The Relativity of Success

Albert Einstein's theory of special relativity states that, at very high speeds, measurements of time, space, and mass are not absolute but are relative to the observer. Likewise, the value or significance of something depends on the context, perspective, or comparison point. This can be true from a moral or personal perspective. From a personal perspective, we can create a relative standard to judge our own value. If we set out to be the greatest tennis player in the world and only make it to the top 10, we may consider ourselves a failure. However, if we set out to earn an undergraduate degree and do so, we may consider ourselves a success. How does the perception of our own failure and success affect our lives? Can we avoid it?