What we’re about
Men’s Circle of Malaysia is a space where men gather to connect, reflect, and grow. We host regular monthly meetups that invite honest conversations around identity, purpose, relationships, emotional resilience and modern masculinity. Our themes often explore the full spectrum of human experience through the lens of IQ (intellect), EQ (emotion), AQ (resilience), and SQ (spirituality), inviting men to engage both the mind and the heart.
In addition to Men’s Circle of Malaysia meetups, we also co-host A Dialogue, a joint event with Women’s Circle of Malaysia, where both circles come together to share stories, challenge assumptions, and rediscover connection.
A Dialogue is the evolution of Women’s Circle of Malaysia x Men’s Circle of Malaysia—a space where open and honest conversations continue to flourish.
Upcoming events (4)
See all- Men's Circle September Discussion: Shame — The Silent EmotionThe Violet Flame KL, Kuala Lumpur
SCHOOL OF THOUGHT SOCIETY invites you to:
Men's Circle September Discussion: Shame — The Silent Emotion
📍 Where: Violet Flame KL
📅 When: Wednesday, 24 September 2025
🕗 Time: 8:00PM – 10:00PM
📞 Reservation: +6019 723 2112Shame hides in silence. It keeps us small, unseen, and afraid of being found out.
This September, Men’s Circle creates a brave space to name and explore shame not as weakness, but as a part of being human:
- Where did I first learn shame?
- How does it shape the way I love, speak, work, or connect?
- What parts of myself have I locked away out of fear of judgment?
- How can I begin to meet shame with curiosity, not criticism?
This is not about fixing. It’s about finally being honest with ourselves and each other.
- [OPEN TO ALL] A Dialogue: The Shift WithinThe Violet Flame KL, Kuala Lumpur
SCHOOL OF THOUGHT SOCIETY invites you to:
A Dialogue: The Shift Within — Releasing Fear and Embracing Your True Self
📍 Where: Violet Flame KL
📅 When: Saturday, 4 October 2025
🕗 Time: 5:00PM – 7:00PM
📞 Reservation: +6019 723 2112This October, A Dialogue invites you on an inner journey, a chance to explore the quiet transformation that begins when we choose explore spirituality.
We welcome Alan, who will share his deeply personal and spiritual experience in making “The Shift Within”—a path of moving from fear, doubt, betrayal, and ego toward abundance, alignment, and purpose.
In this session, we’ll reflect on:
- How fear keeps us small and what it takes to move beyond it
- Connecting to your Higher Self and recognising your own wisdom
- What spiritual alignment really looks like in daily life: in work, relationships, health, and parenting
- Why abundance isn’t just material, it’s an inner frequency
- How to transform emotional blocks into clarity, confidence, and flow
Alan will also close the session with a 15-minute guided self-love meditation to anchor this shift from within.
A Dialogue is the evolution of Women’s Circle of Malaysia x Men’s Circle of Malaysia—a space where open and honest conversations continue to flourish.
- Men's Circle October Discussion: Divorce — Letting Go & Redefining SelfThe Violet Flame KL, Kuala Lumpur
SCHOOL OF THOUGHT SOCIETY invites you to:
Men's Circle October Discussion: Divorce — Letting Go & Redefining Self
📍 Where: Violet Flame KL
📅 When: Wednesday, 29 October 2025
🕗 Time: 8:00PM – 10:00PM
📞 Reservation: +6019 723 2112Divorce isn’t always about a marriage ending. Sometimes, it’s the quiet choice to leave an emotional state, a social circle, a role, or a version of yourself that no longer fits.
This October, Men’s Circle invites open and honest conversation around separation, endings, and the redefinition of self:
- What am I walking away from and what am I walking toward?
- What does it mean to release something I once committed to?
- How do I carry grief, guilt, or freedom in the aftermath?
- Who am I now, and what do I want to rebuild?
Everyone is welcome—whether you’re in the midst of a divorce, have healed from one, are affected by someone else’s, or are navigating the end of any significant chapter. Married, divorced, single, unsure—this space is for you.
- INTERNATIONAL MEN RETREAT NOVEMBER 2025: Can’t be myself: To be a manBentong Happy Farm, Bentong$240.00
SCHOOL OF THOUGHT SOCIETY invites you to:
INTERNATIONAL MEN RETREAT NOVEMBER 2025: Can’t be myself: To be a manMen face immense pressure to always be strong, unfeeling, and impervious to vulnerability leaves little room for men to express their true selves, seek help, or connect authentically with others. As a result, many men struggle in silence, trapped in a cycle of loneliness and depression, unable to break free from the overwhelming weight of being expected to always be "the strong one."
To be an authentic person, instead of “the strong one”, means to be who we want to be, without pretending to be someone we’re not. This is challenging because other people influence much of how we live our lives.
Your real life starts the moment you stop pretending.
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