We're not dead yet Mid Missouri

Are you ready to embrace the fullness of life, build new friendships, and have a fantastic time while doing it? Look no further because you've found your tribe! Whether you're a newer empty nester or always have been, are married or single, our group is all about celebrating life and connecting with like-minded individuals.

This is a safe and inclusive space where we come together to be ourselves—grown-ups who refuse to let age define us. We're here for the fun, the camaraderie, and the sheer joy of experiencing life to the max.
We appreciate the incredible value of meaningful friendships and connections. They bring joy, laughter, and a sense of belonging that's simply irreplaceable. We've seen how these connections have enriched our lives and made us better versions of ourselves.

Our guiding principles are simple: respect and kindness. We have a strict "No Assholes" policy and a "No Creeps Allowed" rule; harassment and bullying are not welcome here. We're all about creating a positive and enjoyable environment.

When you RSVP, we appreciate your commitment to showing up and being considerate of your fellow members. And unless specified otherwise, event costs are your responsibility.

Our events will be a mix of indoor and outdoor gatherings, at private residences and public venues—anything that allows us to savor life a little more. So, get ready for food tours, happy hours, wineries, movies, dinners, game nights, concerts, dancing, parties, festivals, and so much more!

Join us on this exciting journey of "not growing old" together. We can't wait to meet you at our upcoming events and create memories that will last a lifetime.

Who Are We?

We're Shawn and Nigel, and we're thrilled to welcome you to "We're Not Dead Yet Mid Missouri!" We've been together for over two decades now. Along the way, we've been fortunate to raise a blended family of four amazing kids, who have since grown into independent, self-sufficient adults.

Recently, we made a move to Jefferson City, and as we settle into this community, we're excited to connect with fellow adventurers, thrill-seekers, and anyone who's up for some good old-fashioned fun. Whether it's exploring new places, savoring delicious food and drinks, or simply enjoying each other's company, we believe that life is meant to be lived to the fullest.

So, if you're looking for a tribe to hang out with, embark on exciting adventures, and make lasting memories, you've come to the right place. We're all about building friendships and creating a space where you can be yourself—no matter your life story.

Join us on this journey, and let's make every moment count. We firmly believe that life's greatest adventures are even better when shared with friends who make us feel alive!

Please note that our group is strictly for building friendships and enjoying social activities. This is not a swingers or hookup group. We are committed to creating a respectful and inclusive environment for all our members.