What we’re about
Please join our Polyamory Meetup to meet other supporters of multi-partner relationships and families. Talk about open relationships, polyfidelity, polyamory, honesty, respect and alternate forms of commitment. Typical topics discussed are conflict resolution, communication, compersion, jealousy avoidance, how the lifestyle works, and what doesn't work, adding new partners,Science Fiction Entry into Polyamory, family structure, children, and many others. You do not need to identify as polyamorous to join us, all we ask is that you keep an open mind.
This meetup group is family friendly. We are not listed as an adult only group. Please note that the TOS for meetup does not allow nudity or sexual activity in your profile pictures. Please be sure messages sent to other members are friendly and appropriate, not sexual**. This is a SAFE space, do NOT use this medium to try and "pick up" anyone. Sexual messages are for people you have a relationship with and should be sent privately to them NOT on this Meet Up site.**
Because this is a family meetup, it is important to please keep your profile pictures pg-13, not only to comply with meetup's TOS, but also because there may be individuals who are under 18 looking at the site. Thank you for understanding.
If you would like to join this Meetup, Please fill out ALL THE PROFILE QUESTIONS - We screen members who wish to join.
We use these questions to make sure that those who join have at least read the information on the about us page (click here or on "pages" above) and are serious about wanting to know more about the lifestyle. The questions also serve to let the other members know what your "model" of a poly relationship would look like.Yes, this means your answers to the questions will be visible to the rest of the group. It is of benefit to both the group and to yourselves to answer these questions honestly.
Please check out our "ABOUT US" page (click here or on "pages" above). The links on there will give you an idea what Polyamory is all about (they are also posted below).
Anyone interested in attending is welcome! We ask for a donation at the meetup to help cover the expense of running them (meetup charges the organizers, not the members), but no one is ever turned away for an inability to contribute. We welcome all poly and poly friendly individuals, groups and families. We also encourage those who are curious about the lifestyle to attend our meetups. We generally have between 15 and 30 people who show up at our group meetups third Saturday of the month at a large home in the west San Fernando Valley-- Live the Dream (http://www.livethedream.org) It includes, themed discussions, pot luck lunch, socializing in clothing optional jacuzzi and various holiday evening events. IOrganized by Terry Brussel-Rogers. The other event is in Burbank at a restaurant--see events.
If you would like to organize an event, please let me know the specifics and I will add you as an event coordinator. Your suggestions for themed events and discussions are most welcome. Call 818-886-0069 to talk to Terry Brussel-Rogers
Please remember that this group is based on the premise of encouraging successful relationships of all kinds. To this end, open and honest communication, respect and tolerance of our individual beliefs and philosophies are of paramount importance. We may not always agree with one another, but we still need to respect each other. We are not here to change one another's beliefs, perceptions or expressions of those beliefs, we are here to support one another and possibly learn something in the process of getting to know one another. Along this vein, please note that we are not responsible for what others put on their profiles. If you see something you do not like, simply do not go to that profile. This is a public forum, and while we do our best to pre-screen members, always follow the rules of internet safety (click here) and screen people yourself. (http://psychcentral.com/online_dating/safety.html)
***MEMBERS*** Please RSVP every month. Even if you RSVP "NO", it allows me to see who is active on the board. I ***THANK YOU***
Here are some articles you might find of interest, especially if you are new to the world of Polyamory . Please note many articles are available on Live the Dream Articles Click here for Live the Dream Articles That is LiveTheDream.org. More are being added all the time. If you have one for our Newsletter, do e-mail it to terry_bg@msn.com,
Fifty Years of Polyamory in America: A Guided Tour of a Growing Movement by Glen W. Olson and Terry Brussel-Rogers
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<a target="_blank" rel="nofollow ugc"></a>Benefits of Polyamory \
<a target="_blank" rel="nofollow ugc"></a>Polyamory - What it is (Part 1) \
Polyamory - What it isn't (Part 2) \
Polyamory Language
Open Relationship Styles \
<a target="_blank" rel="nofollow ugc"></a>Models Of Open Relationships - Excellent Article <br> <br> Polyamory and Children \
Raising Kids Poly - An Eye Opening Experience \
But What About The Children? \
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Dealing with Jealousy \
<a target="_blank" rel="nofollow ugc">A crazy little thing called.....Compersion</a> \
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Poly/Mono Relationship Dynamics \
Polyamory for the Monogamous \
My lover just told me he or she wants other lovers - Excellent Article <br> <a target="_blank" rel="nofollow ugc"></a>Bridging the Divide \
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Cohabitation and Dating Safety \
<a target="_blank" rel="nofollow ugc"></a> Questionaire for Cohabitation \
Tips for Online Dating Safety
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Poly Friendly Professionals \
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Never Do This: Poly Mistakes \
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If you know of any poly events in the LA area, please do not hesitate to leave a message on the boards, or contact one of the organizers.
Saturday January 18, 2025 11 am to 4 pm PT (Zoom 11-1 only) Polyamory and Swinging : Black and White or Shades of Gray? Led by Paul Gibbons When does “swinging” become deep and caring enough to be called Polyamory?
Location: 8515 Penfield Ave Winnetka, Ca 91306
For more info phone 818-886-0069 or visit LiveTheDream.org
Join Zoom meeting https://us02web.zoom.us/j/3175971626?pwd=NWVjU3A2M0I2Q29IUkI4L1lMRzd2QT09
Meeting ID: 317 597 1626 Passcode: Heinlein
Saturday January 18, 2025 Polyamory and Swinging : Black and White or Shades of Gray? Led by Paul Gibbons
Poly Discussion (all times PT) 11 am to 1 pm
Pot Luck Lunch 1 pm to 2 pm Bring Something healthy and delicious to share. It is Paul’s birthday 1-20-25. Birthday Cake for him. Let us know if you have a January birthday and we will add your name to the cake!
Socializing in Clothing optional jacuzzi 2-4 pm Bring sandals and a towel
Paul and Terry did Live the Dream presentations at the Lifestyles Convention for several years including leading Evening of Caressive Intimacy, one of that convention’s main events. It included sensual massage and guided meditation for deeper connection with the partner you came with as well as those special others they may draw into their lives. While some of the parties at this convention were hard swinging (NOT ones we chose to attend) in which two people might have sex without even exchanging names, it also included presentations by those who had long term group marriages. This Convention was organized by a Hospitality Committee who handled everything from music and refreshments to decisions on ejecting those who offered inappropriate advances to ladies (or gentlemen) who had said NO. The members of this committee frequently stayed with it for several years. They had attended the Bar/Bat mitzahs and birthday celebrations of each other’s kids, been in each other’s wedding parties and been There for each other during life’s losses. When they made love at a Party, was that Swinging, Polyamory or some shade of gray in between? Bring your questions, personal experiences, and what Wisdom you care to share…
Upcoming events (4+)
See all- Polyamory and Swinging : Black and White or Shades of Gray?Needs location
Saturday January 18, 2025 11 am to 4 pm PT (Zoom 11-1 only) Polyamory and Swinging : Black and White or Shades of Gray? Led by Paul Gibbons When does “swinging” become deep and caring enough to be called Polyamory?
Location: 8515 Penfield Ave Winnetka, Ca 91306
For more info phone 818-886-0069 or visit LiveTheDream.org
Join Zoom meeting https://us02web.zoom.us/j/3175971626?pwd=NWVjU3A2M0I2Q29IUkI4L1lMRzd2QT09
Meeting ID: 317 597 1626 Passcode: Heinlein
Saturday January 18, 2025 Polyamory and Swinging : Black and White or Shades of Gray? Led by Paul Gibbons
Poly Discussion (all times PT) 11 am to 1 pm
Pot Luck Lunch 1 pm to 2 pm Bring Something healthy and delicious to share. It is Paul’s birthday 1-20-25. Birthday Cake for him. Let us know if you have a January birthday and we will add your name to the cake!
Socializing in Clothing optional jacuzzi 2-4 pm Bring sandals and a towel
Paul and Terry did Live the Dream presentations at the Lifestyles Convention for several years including leading Evening of Caressive Intimacy, one of that convention’s main events. It included sensual massage and guided meditation for deeper connection with the partner you came with as well as those special others they may draw into their lives. While some of the parties at this convention were hard swinging (NOT ones we chose to attend) in which two people might have sex without even exchanging names, it also included presentations by those who had long term group marriages. This Convention was organized by a Hospitality Committee who handled everything from music and refreshments to decisions on ejecting those who offered inappropriate advances to ladies (or gentlemen) who had said NO. The members of this committee frequently stayed with it for several years. They had attended the Bar/Bat mitzahs and birthday celebrations of each other’s kids, been in each other’s wedding parties and been There for each other during life’s losses. When they made love at a Party, was that Swinging, Polyamory or some shade of gray in between? Bring your questions, personal experiences, and what Wisdom you care to share… - Polyamory and Swinging : Black and White or Shades of Gray?Needs location
Saturday January 18, 2025 11 am to 4 pm PT (Zoom 11-1 only) Polyamory and Swinging : Black and White or Shades of Gray? Led by Paul Gibbons When does “swinging” become deep and caring enough to be called Polyamory?
Location: 8515 Penfield Ave Winnetka, Ca 91306
For more info phone 818-886-0069 or visit LiveTheDream.org
Join Zoom meeting https://us02web.zoom.us/j/3175971626?pwd=NWVjU3A2M0I2Q29IUkI4L1lMRzd2QT09
Meeting ID: 317 597 1626 Passcode: Heinlein
Saturday January 18, 2025 Polyamory and Swinging : Black and White or Shades of Gray? Led by Paul Gibbons
Poly Discussion (all times PT) 11 am to 1 pm
Pot Luck Lunch 1 pm to 2 pm Bring Something healthy and delicious to share. It is Paul’s birthday 1-20-25. Birthday Cake for him. Let us know if you have a January birthday and we will add your name to the cake!
Socializing in Clothing optional jacuzzi 2-4 pm Bring sandals and a towel
Paul and Terry did Live the Dream presentations at the Lifestyles Convention for several years including leading Evening of Caressive Intimacy, one of that convention’s main events. It included sensual massage and guided meditation for deeper connection with the partner you came with as well as those special others they may draw into their lives. While some of the parties at this convention were hard swinging (NOT ones we chose to attend) in which two people might have sex without even exchanging names, it also included presentations by those who had long term group marriages. This Convention was organized by a Hospitality Committee who handled everything from music and refreshments to decisions on ejecting those who offered inappropriate advances to ladies (or gentlemen) who had said NO. The members of this committee frequently stayed with it for several years. They had attended the Bar/Bat mitzahs and birthday celebrations of each other’s kids, been in each other’s wedding parties and been There for each other during life’s losses. When they made love at a Party, was that Swinging, Polyamory or some shade of gray in between? Bring your questions, personal experiences, and what wisdom you care to share...
