THE FUSION THEORY ⟡ Transform Your Relationships

Why isn't my relationship working?
Many of us didn't have examples of genuine, fulfilling relationships growing up and we've been struggling with our own relationships ever since. Even if your parents did have a loving relationship, trying to recreate that in your own life can cause its own issues.

You may be doing everything you can to make your relationship work, yet still feel confused, disconnected and exhausted. Maybe you're questioning whether it's even worth trying.

Relationships don't have to be difficult.
The personalities you are drawn to, challenged with or confused by, likely follow a reliable, predictable pattern.

We all notice how certain people feel familiar, energizing, unsettling, or comforting in ways we cannot always explain. That sense of familiarity goes beyond preferences, appearance, gender or age.

We are excited to share a simple framework to help you see the patterns in all your relationships so you can begin understanding them on a deeper level.

What's my type?
According to an extraordinary personality theory developed by Sonja Gilligan in 1969, there are four personality types that mirror your four most powerful relationships.
1. Your siblings
2. Your mother
3. Your father
4. Your lover

Sonja’s work outlines how these four types reliably explain the similarities, attractions and tensions we feel with others. Understanding the fundamental relationship between you and the four types will bring a new clarity to your own behavior patterns and those of everyone you meet.

”I'm an individual, not a type.”
That's true! I was interested in personality typing systems in theory but always found them to be too complicated or useless in reality. (I actually failed the Myers Briggs test! lol) We are all 100% unique individuals however our wiring for pattern recognition helps us survive in the wild and it can help us understand our relationships on a deeper level.

The Fusion Theory is different than other typing systems.
You don't choose your type, your type chooses you. You inherit your fundamental personality type from your parents at conception and then environment and life experiences shape how your type expresses itself.

Once you see it, you can't unsee it.
The first time I had the Fusion types explained to me, I could immediately see the practical use in my own life. I saw how my marriage ended largely due to the fact that we simply couldn't understand or appreciate our differences. Almost everyone I share this theory with has the same experience.

Is any of this true?
The only way to know is to test it for yourself!

Diving Deeper
If you are feeling drawn to these ideas and would like more insight into the patterns that may be holding you back in your personal and professional life, we would love to have you join us for one night of discovery and possibly more.

A new group is starting on January 16th
We are starting a completely new social experiment in Salt Lake City with an intimate group of adventurous truth seekers ready for a journey of self discovery.

We will meet weekly to explore the types through simple group coaching and exercises designed to reveal our deepest patterns.

As an original member, you will be offered a partnership rate while playing a crucial role in helping us harness this unique and transformative theory.

This is an opportunity to:
❖ Gain a deeper understanding of yourself through direct experience
❖ Explore why you vibe with certain types of people and not others
❖ Express yourself more authentically
❖ Learn to trust an inner wisdom that transcends the intellect
❖ Support other group members in self discovery

If you aren't able to attend either of the introductory Meetups in December but you're interested in joining us in January, send me a DM.

This Is For People Who Are:
⊕ Single or in a relationship (partners are encouraged but not required)
⊕ Seeking deeper connections

⊕ Willing to look honestly at themselves without judgment

⊕ Looking to take personal responsibility
for their happiness
⊕ Curious how their relationships could feel more effortlessly enjoyable and fulfilling

This Is Not For People Who:
⊝ Tend to focus on problems instead of solutions

⊝ Aren’t comfortable with self reflection

⊝ Are hoping for quick and easy answers

⊝ Already have everything figured out

We’re sure to have a wild experience playing with this unique and transformative theory!

Space is limited. Please RSVP to this Meetup and then go to this Fusion Theory event to complete your registration.

Note: This meetup is trauma informed and everyone is invited to participate at their own pace. Please come as you are. Stay as long as you like. Take care of yourself, and each other.

This event is hosted by Lara through the Wilde Alliance for Transformational Leadership, a community creating experiences that support personal responsibility, embodied leadership, and collective growth.

If you are interested in private coaching or in hosting your own meetup, fill out our form here.