What we’re about
Are you in your 20s/30s and wondering how to make friends as an adult? Did you just move to Richmond, VA (RVA) and need new friends or things to do? Have you lived in RVA for a while but still would like to diversify your circle of friends? Are you single, engaged, married, or divorced and looking to meet other like-minded friends? Do you like food, beer, wine, cooking classes, games, outdoor activities, music, or anything fun and would rather go with friends?
If you answered yes to any of those questions, this group is for you! Trying to Adult RVA is a membership-based social group. It is open to anyone 21+, of any gender, that want to make friends.
Please ensure you review our rules and policies. We have participation, attendance, return/refund, and social media rules.
Please visit our FAQ page for common questions about our events, membership, tickets, and more!
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Upcoming events (4+)
See all- Book Club at Brambly ParkBrambly Park, Richmond, VA
We welcome you to join us for our monthly book club get-togethers. We will select one book each month and we ask that you read the book so we can discuss it. Be prepared for spoilers!
Our book this month is “Babel” by R. F. Kuang. This book may be found as physical, digital, or audio copies at local libraries and on Kindle Unlimited. You don't have to bring a copy of the book to our meeting.
“1828. Robin Swift, orphaned by cholera in Canton, is brought to London by the mysterious Professor Lovell. There, he trains for years in Latin, Ancient Greek, and Chinese, all in preparation for the day he’ll enroll in Oxford University’s prestigious Royal Institute of Translation—also known as Babel.
Babel is the world's center for translation and, more importantly, magic. Silver working—the art of manifesting the meaning lost in translation using enchanted silver bars—has made the British unparalleled in power, as its knowledge serves the Empire’s quest for colonization.
For Robin, Oxford is a utopia dedicated to the pursuit of knowledge. But knowledge obeys power, and as a Chinese boy raised in Britain, Robin realizes serving Babel means betraying his motherland. As his studies progress, Robin finds himself caught between Babel and the shadowy Hermes Society, an organization dedicated to stopping imperial expansion. When Britain pursues an unjust war with China over silver and opium, Robin must decide…”
We will choose the next month’s book at our meeting so come prepared to pitch your book of choice!
This event is for Trying to Adult RVA members. Memberships start at $5/month and can be cancelled or paused at any time! We would love for you to join us. Space is limited to 20 people. Spots are first claimed first confirmed. All attendees must have a confirmed ticket to attend.
You can claim your spot here.
Parking: there is a parking lot on site with plenty of spots! When you arrive at the restaurant, let the host know you are with the Trying to Adult RVA group and they will let you know where we are seated.
- Sunday Funday at Legend BrewingLegend Brewing Co, Richmond, VA
Join us for a laid-back afternoon with big views, chill vibes, and even better company at Legend Brewing, one of RVA’s most iconic spots!
We’re taking over the patio for a Sunday Funday filled with good food, cold drinks, and easygoing conversation. Whether you’re new to Trying to Adult RVA or a regular, this is the perfect event to catch up with friends and make a few new ones.
And no worries if the weather doesn’t cooperate—we’ll head inside and keep the good times rolling!
Come solo or bring a friend—either way, you’ll leave with good memories (and maybe a few new group chat additions 😄).
This event is for Trying to Adult RVA members. Memberships start at $5/month and can be cancelled or paused at any time! We would love for you to join us. Space is limited to 20 people. Spots are first claimed first confirmed. All attendees must have a confirmed ticket to attend.
You can claim your spot here.
Tickets available to Premium Members on April 6th
Tickets available to all on April 9thParking: there is a small parking lot and street parking around the area.
- Game Night at UnpluggedUnplugged Games Cafe, Midlothian, VA
Game night! Unplugged Games Cafe is a fun spot in Richmond to eat & play. We have space reserved for our group for the evening.
They have a huge (930 to be exact) game library to choose from including board games, card games, dexterity games, and trivia. They will work to provide guests with opportunities to play role playing games as well. Their board game selection features nostalgic childhood & family favorites, "new classics," and brand new releases from today's top publishers.
If you want to check the list for a specific game you are hoping to see, here is a link to their game library.
Don't fear if you don't regularly play games. The Unplugged staff members are ready to help with set up, clean up, and everything in between. Just ask if you need help choosing a game, learning the rules, or have any other questions about how to play.
They have food available for purchase which you can purchase on your own. You will also be responsible for the cost of a daily play pass when you arrive ($8)
**This is a members only event** Memberships start at $5/month and can be cancelled or paused at any time! We would love for you to join us.
Space is limited to 20 people. Spots are first claimed first confirmed. All attendees must have a confirmed ticket to attend.Tickets available to Premium Members on April 17th
Tickets available to all on April 19thYou can claim your spot here.
There is a parking lot, so no fear to all of our anti-parallel parkers!
- Beer, Bites, and New Friends at Capital Ale HouseCapital Ale House Innsbrook, Richmond, VA
Ready for a night that’s equal parts flavor, fun, and friendship? Join us at Capital Ale House for an evening that brings people together over mouthwatering bites and top-notch brews. Whether you’re a craft beer connoisseur, a food lover, or just looking for a chill place to hang out and meet new people, this event is for you.
We’ll kick things off with casual mingling over a wide selection of local and international beers, plus a menu packed with hearty favorites. From pretzels and wings to burgers and beyond, there’s something for every craving. 🍔🍟
Don’t worry if you’re coming solo — most people do! It’s the perfect weekend kickoff!
This event is for Trying to Adult RVA members. Memberships start at $5/month and can be cancelled or paused at any time! We would love for you to join us. Space is limited to 15 people. Spots are first claimed first confirmed. All attendees must have a confirmed ticket to attend.
You can claim your spot here.
Parking: there's a large parking lot with tons of spots! This is the Innsbrook location! Make sure you go to the right place.
