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What Are Systemic & Family Constellations ?
The Constellations method offers a unique and deep process of therapeutic exploration of the forces that move us in life. Such forces are reflected through difficulties in relationships, career, health, or even financial circumstances. The method provides a three-dimensional systemic ‘map’ of one’s life as it is at present. It is used as a major resource in working through trauma and can assist in depression treatment and other behavioral challenges.
It is a simple yet powerful way to identify entanglements and blockages in one’s life and in one’s family history. The method brings awareness and clarity into personal challenges by focusing the client on the root cause of such difficulties. Constellations provide an opening for a positive life shift and present ways for deep healing processes to occur.
What happens in a Constellations session ?
In Constellations work, a ‘client’ is referred to as the ‘issue holder’. The method uses workshop participants as ‘representatives’ to stand in for key people in the client’s life, such as family members, colleagues, partners, or ex-partners, etc. Sometimes ‘abstract’ concepts such as an emotion, country of origin, religion, or ‘destiny’ are also represented.
Each workshop offers a limited number of Issue Holders a chance to work while all other participants are invited to take part as Representatives. Workshop participants often report experiencing profound insights into their own lives by Representing or simply witnessing the process.
Please read what people who took part in our workshops are saying about their experience (below) or visit our Group Reviews section here or here
Looking forward to seeing you in one of our upcoming workshops or training sessions,
Illi Adato
MD
London School of Systemic & Family Constellations
[www.LondonConstellations.co.uk](http://www.londonconstellations.uk/)
#LondonConstellations
Participants Comments from Past Constellations Workshops
“Illi is a skilled facilitator with a true passion for his work. He is truly interested in helping people to flourish, and discover new sides of themselves! His group work and meditations are often simple, but profound. Illi is a gem for those who are on the path to greater self-awareness and personal development.”
— Geeta
“I attended my first Healing, Roots, Wings Workshop with London Family Constellations. This work is transformational and Illi leads the group with a supportive balance of warmth, clarity and professionalism. This is a unique space to connect with all aspects of humanity free from judgement. It's a place to reconnect inner spaces fragmented through family events or ancestral trauma. Thanks Illi for your skill and care. I heartily recommend this group to anyone open to change.”
— Imogen
“London Family Constellations has been a profound experience for me. This work is very effective and deeply impacting in a life changing way. I am infinitely grateful and I look forward to discovering more. Absolutely amazing. Illi Adato is a genius in the art of healing and I would recommend him to anyone without hesitation.”
— Bryan Onesiphorus Freeman
"That is my 3rd Constellation with Illi and I am ever so grateful I have meet this group. I have been knowing/doing Constellation for about 3 years now. However, I find that Illi's experience and kindness is very different from what I have experienced before. I finally feel free to move on with my life guilty-free of all the heavy burden I was carrying on my entire being.
I want also to thank all the participants for the caring support .."
“ A great healing modality - safe, supportive and relaxed. ”
“I have attended 2 of Illi's events. The work works! The results are plain to see and the 'Issue holders' gain clarity and from I can see: peace. Illi leads his sessions in a calm, compassionate and uncomplicated way through a gentle questioning process and use by the participants and their representatives of the space in the room to elicit information and awareness, leading often to the missing elements of their stories. Extraordinary, productive and loving!”
"Illi is an excellent guide and as a first timer I can see both short and semi-long term benefits of my personal self-reflection triggered by participating in the constellation.
Both within my professional and personal environment I was immediately able to see myself practising certain behaviours that needs changing and never interested me before. The family constellations is A real tool to discover things about and within yourself and above all to look at them from a more ''external'' perspective.
Thanks very much Illi!"
"Simply great! Illi excellent at understanding situations"
"Well I must say I didn't really know what to expect as a first timer to Constellations. It was definately an eye opening and thought provoking experience. It was not only a real insight into the human psyche but it was way more powerful and moving than I thought it would ever be. A very interesting concept that needs to be experienced first hand as it is not really possible to explain via words alone. Highly recommended!"
"Great session today, thank you Illi and all. A journey of depth in a short space of time. I've come away feeling more fully alive and myself."
"Again I found it so transformative, with so many insights, sharings, and amazing beautiful support from such a great group of people. Illi has a wealth of experience, wisdom and empathy and facilitates so gently and subtly. Profound!"
“Thought provoking. Challenging but worthwhile.”
“Absolutely fabulous experience . Cannot put it into words but if there is something that keeps coming up for you go to one of these workshops and sort it out Thank you to Illi and everyone involved in today's workshop I have learned so much”
- Fiona Kennedy
"A liberating experience. Powerful, expressive and beautiful to see so much growth and love shared by people who have never met before. I still have no idea how to explain how the experience of someone else's pain is possible, how we are able to connect instantly with something that we know so little about, how we are able to release a deep feeling on an unconscious level that does not even belong to us directly.
It is an undeniable truth that we are all connected through our consciousness
The constellation experiences shared between people generates a deeper understanding of ourselves and our universal consciousness becomes clearer.
Amazing!!! Magnificent. Thank you x"
"A session which brought insight and perspective."
Upcoming events
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- £6.00
Constellations, Systemic Principles & How They Affect Us - Video Crash Course £6
·OnlineOnlineTHIS IS A RECORDED SESSION, NOT A 'LIVE' WORKSHOP. VIEW AT ANY TIME. A VIDEO LINK AND PASSWORD WILL BE SENT AUTOMATICALLY AFTER PAYMENT.
We are glad to offer a special promotion price of £6 (was £37) for this Systemic Constellations Video Crash Course - presented by international teacher and Systemic Constellations facilitator Illi Adato, founder and MD of London School of Systemic and Family Constellations.
Book and pay here: https://calendly.com/illiadato/systemic-principles-crash-video-course
This mini course is created for anyone who is interested in getting a deeper understanding of the Orders that govern any human system and how our lives, behaviour and well-being are affected by them.
A Personal Piece of Constellation Work is Waiting...
This video class offers all viewers an opportunity to work through a personal challenge while being guided through a complete HypnoConstellations™ process using guided visualisation.Constellations are a unique and powerful therapeutic method for self awareness, understanding core behaviours, identifying & removing blocks and reintroducing flow and growth. It is often used as a major resource in working through trauma and it can assist in depression treatment.
WHAT YOU WILL LEARN
The 'Orders of Love' Place/Time/Belonging/Exchange; the essential principles Systemic Constellations work is based upon, they hold the key for clearly seeing the root cause of almost any personal/relationship crisis.
Loyalties, Belonging & Entanglements all of which are at the core of what drives our personality, identity, behaviour and our way of being in a relationship.
To read comments from participants from all over the world in previous workshops click this link: https://bit.ly/33Asprs
WHAT ARE SYSTEMIC CONSTELLATIONS?
The Systemic Constellations method is a unique therapeutic process of exploration of the forces that move us in life. Such forces are often appearing as difficulties or a sense of stuckness in life, affecting our behaviour, relationships, career, health/wellbeing or even financial circumstances. This method provides a three-dimensional ‘map’ of one’s life as it is at present.
It is a simple yet powerful way to explore entanglements and blockages in our personal life and in our family history. The method brings awareness and clarity into personal challenges by focusing the client on the root cause of such difficulties. Constellations provide an opening for a positive life shift and presents ways for deep healing processes to occur.
WHY DOES THIS WORK?
Scientific research shows that the experiences of your ancestors can determine your behaviour today and affect future generations.**
Scientific research into DNA reveals that a component named Epigenetic is embedding the effect of a traumatic experience by altering the genetic structure. It means that some of our behaviour patterns can be attributed to traumatic events in our family history. This notion has always been one of the guiding principles of Systemic Constellations, a form of work that is dedicated to exposing and dealing with issues emerging from our family system.
“It is only now that science is catching up with what is evident in Systemic Constellations work and visible in each and every one of our therapy sessions; trauma in the family history directly affects future generations' behaviour" Illi Adato LondonConstellations MD
A video link and password will be sent to you after payment.
Book and pay here: https://calendly.com/illiadato/systemic-principles-crash-video-courseDNA Research & News Article:
Discover - Grandma's Experiences Leave a Mark on Your Genes https://bit.ly/3dLwEkK
BBC News - "Memories" pass between generations http://bbc.in/1dNShPe
Facilitated by Illi Adato MA Lon. Inst. SQHP. Crt(HYP). Crt(COACH). Systemic, Organisational & Family Constellations member of ISCA | Hypnotherapy Senior Member of GHR (UK) & Member of IHF (USA) | Tune-In Counselling | Advanced NLP Therapeutic Specialist™
London School of Systemic and Family Constellations
1 attendee - £19.00
Becoming a Bridge-Working with Death As a Key Resource In Constellations (VIDEO)
·OnlineOnlineTHIS IS A RECORDED SESSION, NOT A 'LIVE' WORKSHOP. VIEW AT ANY TIME. A VIDEO LINK AND PASSWORD WILL BE SENT AUTOMATICALLY AFTER PAYMENT.
We are glad to offer a special promotion price of £19 (reduced from £37) for this Becoming a Bridge - Working with Death As a Key Resource In Constellations Video Course - presented by international teacher and Systemic Constellations facilitator Illi Adato, founder and MD of London School of Systemic and Family Constellations.
BOOK & PAY HERE: https://calendly.com/illiadato/becoming-a-bridge-video-course
An advanced online learning encounter for Constellation facilitators, Systemic Practitioners and for those who feel called to join this deep experiential journey.
Working with Death as a Key Resource in Systemic Constellation opens up a wealth of possibilities when facing challenges during a therapeutic process both as facilitators or as the client/issue holder.
In this 1.5 hour online workshop focusing on the various ways death can be included in Constellation work to support those who are facing a major loss or those who are alongside the dying.
A group deep-dive into the endless possibilities that opens up when death is represented in Systemic and Family Constellations. Learning practical ways to hold space and navigate the healing process in the presence of death.
A video link and password will be sent to you after payment.
BOOK & PAY HERE: https://calendly.com/illiadato/becoming-a-bridge-video-courseTo read comments from participants from all over the world in previous workshops click this link: https://bit.ly/33Asprs
Facilitated by Illi Adato MA Lon. Inst. SQHP. Crt(HYP). Crt(COACH). Systemic, Organisational & Family Constellations member of ISCA | Hypnotherapy Senior Member of GHR (UK) & Member of IHF (USA) | Tune-In Counselling | Advanced NLP Therapeutic Specialist™
London School of Systemic and Family Constellations
1 attendee - £75.00
Mixed-Culture Couple Challenges – The Systemic Constellation View
Kailash Centre, 7 Newcourt Street, London, GBFacilitated by Illi Adato - Founder & Head of London School of Systemic & Family Constellations.
Workshop Date: Saturday July 25th 2026
Time: 10am-6pm
Venue: Kailash Centre - London NW8REGISTER HERE:
https://calendly.com/illiadato/mixed-culture-couple-challenges
I warmly invite you to a unique, experiential workshop I’ll be facilitating in July, about a subject that is very close to my heart:
“Mixed-Culture Couple Challenges – The Systemic Constellation View”In our increasingly interconnected world, more and more couples are building relationships that bridge different cultures, religions, languages, and family traditions. While this can be a source of great richness, it can also bring hidden tensions, misunderstandings, and repeating conflicts that are hard to explain with logic alone.
This workshop offers a Systemic and Family Constellations perspective on those challenges.Together, we will explore how our relationships are shaped not only by our personal histories, but also by:
Unresolved entanglements in our family systems
Transgenerational trauma carried across generations
Invisible loyalties to parents, grandparents, or important figures in our family histories
Cultural and historical events (war, migration, colonisation, discrimination, loss) that still echo in the present.What this workshop is about
Using the method of systemic and family constellations, we will gently bring to light:
How each partner may be unconsciously loyal to their family of origin and its values, beliefs, and cultural norms.
How unprocessed grief, shame, exclusion, or trauma in one or both family lineages can surface in the couple’s dynamic.
How cultural expectations around gender roles, religion, money, sexuality, children, and extended family can create tension or confusion.
How histories of migration, exile, racism, or social rupture may affect a couple’s capacity for safety, trust, and closeness.Through guided constellation processes, participants will have the chance to:
See their own relationship from a wider, systemic perspective.
Recognise which burdens they may be carrying on behalf of their families or cultures.
Honour the stories and suffering of previous generations.
Gently disentangle from what does not belong to them.
Create more space for choice, connection, and mutual respect in the relationship.
Who is this for?
This workshop is intended for:
Couples formed across different cultures, countries, ethnic groups, races, religions, or languages.
Individuals from mixed or migrant backgrounds who wish to better understand their patterns in relationships.
Therapists, coaches, and professionals who work with multicultural couples and want to deepen their systemic understanding.
You are welcome to attend:
As a couple, if both partners are open to exploring together.
As an individual, if your partner cannot attend or prefers not to, or if you are reflecting on a past or current mixed-culture relationship.No previous experience with Systemic or Family Constellations is required.
What you can expect ?
During the workshop, we will combine:
Short theoretical inputs on systemic and family constellation principles.
Guided exercises to explore your own family system, loyalties, and cultural roots.
Constellation sessions (in the full group or smaller groups) to explore couple dynamics
Time for reflection, integration, and questions.The space will be held with respect, confidentiality, and sensitivity to cultural and personal boundaries. You are always free to participate at the level that feels right for you; observing can be just as powerful as taking an active role in a constellation.
Possible themes we may explore
Feeling torn between cultures, families, or countries.
Conflicts around religion, tradition, or rituals (weddings, funerals, celebrations, child-rearing).
Tension between individual freedom and family/community expectations.
Loyalty conflicts: when saying “yes” to a partner feels like saying “no” to one’s own family or culture.
Repeating patterns of distance, conflict, or withdrawal in the relationship.
The impact of historical trauma (war, genocide, displacement, political oppression) on trust and safety in the couple.
Managing pressure or judgment from extended family on both sides.
Intention of the workshop
Our intention is to create a respectful, compassionate space in which:
Each person can feel seen, with their cultural and family background honoured.
The pain and love carried by previous generations can be recognised.
Old entanglements and unconscious loyalties can begin to unwind.
Couples can find new ways to stand side by side, facing both families and cultures with more strength and clarity.
From a systemic constellation view, love flows more freely when everything that belongs is respectfully acknowledged and given a place.This workshop aims to support that movement—so that your relationship is less burdened by the past and more open to the future you wish to create together.
If you feel called to explore your relationship and family roots in this way, we would be delighted to welcome you.
REGISTER HERE:
https://calendly.com/illiadato/mixed-culture-couple-challenges
For more information, please contact:
office@londonconstellations.uk
Date: Saturday July 25th 2026
Time: 10am-6pm
Venue: Kailash Centre - London NW8
Workshop language: English
With warmth and respect,
Illi Adato1 attendee - £6.00
Constellations, Systemic Principles & How They Affect Us - Video Crash Course £6
·OnlineOnlineTHIS IS A RECORDED SESSION, NOT A 'LIVE' WORKSHOP. VIEW AT ANY TIME. A VIDEO LINK AND PASSWORD WILL BE SENT AUTOMATICALLY AFTER PAYMENT.
We are glad to offer a special promotion price of £6 (was £37) for this Systemic Constellations Video Crash Course - presented by international teacher and Systemic Constellations facilitator Illi Adato, founder and MD of London School of Systemic and Family Constellations.
Book and pay here: https://calendly.com/illiadato/systemic-principles-crash-video-course
This mini course is created for anyone who is interested in getting a deeper understanding of the Orders that govern any human system and how our lives, behaviour and well-being are affected by them.
A Personal Piece of Constellation Work is Waiting...
This video class offers all viewers an opportunity to work through a personal challenge while being guided through a complete HypnoConstellations™ process using guided visualisation.Constellations are a unique and powerful therapeutic method for self awareness, understanding core behaviours, identifying & removing blocks and reintroducing flow and growth. It is often used as a major resource in working through trauma and it can assist in depression treatment.
WHAT YOU WILL LEARN
The 'Orders of Love' Place/Time/Belonging/Exchange; the essential principles Systemic Constellations work is based upon, they hold the key for clearly seeing the root cause of almost any personal/relationship crisis.
Loyalties, Belonging & Entanglements all of which are at the core of what drives our personality, identity, behaviour and our way of being in a relationship.
To read comments from participants from all over the world in previous workshops click this link: https://bit.ly/33Asprs
WHAT ARE SYSTEMIC CONSTELLATIONS?
The Systemic Constellations method is a unique therapeutic process of exploration of the forces that move us in life. Such forces are often appearing as difficulties or a sense of stuckness in life, affecting our behaviour, relationships, career, health/wellbeing or even financial circumstances. This method provides a three-dimensional ‘map’ of one’s life as it is at present.
It is a simple yet powerful way to explore entanglements and blockages in our personal life and in our family history. The method brings awareness and clarity into personal challenges by focusing the client on the root cause of such difficulties. Constellations provide an opening for a positive life shift and presents ways for deep healing processes to occur.
WHY DOES THIS WORK?
Scientific research shows that the experiences of your ancestors can determine your behaviour today and affect future generations.**
Scientific research into DNA reveals that a component named Epigenetic is embedding the effect of a traumatic experience by altering the genetic structure. It means that some of our behaviour patterns can be attributed to traumatic events in our family history. This notion has always been one of the guiding principles of Systemic Constellations, a form of work that is dedicated to exposing and dealing with issues emerging from our family system.
“It is only now that science is catching up with what is evident in Systemic Constellations work and visible in each and every one of our therapy sessions; trauma in the family history directly affects future generations' behaviour" Illi Adato LondonConstellations MD
A video link and password will be sent to you after payment.
Book and pay here: https://calendly.com/illiadato/systemic-principles-crash-video-courseDNA Research & News Article:
Discover - Grandma's Experiences Leave a Mark on Your Genes https://bit.ly/3dLwEkK
BBC News - "Memories" pass between generations http://bbc.in/1dNShPe
Facilitated by Illi Adato MA Lon. Inst. SQHP. Crt(HYP). Crt(COACH). Systemic, Organisational & Family Constellations member of ISCA | Hypnotherapy Senior Member of GHR (UK) & Member of IHF (USA) | Tune-In Counselling | Advanced NLP Therapeutic Specialist™
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