
What we’re about
Are you in your 20s/30s and wondering how to make friends as an adult? Did you just move to Richmond, VA (RVA) and need new friends or things to do? Have you lived in RVA for a while but still would like to diversify your circle of friends? Are you single, engaged, married, or divorced and looking to meet other like-minded friends? Do you like food, beer, wine, cooking classes, games, outdoor activities, music, or anything fun and would rather go with friends?
If you answered yes to any of those questions, this group is for you! Trying to Adult RVA is a membership-based social group. It is open to anyone 21+, of any gender, that want to make friends.
Please ensure you review our rules and policies. We have participation, attendance, return/refund, and social media rules.
Please visit our FAQ page for common questions about our events, membership, tickets, and more!
Please visit our website for more information about Trying to Adult RVA.
Upcoming events
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Dinner at Firebirds Wood Fired Grill
Firebirds, 11448 Belvedere vista lane, Midlothian, VA, USJoin us for a warm and welcoming dinner at Firebirds Wood Fired Grill, known for its bold flavors, hand-cut steaks, and signature wood-fired creations. This evening is all about good food, great company, and easy conversation.
From perfectly grilled steaks to fresh seafood and chef-inspired entrées, Firebirds offers a cozy, inviting atmosphere that makes it easy to relax and connect. Whether you’re coming to meet new people, try something new, or simply enjoy a night out, this dinner is the perfect setting to share conversation over a delicious meal.
Come hungry and leave with new connections!
This is a Special Event. All Trying to Adult RVA events require tickets or access passes, available exclusively through the Trying to Adult RVA website. Members can unlock free or discounted access passes depending on their membership tier. Non-members are welcome to join by purchasing an individual access pass. Spots must be claimed in advance, and you must have a ticket from the Trying to Adult RVA website to secure your place. RSVPing on any other platform does not guarantee your spot.
You can claim your spot here.
Parking: there is a parking lot!
9 attendeesVolunteer: Cemetery Clean-Up
The Barton Mansion, 2112 Montiero Street, Richmond, VA, USThis October, join us for a community service project with just a touch of Halloween spirit! Barton Heights Cemetery is one of Richmond’s historic resting places, and while it carries a quiet, spooky charm this time of year, it also deserves our care and respect. Together, we’ll be giving back by cleaning up and restoring sections of the grounds so this piece of local history can shine again.
Volunteers will help with:
- Removing trash and debris
- Clearing overgrowth, small trees, and bushes along the fence line
- Hauling accumulated brush
- String trimming
- Uncovering long-hidden grave markers
All tools and gloves will be provided. Please dress for outdoor work: hats, long sleeves, long pants, and sturdy shoes are highly recommended. Sunglasses and sunscreen are also encouraged.
Come ready to roll up your sleeves, enjoy a fall day outdoors, and help bring a little light back to this historic (and slightly spooky) spot in our community.
This event is free for members and non-members! Please claim a ticket on our website though as space is limited.
You can claim a ticket and confirm your spot here.
Parking: Please park along the road on the Lamb Avenue side of the cemetery, or along Welford Street or Minor Street.
11 attendeesPaintball
Xzone Paintball Park, 6851 Courthouse rd, chesterfield , VA, USGet ready for some friendly fire! We’re heading out for an afternoon of adrenaline, strategy, and laughs with a paintball adventure.
You’ll get:
- Access to 5 unique paintball fields
- 100 paintballs included for each person
- All the gear and equipment you’ll need to suit up and play
Whether you’re a seasoned paintball pro or it’s your very first time, this is all about having fun, teaming up with friends, and making some new ones along the way. Expect a mix of action, teamwork, and plenty of stories to laugh about afterward.
Price to join this event is $45 for premium members and $55 for all others. Spots must be claimed in advance, and you must have a ticket from the Trying to Adult RVA website to secure your place. RSVPing on any other platform does not guarantee your spot.
You can claim your ticket here.
12 attendeesCraft & Connect
Shop Made in VA, 3348 Moore Street,, Richmond, VA, USLooking for a crafty way to spend time with new friends? Come join us for a creative night out where art and connection go hand in hand!
Your ticket includes everything you need to design and make your own friendship bracelet—the perfect keepsake from an evening of fun and new connections.But the creativity doesn’t stop there! You’ll also have the option to add on other crafts available at the shop, including:
🎨 Watercolor painting
🕯️ Candle making
🍷 Wine glass painting
🧢 Custom trucker hats
… and more!Whether you’re tying knots, painting strokes, or just sipping and chatting, this event is all about creatively connecting with new friends. No experience needed—just bring your imagination and leave with memories (and maybe a few handmade treasures).
Tickets for this event are $13 for premium members and $17 for all other members. Space is limited to 20 people. Spots must be claimed in advance, and you must have a ticket from the Trying to Adult RVA website to secure your place. RSVPing on any other platform does not guarantee your spot.
You can claim your spot here.
Parking: mostly street parking in the area and can be limited. Please allow extra time to find a spot or use rideshare.
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