The Bay Area Tantra Meetup

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San Francisco, CA, US

About us

You’re curious about Tantra and want to bring more connection, pleasure, and playfulness into your love life—but maybe you don’t know where to start. That’s why we created Bay Area Tantra Meet Up: a welcoming, safe, and exciting space for both singles and couples to explore intimacy, sensuality, and connection.

Led by Erwan & Alicia Davon, founders of The Davon Method and longtime Relationship Coaches & Tantra Teachers, this meetup blends fun with learning.. In a supportive environment, you’ll connect with like-minded people and explore exercises designed to build chemistry, deepen connection, and enhance your confidence and enjoyment in relationships. Everyone—singles, couples, and all gender identities—is warmly welcome.
This group is for those who care about:

Cultivating spark, sensuality, and playful connection
Learning practical skills to enhance intimacy and chemistry
Communicating with clarity, presence, and ease

What you’ll experience:

Guided Tantra exercises for touch, connection, and energy flow
Fun partner and group practices that teach key intimacy skills
Techniques to bring more presence, chemistry, and playfulness into your love life

Can’t come with a partner? No problem! The activities are designed to be powerful and enjoyable whether you come solo or with a partner. Each workshop offers a new theme, skill, and experience to help you grow your confidence, connection, and pleasure.

Meet Your Facilitators

Erwan & Alicia Davon, longtime Relationship Coaches & San Francisco's foremost Tantra Teachers, developed their signature process, the Davon Method, and have taught it to over 20,000 students in groups, retreats and individual sessions. As a married couple, they have been teaching singles to get into relationship & couples to thrive in relationship for the last 25 years. They have become the go-to place in the San Francisco Bay Area for all things romantic and sexual and are quickly becoming that worldwide through online learning.

Erwan and Alicia have a unique approach to relationship coaching that combines their educational backgrounds in psychology and aspects of Zen Buddhism to provide a holistic method to effectively improve connection with the self and others.

Erwan studied psychology and graduated with honors after a difficult childhood and an early introduction to therapeutic work. He went on to live and study in a Zen Monastery, direct a Yoga ashram, and teach personal development at one of the world’s largest personal growth organizations. Erwan’s passion for helping and teaching people led him to found The Davon Method in 1995, specifically to help people improve their romantic relationships.

Alicia holds a Master’s degree in Integral Psychology with a focus on women’s romantic and sexual expression. She trained as a therapist before meeting Erwan and led numerous women’s groups devoted to female pleasure and life fulfillment from career to relationship. She met Erwan 23 years ago and started teaching with him soon after.

They have spent years perfecting their curriculum and techniques and provide a safe place so you can improve chemistry, connection, communication, and passion in your love life! Get ready to have fun because working with them is a blast!

Upcoming events

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Tantra Positions & Practices for Couples & Singles who come with a partner
Sun, May 31 · 5:45 PM PDT
Harrison St & 19th St, San Francisco, CA 94110, San Francisco, Ca, US
To RSVP here on Meet Up is not sufficient; you need to get your ticket through Eventbrite, here is the link: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/tantra-positions-practices-for-couples-singles-who-come-with-a-partner-tickets-1987011351441?aff=BA

Join us for a delightful, pleasure-filled evening of guided Tantric practice in a safe, uplifting, and heart-connected environment!

Tantra Positions & Practices for Couples & Singles that come with a Partner: A Somatic Exploration of Sacred Posture, Pleasure & Presence

Join Erwan and Alicia Davon, SF Bay Area’s foremost Tantra Teachers, for a captivating, embodied workshop where you’ll learn the foundational Tantric positions and guided practices that open the body, awaken energy, and deepen connection.

Whether you’re attending with a romantic partner or a practice partner, this experiential evening invites you into a turned-on, heart-warming space to explore how physical positioning, breath, and attention shape your intimacy and pleasure.

The shapes we place our bodies in change how energy moves, how open our hearts feel, and how deeply we connect. You’ll be guided through classical sacred Tantric positions blended with modern somatic and nervous-system-informed practice, helping you stay present, enlivened, and relaxed while aroused.

Through partnered exercises, you’ll experience how different sitting, reclining, and facing positions support presence, polarity, pleasure, and energetic flow. You’ll leave feeling more attuned to yourself and your partner and equipped with practices you can return to again and again.

In this workshop, you’ll learn how to:
✨ Explore classic and modern Tantric partner positions that enhance energy flow and connection
✨ Combine breath, eye contact, and posture to deepen intimacy and erotic charge
✨ Work with your nervous system and body sensations to expand pleasure without overwhelm
✨ Use simple step-by-step Tantric practices you can bring into your home ritual and lovemaking

This workshop is designed to feel alive, erotic, grounded, and real, a blend of ancient Tantra and contemporary somatic awareness that supports deeper embodiment, joy, and connection.

This will be a richly somatic, heart-expanding, and sensually charged evening.

There will be no nudity or explicit sexuality during this workshop.

Following the formal workshop we will serve drinks & snacks to we can socialize and enjoy the energy of the evening!

Spaces are limited—grab your ticket!

To RSVP here on Meet Up is not sufficient; you need to get your ticket through Eventbrite, here is the link: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/tantra-positions-practices-for-couples-singles-who-come-with-a-partner-tickets-1987011351441?aff=BA
2 attendees
Soulmate Speed Date – A Modern Tantra Experience for Singles & Couples
Sun, Jun 14 · 5:00 PM PDT
San Francisco San Francisco, CA, San Francisco, CA, US
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A dating event for singles & a spark-building event for couples that will leave you feeling alive + deeply connected.

Step into a different kind of dating night—one where connection comes first, attraction deepens naturally, and presence replaces performance.

Join us June 14th at Heartlab in San Francisco for Soulmate Speed Date – A Modern Tantra Experience for Singles & Couples, an immersive evening designed to awaken real chemistry through guided connection practices, breath, and embodied presence.

Led by Alicia Davon of The Davon Method, renowned Relationship Coach + the San Francisco Bay Area's foremost Tantra teacher (along with her husband Erwan), this experience blends the best of conscious relating and modern Tantra to create a space where singles can meet in a meaningful way—and couples can reignite intimacy and aliveness together.

This is not traditional speed dating. There’s no small talk, no swiping energy, no pressure to impress. Instead, you’ll be guided through a series of structured, heart-opening interactions that allow you to feel connection—before deciding if there’s a spark.

For singles, this is an opportunity to meet like-minded people who value depth, growth, and authenticity—and to experience attraction that emerges from presence, not performance.

For couples, this is a chance to step out of routine and into a playful, sensual, and connected space where you can rediscover each other in a fresh way. You’re welcome to stay partnered throughout or explore the experience in a way that feels right for you.

Expect a warm, welcoming environment, guided exercises, light movement, meditation, and clothed partner practices designed to awaken your senses and open the door to real connection.

We’ll close the evening with relaxed social time to mingle, integrate, and connect further with the community.

What Singles Will Experience
• Meaningful interactions that go beyond surface-level attraction
• A structured, easeful way to meet other singles
• Practices that build confidence, presence, and authentic connection

What Couples Will Experience
• A guided “date night” that deepens intimacy and emotional attunement
• Playful, sensual practices that rekindle spark and connection
• A shared experience that leaves you feeling closer and more alive together

Whether you’re seeking love, connection, or simply a more alive way of relating—this is a space to explore what’s possible when you slow down and truly meet.

Spots are limited—reserve yours now.

To RSVP here on Meet Up is not sufficient; you need to get your ticket through Eventbrite, here is the link: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/soulmate-speed-date-a-modern-tantra-experience-for-singles-couples-tickets-1988940977003?aff=BA
1 attendee
Tantra Demonstration ~ witness the heights of sensual practice
Wed, Jun 24 · 6:30 PM PDT
2501 Harrison St, Oakland, Ca, US
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Join us for a mind-bending, soul-opening experience in SF- for singles & couples!

Are you ready for a mind bending, soul rocking evening that will fundamentally change your sensual life forever?

Step into a captivating evening where Tantra comes alive through a unique, intimate demonstration led by Alicia & Erwan Davon, San Francisco’s foremost Tantra Teachers. Alicia & Erwan have supported over 22,000 singles & couples in having extraordinary romantic and sensual lives since 1995.

You’ll observe as Alicia & Erwan bring you into the world of embodied connection and spiritual union, all central to the art of Tantra. This live demonstration offers a-ha moment after a-ha moment, and you will SEE & FEEL how sensuality and mindful touch can expand intimacy, ignite a sense of joy and vitality. Learn how this experience can be expanded in duration, intensity, and throughout the entire body!

Each Tantra Demonstration we do has a focus, or "theme". The theme of this one is "Energy + Attraction!" There is a lot we can do to increase our magnetism as a superpower; this sensual practice is a fast track to it!

Note: This is a Demonstration; there will be no physical/sensual interaction between participants. The evening includes a lecture, meditation, demonstration, Q&A + a party!

You will:
Witness a step by step technique to increase intensity & duration of bodily pleasure that you can use in your own love life
Learn why the human nervous system plays a huge role with regard to bodily pleasure
Observe ways to communicate such that your partner can pleasure you sensually just the way you want

You will walk away with a profoundly embodied understanding of Tantra and practical ideas to enhance both your own and a partner's pleasure! Erwan and Alicia have cultivated an environment that fosters ease and comfort in exploring one of life's greatest pleasures—sensual connection—taken to new heights.

Whether you're curious about Tantra or looking to deepen your understanding, this experience is designed to open new doors of possibility. Singles and couples alike will gain inspiration and practical knowledge to bring into their own relationships and personal journeys.

After the event, continue the experience with drinks (alc and non) and socializing with the other participants, Alicia & Erwan.

We will see you there!

To RSVP here on Meet Up is not sufficient; you need to get your ticket through Eventbrite, here is the link: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/tantra-demonstration-witness-the-heights-of-sensual-practice-tickets-1988942014105?aff=BA
1 attendee