What we’re about
The "Love Out Lound" group was originally designed to be exclusively for single lesbians, bisexual and queer identified women wanting to connect to one another for dating, romance and friendships of all ages.
Since the pandemic however, I have discovered that there are many kinds of events, both live and online that can be a fantastic way to meet each other. It seems that the majority of women attending meetup events are usually single, so it all works out. In addition, our relationship status changes occasionally (or more) and that would mean leaving the group and then possibly re-joining.
So for now, feel free to join and feel free to stay, regardless of your relationship status!
We will have a way to identify your relationship status on nametags so you will know who is available and open to dating if that's what you are looking for.
We are committed to getting you face to face with other women loving women for real conversations and true connections.
Our outings includes support/discussion groups, dinners and brunches as well as mixers/dances to encourages our single sisters to discover the next great love of their life.
If you are interested in travel, please visit LesbianGetaways.com to learn about our two upcoming trips in 2024 to Greece and to join the mailing list! There are some photos and videos to watch to give you a good sense of who we are and what we are up to.
It's good if you are subscribed to new event announcements and organizer messages so you won't miss out on any of the good stuff.
Welcome to the group and I sincerely hope to meet you at some point soon! Feel free to reach out with any questions, comments or feedback you may have for me.
Until then,
Your organizer, Jody
Upcoming events (1)
See all- Erotica Extravaganza: East Meets West #6 FundraiserLink visible for attendees
After a 3 year hiatus, the Erotica Extravaganza: East Meets West is BACK! So Many Women...So Little Time is excited to see what happens again with our collaboration with Lez Luv, of East Coast. Yes, it's Erotica Extravaganza #6 and wow, do we have a line up for you!
ALL THINGS EROTIC (Open Mic Style)We are excited to welcome Kati Bird, our featured performer, who will be demonstrating Shibari–the Japanese art of tying the body in ropes, a captivating art form. Watch as she demos live (10 min) and will take Q&As afterwards. Read more about Kati in the comments section.
And then of course, we have so much talent in the community! We want to see/hear/experience you! Whether it's an amorous reading, poetry, song, dancing, art, photography or whatever else you can imagine, we invite you to share with us. It can be original work or someone else's masterpiece. Let's share and celebrate our secret lesbian erotic fantasies, romantic desires or sensual works!
Please limit your presentation to approximately 3-5 minutes.
You don't have to perform to come to the event. Appreciative audience members are quite welcome!We invite and encourage you to wear something that you feel erotic/sexy: leather, lace, latex, silk, whatever it is for you (optional). We kick off the evening with a fashion show--spotlighting these hot, sexy outfits (only if you consent of course).
Video cameras must be ON to participate in this event. This creates a safe environment for the performers.
* Spoiler alert, this will be an event that includes sexual themes.
This event is $20, fee waived for performers. We will give 50% of our proceed to WISEPlace charity of OC for unhoused women and use the other 50% to defray costs of the meetup. Since most of our events are free, we see this as a win/win! For $20 you get to 1) experience all things erotic, 2) donate to a valued charity, and 3) support your meetup!
PERFORMERS: Please email your event host (Melissa or Cynthia) before the event to secure your time slot.SMWSLT: Melissa: mmcmanislcsw@gmail.com
Lez Luv: Cynthia: cynthia.lezluv@gmail.comSee you there for another exciting and intimate event!
Your event hosts, Melissa & Cynthia
You can send payment to either of these accounts:
paypal @jodypotiker
venmo @Jody-PotikerJody will forward half the proceeds to WisePlace.
If you need the passcode, it is 6969