

About us
Do you want to overcome shyness and/or social anxiety? Do you want to practice social skills? Do you want to make good friends? Do you want to improve your life? Join this group!
This is a safe place with nonjudgemental people in a relaxed setting. There is nothing to hide or feel ashamed about. We all understand each other and can sympathize. This group is to help people make friends, practice social skills, and have fun while doing events.
We walk around parks, explore local events, chat over coffee/tea, go to restaurants, and do anything else that looks fun.
It’s okay if you don’t speak. It’s ok if you are nervous. Take the step forward to overcome it! Looking forward to sharing our stories and having a good time.
All events are governed by the official Meetup conduct policy:
https://meetu.ps/3kzYxt
Disclaimer
These events are for entertainment purposes only and we do not give out any medical or professional advice. Please do not make any medical decisions without consulting a licensed health care professional.
Upcoming events
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Shy and Neurodivergent Friendly Hangout
Schuler's Books and Music, 2660 28th St SE, Grand Rapids, MI, USA judgment-free zone for shy and neurodivergent adults to connect authentically.
When you arrive, look for our Meetup sign. Check in at the main table and grab a name tag.
Tired of masking? Need a break from explaining yourself? This meetup is for adults with Social Anxiety, ADHD, or Autism who want to be around others who just "get it."
What to Expect:
- No pressure to be "on" or perform to social norms
- Conversations that can jump topics (we love tangents!)
- Acceptance of stimming, room to be your authentic self
- Understanding when you need breaks or to fidget
(This group is designed for individuals who can attend independently without outside support)
IMPORTANT: While we're not a mental health support group, it is a safe place to make new friends. 🙂
☕ While our Meetup is free, we ask that you please support the venue by making a purchase. This keeps our events free.
Come as you are, you belong here. Hope to see you soon! 👋🏼
Here are our group guidelines:
- We follow the Meetup conduct policy. If you're not familiar with it, it's worth a quick read.
- Please don't use our events to promote your business or cause without first applying for a sponsorship. These gatherings take a lot of time and resources to put together, and we want to protect that for everyone.
- One more thing about Schuler Books: if the café gets busy, staff may occasionally ask non-paying customers to move to the back. That's their call to make, and we appreciate their hospitality in hosting us.
Do you have social anxiety? Are you struggling with having conversations? Please feel welcome to see our original FREE classes here:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pVhrbTYkCPs&list=PL7dZ0pbrV6fTSANlyWr58fqm-Wejf0OjTThis group is brought to you by the International Friend Connection in partnership with The Octopus Movement Think Tank.
Find out more here:
https://davidgood.org4 attendees
Shy and Neurodivergent Friendly Hangout
Schuler's Books and Music, 2660 28th St SE, Grand Rapids, MI, USA judgment-free zone for shy and neurodivergent adults to connect authentically.
When you arrive, look for our Meetup sign. Check in at the main table and grab a name tag.
Tired of masking? Need a break from explaining yourself? This meetup is for adults with Social Anxiety, ADHD, or Autism who want to be around others who just "get it."
What to Expect:
- No pressure to be "on" or perform to social norms
- Conversations that can jump topics (we love tangents!)
- Acceptance of stimming, room to be your authentic self
- Understanding when you need breaks or to fidget
(This group is designed for individuals who can attend independently without outside support)
IMPORTANT: While we're not a mental health support group, it is a safe place to make new friends. 🙂
☕ While our Meetup is free, we ask that you please support the venue by making a purchase. This keeps our events free.
Come as you are, you belong here. Hope to see you soon! 👋🏼
Here are our group guidelines:
- We follow the Meetup conduct policy. If you're not familiar with it, it's worth a quick read.
- Please don't use our events to promote your business or cause without first applying for a sponsorship. These gatherings take a lot of time and resources to put together, and we want to protect that for everyone.
- One more thing about Schuler Books: if the café gets busy, staff may occasionally ask non-paying customers to move to the back. That's their call to make, and we appreciate their hospitality in hosting us.
Do you have social anxiety? Are you struggling with having conversations? Please feel welcome to see our original FREE classes here:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pVhrbTYkCPs&list=PL7dZ0pbrV6fTSANlyWr58fqm-Wejf0OjTThis group is brought to you by the International Friend Connection in partnership with The Octopus Movement Think Tank.
Find out more here:
https://davidgood.org1 attendee
Shy and Neurodivergent Friendly Hangout
Schuler's Books and Music, 2660 28th St SE, Grand Rapids, MI, USA judgment-free zone for shy and neurodivergent adults to connect authentically.
When you arrive, look for our Meetup sign. Check in at the main table and grab a name tag.
Tired of masking? Need a break from explaining yourself? This meetup is for adults with Social Anxiety, ADHD, or Autism who want to be around others who just "get it."
What to Expect:
- No pressure to be "on" or perform to social norms
- Conversations that can jump topics (we love tangents!)
- Acceptance of stimming, room to be your authentic self
- Understanding when you need breaks or to fidget
(This group is designed for individuals who can attend independently without outside support)
IMPORTANT: While we're not a mental health support group, it is a safe place to make new friends. 🙂
☕ While our Meetup is free, we ask that you please support the venue by making a purchase. This keeps our events free.
Come as you are, you belong here. Hope to see you soon! 👋🏼
Here are our group guidelines:
- We follow the Meetup conduct policy. If you're not familiar with it, it's worth a quick read.
- Please don't use our events to promote your business or cause without first applying for a sponsorship. These gatherings take a lot of time and resources to put together, and we want to protect that for everyone.
- One more thing about Schuler Books: if the café gets busy, staff may occasionally ask non-paying customers to move to the back. That's their call to make, and we appreciate their hospitality in hosting us.
Do you have social anxiety? Are you struggling with having conversations? Please feel welcome to see our original FREE classes here:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pVhrbTYkCPs&list=PL7dZ0pbrV6fTSANlyWr58fqm-Wejf0OjTThis group is brought to you by the International Friend Connection in partnership with The Octopus Movement Think Tank.
Find out more here:
https://davidgood.org1 attendee
Shy and Neurodivergent Friendly Hangout
Schuler's Books and Music, 2660 28th St SE, Grand Rapids, MI, USA judgment-free zone for shy and neurodivergent adults to connect authentically.
When you arrive, look for our Meetup sign. Check in at the main table and grab a name tag.
Tired of masking? Need a break from explaining yourself? This meetup is for adults with Social Anxiety, ADHD, or Autism who want to be around others who just "get it."
What to Expect:
- No pressure to be "on" or perform to social norms
- Conversations that can jump topics (we love tangents!)
- Acceptance of stimming, room to be your authentic self
- Understanding when you need breaks or to fidget
(This group is designed for individuals who can attend independently without outside support)
IMPORTANT: While we're not a mental health support group, it is a safe place to make new friends. 🙂
☕ While our Meetup is free, we ask that you please support the venue by making a purchase. This keeps our events free.
Come as you are, you belong here. Hope to see you soon! 👋🏼
Here are our group guidelines:
- We follow the Meetup conduct policy. If you're not familiar with it, it's worth a quick read.
- Please don't use our events to promote your business or cause without first applying for a sponsorship. These gatherings take a lot of time and resources to put together, and we want to protect that for everyone.
- One more thing about Schuler Books: if the café gets busy, staff may occasionally ask non-paying customers to move to the back. That's their call to make, and we appreciate their hospitality in hosting us.
Do you have social anxiety? Are you struggling with having conversations? Please feel welcome to see our original FREE classes here:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pVhrbTYkCPs&list=PL7dZ0pbrV6fTSANlyWr58fqm-Wejf0OjTThis group is brought to you by the International Friend Connection in partnership with The Octopus Movement Think Tank.
Find out more here:
https://davidgood.org1 attendee
Past events
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