What weāre about
Are you in your 20s/30s and wondering how to make friends as an adult? Did you just move to Richmond, VA (RVA) and need new friends or things to do? Have you lived in RVA for a while but still would like to diversify your circle of friends? Are you single, engaged, married, or divorced and looking to meet other like-minded friends? Do you like food, beer, wine, cooking classes, games, outdoor activities, music, or anything fun and would rather go with friends?
If you answered yes to any of those questions, this group is for you! Trying to Adult RVA is a membership-based social group. It is open to anyone 21+, of any gender, that want to make friends.
Please ensure you review our rules and policies. We have participation, attendance, return/refund, and social media rules.
Please visit our FAQ page for common questions about our events, membership, tickets, and more!
Please visit our website for more information about Trying to Adult RVA.
Upcoming events (4+)
See all- Country Line DancingHuddle Up Restaurant Sports Bar, Ashland , VA
Get ready for a fun-filled night of dancing, socializing, and great vibes! Whether you're a seasoned dancer or a total beginner, this event is the perfect way to meet new people, learn some moves, and have a blast.
### š„ What to Expect:
š¢ 7:30 PM ā Hang out & make new friends ā Grab a drink, play some pool, and get to know everyone!
š 8:30 PM ā Free Line Dancing Lesson ā Perfect for beginners or anyone looking to pick up new moves!
š¶ Dance the night away! ā Stick around after the lesson to show off your steps and have fun on the dance floor!
š¹ Food & drinks available ā Enjoy great bites and refreshing drinks while you mingle!
š± Pool tables open ā Take a break from dancing and challenge someone to a game!Throw on your boots and come ready for a high-energy night of dancing and socializing. See yāall there! š¤ š¶
This event is for Trying to Adult RVA members. Memberships start at $5/month and can be cancelled or paused at any time! We would love for you to join us. Space is limited to 40 people. Spots are first claimed first confirmed. All attendees must have a confirmed ticket to attend.
You can claim your spot here.
Parking: there is a large parking lot on site!
- Flying Squirrels GameThe Diamond, Richmond, VA
We've got the Party Deck secured again! The Party Deck provides optimal viewing of the game, seating with table tops, and premium access to snack vendors. We will all be seated together and have the Party Deck to ourselves. There will also be fireworks following the game.
The game starts at 6:05PM but you can arrive as early as 5:00PM. Come whenever you like. We will announce information about ticket pick up as the date approaches.
This event is open to members and non-members.
Price to join is $27 for premium members and $30 for members and $33 for non-members. Spots are first purchased first confirmed. Space is limited to 24.
You must purchase your ticket via the Trying to Adult website in order to have a guaranteed spot. You can purchase your ticket here!
Once all spots are claimed and the event is sold out, those unpaid will be moved to the waitlist on Meetup.
The Diamond provides a variety of easy, in-and-out parking areas for fans entering off Arthur Ashe Boulevard, Hermitage Road and Robin Hood Road. Bike racks are also available at the Squirrelly Gates for fans who chose to cycle to the stadium. Additionally, those arriving via ride-share can be dropped off and picked up in the Lyft Red Lot. Don't feel like fighting traffic? Take the GRTC Pulse!
Parking at The Diamond is $8 per car and credit/debit card only. Please allow extra time when arriving.
- New Friend SocialStrangeways Brewing, Richmond, VA
Calling all newcomers to the Trying to Adult RVA community! Are you eager to meet new friends and expand your social circle? Join us for our monthly New Friend Social, an informal and friendly gathering designed to foster new friendships!
At this exciting event, you'll be greeted with an inclusive and welcoming environment where you can connect with fellow new members who share your enthusiasm for exploring the RVA area and making new friends. Whether you've recently moved to Richmond or are simply looking to expand your social network, this is the perfect opportunity to make lasting connections and build new friendships.
Our New Friend Leads and other Trying to Adult RVA leadership team volunteers who have attended multiple Trying to Adult RVA events will also join these socials and can provide guidance on other TTA events and happenings.
This event is free for members and non-members, however you will need to claim a ticket in order to attend as attendance is limited. If you can no longer attend after claiming a spot, please release your spot via the Trying to Adult RVA website so someone else can claim it. Last minute RSVP changes are hard to fill so please change your RSVP at least 24 hours in advance. Please make sure you read the group rules. We have a policy around no-shows!
You can claim a ticket and confirm your spot here.
Strangeways has a parking lot on site. Be sure you go to the Dabney Road location as there are other locations in Richmond.
- Saturday Night Fun at Capital Ale HouseCapital Ale House - West End, Glen Allen, VA
Looking for the perfect Saturday night plans? Join us at Capital Ale House for great vibes, an extensive tap list full of craft beers, delicious food, and the best partāmeeting new friends!
Whether youāre here to try something new from the taps, share a meal, or just hang out with a welcoming crowd, this is the place to be. Bring a friend or come soloāeither way, youāll leave with new connections.
This is a Special Event. All Trying to Adult RVA events require tickets or access passes, available exclusively through the Trying to Adult RVA website. Members can unlock free or discounted access passes depending on their membership tier. Non-members are welcome to join by purchasing an individual access pass. Spots must be claimed in advance, and you must have a ticket from the Trying to Adult RVA website to secure your place. RSVPing on any other platform does not guarantee your spot.
Claim your spot here.
Parking: there is a parking lot on site.
