Why Change Isn’t Holding — Even With Self-Work

Why are you still stuck even though you understand what needs to change?

If you’ve done the insight work and still find yourself repeating the same emotional, relational, or behavioral patterns, the issue isn’t a lack of awareness. It’s that an outdated identity is still organizing your nervous system responses, long after it stopped being useful.

This class breaks down how identity-based nervous system conditioning sustains patterns around attachment, money, boundaries, and decision-making. You’ll learn why effort and motivation don’t dismantle expired roles, how the nervous system maintains jurisdiction over them, and what actually allows change to stabilize instead of cycling.

You will walk away with:
• A clear way to identify which identity is currently holding authority in your life
• An understanding of why your nervous system defends roles you no longer need.
• The ability to distinguish insight from integration (and why insight alone doesn’t produce change)
• Practical orientation tools for releasing an expired identity without forcing a new one
• A framework for recognizing when resistance is protective rather than self-sabotage

This is a direct, regulation-informed class designed for people who are done chasing fixes and ready to understand why change hasn’t held and what makes it possible.