What we’re about
Are you in your 20s/30s and wondering how to make friends as an adult? Did you just move to Richmond, VA (RVA) and need new friends or things to do? Have you lived in RVA for a while but still would like to diversify your circle of friends? Are you single, engaged, married, or divorced and looking to meet other like-minded friends? Do you like food, beer, wine, cooking classes, games, outdoor activities, music, or anything fun and would rather go with friends?
If you answered yes to any of those questions, this group is for you! Trying to Adult RVA is a membership-based social group. It is open to anyone 21+, of any gender, that want to make friends.
Please ensure you review our rules and policies. We have participation, attendance, return/refund, and social media rules.
Please visit our FAQ page for common questions about our events, membership, tickets, and more!
Please visit our website for more information about Trying to Adult RVA.
Upcoming events (4+)
See all- Trivia at Bingo BeerBingo beer Company, Richmond, VA
Join us at Bingo Beer Co for an evening of fun and friendship! Kick off the night with food and drinks then trivia, where you can challenge your knowledge and team up with old friends or make new ones.
Bingo Beer offers a variety of food and drinks, as well as an arcade full of games. Come join us for a drink and some trivia! Don't miss out on this fantastic opportunity to connect, compete, and potentially claim victory!
**This is a members only event** Memberships start at $5/month and can be cancelled or paused at any time! We would love for you to join us.
Space is limited to 16 people. Spots are first claimed first confirmed. All attendees must have a confirmed ticket to attend.You can claim your spot here.
Once all spots are claimed and the event is sold out, those without a ticket will be moved to the waitlist on Meetup.
Parking: there is a small parking lot on site. If full, there is street parking in the area. Parking may be limited so please allow extra time.
- Rooftop Social at The HofThe Hof Garden, Richmond, VA
Join us for an unforgettable evening at one of Richmond’s best rooftop spots—The HofGarden! Mingle with new faces, catch up with friends, and take in the skyline views while sipping your favorite drinks.
Whether you’re new in town or just looking to expand your circle, this casual social is all about good vibes, great people, and laid-back fun. No pressure, no awkward small talk—just a welcoming space to be yourself and connect with others.
This event is for Trying to Adult RVA members. Memberships start at $5/month and can be cancelled or paused at any time! We would love for you to join us.
This event is free for premium members and $5 for members. Space is limited to 30 people. Spots are first claimed first confirmed. All attendees must have a confirmed ticket to attend.
You can claim your spot here.
Parking: limited street parking in the area. Please allow extra time to find a spot or use ride share.
- Flying Squirrels GameThe Diamond, Richmond, VA$30.00
We've got the Party Deck secured again this year! The Party Deck provides optimal viewing of the game, seating with table tops, and premium access to snack vendors. We will all be seated together and have the Party Deck to ourselves. There will also be fireworks following the game.
The game starts at 6:05PM but you can arrive as early as 5:00PM. Come whenever you like. We will announce information about ticket pick up as the date approaches.
This event is for Trying to Adult RVA members. Memberships start at $5/month and can be cancelled or paused at any time! We would love for you to join us.
Price to join is $27 for premium members and $30 for everyone else. Spots are first purchased first confirmed. Space is limited to 24.
Tickets available to Premium Members on April 6th
Tickets available to all on April 9thYou must purchase your ticket via the Trying to Adult website in order to have a guaranteed spot. You can purchase your ticket here!
Once you receive a confirmation email from the Trying to Adult RVA website, confirming your purchase, you are good to go. Your "unpaid" status on Meetup will not be updated until the week of the event.
Once all spots are claimed and the event is sold out, those unpaid will be moved to the waitlist on Meetup.
The Diamond provides a variety of easy, in-and-out parking areas for fans entering off Arthur Ashe Boulevard, Hermitage Road and Robin Hood Road. Bike racks are also available at the Squirrelly Gates for fans who chose to cycle to the stadium. Additionally, those arriving via ride-share can be dropped off and picked up in the Lyft Red Lot. Don't feel like fighting traffic? Take the GRTC Pulse!
Parking at The Diamond is $8 per car and credit/debit card only. Please allow extra time when arriving.
- New Friend SocialRichbrau Brewing, Richmond, VA
**This event is open to members AND non-members**
Calling all newcomers to the Trying to Adult RVA community! Are you eager to meet new friends and expand your social circle? Join us for our monthly New Friend Social, an informal and friendly gathering designed exclusively for those who have attended three or fewer "Trying to Adult RVA" events.
At this exciting event, you'll be greeted with an inclusive and welcoming environment where you can connect with fellow new members who share your enthusiasm for exploring the RVA area and making new friends. Whether you've recently moved to Richmond or are simply looking to expand your social network, this is the perfect opportunity to make lasting connections and build new friendships.
Our New Friend Leads and other Trying to Adult RVA leadership team volunteers who have attended multiple Trying to Adult RVA events will also join these socials and can provide guidance on other TTA events and happenings.
Please Note: To ensure a comfortable environment for all participants, this event is exclusively for those who have attended three or fewer Trying to Adult RVA events. If you meet this criteria, we welcome you and look forward to helping you forge meaningful connections.
This is a free event, however you will need to claim a ticket in order to attend as attendance is limited. If you can no longer attend after claiming a spot, please let the event host know via a message or comment. Last minute RSVP changes are hard to fill so please change your RSVP and notify us at least 24 hours in advance. Please make sure you read the group rules. We have a policy around no-shows!
You can claim a ticket and confirm your spot here.
Parking can be a little tricky in Shockoe Bottom. There is usually street parking on Cary Street or East Main Street. Please be sure to abide by posted signage.
