About us
MAIN GOAL:
Together, let’s create a joyful, supportive space for all Women, where we can be our true selves. We want to create moments together that braid into the possibility of friendships. The goal is to have a meet-up available at least once a week. Come as you are—let’s have some fun!
WHAT IS THIS GROUP ABOUT, and WHO IS IT FOR?
Based in the Silicon Valley, our goal is to create a warm, inclusive sisterhood where women can connect, share, laugh, and support one another through friendship. Open to women of all ages, backgrounds, beliefs, and identities, this space is built on strength, authenticity, empathy, and kindness. Founded by Michelle Lee Walters—creator of thriving groups like Women’s Book Club and Multicultural Women’s Poetry—we aim to foster genuine bonds and collective wisdom. We hope to have a dedicated group of women, even if it is just one meeting a month, where you have the time to connect with us. I'm sure we all know life is hectic, which is why we need and deserve this form of self-care.
FORMAT:
The format will be very "informal" with a get-to-know-you round table, uninterrupted for a minute or so of sharing about yourself. Then I will introduce an opening thought question to get the conversation going, and, if needed, will offer more food for thought to keep it vibrant. We may even play a game or have another activity! As I have had the opportunity to meet some of you, Bold Women, you have a great amount of interests, hobbies, and knowledge. Then we will have closing thoughts, and somewhere in the middle of it all, a group photo for those who would like to be in a photo for our MeetUp site memories (If I forget this part, feel free to remind me).
WHY IT HATCHED:
In a digital world, it's more important than ever to nurture an in-person community. Here, we focus on building sisterhood—not on drinking or dating, but on connection, growth, and fun. We value equality, respectful communication, and the embrace of our differences with humility and grace. Whether outgoing or quiet, everyone’s voice matters.
LOCATION GUIDELINES:
Locations are to be determined as I research the best options. We’ll meet only where separate bills are available, or you can pay at the counter. When we meet at a restaurant, in order to respect the workers and the space, it is requested that each person order at least two items (food or drinks). The two-item minimum is truly a suggestion rather than a requirement or demand, because it is desired for the women in this collective to be in mature, healthy adult relationships, where we can consider each other's needs and create equitable relational spaces in which all feel they can easily step into. As we like to say, it is your presence that we desire, not anything more. Alcohol is optional— but not the main focus. Non-alcoholic options will always be available.
RSVP's/ Attendees
I will close MeetUp registration 5 days before the event. If we do not have at least four people signed up, I will cancel that event. You will see "EVENT CANCELLED" in the Title. I will also send a MeetUp message for the last call 6 to 7 days prior, and I will inform you if an event is cancelled.
A NOTE ON MEETING DAYS AND TIMES:
We'll test different days over the next few months—thinking Mondays and Fridays, but open to others. You can vote for your preferred days by attending on those days or by contacting me with suggestions, such as your preferred day and time, a specific event, a lounge, coffee shop, restaurant, or other location, a theme to base the meeting on, or an activity.
This group is very new, so your suggestions, support, collaboration, creativity, and interest are welcome!
GROUP RESTRICTIONS and GUIDELINES:
- Come late, just know, your presence is all we ask. Travel safely and peacefully; we’ll be here when you arrive.
- If you can't make it, please remove yourself from the reservation list. We understand that life happens.
- No selling or marketing of any kind, please.
- No pressure to celebrate birthdays or exchange gifts.
- Use "yes, and" to build on what others say, rather than "but" or "no."
- Be welcoming and inclusive of all members.
- No cliques—everyone is valued for her unique self.
- Come as you are—no need to be perfect; We don't believe in perfect, but we believe in all just as they are.
Upcoming events
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Bold Women's: FRY'DE JAZZ LISTENING SESH w/ Free Admission
SJZ Break Room, 310 South First Street, San Jose, CA, USThis MeetUp is a Women’s Group.
The Event:
FRY'DE JAZZ LISTENING SESH
FREE ADMISSION!!!
MeetTime & Finding Us:
- Look for the table with a sign: BOLD WOMEN'S MEET UP.
- ARRIVAL TIME: There is no required arrival time; feel free to arrive as early as 7:00 pm or any time after. Our group table will be set at 7:00 pm.
- END TIME: Music is scheduled from 5:40 pm to 9:00 pm
- OPTIONAL FOR MUSICAL ARTISTS: This is an open jam session, so please feel free to bring your instrument or your voice and music, and ask as you come in where to sign up & join in!
- If you RSVP & can not attend for any reason, please move your reservation to "not going" asap, or kindly message me if you find yourself in a bind and are unable to change your attendance before the meeting. I understand that life happens sometimes.
- If you are a "no-show", you may be removed from the group if I do not hear from you.
Check it out:
https://sanjosejazz.org/events/
Join Us
Come dressed comfortably and warmly as we meet with our Bold & Inclusive Women's Community to enjoy some Jazz.
Who’s Jammin’
SJZ U19s, the Michael Webster Quartet, Santana’s longtime timbalero, special guest Karl Perazzo, & all-age local jazz artists.
Who's Coming:
The women attending this group are of all ages and walks of life.
This is strictly a WOMEN’S ONLY EVENT- any men will be politely directed elsewhere by Michelle (group founder) or the restaurant owner. Thank you for being considerate of this particular collective member's requirements. Please search for other Meet Ups that are mixed gender socials; there are many great ones here on MeetUp.
Event Cancelation:
A week before the MeetUp event, I will send another invitation to the members. If we do not have at least four people signed up five days prior to the event, it will be cancelled due to lack of participation.
Location & Parking:
The address & location are attached to this event.
Look for the table with a sign: BOLD WOMEN'S MEET UP.Parking can be tricky. Uber or Lyft may be a good idea.
See the website for more info:
https://sanjosejazz.org/events/Women, please be aware: this is a public event where all are welcome in the space, which includes boys, girls, men, women, and others.
Thank you to all who are coming.
Smiles,
Michelle Lee W.1 attendee
Brunch with the Bold Ones (Women's Only Collective)
John's of Willow Glen, 1238 Lincoln Ave., San Jose, CA, USThis is a MeetUp Group & Event for Women Only.
Men will be politely asked to find another location.WHAT'S UP AT BRUNCH?
This will be a social gathering for us to chat and create bonds.
If it is accessible and feels right, we will have a get-to-know-you round table, where each person will introduce themselves by name and share a brief introduction or something about themselves.
WHO'S COMING TO BRUNCH?
The women attending this group are of all ages and walks of life.
I will have Name tags available to help us get to know one another.
This is strictly a WOMEN’S ONLY EVENT- any men will be politely directed elsewhere by Michelle (group founder) or the restaurant owner. Thank you for being considerate of this particular collective member's requirements. Please search for other Meet Ups that are mixed gender socials; there are many great ones here on MeetUp.
What's Up at Brunch:
1. Get Settled
Find your seat, get comfortable, take a look at the menu, and order.2. Get-to-Know-You Roundtable
Once the majority has been settled, we will have an uninterrupted get-to-know-you roundtable for each person to take a minute or so to tell us a little bit about themselves and what brought them to The Women's Bold Bonds Collective.2. Open Flow Conversation
Once introductions are complete, we will move into the organic flow of conversation.3. Activity (only if needed)
If we need a spark, I will have some creative ways that we can connect.3. Optional Group Photo
At some point before we wind down, we'll take a group photo for those who would like to be included in our MeetUp site memories. The photo will be posted here on our MeetUp event page. The photo is always optional and never required.5. We each will share without interruption, something gained, whether it be insight, connection, more questions, or thoughts.
The Restaurant:
You are not required to purchase a meal to join in the fun, but even a smaller purchase of two items would be suggested to thank the restaurant for providing the space so generously. ****
The restaurant is very accommodating to various allergies or food preferences. Just have a chat with the server if you have any questions or special requests. They do have vegan, vegetarian, and gluten-free options on the menu.
There will be separate checks, so no need to worry about splitting the check.
**** The two-item minimum is truly a suggestion rather than a requirement or demand, because it is desired for the women in this collective to consider each other's needs and create equitable relational spaces in which all feel they can easily step into. As we like to say, we desire your presence, not anything more.
Can't Make It?
If you RSVP & can not attend for any reason, please move your reservation to "not going" asap, or kindly message me if you find yourself in a bind and are unable to change your attendance before the meeting. I understand that life happens sometimes. If you are a "no-show", you may be removed from the group if I do not hear from you.
Event Cancelation:
A week before the MeetUp event, I will send another invitation to the members. If we do not have at least four people signed up five days prior to the event, it will be cancelled due to lack of participation.
Location & Parking:
The address, location, and parking information are attached to this event, usually on the right-hand side of your screen if you're using a computer.
Thank you to all who are coming.
Smiles,
Michelle Lee W.30 attendees
Past events
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