About us
Are you in your 20s/30s and wondering how to make friends as an adult? Did you just move to Richmond, VA (RVA) and need new friends or things to do? Have you lived in RVA for a while but still would like to diversify your circle of friends? Are you single, engaged, married, or divorced and looking to meet other like-minded friends? Do you like food, beer, wine, cooking classes, games, outdoor activities, music, or anything fun and would rather go with friends?
If you answered yes to any of those questions, this group is for you! Trying to Adult RVA is a membership-based social group. It is open to anyone 21+, of any gender, that want to make friends.
Please ensure you review our rules and policies. We have participation, attendance, return/refund, and social media rules.
Please visit our FAQ page for common questions about our events, membership, tickets, and more!
Please visit our website for more information about Trying to Adult RVA.
Upcoming events
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Taco Tuesday at Tres Machos
Tres Machos Cantina & Cocina, 4120 Cox Rd, Glen Allen, VA, USThe only plan: show up hungry and ready to have a good time. Tacos, margaritas, queso, burritos… order whatever you’re feeling and settle in for a fun, easy night with great people.
This is one of those no-pressure, come-as-you-are events. Whether you’re rolling in solo or bringing a friend, you’ll have a table to sit at and people to laugh with. It’s the kind of night where you can keep it chill, stay for one drink… or end up staying way longer than you planned because you’re having too much fun.
Good food, good drinks, and even better company. Come make some new friends! 🌮
This is a Special Event. All Trying to Adult RVA events require tickets or access passes, available exclusively through the Trying to Adult RVA website. Members can unlock free or discounted access passes depending on their membership tier. Non-members are welcome to join by purchasing an individual access pass.
Spots must be claimed in advance, and you must have a ticket from the Trying to Adult RVA website to secure your place. RSVPing on any other platform does not guarantee your spot.
You can claim your spot here.
Parking: there is a parking lot! Be sure you go to the Tres Machos in Glen Allen as there are a couple locations!
17 attendees
Sip, Shop, & Socialize
Fab'rik Carytown, 3004 W Cary St # A, Richmond, VA, USWe’re turning a shopping night into a whole experience.
Located in the heart of Carytown, fab'rik can be found on historical Cary St, home to hundreds of eclectic shops and restaurants. From everyday essentials to looks straight from the runway, fab'rik delivers high style with heart, no attitude or sticker shock.
Think:
Trying on outfits and getting real-time opinions
Mini fashion show moments in the store
Hype crew
New friends who gas you up
Champagne, treats, and a special discount just for usYou can come solo or with friends but either way you won’t stay strangers for long.
This isn’t about pressure to buy anything.
It’s about having fun, trying something new, and maybe walking out feeling like your best self.This is a Special Event. All Trying to Adult RVA events require tickets or access passes, available exclusively through the Trying to Adult RVA website. Members can unlock free or discounted access passes depending on their membership tier. Non-members are welcome to join by purchasing an individual access pass. Spots must be claimed in advance, and you must have a ticket from the Trying to Adult RVA website to secure your place. RSVPing on any other platform does not guarantee your spot.
You can claim your spot here.
Parking: street parking and some nearby paid lots.
7 attendees
Movie Club
Bar West, 5811 Grove Ave, Richmond, VA, USWe welcome you to join us for our monthly Movie Club get-togethers. We will select one film each month and ask that you watch the movie beforehand so we can dive into thoughtful discussion together. Be prepared for spoilers!
Our movie this month is “The Master” directed by Paul Thomas Anderson.
🗓 Date: April 26th
🕕 Time: 1:00 PM
📍 Location: Bar West“The Master” (2012) is a psychological drama directed by Paul Thomas Anderson, starring Joaquin Phoenix, Philip Seymour Hoffman, and Amy Adams, about a volatile WWII veteran who finds a new sense of purpose with a charismatic cult leader and his burgeoning religious movement in post-war America.
We’ll gather to talk about the film’s themes, visuals, and big ideas, and choose next month’s movie at the end of our meeting—so come prepared with your own film suggestions!
🎬 “The Master” is available to stream on Amazon Prime, or rent on major platforms (including Fandango and YouTube). You don’t need to bring anything but your thoughts, questions, and excitement.
This is a Classic Event. All Trying to Adult RVA events require tickets or access passes, which can be secured through the Trying to Adult RVA website. Members can unlock free or discounted access passes depending on their membership tier. Non-members are welcome to join by purchasing an individual access pass. Spots must be claimed in advance, and you must have a ticket from the Trying to Adult RVA website to secure your place. RSVPing on any other platform does not guarantee your spot.
You can claim your spot here.
Parking: a parking lot in the back, and street parking in the area.
4 attendees
Trivia Night at Buskey Cider
Buskey Cider, 2910 West Leigh Street, Richmond, VA, USPut your knowledge to the test and join us for a fun, low-pressure night of trivia at Buskey Cider.
Whether you’re a trivia pro or just here for the vibes, this is all about hanging out, meeting new people, and having a great time together. We’ll form teams at the start so you can come solo or with friends, and our host will guide us through a mix of questions across different categories.
Grab a cider (or two), settle in, and get ready for some friendly competition, laughs, and maybe even a win.What to expect:
- Team-based trivia (we’ll help you find a group!)
- A mix of fun and challenging questions
- Great cider and a laid-back atmosphere
- Plenty of time to socialize before, during, and after
Come for the trivia, stay for the connections.
This is a Classic Event. All Trying to Adult RVA events require tickets or access passes, which can be secured through the Trying to Adult RVA website. Members can unlock free or discounted access passes depending on their membership tier. Non-members are welcome to join by purchasing an individual access pass.
Spots must be claimed in advance, and you must have a ticket from the Trying to Adult RVA website to secure your place. RSVPing on any other platform does not guarantee your spot.
You can claim your spot here.
Parking: street parking!
9 attendees
Past events
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