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What Are Systemic & Family Constellations ?

The Constellations method offers a unique and deep process of therapeutic exploration of the forces that moves us in life. Such forces are reflected through difficulties in relationships, career, health or even financial circumstances. The method provides a three-dimensional systemic ‘map’ of one’s life as it is at present. It is used as a major resource in working through trauma and it can assist in depression treatment and other behavioural challenges.

It is a simple yet powerful way to identify entanglements and blockages in one’s life and in one’s family history. The method brings awareness and clarity into personal challenges by focusing the client on the root-cause of such difficulties. Constellations provide an opening for a positive life shift and presents ways for a deep healing processes to occur.

What happens in a Constellations sessions ?
In Constellations work a ‘client’ is referred to as the ‘issue holder’. The method uses workshop participants as ‘representatives’ to stand-in for key people in the client’s life such as family members, colleagues, partners, ex partners etc. sometimes ‘abstract’ concepts such as an emotion, country of origin, religion or ‘destiny’ are also represented.

Each workshop offers a limited number of Issue Holders a chance to work while all other participants are invited to take part as Representatives. Workshop participants often report experiencing profound insights into their own lives by Representing or simply witnessing the process.

Please read what people who took part in our workshops are saying about their experience (below) or visit our Group Reviews section here (https://www.meetup.com/London-Family-Constellations/about/comments/?op=all).

Looking forward to see you in one of our up and coming workshops or training sessions

Illi Adato

MD

London School of Systemic & Family Constellations

http://www.LondonConstellations.uk

#LondonConstellations

Participants Comments from Past Constellations Workshops (http://bit.ly/29LClj1)

“Illi is a skilled facilitator with a true passion for his work. He is truly interested in helping people to flourish, and discover new sides of themselves! His group work and meditations are often simple, but profound. Illi is a gem for those who are on the path to greater self-awareness and personal development.”

— Geeta

“ I attended my first Healing, Roots, Wings Workshop with London Family Constellations. This work is transformational and Illi leads the group with a supportive balance of warmth, clarity and professionalism. This is a unique space to connect with all aspects of humanity free from judgement. It's a place to reconnect inner spaces fragmented through family events or ancestral trauma. Thanks Illi for your skill and care. I heartily recommend this group to anyone open to change. ”

— Imogen (https://www.meetup.com/London-Family-Constellations/members/198553537/)

“ London Family Constellations has been a profound experience for me. This work is very effective and deeply impacting in a life changing way. I am infinitely grateful and I look forward to discovering more. Absolutely amazing. Illi Adato is a genius in the art of healing and I would recommend him to anyone without hesitation. ”

— Bryan Onesiphorus Freeman (https://www.meetup.com/London-Family-Constellations/members/198376193/)

That is my 3rd Constellation with Illi and I am ever so grateful I have meet this group. I have been knowing/doing Constellation for about 3 years now. However, I find that Illi's experience and kindness is very different from what I have experienced before. I finally feel free to move on with my life guilty-free of all the heavy burden I was carrying on my entire being.

I want also to thank all the participants for the caring support ..

- Lilian (https://www.meetup.com/London-Family-Constellations/members/76651492/)

“ A great healing modality - safe, supportive and relaxed. ”

- Claire (https://www.meetup.com/London-Family-Constellations/members/10749716/)

“ I have attended 2 of Illi's events. The work works! The results are plain to see and the 'Issue holders' gain clarity and from I can see: peace. Illi leads his sessions in a calm, compassionate and uncomplicated way through a gentle questioning process and use by the participants and their representatives of the space in the room to elicit information and awareness, leading often to the missing elements of their stories. Extraordinary, productive and loving! ”

- AyPee (https://www.meetup.com/London-Family-Constellations/members/48871622/)

Illi is an excellent guide and as a first timer I can see both short and semi-long term benefits of my personal self-reflection triggered by participating in the constellation.

Both within my professional and personal environment I was immediately able to see myself practising certain behaviours that needs changing and never interested me before. The family constellations is A real tool to discover things about and within yourself and above all to look at them from a more ''external'' perspective.

Thanks very much Illi !

- Sofia Sagripanti (https://www.meetup.com/London-Family-Constellations-Meetup/members/30289832/)

Simply great! Illi excellent at understanding situations

- Darcy Cayre (https://www.meetup.com/London-Family-Constellations-Meetup/members/136216652/)

Well I must say I didn't really know what to expect as a first timer to Constellations. It was definately an eye opening and thought provoking experience. It was not only a real insight into the human psyche but it was way more powerful and moving than I thought it would ever be. A very interesting concept that needs to be experienced first hand as it is not really possible to explain via words alone. Highly recommended!

- Nick O D (https://www.meetup.com/London-Family-Constellations-Meetup/members/173370752/)

Great session today, thank you Illi and all. A journey of depth in a short space of time. I've come away feeling more fully alive and myself.

- Naomi Zara (https://www.meetup.com/London-Family-Constellations/members/9930604/)

Again I found it so transformative, with so many insights, sharings, and amazing beautiful support from such a great group of people. Illi has a wealth of experience, wisdom and empathy and facilitates so gently and subtly. Profound!

- Claire (https://www.meetup.com/London-Family-Constellations/members/10749716/)

“ Thought provoking. Challenging but worthwhile. ”

- Ting (https://www.meetup.com/London-Family-Constellations-Meetup/members/28472412/)

“ Absolutely fabulous experience . Cannot put it into words but if there is something that keeps coming up for you go to one of these workshops and sort it out Thank you to Illi and everyone involved in today's workshop I have learned so much ”

- Fiona Kennedy

A liberating experience. Powerful, expressive and beautiful to see so much growth and love shared by people who have never met before. I still have no idea how to explain how the experience of someone else's pain is possible, how we are able to connect instantly with something that we know so little about, how we are able to release a deep feeling on an unconscious level that does not even belong to us directly.

It is an undeniable truth that we are all connected through our consciousness
The constellation experiences shared between people generates a deeper understanding of ourselves and our universal consciousness becomes clearer.

Amazing!!! Magnificent. Thank you x

- Mirna Poppy Majer (https://www.meetup.com/__ms136662252/London-Family-Constellations-Meetup/events/193454022/comments/421098272/t/uc1_rd/?itemTypeToken=COMMENT&read=1&_af_eid=193454022&_af=event&expires=1412254617123&sig=8f601ac9767bf7eb9a76fc321a35054f6047acab)

A session which brought insight and perspective.

- Jon W (https://www.meetup.com/London-Family-Constellations/members/8491951/)

Upcoming events (5)

Create Personal Rituals with the Wheel of Four Directions

Online event

LEARN TO CREATE PERSONAL RITUALS WITH THE WHEEL OF FOUR DIRECTIONS - A 3 PART WORKSHOP 2.5h EACH PART.

Following the intensely deep experience shared by all at our March workshop, I will be offering another 3 part journey of experiential learning with the wheel.

Advance registration is required: https://calendly.com/illiadato/personal_rituals_with_the_wheel

We are all connected to the daily rising and setting of the sun; the change of seasons throughout the year, and the cycles of birth, aging, and death. Each person also has an internal compass that can attune to the four cardinal directions: North, South, East, and West.

In this workshop we will use these foundational knowings as the basis to create personal rituals for healing and guidance that anyone can do.

Through demonstration and experiential exercises, we will practice creating rituals for:

* Personal inquiry: get clarity and direction for practical, everyday questions

* Healing mind, body, and spirit: diagnose the nature of a current challenge and find what remedies will bring healing

* Send healing to a loved one, a client, or on behalf of a collective concern

* Connect with powerful resources and new ways to invite support from the realm of ancestors and beyond

WHERE DID THIS TECHNIQUE ORIGINATE?

This way of working with the Wheel of Four Directions is a key element from Systemic Ritual® developed by Daan van Kampenhout.

As we develop rituals for contemporary needs, we interpret and modernise a timeless practice common to many cultural traditions throughout the world.

Video demonstrating Systemic Ritual®: https://youtu.be/inJ2LegK9x8

THE FOUR DIRECTIONS MEETS HYPNO-CONSTELLATIONS™

Experience for the first time The Wheel of Four Directions fused with the Hypno-Constellations™ form of guided visualisation. Combining these two approaches allows for an intimate embodied connection to the Four Directions, where the multiple layers of meaning and guidance they hold can be accessed fully.

WHO IS THIS FOR?

In our circle will be people interested in everyday practices for personal growth; constellations facilitators, shamanic practitioners, coaches, and therapists.

DATES: May 17 - 19

Timings each day:
6:30 PM - 9 PM UK
1:30 PM - 4 PM ET
10:30 AM - 1 PM PT

TO REGISTER

Advance registration is required: https://calendly.com/illiadato/personal_rituals_with_the_wheel

IN-PERSON Full Day Workshop: Systemic & Family Constellations with Illi Adato

Dear Constellations Explorers,

We are delighted to commence our face to face meetings after a very long break. We shall meet at The Kailash Centre in St. Johns Wood, London NW8. Issue Holder (client) and Representative spaces are available, please follow the link to book:

WE FOLLOW GOVERNMENT COVID SAFETY GUIDELINES AT THIS EVENT.

Representative Booking (£55): https://calendly.com/illiadato/representative-space-in-person-full-day-constellation

Issue Holder Booking (£95): If you wish to attend as an Issue Holder at this workshop and have your own Constellation done please email your request to: [masked]

Please Note: There are limited spaces available, please wait for a confirmation email to confirm your Issue Holders booking.

This workshop provides a perfect opportunity to experience the deep and insightful Systemic Constellations process. A unique and powerful therapeutic method for self exploration, understanding core behaviours, removing blocks and reintroduce movement and growth. It is used as a major resource in working through trauma and it can assist in depression treatment.

To read comments from participants in previous workshops click this link http://bit.ly/29LClj1

What are Systemic Constellations ?

The Systemic Constellations method is a unique and deep process of therapeutic exploration of the forces that move us in life. Such forces are often appearing as difficulties or a sense of stuckness in life, affecting our behaviour, relationships, career, health / wellbeing or even financial circumstances. This method provides a three-dimensional ‘map’ of one’s life as it is at present.

It is a simple yet powerful way to explore entanglements and blockages in our personal life and in our family history. The method brings awareness and clarity into personal challenges by focusing the client on the root cause of such difficulties. Constellations provide an opening for a positive life shift and presents ways for deep healing processes to occur.

What happens in a Constellations sessions ?

In Constellations work the ‘client’ is referred to as the Issue Holder. The method uses workshop participants as ‘Representatives’ to stand-in for key people in the client’s life such as family members, colleagues, partners, ex partners etc. sometimes ‘abstract’ concepts such as an emotion, country of origin, religion or destiny are also represented. Each workshop offers a limited number of Issue Holders a chance to work and all other participants are invited to take part as Representatives.

Why Does This Work ?

Scientific research shows that the experiences of your ancestors can determine your behaviour today and affect future generations.** Recent scientific research into DNA reveals that a component named Epigenetic is embedding the effect of a traumatic experience by altering the genetic structure. It means that some of our behaviour patterns can be attributed to traumatic events in your family history. This notion has always been one of the guiding principles of Systemic / Constellations Therapy, a form of work that is dedicated to exposing and dealing with issues emerging from our family system.

Our group provide a safe space where deep personal work is done and where maintaining confidentiality and respect of each other's privacy is paramount.

An optional personal one-to-one counselling can be combined with the group work.

** DNA research paper and news article links:

Discover - Grandma's Experiences Leave a Mark on Your Genes http://bit.ly/1gRkkxl

BBC News - "Memories" pass between generations http://bbc.in/1dNShPe

Facilitated by Illi Adato MA Lon. Inst. GQHP. Crt(HYP). Crt(COACH). C-h-a-n-g-e.co.uk - Systemic, Organisational & Family Constellations ISCA Reg. | Hypnotherapy GHR & IHF Reg. | Tune-In Counselling | Advanced NLP Therapeutic Specialist™ |

Looking forward to another moving encounter

London School of Systemic & Family Constellations

IN-PERSON - Introduction Evening to Systemic & Family Constellations (only £25!)

London School of Systemic & Family Constellations

£25.00

Dear Constellations Explorers,

WE ARE DELIGHTED TO BE MEETING FACE TO FACE IN LONDON AGAIN !

This evening workshop provides a perfect opportunity to experience the deep and insightful Systemic Constellations process in a small group settings. A unique and powerful therapeutic method for self exploration, understanding core behaviours, removing blocks and reintroduce movement and growth. It is used as a major resource in working through trauma and it can assist in depression treatment.

These sessions are offered at a minimal price of £25 per person, Advanced registration and payment is required please follow this link: https://calendly.com/illiadato/in-person-intro-to-constellations

To read comments from participants in previous workshops click this link: http://bit.ly/29LClj1

What are Systemic Constellations ?

The Systemic Constellations method is a unique therapeutic process of exploration of the forces that move us in life. Such forces are often appearing as difficulties or a sense of stuckness in life, affecting our behaviour, relationships, career, health / wellbeing or even financial circumstances. This method provides a three-dimensional ‘map’ of one’s life as it is at present. It is a simple yet powerful way to explore entanglements and blockages in our personal life and in our family history. The method brings awareness and clarity into personal challenges by focusing the client on the root cause of such difficulties. Constellations provide an opening for a positive life shift and presents ways for deep healing processes to occur.

What happens in a Constellations sessions ?

In Constellations work the ‘client’ is referred to as the ‘Issue Holder’*. The method uses workshop participants as ‘Representatives’ to stand-in for key people in the client’s life such as family members, colleagues, partners, ex partners etc. sometimes ‘abstract’ concepts such as an emotion, country of origin, religion or destiny are also represented. Each workshop offers a limited number of Issue Holders a chance to work and all other participants are invited to take part as Representatives. Workshop participants often report (see reviews: http://bit.ly/29LClj1) experiencing profound insights into their own lives by simply witnessing the process, regardless of how they choose to take part.

Why Does This Work ?

Scientific research shows that the experiences of your ancestors can determine your behaviour today and affect future generations.** Recent scientific research into DNA reveals that a component named Epigenetic is embedding the effect of a traumatic experience by altering the genetic structure. It means that some of our behaviour patterns can be attributed to traumatic events in your family history. This notion has always been one of the guiding principles of Systemic / Constellations Therapy, a form of work that is dedicated to exposing and dealing with issues emerging from our family system.

“It is only now that science is catching-up with what is evident in Systemic Constellations work and visible in each and every one of our therapy sessions; trauma in the family history directly affects future generations' behaviour"
Illi Adato MD.

Advanced registration and payment is required please follow this link: https://calendly.com/illiadato/in-person-intro-to-constellations

Our group provide a safe space where deep personal work is done and where maintaining confidentiality and respect of each other's privacy is paramount.

* There are NO Issue Holder (client) spaces allocated in advance in this workshop. All participants will have a chance to take part in variety of exercises / constellations. A personal issue may be picked by the facilitator on the night.

** DNA research paper and news article links:

Discover - Grandma's Experiences Leave a Mark on Your Genes https://bit.ly/3dLwEkK

BBC News - "Memories" pass between generations http://bbc.in/1dNShPe

Facilitated by Illi Adato MA Lon. Inst. GQHP. Crt(HYP). Crt(COACH). Systemic, Organisational & Family Constellations ISCA Reg. | Hypnotherapy GHR & IHF Reg. | Tune-In Counselling | Advanced NLP Therapeutic Specialist™ |

London School of Systemic & Family Constellations

Monthly Mentoring: Support for building your practice

Online event

£37.00

At each mentoring group meeting, there is support for fusing your prior trainings and initiations, as well as the “something more” you may be sensing to address the unique challenges of today. We address personal inner work, looking at what stands in the way, as you continue to grow and evolve your offering.

Advance registration is required: https://calendly.com/illiadato/monthly-mentoring-may

Monthly sessions focus on:

HELPING THE HELPER
As practitioners, we are used to holding space in support for others, but who helps the helper? In this group you will receive support to take your place as a practitioner more fully. This may involve retrieving hidden resources, gathering new tools, or inner work needed to prevent burnout.

CASE CONSULTATION
Those who have started working with clients can bring cases for confidential guidance. If there are sticking points we will explore how to adjust so that you are consistently operating from a place of strength. Together we discover an opportunity to grow that is encapsulated in each of these challenges.

FACILITATION PRACTICE
There will be an opportunity to practice facilitating individual and group processes and receive feedback. You will practice creating containers that are systemically sound, where both clients and facilitator are well-supported in their respective processes.

WHO IS THIS FOR?
Those who have been in prior London Constellations training programs with Illi Adato are welcome to join. In our circle will be family and systemic constellations facilitators, shamanic practitioners, subtle energy workers, therapists, coaches, and people who do not fit neatly into any one box.

We are a growing community of practitioners who are integrating what they have learned from a variety of healing and spiritual paths, as well as their own ancestral traditions and life experiences.

TO REGISTER
Advance registration is required: https://calendly.com/illiadato/monthly-mentoring-may

London School of Systemic and Family Constellation

Past events (306)

Constellation Essentials Weekend: The Orders of Love

Online event

£155.00

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