About us
You’re curious about Tantra and want to bring more connection, pleasure, and playfulness into your love life—but maybe you don’t know where to start. That’s why we created Bay Area Tantra Meet Up: a welcoming, safe, and exciting space for both singles and couples to explore intimacy, sensuality, and connection.
Led by Erwan & Alicia Davon, founders of The Davon Method and longtime Relationship Coaches & Tantra Teachers, this meetup blends fun with learning.. In a supportive environment, you’ll connect with like-minded people and explore exercises designed to build chemistry, deepen connection, and enhance your confidence and enjoyment in relationships. Everyone—singles, couples, and all gender identities—is warmly welcome.
This group is for those who care about:
- Cultivating spark, sensuality, and playful connection
- Learning practical skills to enhance intimacy and chemistry
- Communicating with clarity, presence, and ease
What you’ll experience:
- Guided Tantra exercises for touch, connection, and energy flow
- Fun partner and group practices that teach key intimacy skills
- Techniques to bring more presence, chemistry, and playfulness into your love life
Can’t come with a partner? No problem! The activities are designed to be powerful and enjoyable whether you come solo or with a partner. Each workshop offers a new theme, skill, and experience to help you grow your confidence, connection, and pleasure.
Meet Your Facilitators
Erwan & Alicia Davon, longtime Relationship Coaches & San Francisco's foremost Tantra Teachers, developed their signature process, the Davon Method, and have taught it to over 20,000 students in groups, retreats and individual sessions. As a married couple, they have been teaching singles to get into relationship & couples to thrive in relationship for the last 25 years. They have become the go-to place in the San Francisco Bay Area for all things romantic and sexual and are quickly becoming that worldwide through online learning.
Erwan and Alicia have a unique approach to relationship coaching that combines their educational backgrounds in psychology and aspects of Zen Buddhism to provide a holistic method to effectively improve connection with the self and others.
Erwan studied psychology and graduated with honors after a difficult childhood and an early introduction to therapeutic work. He went on to live and study in a Zen Monastery, direct a Yoga ashram, and teach personal development at one of the world’s largest personal growth organizations. Erwan’s passion for helping and teaching people led him to found The Davon Method in 1995, specifically to help people improve their romantic relationships.
Alicia holds a Master’s degree in Integral Psychology with a focus on women’s romantic and sexual expression. She trained as a therapist before meeting Erwan and led numerous women’s groups devoted to female pleasure and life fulfillment from career to relationship. She met Erwan 23 years ago and started teaching with him soon after.
They have spent years perfecting their curriculum and techniques and provide a safe place so you can improve chemistry, connection, communication, and passion in your love life! Get ready to have fun because working with them is a blast!
Upcoming events
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Modern Tantra- guided practices for singles & couples in SF
2501 Harrison St #15, 2501 Harrison Street, San Francisco, CA, USTo RSVP here on Meet Up is not sufficient; you need to get your ticket through Eventbrite, here is the link: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/modern-tantra-guided-practices-for-singles-couples-in-sf-tickets-1984646034715?aff=BA
Step into a contemporary journey into presence, pleasure, and embodied intimacy!
Awaken vibrant presence in the midst of modern life.
In a world of distraction and complexity, many of us are looking for something deeper — a way to feel open, alive, and truly present in their bodies and relationships.
Modern Tantra is a grounded, practical + expansive path to that experience.Join us April 8th for a powerful workshop designed to help you access a state of vibrant presence where attraction feels natural, communication feels authentic, and connection carries real meaning.
It’s not about escaping modern life — it’s about learning how to move through it with greater emotional clarity and embodied awareness.
Led by longtime relationship coaches and San Francisco Bay Area's foremost Tantra teachers, Alicia Davon and Erwan Davon, this experience reflects 50+ years of combined work exploring intimacy, communication, and presence.You’ll leave with tools to:
✨ Shift from mental overload into embodied presence — simple practices to help you feel grounded, open, and energized in your body anytime you need it.
✨ Create real chemistry and connection naturally — without performing, chasing, or falling into the same old dating and relationship dynamics.
✨ Express yourself with clarity and warmth — so attraction, boundaries, and desires can be communicated in a way that deepens connection instead of complicating it.This is where body, spirit, and real life meet.
We will blend meditation, discussion, Q&A, and safe, accessible partnered exercises. You can participate with a partner you come with, a partner you meet at the workshop, or independently.
Practices are adaptable for same-sex pairs and all experience levels.
And… the workshop will transition into a COCKTAIL PARTY so we can all socialize in an informal way, enjoying the vibe of a fantastic evening!To RSVP here on Meet Up is not sufficient; you need to get your ticket through Eventbrite, here is the link: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/modern-tantra-guided-practices-for-singles-couples-in-sf-tickets-1984646034715?aff=BA
3 attendees
Tantra Slow Dating - where singles can meet + couples deepen relationship!
1175 Folsom St, San Francisco, Ca, USTo RSVP here on Meet Up is not sufficient; you need to get your ticket through Eventbrite, here is the link: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/tantra-slow-dating-where-singles-can-meet-couples-deepen-relationship-tickets-1984487705147?aff=BA
A dating event for singles & a spark-building event for couples that will leave you feeling alive + deeply connected.
Join us for a transformational evening for singles and couples designed to leave you feeling alive, open, and deeply connected.
Alicia & Erwan Davon of The Davon Method on April 26th will be at Decentered Arts for Tantra SLOW Dating—a unique event where singles meet through intentional tantric practices and couples rekindle their spark in a guided, heart-centered environment.
Alicia & Erwan are longtime Relationship Coaches & have become San Francisco Bay Area's foremost modern Tantra teachers. Expect heart-opening exercises, guided meditations, and clothed sensual practices to awaken your senses and ignite real connection.
For singles, this goes far beyond speed dating. You’ll meet multiple like-minded people who value personal growth, conscious relating, and deep connection.
For couples, this is a playful yet profound space to step out of daily life and reconnect. You’re welcome to do all practices together unless you prefer otherwise.
Whether you’re new to Tantra or experienced, all curious and open-hearted humans are welcome. After the structured portion, enjoy social time with drinks, mingle, ask Erwan & Alicia questions, and connect with the community.
What Singles Will Get
✨ A safe, structured way to meet multiple like-minded people who are also interested in conscious dating and personal growth.
✨ Practices that help you feel more confident, grounded, and sensually alive while connecting with others.
✨ A rare opportunity to experience authentic chemistry through presence, breath, and real relational skills—not small talk.What Couples Will Get
✨ A guided experience that dissolves day-to-day stress and brings you back into connection, play, and intimacy.
✨ Partner practices that deepen trust, emotional attunement, and sensual spark.
✨A meaningful and memorable “date night” that leaves you feeling closer, rejuvenated, and more bonded.Spaces are limited—grab your ticket!
To RSVP here on Meet Up is not sufficient; you need to get your ticket through Eventbrite, here is the link: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/tantra-slow-dating-where-singles-can-meet-couples-deepen-relationship-tickets-1984487705147?aff=BA
2 attendees
Awakening Sacred Sensuality Daylong for Couples + Singles w/a partner
Private Home in Sebastopol, 7415 Hayden, Sebastopol, CA, USThe RSVP here on Meet Up is not sufficient; you need to get your ticket through Eventbrite, here is the link: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/awakening-sacred-sensuality-daylong-for-couples-singles-wa-partner-tickets-1984824110344?aff=BA
Join us for a relaxing, pleasure-filled Daylong workshop full of guided Tantric practice in an uplifting + heart-connected environment
Awakening Sacred Sensuality is a Daylong Tantra workshop designed for couples and singles who come with a partner. Set in a gorgeous private property in Sebastopol, this workshop provides the perfect sanctuary to slow down, reconnect, and deepen your experience of intimacy.
Led by Alicia & Erwan Davon, longtime Relationship Coaches and the San Francisco Bay Area’s foremost Tantra teachers, this isn’t a “sit and listen” event. We will immerse ourselves in a variety of connective + energetic Tantric touch practices to your awaken your senses and supercharge your sexual chemistry.
Lunch, aphrodisiac tea, elixirs and dessert are all included, offering a chance to nourish your body as well as your heart. Whether you’re attending as a couple or exploring self-awareness and connection as a single with a friend, date, or practice partner, this workshop is a unique opportunity to step into presence, play, and pleasure.
You will learn:
💖 Guided Tantric practices to supercharge sexual chemistry in your own body & someone else’s
💖 Somatic energetic exercises that heighten pleasure, deepen intimacy, and enhance presence
💖 A pathway to bring Tantra & deeper connection into your own relationship life!You’ll leave with practical, safe, and easy-to-implement Tantra practices to explore solo or with a partner, bringing presence, awareness, and energetic skill into your love life and relationship.
Get ready to step fully into sacred sensuality, pleasure, and energetic aliveness—an unforgettable experience for anyone ready to awaken, connect, and play.
Spaces are limited—reserve your spot for you + your partner for a turned on & exquisite experience!
The RSVP here on Meet Up is not sufficient; you need to get your ticket through Eventbrite, here is the link: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/awakening-sacred-sensuality-daylong-for-couples-singles-wa-partner-tickets-1984824110344?aff=BA
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