About us
We part of the non-partisan International Friend Connection network. Our goal is simple: helping people make friends in the real world.
This local group is for adults who are shy, socially anxious, introverted, lonely or feel left out.
This group is meant to be a calm place to reconnect with the real world, meet friendly people and slowly become more comfortable being around others again.
You do not have to be outgoing. You do not have to talk the whole time. You can come nervous, quiet or unsure what to say. Many regulars started that way.
Our events may include things like coloring, games, coffee, movies, meals and quiet conversation. The goal is simple: give people a safe enough place to keep showing up until familiar faces become friends.
To protect group members, hosts may step in if behavior becomes unsafe, disruptive, harassing, coercive or inappropriate for the venue or purpose of the group. We follow Meetup’s Community Guidelines.
Nobody under 18 is allowed to attend as per Meetup's guidelines.
Upcoming events
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🧑🎨 The Shy-Friendly Hangout: Bring Coloring, Activities, & Meet New Friends
Schuler's Books and Music, 2660 28th St SE, Grand Rapids, MI, USThis is a calm, low-pressure space for shy, socially anxious, or introverted people to reconnect with the real world.
Just look for the Meetup sign in the cafe area.
You don't have to talk. You can color, knit, play a game, or just sit and listen. No group introductions. No pressure to perform. Bring coloring books, art supplies, card games, a Nintendo Switch, or any quiet activity that helps you feel comfortable. Having something to focus on makes it much easier to be around people.
Ease in at your own pace.***
A note on making friends.
A lot of people come once and feel let down when they don't make close friends right away. That's normal. The people who keep showing up are usually the ones who end up making real friends over time. Friendship grows slowly. Give it a few visits.***
About the cost. It's free.
We use Meetup only as our RSVP system. During signup, Meetup may show you an optional Meetup+ offer. You don't need it to RSVP or attend. If you see that screen, just choose "Continue with free plan." Any Meetup+ payment goes to Meetup, not to us.***
A few house rules.
Everyone is welcome. We keep this a safe, respectful space in line with Meetup's conduct policy (https://meetu.ps/3kzYxt).Because this space is mainly for people who are shy, socially anxious, or just looking for a low-pressure place to connect, please keep conversation light, welcoming, and respectful. Be mindful of sensitive topics.
We can't allow anyone under 18 to attend. We do have classes for educators who want to start a group in their schools.
To respect everyone's privacy, we don't allow recording or photos without consent. If we take photos, we'll give people the chance to opt out.
Things may change as we grow. We're grateful to everyone who comes to have a chill, relaxing time.
PS. We have other chapters around the country and the world. Let us know if you travel. You may have a group of friends waiting to show you around.
7 attendees🧑🎨 The Shy-Friendly Hangout: Bring Coloring, Activities, & Meet New Friends
Schuler's Books and Music, 2660 28th St SE, Grand Rapids, MI, USThis is a calm, low-pressure space for shy, socially anxious, or introverted people to reconnect with the real world.
Just look for the Meetup sign in the cafe area.
You don't have to talk. You can color, knit, play a game, or just sit and listen. No group introductions. No pressure to perform. Bring coloring books, art supplies, card games, a Nintendo Switch, or any quiet activity that helps you feel comfortable. Having something to focus on makes it much easier to be around people.
Ease in at your own pace.***
A note on making friends.
A lot of people come once and feel let down when they don't make close friends right away. That's normal. The people who keep showing up are usually the ones who end up making real friends over time. Friendship grows slowly. Give it a few visits.***
About the cost. It's free.
We use Meetup only as our RSVP system. During signup, Meetup may show you an optional Meetup+ offer. You don't need it to RSVP or attend. If you see that screen, just choose "Continue with free plan." Any Meetup+ payment goes to Meetup, not to us.***
A few house rules.
Everyone is welcome. We keep this a safe, respectful space in line with Meetup's conduct policy (https://meetu.ps/3kzYxt).Because this space is mainly for people who are shy, socially anxious, or just looking for a low-pressure place to connect, please keep conversation light, welcoming, and respectful. Be mindful of sensitive topics.
We can't allow anyone under 18 to attend. We do have classes for educators who want to start a group in their schools.
To respect everyone's privacy, we don't allow recording or photos without consent. If we take photos, we'll give people the chance to opt out.
Things may change as we grow. We're grateful to everyone who comes to have a chill, relaxing time.
PS. We have other chapters around the country and the world. Let us know if you travel. You may have a group of friends waiting to show you around.
2 attendees🧑🎨 The Shy-Friendly Hangout: Bring Coloring, Activities, & Meet New Friends
Schuler's Books and Music, 2660 28th St SE, Grand Rapids, MI, USThis is a calm, low-pressure space for shy, socially anxious, or introverted people to reconnect with the real world.
Just look for the Meetup sign in the cafe area.
You don't have to talk. You can color, knit, play a game, or just sit and listen. No group introductions. No pressure to perform. Bring coloring books, art supplies, card games, a Nintendo Switch, or any quiet activity that helps you feel comfortable. Having something to focus on makes it much easier to be around people.
Ease in at your own pace.***
A note on making friends.
A lot of people come once and feel let down when they don't make close friends right away. That's normal. The people who keep showing up are usually the ones who end up making real friends over time. Friendship grows slowly. Give it a few visits.***
About the cost. It's free.
We use Meetup only as our RSVP system. During signup, Meetup may show you an optional Meetup+ offer. You don't need it to RSVP or attend. If you see that screen, just choose "Continue with free plan." Any Meetup+ payment goes to Meetup, not to us.***
A few house rules.
Everyone is welcome. We keep this a safe, respectful space in line with Meetup's conduct policy (https://meetu.ps/3kzYxt).Because this space is mainly for people who are shy, socially anxious, or just looking for a low-pressure place to connect, please keep conversation light, welcoming, and respectful. Be mindful of sensitive topics.
We can't allow anyone under 18 to attend. We do have classes for educators who want to start a group in their schools.
To respect everyone's privacy, we don't allow recording or photos without consent. If we take photos, we'll give people the chance to opt out.
Things may change as we grow. We're grateful to everyone who comes to have a chill, relaxing time.
PS. We have other chapters around the country and the world. Let us know if you travel. You may have a group of friends waiting to show you around.
2 attendees🧑🎨 The Shy-Friendly Hangout: Bring Coloring, Activities, & Meet New Friends
Schuler's Books and Music, 2660 28th St SE, Grand Rapids, MI, USThis is a calm, low-pressure space for shy, socially anxious, or introverted people to reconnect with the real world.
Just look for the Meetup sign in the cafe area.
You don't have to talk. You can color, knit, play a game, or just sit and listen. No group introductions. No pressure to perform. Bring coloring books, art supplies, card games, a Nintendo Switch, or any quiet activity that helps you feel comfortable. Having something to focus on makes it much easier to be around people.
Ease in at your own pace.***
A note on making friends.
A lot of people come once and feel let down when they don't make close friends right away. That's normal. The people who keep showing up are usually the ones who end up making real friends over time. Friendship grows slowly. Give it a few visits.***
About the cost. It's free.
We use Meetup only as our RSVP system. During signup, Meetup may show you an optional Meetup+ offer. You don't need it to RSVP or attend. If you see that screen, just choose "Continue with free plan." Any Meetup+ payment goes to Meetup, not to us.***
A few house rules.
Everyone is welcome. We keep this a safe, respectful space in line with Meetup's conduct policy (https://meetu.ps/3kzYxt).Because this space is mainly for people who are shy, socially anxious, or just looking for a low-pressure place to connect, please keep conversation light, welcoming, and respectful. Be mindful of sensitive topics.
We can't allow anyone under 18 to attend. We do have classes for educators who want to start a group in their schools.
To respect everyone's privacy, we don't allow recording or photos without consent. If we take photos, we'll give people the chance to opt out.
Things may change as we grow. We're grateful to everyone who comes to have a chill, relaxing time.
PS. We have other chapters around the country and the world. Let us know if you travel. You may have a group of friends waiting to show you around.
2 attendees
Past events
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