What we’re about
Welcome to We Are Lesbians & Queer Women (We Are LQW) – a joyful, inclusive space for lesbian, bi, pan, queer, and gay women, non-binary folks, and trans people who identify within a women-loving-women experience.
We exist to create real-life community in a city that can often feel isolating – especially as queer venues for women and non-binary and trans people continue to disappear.
Our group is open to adults (18+) and centres queer women’s experiences while proudly including those across the spectrum of gender, race, age, class, ability, culture, and identity.
Whether you’re a lifelong Londoner or new to the city, a seasoned queer or just starting to explore your identity – you are welcome here. We don’t police labels or looks. If you feel at home in a women-loving-women space, this space is for you.
Events range from chill socials to film nights, food outings, art, and themed meetups. We also occasionally host events designed to amplify more marginalised members of our community (e.g. spaces centring QTIPOC, neurodivergent folks, or niche interests like dating, kink, or veganism). When we do, we’ll always be transparent about why – it’s about connection, not exclusion. We run occasional family events where children are invited. This will always be clearly sign posted.
New here? We know the first event can be nerve-wracking. Will anyone talk to me? Will I fit in? We’ve all been there. One of our friendly hosts will always be on hand to greet you, and if you’re feeling anxious, feel free to message us beforehand. We recommend arriving early when things are quieter for a more relaxed hello.
Community matters. Please treat RSVPs with care – if you sign up, show up. Life happens, of course – just let us know if plans change. It helps us build a space rooted in respect and reliability.
Want to host an event? Amazing! We’re always keen to have new voices organising – especially those who reflect the diversity of our group. Get in touch!
Join our Facebook group:
Our private Facebook group is a great way to stay connected, hear about events first, and meet other members online between meetups.
https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1AZeHcPQ9N/?mibextid=wwXIfr
Support the group
Meetup charges £200+ per year to keep our group running. If you’re in a position to contribute, please donate via PayPal at LQWmeetup@gmail.com.
If you’re financially comfortable, consider giving a little more to support those who can’t – no one will ever be turned away due to money.
Join our mailing list:
https://mailchi.mp/28160a803d0b/llqw
Let’s build the community, together.
Please note: Cisgender men and heterosexual people are not part of this space. Please respect this 🙏