The Bay Area Tantra Meetup

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San Francisco, CA, US

About us

You’re curious about Tantra and want to bring more connection, pleasure, and playfulness into your love life—but maybe you don’t know where to start. That’s why we created Bay Area Tantra Meet Up: a welcoming, safe, and exciting space for both singles and couples to explore intimacy, sensuality, and connection.

Led by Erwan & Alicia Davon, founders of The Davon Method and longtime Relationship Coaches & Tantra Teachers, this meetup blends fun with learning.. In a supportive environment, you’ll connect with like-minded people and explore exercises designed to build chemistry, deepen connection, and enhance your confidence and enjoyment in relationships. Everyone—singles, couples, and all gender identities—is warmly welcome.
This group is for those who care about:

Cultivating spark, sensuality, and playful connection
Learning practical skills to enhance intimacy and chemistry
Communicating with clarity, presence, and ease

What you’ll experience:

Guided Tantra exercises for touch, connection, and energy flow
Fun partner and group practices that teach key intimacy skills
Techniques to bring more presence, chemistry, and playfulness into your love life

Can’t come with a partner? No problem! The activities are designed to be powerful and enjoyable whether you come solo or with a partner. Each workshop offers a new theme, skill, and experience to help you grow your confidence, connection, and pleasure.

Meet Your Facilitators

Erwan & Alicia Davon, longtime Relationship Coaches & San Francisco's foremost Tantra Teachers, developed their signature process, the Davon Method, and have taught it to over 20,000 students in groups, retreats and individual sessions. As a married couple, they have been teaching singles to get into relationship & couples to thrive in relationship for the last 25 years. They have become the go-to place in the San Francisco Bay Area for all things romantic and sexual and are quickly becoming that worldwide through online learning.

Erwan and Alicia have a unique approach to relationship coaching that combines their educational backgrounds in psychology and aspects of Zen Buddhism to provide a holistic method to effectively improve connection with the self and others.

Erwan studied psychology and graduated with honors after a difficult childhood and an early introduction to therapeutic work. He went on to live and study in a Zen Monastery, direct a Yoga ashram, and teach personal development at one of the world’s largest personal growth organizations. Erwan’s passion for helping and teaching people led him to found The Davon Method in 1995, specifically to help people improve their romantic relationships.

Alicia holds a Master’s degree in Integral Psychology with a focus on women’s romantic and sexual expression. She trained as a therapist before meeting Erwan and led numerous women’s groups devoted to female pleasure and life fulfillment from career to relationship. She met Erwan 23 years ago and started teaching with him soon after.

They have spent years perfecting their curriculum and techniques and provide a safe place so you can improve chemistry, connection, communication, and passion in your love life! Get ready to have fun because working with them is a blast!

Upcoming events

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Energetic Tantra ~ Attraction at Your Fingertips - singles & couples in SF
Wed, Feb 11 · 6:30 PM PST
2501 Harrison St #15, San Francisco, CA, US
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Join us for a workshop that reveals how attraction really works, through simple Tantric practices you can feel instantly in your body.
Attraction isn’t something you figure out. It’s something you feel.

That spark. That pull. That unspoken yes.

In Tantra, attraction is understood as an energetic experience, not a psychological performance. When you learn to work with energy directly, you bypass self-doubt, self-judgment, and the endless inner commentary about whether you are attractive enough or doing it right.
In this experiential workshop, Alicia & Erwan Davon, longtime Relationship coaches and San Francisco Bay Area's leading modern Tantra teachers, will guide you into sensing, receiving, and expressing attraction through the body. You will explore how energy moves through your physical and subtle body, how it is transmitted through your eyes, presence, and awareness, and how to consciously send and receive it with another without force or effort.

Because we are working energetically, the mind naturally quiets. The inner judge softens. What emerges instead is confidence, aliveness, and authentic magnetism.

This work is also a spiritual practice. Tantra as it was meant to be lived in real bodies, real relationships, and real sensuality.

You will experience:
✨ How attraction feels in your body and how to amplify it naturally
✨ Practices to receive and transmit energy with clarity and ease
✨ A deeper connection to your subtle body and intuitive knowing

We will blend meditation, discussion, Q&A, and safe, accessible partnered exercises. For those coming in person, you can participate with a partner you come with, a partner you meet at the workshop, or independently. Practices are adaptable for same-sex pairs and all experience levels. Online participants coming as a couple will follow along live with SF attendees, and online singles will join other singles online for fun connecting exercises.

And… the workshop will transition into a COCKTAIL PARTY so we can all socialize in an informal way, enjoying the vibe of a fantastic evening!

To RSVP here on Meet Up is not sufficient; you need to get your ticket through Eventbrite, here is the link: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/energetic-tantra-attraction-at-your-fingertips-singles-couples-in-sf-tickets-1980480193572?aff=BA
1 attendee
Deeper Intimacy through Tantra for couples & singles that come with a partner
Sat, Feb 14 · 11:00 AM PST
Sebastopol, CA, Sebastopol, Ca, US
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Join us for a relaxing, pleasure-filled Valentine's Day full of guided Tantric practice in an uplifting + heart-connected environment
Immerse yourself in a transformative day of somatic connection, presence, and sensual exploration.

Deeper Intimacy through Tantra is a full-day workshop designed for couples and singles who come with a partner. Set in a gorgeous private property in Sebastopol, this workshop provides the perfect sanctuary to slow down, reconnect, and deepen your experience of intimacy.

Led by Alicia & Erwan Davon, longtime Relationship Coaches and the SF Bay Area’s foremost Tantra teachers, this isn’t your average “sit and listen” event. We will immerse ourselves in a variety of interactive exercises, connective touch, and embodied meditations, igniting your senses and supercharging sexual chemistry.

Lunch, aphrodisiac tea, elixirs and dessert are all included, offering a chance to nourish your body as well as your heart. Whether you’re celebrating Valentine’s Day as a couple, or exploring self-awareness and connection as a single with a friend, date, or practice partner, this workshop is a unique opportunity to step into presence, play, and pleasure.

Workshop includes:
✨Guided Tantric practices to supercharge sexual chemistry in your own body & someone else’s
✨Somatic exercises that heighten pleasure, deepen intimacy, and enhance presence
✨A pathway to bring Tantra & deeper connection into your own relationship life!

Spaces are limited—reserve your spot for you + your partner for a turned on & exquisite Valentine’s Day! Please arrive by 10:45am so you can settle in + relax before the workshop.

There will be no nudity or explicit sexuality during this workshop
Dress comfortably. There’ll be some light yoga, nothing strenuous, which will lead us into being present in our bodies. From there you will engage in some tantric touch exercises with the partner you come with.

To RSVP here on Meet Up is not sufficient; you need to get your ticket through Eventbrite, here is the link: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/deeper-intimacy-through-tantra-for-couples-singles-that-come-w-a-partner-tickets-1975062286466?aff=BA
1 attendee
Tantra Positions & Practices for Couples & Singles who come with a partner
Sun, Feb 22 · 5:45 PM PST
San Francisco, CA 94103, CA, San Francisco, US
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Join Erwan and Alicia Davon, SF Bay Area’s foremost Tantra Teachers, for a captivating, embodied workshop where you’ll learn the foundational Tantric positions and guided practices that open the body, awaken energy, and deepen connection.

Whether you’re attending with a romantic partner or a practice partner, this experiential evening invites you into a turned-on, heart-warming space to explore how physical positioning, breath, and attention shape your intimacy and pleasure.

The shapes we place our bodies in change how energy moves, how open our hearts feel, and how deeply we connect. You’ll be guided through classical sacred Tantric positions blended with modern somatic and nervous-system-informed practice, helping you stay present, enlivened, and relaxed while aroused.

Through partnered exercises, you’ll experience how different sitting, reclining, and facing positions support presence, polarity, pleasure, and energetic flow. You’ll leave feeling more attuned to yourself and your partner and equipped with practices you can return to again and again.
In this workshop, you’ll learn how to:
✨ Explore classic and modern Tantric partner positions that enhance energy flow and connection
✨ Combine breath, eye contact, and posture to deepen intimacy and erotic charge
✨ Work with your nervous system and body sensations to expand pleasure without overwhelm
✨ Use simple step-by-step Tantric practices you can bring into your home ritual and lovemaking

This workshop is designed to feel alive, erotic, grounded, and real, a blend of ancient Tantra and contemporary somatic awareness that supports deeper embodiment, joy, and connection.
This will be a richly somatic, heart-expanding, and sensually charged evening.

There will be no nudity or explicit sexuality during this workshop.
Following the formal workshop we will serve drinks & snacks to we can socialize and enjoy the energy of the evening!

To RSVP here on Meet Up is not sufficient; you need to get your ticket through Eventbrite, here is the link: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/tantra-positions-practices-for-couples-singles-who-come-with-a-partner-tickets-1979936872484?aff=BA
1 attendee
Awaken The Bliss Body ~ Tantra, Yoga & Sensuality for singles & couples
Sat, Mar 7 · 6:30 PM PST
5452 Henning Rd, Sebastopol, CA 95472-6308, United States, 5452 Henning Rd, Sebastopol, CA, US
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Join us March 7th for Awaken The Bliss Body ~ Tantra, Yoga & Sensuality for singles & couples!

Alicia and Erwan Davon, San Francisco Bay Area’s foremost Tantra teachers, are known for their grounded, embodied approach to intimacy, sensuality & conscious relationship. For the first time, they are bringing their teachings to Soft Medicine Sanctuary in Sebastopol, and we are delighted to open this space with a practice that is both deeply nourishing and powerful.

This workshop is an invitation to experience Tantra not as a concept, but as a lived, felt practice. Through Tantric energetic practices and embodied yoga, you will learn how to awaken more aliveness in your body, feel more turned on in your relationship life, and cultivate a deeper connection to yourself and others.

Whether you are single or partnered, new to Tantra or experienced, this evening offers practical tools you can bring directly into your everyday life.

The practices are designed to help you slow down, feel more, and access a steady, sustainable current of pleasure, presence, and intimacy that extends far beyond the workshop space.
In this experience, you will:
✨ Learn Tantric energetic practices to awaken and circulate sexual and creative energy
✨ Feel more alive, open, and turned on in your body and relationship life
✨Develop embodied tools for deeper intimacy, connection, and self-awareness
✨ Explore desire and boundaries within a safe, respectful, and supportive container

This workshop is a safe and consent-based space. There is no explicit sexuality, and all practices are invitational. You may participate with a partner you come with, come as a single and meet partners in the class to practice with, or work solo. Alicia and Erwan will guide you every step of the way, offering clear structure and compassionate presence. Expect to leave feeling grounded, expanded, and subtly but unmistakably more alive.

We will leave time towards the end of the workshop to transition into unstructured social time so we can all connect in the glow of a fantastic workshop~!

To RSVP here on Meet Up is not sufficient; you need to get your ticket through Eventbrite, here is the link: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/awaken-the-bliss-body-tantra-yoga-sensuality-for-singles-couples-tickets-1981071137100?aff=BA
1 attendee