Trying to Adult RVA

Slow down and soak in the beauty of summer with an evening escape to the flower fields—just outside the city but a world away. 🌾✨

We’ll start with the highlight of the night: picking your own flowers straight from the fields. Wander through rows of blooms, build your own bouquet, and capture golden hour photos among the flowers. You can bring your own bucket or vase to keep them fresh with water, or have the farm wrap them up to take home.

After your bouquet is ready, the evening is yours to enjoy at your own pace:
🧺 Bring a lawn chair and relax with the Trying to Adult crew
🎲 Play a few yard games or just kick back with good company
🎣 Try your hand at fishing (BYO gear if you’d like!)
🛍️ Browse the Farmers Market featuring local artisans, farmers, bakers, and food trucks—every purchase goes directly to the vendors
🍽️ Bring a cooler or picnic and enjoy dinner farm-side as the sun sets

💡 What to Bring:
✔ Lawn chair or picnic blanket
✔ Bucket or vase (optional) for flowers
✔ Cash or card for market vendors
✔ Fishing gear (optional)
✔ Snacks, drinks, or a picnic dinner
✔ Bug spray, just in case

This is a slow, beautiful night on the farm with low pressure, high vibes, and plenty of ways to connect. Whether you’re coming for the flowers, the shopping, or just the chill company—we’d love to have you.

This event is for Trying to Adult RVA members. Memberships start at $5/month and can be cancelled or paused at any time! We would love for you to join us. All attendees must have a confirmed ticket to attend.

Tacos for breakfast? Yes, please.

Join us at Parlay for a laid-back brunch where the vibes are fun and the flavors are bold. Their casual, come-as-you-are energy is perfect for kicking off your weekend with new friends and great food. The menu features everything from savory breakfast tacos and shareable breakfast pizzas to bubbly mimosas and breakfast shots that keep the conversation flowing.

Whether you're coming solo or with a friend, we'll help break the ice and make sure you're seated with other friendly faces. Soak up the sun on the patio or stay cool inside while you snack, sip, and socialize.

This event is for Trying to Adult RVA members. Memberships start at $5/month and can be cancelled or paused at any time! We would love for you to join us. Space is limited to 16 people. Spots are first claimed first confirmed. All attendees must have a confirmed ticket to attend.

Join us for a heartwarming evening of connection and cuisine at Perla Italian Restaurant, a hidden gem known for its authentic Italian dishes and welcoming ambiance. Perla is more than just a place to eat — it’s a place to gather, to share stories over a plate of pasta, and to experience the joy of slowing down and savoring the moment.

From the moment you walk through the door, you'll be greeted like family. The space is intimate and inviting, the kind of place where conversations flow as easily as the wine, and where the scent of garlic and fresh herbs fills the air. Whether you're coming with a friend or stepping outside your comfort zone to attend solo, you’ll be surrounded by others who are here for the same reason — to enjoy a beautiful meal and connect with kind, interesting people.

This event is for Trying to Adult RVA members. Memberships start at $5/month and can be cancelled or paused at any time! We would love for you to join us. Space is limited to 20 people. Spots are first claimed first confirmed. All attendees must have a confirmed ticket to attend.

Join us for an enchanting afternoon of tarot readings, crystal energy, and good wine—all in the peaceful, scenic setting of Jolene Family Winery.

Whether you're deep into your spiritual journey or just love a good excuse to sip wine and connect, this event invites you to relax, explore, and make meaningful new connections.

✨ Here’s what the afternoon includes:
🔮 Tarot readings to gain insight or clarity
💎 A thoughtful crystal shopping experience with a local expert to help you find the stones that resonate with your energy
🍷 Delicious wines available for purchase from the beautiful Jolene tasting room
🌿 Plenty of space to mingle, unwind, and meet other open-minded, kind people

Come solo or with a friend—this event is all about building community while enjoying soulful conversation, intentional moments, and a little magic.

This event is open to Trying to Adult RVA members AND non-members!

Memberships start at $5/month and can be cancelled or paused at any time! We would love for you to join us.

This event is free to attend for all members and is $5 for non-members. Space is limited to 80 people. Spots are first claimed first confirmed. All attendees must have a confirmed ticket to attend.