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Men's Group led by MenFacilitate Graduates
This open MenSpeak men's group will be facilitated by MenFacilitate graduates - learn more about the MenFacilitate training here: You’re guaranteed a good laugh, a chance to hang out, share what’s up, listen, get new insights into daily life as we drop our ‘nice guy’, 'macho man’ or whatever masks we’ve been wearing. So come get real and receive the treasure of honest feedback and good company! Please read our Ground Rules before attending and raise any changes you'd like to make to them before we begin. Here's a 2.5 hour men's group demo we did in 15 minutes at Southbank's Being A Man Festival last year We'll meet and have our group in one of the blue-seated semi-circular booths, over to the left as you enter the foyer of the Queen Elizabeth Hall and Purcell Room. 6.45 for a 7pm start, no latecomers after 7.10pm.

Queen Elizabeth Hall

South Bank Centre, Belvedere Road, · London SE1 8XX

What we're about

A men’s group is a group of men, sitting in a circle, hanging out and getting real.


We laugh, listen and grow together as we share our experiences, thoughts and feelings beyond our masks.

We respectfully challenge one another to be better, more authentic men, without telling each other what to do or how to be. There is no pressure and it’s fine to say "Pass” when it’s your turn to speak.

Life doesn't have to be bad to come to a men's group. We've been successfully growing - from the good, the bad and even the ugly - as individual men and as a community, since 2002.

Watch our 15 min demo of a two and a half hour men's group at Southbank's Being A Man Festival:


We are accepting, accountable and we want more out of life.

We acknowledge who we’ve been and we test drive who we want to be, taking the best of ourselves out into the world.


We are not a therapy group, nor an encounter group, nor a w*nk group or a place to pick up men for sex, nor a group against men or women, nor a religious or political group, we're free and unaffiliated.

Every MenSpeak men's group is different, depending on what the men present bring to, and ask of it.


Please read the Ground Rules before attending a group. If you'd like to add, remove or change any of the ground rules before we begin, there will be a space to raise this before we begin.



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(Monthly, over six month terms, renewable for years).

Closed group men have the space to get to know one-another very well, with no comings and goings, no time spent on introductions and getting-to-know (and trust) you.

Closed group men support each other's journeys through times of breakdown, breakthrough, change and celebration, as things fall apart, then fall together anew.

Closed group men stay in touch between our monthly time together through WotsApp / Signal, personal contact and organised meals, walks, trips away, etc.

Closed group men attend MenSpeak open and online groups at a discount, enjoy priority booking to events with limited slots, or limited to more practised men.

Trial a closed group in June and December 2018. Each of the five monthly closed groups has a very individual identity and limited space, so tell me if you're interested in a trial and I'll suggest which group/s may be a good fit. (Our next six month terms begin in July 2018 and January 2019).


Disclaimer: All activities are undertaken entirely at the participant's own risk. No responsibility will be taken and no compensation discussed for loss or injury. By taking part, each participant accepts full responsibility for his own safety and well-being. (If in doubt, please seek professional advice before participating). May the force be with you!

© Kenny Mammarella-D’Cruz “The Man Whisperer” (Newsweek)

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