, Lehja is the perfect place to gather, eat, and make new friends.
Get ready to enjoy:
✨ Rich, aromatic curries
✨ Fresh naan straight from the tandoor
✨ Vibrant vegetarian and vegan options
✨ Flavor-packed small plates and entrées inspired by regions across India
✨ A warm, stylish atmosphere in the heart of Short Pump
Whether you’re a longtime fan of Indian food or trying it for the first time, this dinner is all about great flavors and even better company.
Come hungry, come curious, and let’s enjoy a night at Lehja together!
This is a Classic Event. All Trying to Adult RVA events require tickets or access passes, which can be secured through the Trying to Adult RVA website. Members can unlock free or discounted access passes depending on their membership tier. Non-members are welcome to join by purchasing an individual access pass. Spots must be claimed in advance, and you must have a ticket from the Trying to Adult RVA website to secure your place. RSVPing on any other platform does not guarantee your spot.
You can claim your spot here.
Parking: there is a parking lot on site with plenty of spots!3 attendees
Past events
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