What we’re about
Are you in your 20s/30s and wondering how to make friends as an adult? Did you just move to Richmond, VA (RVA) and need new friends or things to do? Have you lived in RVA for a while but still would like to diversify your circle of friends? Are you single, engaged, married, or divorced and looking to meet other like-minded friends? Do you like food, beer, wine, cooking classes, games, outdoor activities, music, or anything fun and would rather go with friends?
If you answered yes to any of those questions, this group is for you! Trying to Adult RVA is a membership-based social group. It is open to anyone 21+, of any gender, that want to make friends.
Please ensure you review our rules and policies. We have participation, attendance, return/refund, and social media rules.
Please visit our FAQ page for common questions about our events, membership, tickets, and more!
Please visit our website for more information about Trying to Adult RVA.
Upcoming events (4+)
See all- Game Night at UnpluggedUnplugged Games Cafe, Midlothian, VA
Game night! Unplugged Games Cafe is a fun spot in Richmond to eat & play. We have space reserved for our group for the evening.
They have a huge (930 to be exact) game library to choose from including board games, card games, dexterity games, and trivia. They will work to provide guests with opportunities to play role playing games as well. Their board game selection features nostalgic childhood & family favorites, "new classics," and brand new releases from today's top publishers.
If you want to check the list for a specific game you are hoping to see, here is a link to their game library.
Don't fear if you don't regularly play games. The Unplugged staff members are ready to help with set up, clean up, and everything in between. Just ask if you need help choosing a game, learning the rules, or have any other questions about how to play.
They have food available for purchase which you can purchase on your own. You will also be responsible for the cost of a daily play pass when you arrive ($8)
**This is a members only event** Memberships start at $5/month and can be cancelled or paused at any time! We would love for you to join us.
Space is limited to 20 people. Spots are first claimed first confirmed. All attendees must have a confirmed ticket to attend.Tickets available to Premium Members on April 17th
Tickets available to all on April 19thYou can claim your spot here.
There is a parking lot, so no fear to all of our anti-parallel parkers!
- Beer, Bites, and New Friends at Capital Ale HouseCapital Ale House Innsbrook, Richmond, VA
Ready for a night that’s equal parts flavor, fun, and friendship? Join us at Capital Ale House for an evening that brings people together over mouthwatering bites and top-notch brews. Whether you’re a craft beer connoisseur, a food lover, or just looking for a chill place to hang out and meet new people, this event is for you.
We’ll kick things off with casual mingling over a wide selection of local and international beers, plus a menu packed with hearty favorites. From pretzels and wings to burgers and beyond, there’s something for every craving. 🍔🍟
Don’t worry if you’re coming solo — most people do! It’s the perfect weekend kickoff!
This event is for Trying to Adult RVA members. Memberships start at $5/month and can be cancelled or paused at any time! We would love for you to join us. Space is limited to 15 people. Spots are first claimed first confirmed. All attendees must have a confirmed ticket to attend.
You can claim your spot here.
Parking: there's a large parking lot with tons of spots! This is the Innsbrook location! Make sure you go to the right place.
- Garden Picnic & Concert at Agecroft HallAgecroft Hall , Richmond, VA
Celebrate spring with a day of music, gardens, and delicious local treats at Agecroft Hall’s Garden Day! Pack your favorite picnic blanket and join us for a relaxing afternoon surrounded by beauty, good food, and great company.
🎶 Special highlight: Enjoy a live performance by the Richmond Concert Band, presenting this year's theme: "Songs Without Words." You'll hear a lively selection of popular tunes — from movie soundtracks to Top 40 hits and light classics — all beloved even without lyrics. It’s the perfect soundtrack for a perfect day outdoors!
🍦 While you're here, treat yourself to something tasty:
- Jiji Frozen Custard Truck serving up delicious, creamy frozen custard
- Gimme Pound offering fresh, tasty baked treats
- DuCard Vineyards pouring glasses or bottles of chilled Bordeaux-style Rosé from Madison County
- S&N Juice Fountain providing refreshing cold-pressed juices to keep you cool
Bring your own picnic basket, grab a glass of wine or a sweet snack (or all three!), and find your perfect spot on the lawn with us.
Don’t forget:
- Bring a blanket or lawn chairs for the concert
- Come hungry and ready to enjoy some amazing local vendors
Spend the evening strolling through blooming gardens, savoring local flavors, and soaking up the sounds of a truly unique concert experience. 🌷🎶 We can't wait to see you there!
This event is for Trying to Adult RVA members. Memberships start at $5/month and can be cancelled or paused at any time! We would love for you to join us. All attendees must have a confirmed ticket to attend.
You can claim your spot here.
Parking: there's a parking lot on site!
- Dinner at UlivetoUliveto, Richmond, VA
Let’s gather around the table for a night of good food and even better company! ✨
Join Trying to Adult RVA for a laid-back dinner at Uliveto, a cozy Italian spot where the menu is inspired by the Mediterranean recipes passed down through Gersi’s family. Think fresh pastas, wood-fired pizzas, and classic flavors made with love.
Whether you're new to Richmond or just looking to meet some genuinely great people, this is the perfect setting to enjoy a relaxed evening with friendly vibes.
👫 What to Expect:
- A come-as-you-are atmosphere—solo attendees always welcome
- Group seating for easy conversation
- Full menu available for purchase—come hungry and ready to try something new!
This dinner is all about community, connection, and comfort food. Come for the pasta, stay for the people. 🍷💛
This event is for Trying to Adult RVA members. Memberships start at $5/month and can be cancelled or paused at any time! We would love for you to join us. Space is limited to 15 people. Spots are first claimed first confirmed. All attendees must have a confirmed ticket to attend.
You can claim your spot here.
Parking: street parking in the area.
