About us
Are you in your 20s/30s and wondering how to make friends as an adult? Did you just move to Richmond, VA (RVA) and need new friends or things to do? Have you lived in RVA for a while but still would like to diversify your circle of friends? Are you single, engaged, married, or divorced and looking to meet other like-minded friends? Do you like food, beer, wine, cooking classes, games, outdoor activities, music, or anything fun and would rather go with friends?
If you answered yes to any of those questions, this group is for you! Trying to Adult RVA is a membership-based social group. It is open to anyone 21+, of any gender, that want to make friends.
Please ensure you review our rules and policies. We have participation, attendance, return/refund, and social media rules.
Please visit our FAQ page for common questions about our events, membership, tickets, and more!
Please visit our website for more information about Trying to Adult RVA.
Upcoming events
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Permanent Jewelry & Charm Bar Social
Full Circle Permanent Jewelry, 3009 W Cary St, Richmond, VA, USJoin us for a special after-hours jewelry workshop where creativity, connection, and a little sparkle come together.
At this event, you can design jewelry exactly the way you want it. Choose from permanent jewelry that is custom fit and welded seamlessly for a clasp-free, effortless look, or create a removable piece if you prefer flexibility. The permanent jewelry process is quick, safe, and precise, giving you a perfectly fitted bracelet, anklet, or necklace made just for you.
You will also have access to the charm bar, where you can browse a wide selection of unique charms and build something that feels personal and meaningful. There are endless ways to make it your own.
There are also jewelry options for men!
Jewelry pricing starts at $25 and varies based on the style, chain, and charms you choose, with plenty of options at different price points.
This is more than just a jewelry workshop. It is a chance to treat yourself, make new friends, and enjoy a fun, relaxed night out in a welcoming setting.
This is a Special Event. All Trying to Adult RVA events require tickets or access passes, available exclusively through the Trying to Adult RVA website. Members can unlock free or discounted access passes depending on their membership tier. Non-members are welcome to join by purchasing an individual access pass. Spots must be claimed in advance, and you must have a ticket from the Trying to Adult RVA website to secure your place. RSVPing on any other platform does not guarantee your spot.
You can claim your spot here.
Parking: street parking in the immediate area but there are parking lots as well. There is a covered parking deck located at 18 S Colonial Ave, Richmond, VA 23221, just a short walk away.
7 attendees
Karaoke at Banditos
Bandito's Burrito Lounge, 2905 Patterson Ave, Richmond, VA, USGrab the mic, grab a margarita, and get ready for one of the most fun nights of the week. Karaoke at Banditos is all about letting loose, cheering each other on, and turning strangers into friends by the end of the night.
Come early to meet new friends and grab some food at 9:30 PM. Fuel up with Banditos favorites like tacos stacked with flavor, cheesy quesadillas, shareable nachos, and endless chips and salsa. Pair it with one of their bold margaritas, tequila-forward cocktails, or a cold beer and you are officially in the zone.
Karaoke kicks off at 10:30 PM, and you do not need to be a great singer to have a great time. This is a judgment-free zone where crowd favorites, guilty pleasure songs, and dramatic duets are strongly encouraged. Come solo or bring friends. You will find yourself singing along, hyping up performers, and bonding over song choices between rounds.
If you are looking for a fun, low-pressure way to meet people, laugh a lot, and maybe discover your karaoke alter ego, this is your sign. Come for the food and drinks. Stay for the songs, the energy, and the new friends.
This is a Classic Event. All Trying to Adult RVA events require tickets or access passes, which can be secured through the Trying to Adult RVA website. Members can unlock free or discounted access passes depending on their membership tier. Non-members are welcome to join by purchasing an individual access pass. Spots must be claimed in advance, and you must have a ticket from the Trying to Adult RVA website to secure your place. RSVPing on any other platform does not guarantee your spot.
You can claim your spot here.
Parking: small parking lot out front and nearby street parking.
3 attendees
Social at Triple Crossing Brewing
Triple Crossing Beer - Midlothian, 1101 Winterfield Crossing, Midlothian, VA, USMaking new friends as an adult doesn’t have to be awkward. Join Trying to Adult RVA for a casual, come-as-you-are social at Triple Crossing Brewing, a relaxed space that’s perfect for meeting new people and building real friendships.
This event is intentionally unstructured. No name tags, no forced icebreakers, no pressure. Just a friendly crowd, good drinks, and plenty of opportunities to strike up conversations and connect at your own pace. Everyone is there for the same reason: to make new friends.
Whether you’re new to Richmond or just looking to expand your circle, this is an easy way to get out of the house, meet welcoming people, and enjoy a laid-back evening together.
Grab a drink, pull up a chair, and meet your next new friend at Triple Crossing.
This is a Special Event. All Trying to Adult RVA events require tickets or access passes, available exclusively through the Trying to Adult RVA website. Members can unlock free or discounted access passes depending on their membership tier. Non-members are welcome to join by purchasing an individual access pass. Spots must be claimed in advance, and you must have a ticket from the Trying to Adult RVA website to secure your place. RSVPing on any other platform does not guarantee your spot.
You can claim your spot here.
Parking: there is a parking on site! Be sure you go to the Midlothian location.
26 attendees
Movie Club
Bar West, 5811 Grove Ave, Richmond, VA, USWe welcome you to join us for our monthly Movie Club get-togethers. We will select one film each month and ask that you watch the movie beforehand so we can dive into thoughtful discussion together. Be prepared for spoilers!
Our movie this month is “Her” directed by Spike Jonze.
🗓 Date: February 22nd
🕕 Time: 1:00 PM
📍 Location: Bar West“Her” is a 2013 film by Spike Jonze about the a sensitive and soulful man who earns a living by writing personal letters for other people. Left heartbroken after his marriage ends, Theodore (Joaquin Phoenix) becomes fascinated with a new operating system which reportedly develops into an intuitive and unique entity in its own right. He starts the program and meets "Samantha" (Scarlett Johansson), whose bright voice reveals a sensitive, playful personality. Though "friends" initially, the relationship soon deepens into love.
We’ll gather to talk about the film’s themes, visuals, and big ideas, and choose next month’s movie at the end of our meeting—so come prepared with your own film suggestions!
🎬 “Her” is available to stream or rent on major platforms (including Prime andd YouTube). You don’t need to bring anything but your thoughts, questions, and excitement.
This is a Classic Event. All Trying to Adult RVA events require tickets or access passes, which can be secured through the Trying to Adult RVA website. Members can unlock free or discounted access passes depending on their membership tier. Non-members are welcome to join by purchasing an individual access pass. Spots must be claimed in advance, and you must have a ticket from the Trying to Adult RVA website to secure your place. RSVPing on any other platform does not guarantee your spot.
You can claim your spot here.
Parking: mostly street parking in this area.
4 attendees
Past events
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