About us
A group for thoughtful people navigating modern decision-making in a world full of noise, tools, systems, and overwhelm.
Led by Emily Pabst, ChoiceTech Consultant and Coach and founder of Remake The Rules, these gatherings explore how we make decisions—big and small—when we’re inundated with information, options, algorithms, and outdated advice.
This group is a space to slow down, think more clearly, and explore better ways of navigating modern life—without optimization culture, hustle rhetoric, or performative self-improvement.This group is for you if you’re:
- Tired of burnout cycles, app fatigue, or constant decision overwhelm
- Stuck between too many options and not enough movement
- Doing everything “right” on paper, but still feeling off
- Curious about decision-making, technology design, or systemic pressure
- Interested in understanding why things feel hard before trying to fix them
What We Explore Together
Meetups and discussions may touch on topics like:
- Decision fatigue & choice overload
- ChoiceTech (how apps, platforms, and tools shape decisions)
- App dysfunction and digital overwhelm
- Information overload in work, dating, and daily life
- Hybrid human-tech decision systems
- Choice inflation and disappearing defaults
- Making decisions with more confidence without chasing “perfect” outcomes
Events range from relaxed social gatherings to lightly structured discussions to educational lectures and workshops. Some events are monthly; others are occasional or quarterly.
The common thread: learning how to remake our decision-making for the world we’re actually living in.
If you’re looking for a thoughtful, human-centered community that takes modern complexity seriously—this space is for you.
Learn more about the broader work behind this group at remaketherules.com.
Upcoming events
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Meet People Who Are Also Figuring It Out
BarFly at the Alamo, 4255 W Colfax, Denver, CO, USA relaxed gathering for people navigating modern life, dating, careers, creativity, decision-making, or whatever feels oddly unfinished right now.
This is a low-pressure social event for curious, thoughtful people who are trying to make sense of things and who enjoy a mix of humor, reflection, and “what even is going on anymore.”
Whether you’re new to Denver, new to decision confusion, or just tired of being smart and stuck at the same time, you’re welcome here.
What to expect:
If you're running late, don't worry, you're still welcome to join.
6:00 PM – Arrive, say hi, sign in, grab a name tag (with the decision you’ve been laboring over lately), and get a drink or snack from the bar.
6:30ish PM – Group introductions. We’ll go one-by-one, sharing who we are and what we’re currently trying to figure out.
After intros – Mingle, chat, and brainstorm with the people—and the questions—you resonated with most.
This is an in-person, recurring gathering designed to be something you can come back to as life evolves.Hosted by Remake The Rules, a Denver-based practice focused on modern decision-making and navigating an information-saturated world.
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