
What we’re about
Men’s Circle of Malaysia is a space where men gather to connect, reflect, and grow. We host regular monthly meetups that invite honest conversations around identity, purpose, relationships, emotional resilience and modern masculinity. Our themes often explore the full spectrum of human experience through the lens of IQ (intellect), EQ (emotion), AQ (resilience), and SQ (spirituality), inviting men to engage both the mind and the heart.
In addition to Men’s Circle of Malaysia meetups, we also co-host A Dialogue, a joint event with Women’s Circle of Malaysia, where both circles come together to share stories, challenge assumptions, and rediscover connection.
A Dialogue is the evolution of Women’s Circle of Malaysia x Men’s Circle of Malaysia—a space where open and honest conversations continue to flourish.
Upcoming events (2)
See all- [OPEN TO ALL] A Dialogue: Offended or Honesty? What Are We Really Reacting To?The Violet Flame KL, Kuala Lumpur
SCHOOL OF THOUGHT SOCIETY invites you to:
A Dialogue: Offended or Honesty? What Are We Really Reacting To?
📍 Where: Violet Flame KL
📅 When: Saturday, 7 June 2025
🕓 Time: 5:00PM - 7:00PM
📞 Reservation: +6019 723 2112In an age where everyone seems to be offended—or afraid of causing offense—how do we know the difference between healthy boundaries and emotional reactivity?
Are we becoming more aware… or more fragile?
This June's A Dialogue explores:
-What makes something “offensive” today—and who decides?
-The difference between offense, truth, and projection
-When humor stops healing and starts hurting
-How cultural, generational, and gender differences shape our sensitivity
-Whether “being offended” is sometimes a form of power or avoidance
-What real empathy looks like—beyond censorship or politeness
“When we say ‘I’m offended’—are we protecting our truth, or protecting our identity?”A Dialogue is the evolution of Women’s Circle of Malaysia x Men’s Circle of Malaysia -- a space where open and honest conversations continue to flourish.
- Men's Circle June Discussion: Loneliness — The Quiet DistanceThe Violet Flame KL, Kuala Lumpur
SCHOOL OF THOUGHT SOCIETY invites you to:
Men's Circle June Discussion: Loneliness — The Quiet Distance
📍 Where: Violet Flame KL
📅 When: Wednesday, 25 June 2025
🕓 Time: 8:00PM – 10:00PM
📞 Reservation: +6012 986 8346Loneliness isn’t just about being alone.
It’s the ache of not being seen, the quiet in a crowded room, the weight of words unspoken. And for many men, it’s a feeling we’ve been taught to bury deep.
This June, we gather in Men’s Circle to sit with the realities of loneliness—not to shame it or fix it, but to understand where it lives in us… and what it’s asking for.
We’ll explore:
- The hidden forms of loneliness—emotional, relational, spiritual
- Why men often struggle to admit we feel disconnected
- The roles we play that keep us distant from others—and ourselves
- What reconnection might look like: with our truth, our community, our inner life
- How masculine energy can soften without losing strength
This circle is not about solving loneliness overnight.
It’s about naming it, honouring it, and remembering that we are not as alone as we think.