What we’re about
Are you in your 20s/30s and wondering how to make friends as an adult? Did you just move to Richmond, VA (RVA) and need new friends or things to do? Have you lived in RVA for a while but still would like to diversify your circle of friends? Are you single, engaged, married, or divorced and looking to meet other like-minded friends? Do you like food, beer, wine, cooking classes, games, outdoor activities, music, or anything fun and would rather go with friends?
If you answered yes to any of those questions, this group is for you! Trying to Adult RVA is a membership-based social group. It is open to anyone 21+, of any gender, that want to make friends.
Please ensure you review our rules and policies. We have participation, attendance, return/refund, and social media rules.
Please visit our FAQ page for common questions about our events, membership, tickets, and more!
Please visit our website for more information about Trying to Adult RVA.
Upcoming events (4+)
See all- Dinner at GersiGERSI RVA , Richmond , VA
Join us for an exquisite evening at Gersi RVA, the sister location to the renowned Gersi in Brooklyn, NY. Indulge in upscale Italian cuisine crafted with the finest ingredients, paired perfectly with selections from their extensive wine list. Whether you’re a foodie, a wine enthusiast, or just looking to enjoy a memorable meal with great company, this is the perfect event for you.
Experience the warm, inviting atmosphere of Gersi while connecting with friends. It’s the ideal setting for a sophisticated night out in Richmond.
This is a Special Event. All Trying to Adult RVA events require tickets or access passes, available exclusively through the Trying to Adult RVA website. Members can unlock free or discounted access passes depending on their membership tier. Non-members are welcome to join by purchasing an individual access pass. Spots must be claimed in advance, and you must have a ticket from the Trying to Adult RVA website to secure your place. RSVPing on any other platform does not guarantee your spot.
You can claim your spot here.
Parking: street parking directly around the restaurant please plan for additional tine to find a spot!
- Afternoon StrollMaymont Park, Richmond, VA
Take a break from the hustle and enjoy a relaxed afternoon stroll through the beautiful grounds of Maymont Park! 🌳🐢
We’re teaming up with Turtle Stroll RVA for a co-ed walk where you’ll get the chance to enjoy fresh air, explore scenic views, and meet new friends along the way. Whether you come solo or with a buddy, it’s a fun and easy way to connect with others in a low-pressure setting.
This event is weather permitting. If conditions aren’t looking good, the stroll may be cancelled. We’ll keep you updated and make the call at least one hour before the event.
This event is free for members and non-members! Please claim a ticket on our website so we know who to expect to join us.
You can claim a ticket and confirm your spot here.
Parking: there is a parking lot! We will share specifics of meeting spot closer to the event date.
- Fireside Friends – A Laid-Back Fall SocialBingo Beer Company, Richmond, VA
Fall is almost here, and we’re kicking things off with a cozy outdoor hangout! Join us for a relaxed evening with fire pits, good drinks, tasty snacks, and even better company.
Whether you're new to RVA or just looking to expand your circle, this laid-back social is the perfect chance to make new friends and enjoy the changing seasons together.
🔥 Fire pits to keep things toasty
🍹 Drinks and snacks available for purchase
🤝 Chill vibes + friendly faces guaranteedCome as you are—no pressure, just good convo and crisp fall air. 🍁
This is a Special Event. All Trying to Adult RVA events require tickets or access passes, available exclusively through the Trying to Adult RVA website. Members can unlock free or discounted access passes depending on their membership tier. Non-members are welcome to join by purchasing an individual access pass. Spots must be claimed in advance, and you must have a ticket from the Trying to Adult RVA website to secure your place. RSVPing on any other platform does not guarantee your spot.
You can purchase your ticket here.
Parking is pretty limited in this area. There is a small parking lot on site and street parking. Ride share or the GRTC bus are always options too!
- Acoustic Vibes + WineJames River Cellars Winery, Glen Allen, VA
We’re bringing together wine, music, and friends for the perfect relaxed weekend vibe. Treat yourself to a wine flight, sip on a frozen slushie, or share a bottle with friends while enjoying the sounds of Katie Conner performing live with her acoustic style. 🎶✨
Settle in on the lawn with your own chair or blanket, or find a spot under the pavilion with seating provided. Whether you’re looking to unwind, meet new people, or just enjoy the outdoors with a glass in hand, this is the casual Sunday reset you’ve been waiting for. 🍇💛
This is a Special Event. All Trying to Adult RVA events require tickets or access passes, available exclusively through the Trying to Adult RVA website. Members can unlock free or discounted access passes depending on their membership tier. Non-members are welcome to join by purchasing an individual access pass. Spots must be claimed in advance, and you must have a ticket from the Trying to Adult RVA website to secure your place. RSVPing on any other platform does not guarantee your spot.
You can claim your spot here.
Parking: there is a parking lot on site!
