What we’re about
Are you in your 20s/30s and wondering how to make friends as an adult? Did you just move to Richmond, VA (RVA) and need new friends or things to do? Have you lived in RVA for a while but still would like to diversify your circle of friends? Are you single, engaged, married, or divorced and looking to meet other like-minded friends? Do you like food, beer, wine, cooking classes, games, outdoor activities, music, or anything fun and would rather go with friends?
If you answered yes to any of those questions, this group is for you! Trying to Adult RVA is a membership-based social group. It is open to anyone 21+, of any gender, that want to make friends.
Please ensure you review our rules and policies. We have participation, attendance, return/refund, and social media rules.
Please visit our FAQ page for common questions about our events, membership, tickets, and more!
Please visit our website for more information about Trying to Adult RVA.
Upcoming events (4+)
See all- New Friend SocialStrangeways Brewing, Richmond, VA
Calling all newcomers to the Trying to Adult RVA community! Are you eager to meet new friends and expand your social circle? Join us for our monthly New Friend Social, an informal and friendly gathering designed to foster new friendships!
At this exciting event, you'll be greeted with an inclusive and welcoming environment where you can connect with fellow new members who share your enthusiasm for exploring the RVA area and making new friends. Whether you've recently moved to Richmond or are simply looking to expand your social network, this is the perfect opportunity to make lasting connections and build new friendships.
Our New Friend Leads and other Trying to Adult RVA leadership team volunteers who have attended multiple Trying to Adult RVA events will also join these socials and can provide guidance on other TTA events and happenings.
This event is free for members and non-members, however you will need to claim a ticket in order to attend as attendance is limited. If you can no longer attend after claiming a spot, please release your spot via the Trying to Adult RVA website so someone else can claim it. Last minute RSVP changes are hard to fill so please change your RSVP at least 24 hours in advance. Please make sure you read the group rules. We have a policy around no-shows!
You can claim a ticket and confirm your spot here.
Strangeways has a parking lot on site. Be sure you go to the Dabney Road location as there are other locations in Richmond.
- Saturday Night Fun at Capital Ale HouseCapital Ale House - West End, Glen Allen, VA
Looking for the perfect Saturday night plans? Join us at Capital Ale House for great vibes, an extensive tap list full of craft beers, delicious food, and the best part—meeting new friends!
Whether you’re here to try something new from the taps, share a meal, or just hang out with a welcoming crowd, this is the place to be. Bring a friend or come solo—either way, you’ll leave with new connections.
This is a Special Event. All Trying to Adult RVA events require tickets or access passes, available exclusively through the Trying to Adult RVA website. Members can unlock free or discounted access passes depending on their membership tier. Non-members are welcome to join by purchasing an individual access pass. Spots must be claimed in advance, and you must have a ticket from the Trying to Adult RVA website to secure your place. RSVPing on any other platform does not guarantee your spot.
Claim your spot here.
Parking: there is a parking lot on site.
- Brunch at The ReserveThe Reserve Restaurant & Bar at The Highlands, Richmond, VA
A classy take on your favorite weekend ritual.
Close out your weekend the right way—with good food, good vibes, and great company. Join us for a relaxed yet elevated Sunday brunch at The Reserve, where you'll find a welcoming space filled with friendly faces and conversation that flows as easily as the mimosas.
The buffet spread is no joke: we're talking a made-to-order omelet station, a build-your-own waffle bar, and a full lineup of brunch favorites that will have you going back for seconds (and thirds). Whether you’re in the mood to connect, recharge, or simply treat yourself, this brunch has you covered.
Come solo or bring a friend—our team will make sure you feel comfortable and connected. It’s everything you love about brunch, with a little extra TTA magic.
This is a Special Event. All Trying to Adult RVA events require tickets or access passes, available exclusively through the Trying to Adult RVA website. Members can unlock free or discounted access passes depending on their membership tier. Non-members are welcome to join by purchasing an individual access pass. Spots must be claimed in advance, and you must have a ticket from the Trying to Adult RVA website to secure your place. RSVPing on any other platform does not guarantee your spot.
You can claim your spot here.
Parking: there is a parking lot!
- Movie & Mingle: Showing “Wicked” at City StadiumRichmond City Stadium, Richmond, VA
It’s movie night and we are going to see the movie, “Wicked.”
Movie Summary: Elphaba, a young woman ridiculed for her green skin, and Galinda, a popular girl, become friends at Shiz University in the Land of Oz. After an encounter with the Wonderful Wizard of Oz, their friendship reaches a crossroads.
TIME of the movie is to at 7:00PM, doors open at 6PM. Please get your movie tickets at seatgeek.com or the city stadium website. You are responsible for purchasing your own movie ticket. Please arrive at the theater early to check in with us.
This is a Classic Event. All Trying to Adult RVA events require tickets or access passes, which can be secured through the Trying to Adult RVA website. Members can unlock free or discounted access passes depending on their membership tier. Non-members are welcome to join by purchasing an individual access pass. Spots must be claimed in advance, and you must have a ticket from the Trying to Adult RVA website to secure your place. RSVPing on any other platform does not guarantee your spot.
You can claim your spot with our group here.
Parking: There is a parking lot outside of the stadium for parking.
We may go to a nearby restaurant after the film for socializing for any who are interested.
