ABQ Moon Circle {Honoring the Divine Feminine}

To create a supportive and spiritual center where women and non-binary folks can gather to honor the cycles of life, to create a safe space to share stories for heart-to-heart connections, and where all are welcome and made to feel safe and loved.

The intention of our circle is:

• to co-create a connection with ourselves, the earth, the moon and the sacred
• to reach back and learn about our ancestors, their rituals and rites
• to create our own ceremonies based on our context
• to share and receive in beautiful space, deep listening, teachings and practices
• to engage in sacred connection and healing through the Divine Feminine and Mother Earth
• to build supportive space and friendships

1. In this Circle, no one is above another. We are all equals and will strive for equal sharing time and equal respect.
2. Safe Space, Brave Space - A space where everyone’s physical and emotional security is upheld is a space where they can be brave to share their deepest thoughts and feelings. We all have a responsibility to keep each other safe, and we all have a responsibility to be brave within the circle.
3. This Circle is a safe space to share and be held in active listening. The purpose of this Circle is not to solve another’s problems, but rather to hold space for them.
4. Pass the talking stick. During the sacred sharing portions of our Circle gatherings, do not speak unless you are holding the talking stick. This will help us keep our attention on the person whose turn it is to share. There will be conversational times with the circle as well, where the stick isn’t used. Try during these times, as well, not to talk over someone and to nurture your active listening skills.
5. Own your triggers. If someone says something that you find offensive, respond with the understanding that, there is nothing wrong with what they said, but “this how it made me feel.” Try to understand their intention.
6. No politics. Let’s keep politics out of the Circle.
7. No judgment. Let’s keep all judgment out of the Circle, and strive to not judge others or ourselves.
8. Keep an open mind. We are all here to learn from each other. To listen to what the other is sharing and consider it thoughtfully. Even if it’s not your cup of tea, challenge yourself to remain open to its possibility and remember their pure intention.
9. When you feel challenged, ask for help. Whether it’s around a circle gathering’s logistics, difficulty approaching a conflict with someone, or something - reach out for help.
10. There are no restrictions around meeting up with others in the group 1-1 or in smaller groups. It is encouraged not to form cliques, however, and to keep an intention of connecting with each other over time to deepen their bond.
11. No phones will come out during the Circle, as it is a sacred space and phones can separate us, even unintentionally. Please don’t pull out a phone without the group’s permission. It is understood phones can be useful for taking photos (again, only with permission), taking notes, or sharing things. But during the sacred Circle time, let’s keep our attention on one another.
12. When we are in Sacred Space, you are responsible for your own conduct. Especially as it relates to alcohol, marijuana, or other intoxicants. You are to make every effort to conduct yourself respectfully and in a way that is safe for all present. While this is not a 100% sober circle (alcohol/marijuana may be consumed if the host allows it and indicates when the event is created), remember that some may struggle with addiction. Know your limits. Be open, be loving, and reach out for help when you need it!