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WHAT WE ARE ABOUT
This Meet Up is for Women of any age interested in a social book discussion. The women in this group seek deep meaning, expanding ideas, and social connection through book conversations. As we are in transition and trying to determine whether our members prefer in-person or virtual, we meet in person on the third Wednesday evening of each month (referred to as Book Discussion 1 ) at Palermo Restaurant, 791 Auzerais Ave., San José, CA 95126. We have a virtual option on the fourth Thursday of each month (referred to as Online Book Discussion 2 ) for those who prefer virtual, live out of the area, or do not make it off the waitlist for the in-person meet-up. Please check the event page for the Zoom link. We invite you to listen to or read the book in any media format that is convenient for you. Occasionally, we may also post opportunities to volunteer in the community or other bonus events that our members are interested in. Get ready for light-hearted and open-minded conversation. Cheers to your next page turned!
A NOTE ON COST
There is no required cost to join or attend our meet-up. We do ask those who feel they can if you might consider sponsoring a month of meet-up costs at $14.99 or a month of Zoom costs at $13.05 per month. This allows us to offer our Meet-Up events without a registration cost charged to members for each event attended. Please message Michelle Lee Walters if you are able to sponsor one of these options for a month**.** We thank you for your support & help in keeping this meeting accessible.
A NOTE ON COMMUNICATION
The gals who lead Women's Book Club, Wine, and Snacks are donating their time, energy, and knowledge for fun and for free. We appreciate all they do to keep us up and running, which is a lot more time, energy, and wisdom than you may think. Meet Up is paid to keep the software of this application, whether on the web, your phone, or tablet, running smoothly. Unfortunately, we cannot access your private contact information through your Meet-Up profile. We message our members through Meet Up. When you can not find our emails, you may want to search your email for: [WomensBookClubWineAndSnacks-announce@messages.meetup.com](mailto:WomensBookClubWineAndSnacks-announce@messages.meetup.com). Our emails from Meet Up may be in your spam folder. If you have issues receiving emails or are unsure how to access something, please reach out to Meet-Up as they are the sole providers of this platform and the only ones who can help you work out kinks in their system. If you believe you just need some help navigating the web page or application, please message or speak with one of our volunteer leaders. We would be happy to help if you can make time for us outside the meeting. We want this to be accessible and fun for you and we are willing to make time to be sure the process is smooth for you.
A NOTE ON BOOK CHOICES
All the books we read are suggested and selected as a group. Feel free to message any organizers (Michelle, Jean, Sarah, Nicole, Christine, or Lucy) with your book suggestions for our next poll. Unfortunately, as of August 31, 2021, Meet Up has taken away the Poll function. You will receive a message by email through Women's Book Club Wine and Snacks to vote on our poll through an online poll service that is to be determined. Please check your email spam frequently if your Meet Up messages are not landing in your Inbox.
A NOTE ON THE TYPES OF BOOKS WE READ
We are not necessarily a fiction-only book club. We are a book club that relies on its members to suggest books and vote on which books they would like to read for the next five months through a poll. As the founder of this group, I have put a handful of nonfiction books on the poll, and the members do not vote for them. We rely on what the majority votes for. Hopefully, those of us who would like some nonfiction reads will suggest and vote for those suggestions.
If you have suggestions for books that you would like the group to read, feel free to share them with any of the organizers. However, please note that if your suggestions were received after the poll was published or if our poll leaders realized these books had been read or voted on in past polls, they may not make the list. But you should suggest them again anyway if you want the group to reread a past selection or if your suggestion was not taken the first time around. It has happened that the poll managers put a book on the poll again after it was suggested multiple times, even the ones we have already read.
A NOTE ON VIRTUAL VS IN-PERSON MEETINGS:
We have decided that as long as we have an ongoing interest in people registering for both our in-person meetings, which are labeled Book Discussion 1, and our virtual meetings, labeled Book Discussion 2, we will continue to offer both options every month for each book.
A NOTE ON NO-SHOWS
If you have reserved a spot for a meeting and cannot make it, we request you unreserve yourself or send a note to one of the organizers. If you give no notice and are a no-show, you will be flagged & after three no-shows, you will be removed from the group. We ask for this courtesy so those on the waitlist can join in your absence.
Last updated: July 25, 2024, by MLW.;
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Book Discussion 1: (in person) Stoner by John Williams
Palermo Italian Restaurant, 791 Auzerais Ave, San Jose, CA, USOur November book is Stoner by John Williams.
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Summary:
William Stoner is born at the end of the nineteenth century into a dirt-poor Missouri farming family. Sent to the state university to study agronomy, he instead falls in love with English literature and embraces a scholar’s life. As the years pass Stoner encounters a succession of disappointments: marriage into a “proper” family estranges him from his parents; his career is stymied; his wife and daughter turn coldly away from him; a transforming experience of new love ends under threat of scandal.John Williams’s luminous and deeply moving novel is a work of quiet perfection. William Stoner emerges from it not only as an archetypal American, but as an unlikely existential hero, standing, like a figure in a painting by Edward Hopper, in stark relief against an unforgiving world.
My Sources:
https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/166997.Stoner
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We are all Volunteers: Note that no one makes a profit; donations are strictly used to cover our costs.
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Join us at this IN-PERSON event.
The restaurant details are typically located in the right-hand corner of your screen on this meetup event page.
If you can't attend, consider joining us to discuss the same book at the online meetup we call "Book Discussion 2". We also encourage you to join both Book Discussion 1 (in-person) & Book Discussion 2 (virtual) and treat yourself to the full experience of ideas and discussion. Details are in a separate meetup event.
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Book Discussion 2: (Virtual) Stoner by John Williams
·OnlineOnlineNOTE: The log-in link is typically located in the right-hand corner of your screen on this meetup event page.
Our November book is Stoner by John Williams. I happened to read this a few years ago, someone else nominated it for our group, but I'm excited to have some people to discuss it with now. From memory, Stoner was published in 1965. It describes the life of a man named Stoner who grows up on a farm in Missouri and spends his career teaching classic literature. I believe most of it takes place in the early 20th century. I don't want to give too much else away. Let's discover it together.
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Announcement: Book Recommendations requested
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Donations: If you would like to make a small contribution to support our costs, please email Michelle at ***Luvshell1@gmail.com*** for donation information.
We are all Volunteers: Note that no one makes a profit; donations are strictly used to cover our costs.
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Join us at this virtual event.
You are always welcome to consider joining us to discuss the same book at the in-person meetup we call "Book Discussion 1". When you join both Book Discussion 1 (in-person) & Book Discussion 2 (virtual), you'll treat yourself to the full experience of ideas and discussion. The in-person event occurs prior to the online event, every third Wednesday, and the Virtual event occurs on the fourth Thursday (there may be adjustments due to holidays). Details are in a separate meetup event.
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Book Discussion 1: (in person) Whistler by Ann Patchett
Palermo Italian Restaurant, 791 Auzerais Ave, San Jose, CA, USOur December book is
Whistler
by Ann Patchett.**When Daphne Fuller and her husband Jonathan visit the Metropolitan Museum of Art, they notice an older, white-haired gentleman following them. The man turns out to be Eddie Triplett, her former stepfather, who had been married to her mother for a little more than year when Daphne was nine. Now fifty-three, Daphne hasn’t seen Eddie for many years, not since the fateful event that changed the direction of both their lives. Meeting again, time falls away; while their relationship was brief, it had a profound impact on them both, and now that they are reunited, they have no intention of ever being separated again.
Whistler is a story about two adults looking back over the choices they made, and the choices that were made for them. It’s a story about bravery, memory, the often small yet consequential moments that define our lives, and the endless stream of loss that in time comes for us all. Beautiful in its simplicity, it is ultimately about how love endures, and how the feeling of being known by one other person, even for a short period of time, can change everything.
Source: https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/242693052-whistler
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Donations: If you would like to make a small contribution to support our costs, please email Michelle at Luvshell1@gmail.com for donation information.
We are all Volunteers: Note that no one makes a profit; donations are strictly used to cover our costs.
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Join us at this IN-PERSON event.
The restaurant details are typically located in the right-hand corner of your screen on this meetup event page.
If you can't attend, consider joining us to discuss the same book at the online meetup we call "Book Discussion 2". We also encourage you to join both Book Discussion 1 (in-person) & Book Discussion 2 (virtual) and treat yourself to the full experience of ideas and discussion. Details are in a separate meetup event.
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Book Discussion 2: (Virtual) Whistler by Anne Patchett
·OnlineOnlineOur December book is "Whistler" by Anne Patchett
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See my three sources below at the end of the section titled: Summary
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Summary:IS THIS A BOOK ABOUT HORSES?
This is not a book about horses. In the interview with Seth Meyers (see details and link below) Anne Patchett speaks of a ride she received from a driver in Australia while on a book tour, and of finding out that the driver's full-time job was raising and caring for horses. Here she was able to ask questions and learn about horses from another's lived experience, as Patchett is not much for the internet, Google searches, or other virtual resources. In fact, she does not even own a cell phone. Then there is the setting of New York City, where the book begins, and we find the horse that inspired the cover. Those first few paragraphs are about all the horse we get from this novel. There is an interpretation of the horse that, in those brief moments, we could see it as a representation of how art of any kind can bring up memories, touch our hearts, and connect us to those most important to us.THE COVER ART:
From the interviews, I get the feeling that Anne Patchett likes to keep us curious with the covers. In her previous work, she draws us in by having the little girl on the cover of “The Dutch House,” painted by the same artist as Whistler, face the reader. Patchett makes the same request with the horse on Whistler's cover. This is very intentional. The artist is a friend of Anne’s, and she describes making breakfast for him as one reason he doesn’t mind her requests for specificity in the paintings. She recognizes these breakfasts at her home as a nice retreat to give him some adult time, since he is usually around his three kids, who take up much of his time and energy. The artist Noah SaterstromMAIN THEMES:
Anne Patchett’s novels seem to have a particular theme. One of the audience members captured Patchett’s novels quite well when she said they are about “intense complicated familial relationships.”This particular novel, Whistler, is best summed up by Anne’s quote, “The reckoning of a story.” This is very much a story about what happens as we talk about our past and contemplate how these stories shape us. Patchett considers the stories we hold as memories to be less about the original memory than about the last time we told it. Then, once told to those who may have shared the exact same experience at the same time and place, the story is challenged by the other's recollection. Two stories at the same place and time with the same persons push us to shuffle and negotiate our own memory. This reckoning with what we have considered our past for so long is now in question, and, with it, calls into question so much of who we are and what has shaped us.
WHY THIS NOVEL IS SPECIAL:
There is a reason this novel, in particular, holds special significance for Patchett's readers. Anne Patchett spoke of never having captured herself or her life in her stories until Whistler. In Whistler, she captures pieces and voices from her own life, placed in the mouths and lives of the fictional places and characters in this book. The phrases and characters may not match her life exactly, but so much of her own memory accounts for the essence of this book.INTERESTING FUN FACT:
One funny piece to keep an eye out for is something Patchett remembers hearing somewhere, but cannot pinpoint where she heard about this scientific discovery, but had made a promise to herself that it would be used in her writing one day. The fact is this: The happiest childhood memories share three common factors among the majority of those interviewed. The three components present in the happiest childhood memories are: danger, the presence of the father, and fried food.LET’S DO THIS!
Now, off we go to read and find all these interesting pieces drawn from the life and experiences of Anne Patchett through fictional characters and events.MY SOURCES:
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timtalksbooks. (2026. Sept 16) Instagram. https://www.instagram.com/p/DdXc6mnGorh/?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet
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Symphony Space. (2026. July 14) YouTube. Anne Patchett with Armor Towels; Whistler.
https://youtu.be/RquDEcKfooY?si=qfbm4a-fooy8XqsF -
Late Night with Seth Meyers. (2026. June 3) YouTube. Anne Patchett used a magic 8 ball to help her decide on Whistler cover art. https://youtu.be/Cn4h9ew8xK8?si=FbGaxlLZZddDKAYH
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Announcements: Book Recommendations requested; Next month, look out for an email with the poll. Please search for: WomensBookClubWineAndSnacks-announce@messages.meetup.com, as the emails from MeetUp may land in your SPAM or SOCIAL mailbox.
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Donations: If you would like to make a small contribution to support our costs, please email Michelle at Luvshell1@gmail.com for donation information.
We are all Volunteers: Note that no one makes a profit; donations are strictly used to cover our costs.
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Join us at this virtual event.
The log-in link is typically located in the right-hand corner of your screen on this meetup event page.
You are always welcome to consider joining us to discuss the same book at the in-person meetup we call "Book Discussion 1". When you join both Book Discussion 1 (in-person) & Book Discussion 2 (virtual), you'll treat yourself to the full experience of ideas and discussion. The in-person event occurs prior to the online event, every third Thursday, and the Virtual event occurs on the fourth Thursday (there may be adjustments due to holidays). Details are in a separate meetup event.
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