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### Fall Program Week 6: Chapters 14-17 - Motivating Others + Supporting Struggling People

You cannot motivate someone else to change. Change only happens when they feel ready and choose it for themselves, making pressure counterproductive.

"The day someone changes is the day they decide they're ready - not the day you decide they need to."

Learn the ABC Loop for influence:

  • Apologize and Ask
  • Back Off and observe Behavior
  • Celebrate progress while modeling Change.

Discover why rescuing people from natural consequences prevents necessary motivation to change. The most loving thing is often stopping rescue attempts.

Learn the difference between harmful help, healthy support, and emergency intervention. Effective support requires clear boundaries, especially around money.

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