What we’re about
Are you in your 20s/30s and wondering how to make friends as an adult? Did you just move to Richmond, VA (RVA) and need new friends or things to do? Have you lived in RVA for a while but still would like to diversify your circle of friends? Are you single, engaged, married, or divorced and looking to meet other like-minded friends? Do you like food, beer, wine, cooking classes, games, outdoor activities, music, or anything fun and would rather go with friends?
If you answered yes to any of those questions, this group is for you! Trying to Adult RVA is a membership-based social group. It is open to anyone 21+, of any gender, that want to make friends.
Please ensure you review our rules and policies. We have participation, attendance, return/refund, and social media rules.
Please visit our FAQ page for common questions about our events, membership, tickets, and more!
Please visit our website for more information about Trying to Adult RVA.
Upcoming events
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Dinner at Lehja
Lehja Restaurant, 11800 W Broad St, Henrico, VA, USJoin Trying to Adult RVA for a delicious evening of authentic Indian cuisine at Lehja, one of Richmond’s most celebrated dining spots! Known for its bold flavors, modern twists, and stunning presentation, Lehja is the perfect place to gather, eat, and make new friends.
Get ready to enjoy:
✨ Rich, aromatic curries
✨ Fresh naan straight from the tandoor
✨ Vibrant vegetarian and vegan options
✨ Flavor-packed small plates and entrées inspired by regions across India
✨ A warm, stylish atmosphere in the heart of Short Pump
Whether you’re a longtime fan of Indian food or trying it for the first time, this dinner is all about great flavors and even better company.
Come hungry, come curious, and let’s enjoy a night at Lehja together!
This is a Classic Event. All Trying to Adult RVA events require tickets or access passes, which can be secured through the Trying to Adult RVA website. Members can unlock free or discounted access passes depending on their membership tier. Non-members are welcome to join by purchasing an individual access pass. Spots must be claimed in advance, and you must have a ticket from the Trying to Adult RVA website to secure your place. RSVPing on any other platform does not guarantee your spot.
You can claim your spot here.
Parking: there is a parking lot on site with plenty of spots!3 attendees
Holiday Ornament Exchange
'Harry's At Hofheimer', 'Harry's At Hofheimer' - 2818 W Broad St, Richmond, VA 23230, Richmond, VA, USGet into the holiday spirit with Trying to Adult RVA at our Holiday Ornament Exchange! Bring a wrapped ornament and leave with a new one—perfect for adding a little festive cheer to your home while meeting new friends.
This is more than just an exchange: you’ll mingle, make connections, and enjoy great conversation with fellow RVA friend. Drinks and food will be available, making it the perfect cozy, social holiday gathering.
Come ready to share the holiday cheer, make friends, and walk away with a surprise ornament (and maybe a few new connections too!).
This is a Special Event. All Trying to Adult RVA events require tickets or access passes, available exclusively through the Trying to Adult RVA website. Members can unlock free or discounted access passes depending on their membership tier. Non-members are welcome to join by purchasing an individual access pass. Spots must be claimed in advance, and you must have a ticket from the Trying to Adult RVA website to secure your place. RSVPing on any other platform does not guarantee your spot.
You can claim your spot here.
Parking: limited street parking in the area. Please allow extra time to find a spot!5 attendees
Holiday Cocktail Pop-Up
Casa Del Barco, 320 S. 11th Street, RIchmond, VA, USJoin us for a festive evening at Casa del Barco and get into the holiday spirit! Indulge in creative cocktails like the "Oaxacan Snowglobe," served with a mesmerizing smoke bubble garnish, and explore their incredible selection of over 100 tequilas.
This is a Special Event. All Trying to Adult RVA events require tickets or access passes, available exclusively through the Trying to Adult RVA website. Members can unlock free or discounted access passes depending on their membership tier. Non-members are welcome to join by purchasing an individual access pass. Spots must be claimed in advance, and you must have a ticket from the Trying to Adult RVA website to secure your place. RSVPing on any other platform does not guarantee your spot.
You can claim your spot here.
Parking: We will be at the Canal Walk location. Parking can be limited so allow extra time. There is parking at 1200 E Byrd Street (Reynolds lot), There is also parking at 8th & Cary Parking Deck, See signage and pay-to-park kiosk on-site16 attendees
Tacky Light Tour
Chopt Creative Salad Co., 1601 Willow Lawn Dr, Richmond, VA, US🎄✨ Don’t Miss Trying to Adult RVA’s Most Magical Event of the Year! ✨🎄
Get ready for the ultimate holiday adventure—the Tacky Light Tour! 🌟 This beloved Richmond tradition is back, and we’re taking it to the next level. Climb aboard a festive limo bus as we cruise through neighborhoods showcasing the most jaw-dropping, over-the-top holiday light displays you’ve ever seen. 🎅
From houses bursting with twinkling lights to dazzling decorations that defy imagination, these holiday homes pull out all the stops. It’s a night of pure joy, holiday spirit, and unforgettable memories. Grab your seat and join the fun—it’s going to be spectacular! 🥂🎶
The bus will pick us up in Willow Lawn, take us to some of the awesomely decorated houses, then return back to Willow Lawn. Some of the houses we will just drive by and some we will get out to visit. Drinks (including adult beverages) are allowed and so are snacks. However, please keep the bus clean and drink responsibly. Have a plan for after the tour if you plan to drink. Willow Lawn is an easy area to use the GRTC or ride share services. If you wish to drive, there is a large parking lot where we will be meeting which you can use.
Tickets for this event are $50 for premium members and $55 for all other members. Space is limited to 25 people. Spots must be claimed in advance, and you must have a ticket from the Trying to Adult RVA website to secure your place. RSVPing on any other platform does not guarantee your spot.
You can claim your spot here.
A small gratuity is included but if you want to bring some extra cash to tip our bus driver I'm sure it will be highly appreciated. I have requested Gary again as he is our favorite!!15 attendees
Past events
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