What we’re about
Wholesome Queers is a social and activity group in Los Angeles for intentional individuals who identify as LGBTQ+. We're a friendship-oriented community that enjoys exploring this wonderful city and engaging in various mixed accessibility activities together. From walks and hikes to yoga, indoor climbing, social meals, beach visits, and board games, there's something for everyone.
We welcome newcomers, BIPOC, and neurodivergent queer folks, and LGBTQ+ allies to join us. Our organizers strive to create a friendly environment where everyone feels at home.
RULES & EXPECTATIONS
- We celebrate diversity, practice empathy, and ask that all members conduct themselves accordingly. Aggression or sexualized behavior towards other members will not be tolerated. We strive to combat racism, classism, ableism, ageism, and other "isms" within the LGBTQ+ community.
- Wholesome Queers is a space that welcomes radical authenticity, self-expression, and self-acceptance. We acknowledge that everyone is on their own journey, but we ask that internalized homophobia be left at the door.
- Spaces are limited, so be intentional when RSVPing. Do not RSVP unless you plan to attend. RSVPing is mandatory if you attend. You're welcome to bring a friend (or two), and they will need to RSVP individually as well.
- If your plans change, update your RSVP so that people on the waitlist can take your spot. Those who repeatedly RSVP and don't show up for events will be removed from the group.
- If an event is full, please join the waitlist. Check the event page the day before or the day of the event as you will most likely have been moved on the waitlist due to people changing their attendance status.
- Please check your Meetup messages or the Meetup event page on the day of the event for any important updates.
- Event location and instructions are listed on each page, but if you need additional assistance, you can a) prior to the event day, message the organizer via Meetup or b) on the day of the event, text/call them using the phone number provided.
- Events will start 10 minutes after the listed start time, so it's important to be punctual. After this time, the organizer won't be available by phone, so if you're running late, you'll need to find the group on your own.
- We encourage feedback from participants. Our organizers are human beings who occasionally make mistakes, but we strive to be open and flexible in our responses.
- During physical activities, we encourage participants to find a pace that works for them. Not all activities will be accessible to everyone, but our organizers will strive to offer a variety of activities to meet the accessibility needs of participants.
- The hike difficulty ratings we provide are just estimates. To decide if a hike is suitable for you, we suggest you consider your current level of fitness and do your own research on the trail.
- By participating in group activities, you are responsible for your preparedness and well-being and will hold no one else liable in case of injury or mishap. We encourage members to follow local health ordinances and cannot guarantee that all participants are vaccinated or free from COVID-19.
- Finally, we love taking group photos! Participating in a group photo is optional, and you can let our organizers know in advance if you do not want to be photographed.
We're excited to meet you at our next event!
Upcoming events (4+)
See all- Scum and Villainy CantinaScum and Villainy Cantina, Los Angeles, CA
So we generally don't plan events at bars, but this seems too memorable to miss... and it will be May the 4th! We'll arrive around 6pm and hang and mingle as long as it is interesting. I've wanted to check out this place for a solar cycle or two!
Scum and Villainy Cantina is an intergalactic bar nestled deep within the wretched hive of Hollywood, CA. Inspired by the best drinking establishments from your favorite sci-fi and fantasy movies, Scum and Villainy is the geek bar you’ve been looking for.
Costumed bartenders join in the debate while mixing cocktails from a themed menu. Our laid-back atmosphere and strict “no bullying” mission creates a #ScifiSafeHouse not just for casual and mega-fans alike, but for anyone looking for a change of pace from the typical bar scene. Flying solo? Searching for your tribe? We definitely serve your kind here!
Our establishment is devoid of TVs and windows to the outside world so that our customers are fully immersed in another galaxy. The atmosphere caters to lively conversations such as:
- Who shot first?
- Who is the best Star Trek Captain?
- Who would win in a fight between Malcolm Reynolds, Starbuck, and Han Solo?
https://scumandvillainycantina.com/
🔸21+ all day
🔸No cover charge
🔸May the Fourth special cocktail menu (mocktails available)
🔸Limited kitchen menu
🔸Cosplay always encouragedYou might even be able to get some reuse out of your Ren Faire costume...
- Wild Things Are Happening at the Skirball – the art of Maurice SendakSkirball Cultural Center, Los Angeles, CA
Let the wild rumpus start! With food, drinks, music, and dancing, come celebrate the imaginative worlds of Maurice Sendak (who happened to be an openly gay man). I'm a big fan of his work. I had the privilege to meet him in 1988 in New York. I spent about an hour with him discussing art and children's books, and Mozart. He was an incredibly talented soul with a distinctive point of view that he wove into his stories and artwork.
Comprised of over 150 artifacts—including original paintings, drawings, videos, and objects—this landmark exhibition showcases the depth and breadth of his creativity.
This fun-filled event also features:
- Live music by local LA indie-rock band Worn-Tin, with support/appearances from Los Angeles Eastside DIY puppet collective Freak Nature Puppets.
- DJ set by dublab with Ale Cohen.
- Food trucks Love Bird Fried Chicken and Vchos
- A Sendak-inspired, dance and music-infused tale of natural wonder from STORYTELLING THROUGH MOVEMENT (STM), directed and choreographed by Zoe Rappaport. Performances to take place on the front steps, just outside the gallery, and on Taper Courtyard.
- Airbrush tattoos + paper crown making (inspired by Max from Where the Wild Things Are).
Probably best to get your tickets sooner rather than later.
Opening night party is only $10 ($7 for seniors, students, kids), Free for Skirball members.
https://www.skirball.org/programs/late-night-wild-things-are-happening - Golden Gate Girls Screening + Q&AHammer Museum, Los Angeles, CA
**This event will be HOSTLESS. Just letting you know. Please feel free to connect with other attendees via the Event Chat.**
A FREE double bill of docs that "provide a wider look into the lives of artists from the Chinese diaspora in the mid-20th century." The screenings are followed by a Q&A with Golden Gate Girls director S. Louisa Wei and UCLA School of Theater, Film and Television Professor Amy Villarejo.
Presented by the UCLA Film & Television Archive.
The World of Dong Kingman (1953) 16 min.
James Wong Howe photographed over 130 movies from 1923 to 1975 but this is one of the few instances in which he also directs. Following watercolor legend Dong Kingman at work, painting on a busy street corner of New York City, the film doesn’t overwhelm with the chaos of city life. Transfixed onlookers watch as Kingman slowly adds color and life to his canvas. Howe studies Kingman carefully, showing how his gentle brushstrokes fill the screen. Accompanied by classical Chinese music, the viewer immerses fully into Dong Kingman’s world.Golden Gate Girls (2013) 90 min.
Esther Eng was one of the very few female filmmakers of her era, one of the first Asian American female directors, and an openly gay woman in the 1930s. Though a trailblazer, Eng was largely forgotten and most of her films are lost. In S. Louisa Wei’s documentary, the story of Eng’s career is pieced together with family memories, testimonials and the remarkable discovery of her photo albums. Wei compares Eng’s career with that of Dorothy Arzner, fellow queer female filmmaker who carved her own career in Hollywood as a film director from 1927 through 1943, and whose work was rediscovered in the 1970s by feminist film scholars.Ticketing: Admission to Archive screenings at the Hammer is free. Your seat will be assigned to you when you pick up your ticket at the box office. Seats are assigned on a first come, first served basis. Box office opens one hour before the event. Questions should be directed to the Archive at programming@cinema.ucla.edu or 310-206-8013.
Parking: Self-parking is available under the museum. There is an $8 flat rate after 5 p.m. on weekdays. For public transportation and drop-off information, please see: https://hammer.ucla.edu/visit
