About us
"Childfree Singles of the DMV" is a group for people of any orientation and 21+ age who: are not currently in a romantic relationship; who have not had children (by choice or by circumstance); and who are not planning to have children at this time. This is not an empty-nesters group -- this is a group for people who have never parented. It is also a group for people not in a romantic relationship; this includes nonmonogamy. Please note: If you enter into a romantic relationship, you don't need to leave the group -- but please wait until you are single/unattached again before you attend further Childfree Singles of the DMV events :-) You are welcome whether you are single by choice or by circumstance. Scroll down to see related groups that are open to any relationship status.
Additionally: this is not a "meet market." Many of us desire to become DINKs at some point, while others do not; let's not assume the former for anyone. In the spirit of the overall group, this is inclusive in that regard. But please just come with the intent to have fun and connect with other CFs, not to hook up or partner up. If it happens naturally, awesome. But please don't have that goal in mind.
Let's build our childfree community, have great conversations, and do fun activities while getting to know each other in person!
We respectfully request your consideration in avoiding no-shows and short-notice non-emergency cancellations. Please note: we may reach out to "yes" RSVPs individually a day or two before an event and ask that you reconfirm your attendance status. Thank you.
Some events may be cross-posted with related childfree Meetups. Feel free to join our additional groups and Facebook pages! :-)
Meetup:
* https://www.meetup.com/Northern-Virginia-Childfree-Couples-and-Individuals-Meetup/ (Any relationship status)
* https://www.meetup.com/DMV-Childfree/ (Any relationship status)
* https://www.meetup.com/DMV-DINKs/ (Katie's group - mostly couples-oriented, but singles can also attend events)
* https://www.meetup.com/childfree-singles-of-the-dmv/ (Craig's group - for singles only)
Facebook:
* https://www.facebook.com/groups/nokidsinnovadcmd
* https://www.facebook.com/groups/childfreegrouptravel (Katie's travel group)
Discord:
* Childfree DMV - https://discord.gg/2N2vQ2qFJ8
(Brad's discussion group)
Upcoming events
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- $40.00
Giving and Receiving Platonic Touch
917 Veirs Mill Road, 917 Veirs Mill Rd, Rockville, MD 20851, USA, Rockville, MD, USRegister $40 at https://events.ticketleap.com/tickets/greentara/touch
Physical touch is essential for wellbeing and human connection, but many of us go for long periods without it. Especially for those who are single and childfree, events where participants can engage in nurturing supportive touch in a facilitated environment can provide a much needed opportunity for healing and connection.
In this participatory workshop, we will explore connection through conversation, eye contact, and platonic touch through a series of activities that foster trust and connection. Using Betty Martin's theory of the wheel of consent, we will learn to give and receive platonic touch while being in tune with our authentic needs and desires. Activities are designed to build a sense of psychological safety within the group, and gradually introduce nurturing platonic touch to the extent that feels comfortable.
All activities are optional and you may participate as much or as little as you want, based on your comfort level. You are not required to touch or be touched by anyone. We will practice stating boundaries and desires. If you need to pause, modify, or exit any activity, you're encouraged to do what feels comfortable for you. No sexual contact or advances are allowed. People who violate the rules will be removed from the event immediately.
Agenda
5 min: Partnered conversation to land
5 min: Loving kindness meditation
10 min: Opening shares
10 min: Introduction to platonic touch
30 min: Authentic relating conversations
20 min: Different kinds of platonic touch
10 min: Break
10 min: Wheel of consent
10 min: Practice saying no and yes
20 min: Giving and receiving platonic touch
10 min: Break
20 min: Cuddle pile and self-directed interactions### Additional Info
Advanced registration required at least 24 hours before the event. No walk ins.
NO REFUNDS unless request is made more than 2 weeks in advance.
Everyone who attends is invited to join a WhatsApp group to stay in touch and connect with others one-on-one.
This event is not exclusively for singles. All ages, genders, sexualities, abilities, identities, etc. welcome!
If you would like to participate, please arrive early (between 1:30 and 2) so we can start on time. Late arrivals jeopardize the emotional safety and flow of the event.### Testimonials
“I was a bit nervous going into the event, but any concerns soon dissipated with Clara’s calm presence and carefully planned agenda. I’ve already started discussing the Wheel of Consent with others, and the event had me thinking more specifically about how I can voice my wants, needs, and preferences in many areas of my life. I would highly recommend trying out this event even if you’re on the fence about it. The support, safety, and lasting connections that I make at Clara’s events always leave me signing up for more afterwards. Those of us living in the DMV area are lucky to have Clara as a force for good in our local communities.” - Michaela
## About the Facilitator
Clara Fang, Ph.D. is the founder of Green Tara Consulting, a consulting firm that specializes in diversity, equity, and belonging. She is an experienced facilitator of authentic relating, meditation, and ecstatic dance. She lives in Germantown, MD. Learn more at bio.site/cfang
To learn more about my approach to creating inclusive social gatherings, please read Authentic Relating: The Art of Inclusive Social Gatherings.
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Register $40 at https://events.ticketleap.com/tickets/greentara/touch
1 attendee 
Authentic Relating Women's Circle
Germantown, Germantown, MD, USA, MD, USPlease register at https://events.ticketleap.com/tickets/greentara/women
Authentic Relating Women's Circle is an opportunity for women to be their authentic selves in a supportive and inclusive environment. In our society, women are often expected to take care of others and ignore our own needs. At Women's Circle, we give each other permission to voice our desires, frustrations, joys, and take up space. How do you REALLY feel? What is it that you want? How can we help you get there? Let us support you in finding out. Clarity, confidence, laughter, and friendship are likely outcomes.
For the next 9 weeks, our circle will explore The Enneagram! The Enneagram is a dynamic system of personality typography that maps human psychology across nine interconnected personality types, each defined by a core underlying motivation, fear, and worldview. Represented by a geometric nine-pointed symbol, the model emphasizes personal growth and self-awareness by showing how each type behaves when stressed or thriving, while offering a roadmap for breaking out of automatic patterns to cultivate healthier relationships and emotional integration. It is an excellent framework for exploring why we think, feel, and act the way we do, illuminating the unconscious patterns and defense mechanisms that drive us.
September 13: Type 1, The Reformer
October 25: Type 2, The Helper
November 15: Type 3, The Achiever
January 3: Type 4, The Individualist
February 7: Type 5: The Investigator
March 14: Type 6, The Loyalist
April 18: Type 7, The Enthusiast
May 23: Type 8, The Challenger
June 27: Type 9, The Peacemaker## What Is Authentic Relating?
Authentic is being real, honest, revealed, and transparent, allowing others to see, hear, and know our inner world. Relating is welcoming the other person's authentic self and weaving their reality and experience with our own. Authenticity and vulnerability are possible in an environment absent of judgement where we are confident that we will be received with openness, empathy, and compassion. Authentic Relating is about intentionally creating a space of equity, belonging, and inclusion.
In a world where we often wear a mask, presenting some aspects of ourselves and hiding others in order to be accepted, Authentic Relating invites us to show up as we are. All parts, dimensions, emotions, and aspects that make us human are welcome in this practice. When we share from our authentic selves, we create the opportunity for genuine connections and self-understanding. The result is often moving and therapeutic.
What is Authentic Relating? 2 minute video / 15 minute vid eo### Principles and Practices for Authentic Relating
Mindfulness: Slowing down, being present and aware of our inner state and surroundings.
Empathy: Being aware of and releasing judgement, employing empathy, curiosity, openness, and recognition of multiple perspectives.
Authenticity: Vulnerability, honesty, voicing our truth, self-awareness.
Centering the other: No interrupting, giving advice, fixing, or telling your own story. Ask for permission to share your opinion, advice, your own story, and questions.
Validating: acknowledging, appreciating, reflecting, empathizing, and presencing.
Structure: Timed interactions where people take turns sharing, listening, and reflecting. Everyone has an equal amount of time to talk, listen, and be heard.
Prepared questions: Directs conversation towards meaningful topics and deeper reflection.### Additional Information
This event is open to woman identifying individuals. All ages, abilities, and sexual orientations welcome!
Everyone who attends is invited to join a WhatsApp group to stay in touch and connect with others one-on-one.### Testimonials
"WOW OH WOW! It was total magic for me! When I got home last night and looked in the mirror, my face was aglow! At least 20 years were melted away! My face was glowing and beautiful! In the morning, I was happily surprised to see the same glow on my face!
Somewhere deep inside of me was touched with healing energy. I had dropped my usual protective guard which I wasn’t even aware was there during the meeting. That you, Clara Fang! See you at the next meeting ☺️""THANK YOU THANK YOU for hosting this event! It was amazing to connect with brilliant, authentic, and caring women, in person. I could not have asked for a more supportive and healing space. My heart is full. Everyone everywhere needs this, but especially here and now!"
"Most social events are like fast food--stimulating but insubstantial. Authentic Relating feels like a carefully crafted and nutritious meal, made with love for you."
"Clara is a warm and engaging facilitator who makes everyone feel welcome and comfortable to be their authentic selves."### About the Facilitator
Clara Fang is the founder of Green Tara Consulting , a consulting firm that specializes in diversity, equity, and belonging. She has been working at the intersection of climate advocacy and racial justice for twenty years. She is an experienced facilitator of authentic relating, meditation, and ecstatic dance. She lives in Germantown, MD.
To learn more about my approach to creating inclusive social gatherings, please read Creating Equitable and Inclusive Social Gatherings.
Subscribe to receive notifications by email.Please register at https://events.ticketleap.com/tickets/greentara/women
1 attendee- $35.00
Authentic Relating: A Journey into Heartfelt Connection
917 Veirs Mill Road, 917 Veirs Mill Rd, Rockville, MD 20851, USA, Rockville, MD, US** Please go to TicketLeap to complete your registration $35***
Connecting deeply with others in community is key to happiness and one of the greatest goods life has to ofter. In a world of happy hours, online dating, and social media scrolling, that has become increasingly difficult to find. Authentic Relating is for those who want to get beyond small talk and connect more deeply with others in a substance-free, inclusive, and supportive environment.
In a world where we often wear a mask, presenting some aspects of ourselves and hiding others in order to be accepted, Authentic Relating invites us to show up as we are. All parts, dimensions, emotions, and aspects that make us human are welcome in this practice. When we share from our authentic selves, we create the opportunity for genuine connections and self-understanding. The result is often moving and therapeutic.
Most social events throw a bunch of strangers into a room to fend for themselves, which disadvantages people who have social anxiety and with marginalized identities. Authentic Relating intentionally disrupts this dynamic with strategies that facilitate equity and inclusion. At a facilitated Authentic Relating gathering, one can have a meaningful interaction with every person, practice deep listening and sharing, and feel a sense of belonging. Guided activities encourage participants to be playful, curious, empathetic, thoughtful, and vulnerable. Facilitation and prepared questions help people practice active listening and self-reflection. Everyone has an equal amount of time to talk, listen, and be heard, and no one can dominate the conversation or be a wallflower.
## About the Facilitator
Clara Fang, Ph.D. is the founder of Green Tara Consulting, a consulting firm that specializes in diversity, equity, and belonging. She has been working at the intersection of climate advocacy and racial justice for twenty years. She is an experienced facilitator of authentic relating, meditation, and ecstatic dance. She lives in Germantown, MD.
To learn more about my approach to creating inclusive social gatherings, please read https://greentaraconsulting.com/blog/authentic-relating-update
Subscribe to the email list to receive notification of future events and connect with other members.
** Please go to TicketLeap to complete your registration $35***
1 attendee
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