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5.以娛樂為包裝的價值觀輸入 _選擇什麼遊戲，就是傳達什麼世界觀。_ 每一款桌遊背後都潛藏一套價值觀： - 有的強調背叛與欺騙； - 有的鼓勵合作與信任； - 有的呈現資源掠奪與階級制度； - 有的建構烏托邦式秩序。 主辦者長期傾向於選擇某一類型的遊戲，可能並非偶然。這種重複性的選擇，其實就是在潛移默化地輸出一種*特定的世界觀與人際觀*。例如： - 偏好背叛遊戲者，可能潛意識相信「信任是愚蠢的」； - 偏好優勝劣敗機制者，或許認為「人生就是競爭」； - 偏好合作遊戲者，可能渴望「控制團隊節奏」來實現掌控感。 這些價值觀不會明說，但會滲透進參與者的行為模式與認知結構。久而久之，一個常參加特定主辦者活動的群體，可能會逐漸內化那些*被默默灌輸的思想模板*。 👁️ *貼地提醒*：唔係遊戲教你點做人，而係主辦人用遊戲教你點睇世界，左右你價值觀。 --- 6. 以活動為形式的人格測試場 _你係邊類人？主辦者可能已經有答案。_ 某些主辦者對心理學、人格分析、MBTI、九型人格等有濃厚興趣，甚至熱衷於將這些理論應用在活動設計與人群觀察上。這樣的主辦者可能： - 觀察誰在壓力下會妥協、誰會反抗； - 留意誰善於操控局勢、誰容易情緒化； - 測試不同「人格類型」在不同遊戲類型的表現； - 在活動後私下歸類、評價、選擇「下一次要唔要再邀」。 這種行為本質上是一種*非正式的人格分析實驗*，主辦者將參加者當作「樣本」，而不是單純的朋友或玩家。參加者並不知情自己正被歸檔、標籤，甚至可能因此被排除於未來活動之外。 更深層的問題在於：這種分類並非基於專業診斷，而是出於主辦者主觀判斷，容易造成*社交偏見*與*角色定型*。 👁️ *貼地提醒*：你以為你係朋友，可能你只係一個測試結果，與他內心盤算中的一隻棋子。 --- 🧠 小結： 當主辦者的動機從「一起玩得開心」逐漸轉變為「建立影響力」、「操控互動」或「觀察人性」，整個桌遊活動便不再只是娛樂，而是一個充滿潛意識權力結構的微型社會。 參加者若缺乏察覺，很容易就成為這場「心理劇場」中的角色，而未必知道自己正在被觀察、操縱或分類。

🎭 ［“善”事揭露］桌遊活動主辦者的潛意識動機與可能影響（心理剖析） 今期和大家談談桌遊。此活動看似輕鬆娛樂、社交促進，但在某些情況下，主辦者的動機可能並不如表面所見那麼單純。這次和大家逐一探索揭秘。 從心理操控、社會動力、角色投射等角度來看，這些活動有時成為一種「非正式權力場域」，主導者在其中不知不覺地建構了一個可操控的微型社會。 以下是一些潛藏心理現象與可能造成的影響： 1. 權力感投射：在遊戲中扮演上帝角色 主辦者能決定玩什麼、誰參加、怎樣開始和結束，在無形中建立起一種「控制秩序」的快感。遊戲規則就像法律，而主持就是法官、立法者和執行者的三合一。 👁️ 心理暗示：以遊戲為名，行規訓之實。 --- 2. 透過社交篩選建立「圈內人」制度 部分主辦者會有意無意地建立一種「我們 vs 他們」的結構，讓新手感到疏離，老玩家形成權力核心。這種微結構可強化主辦者的地位，因為人們會依賴他來「入圈」。 👁️ 心理暗示：將社交變成邀請制，讓人為被接納而妥協。 待續，慢慢到戲肉不用急🤭

🎭 深度剖析：桌遊主辦者的潛在心理操作（第3至4） 3. 利用遊戲作為情緒操控工具 以娛樂為名，精密安排他人情緒反應的即場實驗。 有些主辦者在挑選遊戲時，並不單純以「好玩」作標準，而是偏好選擇那些能激發情緒波動的遊戲——例如高張力的狼人殺、背叛型遊戲如《The Resistance》、甚至是令人沮喪的合作失敗遊戲。這些遊戲的共同點，是它們會在短時間內觸發玩家的信任危機、憤怒、焦慮、挫敗與羞恥。 潛在動機可能包括： - 觀察他人情緒反應，從中獲得主控感； - 在群體中製造戲劇性，以鞏固自己作為「調控者」的地位； - 挑戰玩家心理底線，測試誰能「撐得住場」。 在這樣的設定中，主辦者其實像一位*情緒導演*，而其他人則成為角色。當玩家因遊戲而產生情緒崩潰、爭執或羞辱時，主辦者可能表面上「和事佬」，但實則旁觀整個過程，甚至在內心中記錄每個人的「心理弱點」。 👁️ *貼地提醒*：你以為你喺玩遊戲，但其實你嘅反應可能已經被人默默記低。 --- 4. 在勝負之間引導人際結構重組 操控座位與分組，就是重寫你和誰親近的方式。 主辦者通常擁有「安排誰坐邊、和誰一組」的控制權。這些看似無害的決定，其實可能逐步塑造出人際結構的微妙變化。主辦者透過這種「排兵佈陣」的方式： - 讓某些人更頻繁地合作，從而建立默契或依附； - 故意安排潛在對立者對抗，觀察衝突發展； - 排除特定人選於核心圈層之外，使其邊緣化； - 測試誰在不同組合中「聽話」、「能撐場」、「容易崩潰」。 這種操作不一定出於惡意，但當主辦者無意識地以關係操盤為樂，或當這種安排開始對參與者的真實社交產生影響時，它就變成一種高度隱性的人際干預。 👁️ *貼地提醒*：你以為你贏咗場遊戲，但可能係你被分配咗一個角色。

香港西洋棋之夜返嚟啦！2026第一次聚將會繼續喺 My Home Cafe，**當中最低消費為每人一杯飲品，另加每人50港元**。 一方面我會帶象棋嚟，另外cafe裡面亦有好多其他桌遊，可以隨便試玩。同埋由於活動至少要4人，所以我們會喺活動前一日，亦即係星期日晚確認會否成團。 為咗公平起見，報咗名但臨時飛機既人下次報名時需提前支付$50，否則我們將不接納其報名。 如有任何問題，可以whatsapp 9379 3041搵我。 Chess Night Hong Kong is back! The first event at 2026 will continue be held at My Home Cafe. **Minimum charge is one drink, plus $50 per person**. I will bring along the chess sets. Also, there are many other boardgames so you can try something else at the cafe too. Minimum attendance is 4 so we will confirm the event the night before by Sunday. In order to discourage no-shows, those who registered but failed to turn up will have to pay the $50 in advance next time they sign up again, or I will not count them in the registered list. Feel free to WhatsApp me at 9379 3041 if you have any questions.

🎭 ［“善”事揭露］桌遊活動主辦者的潛意識動機與可能影響（心理剖析） 今期和大家談談桌遊。此活動看似輕鬆娛樂、社交促進，但在某些情況下，主辦者的動機可能並不如表面所見那麼單純。這次和大家逐一探索揭秘。 從心理操控、社會動力、角色投射等角度來看，這些活動有時成為一種「非正式權力場域」，主導者在其中不知不覺地建構了一個可操控的微型社會。 以下是一些潛藏心理現象與可能造成的影響： 1. 權力感投射：在遊戲中扮演上帝角色 主辦者能決定玩什麼、誰參加、怎樣開始和結束，在無形中建立起一種「控制秩序」的快感。遊戲規則就像法律，而主持就是法官、立法者和執行者的三合一。 👁️ 心理暗示：以遊戲為名，行規訓之實。 --- 2. 透過社交篩選建立「圈內人」制度 部分主辦者會有意無意地建立一種「我們 vs 他們」的結構，讓新手感到疏離，老玩家形成權力核心。這種微結構可強化主辦者的地位，因為人們會依賴他來「入圈」。 👁️ 心理暗示：將社交變成邀請制，讓人為被接納而妥協。 待續，慢慢到戲肉不用急🤭

日期：1月日(星期六)📆 時間：\~大約13:30pm⏰ 集合地點：西灣河 (whatsapp再通知📧) 結束：\~大約17:30pm🕰️ （之後建議一起吃飯🍖） 導賞團費用 : 🆓 language：cantonese host：Isaac 🙋🏻‍♂️ 內容 : 大潭水務文物徑範圍涵蓋21項已列為法定古蹟的水務歷史建築🏢，包括上水塘水壩及水掣房、副水塘水壩、中水塘水壩、大潭篤水塘紀念碑等等🏢。 了解大潭水務文物徑：👇🏻 https://www.hkallshan.com/taitam-water/ ❇️溫馨提示： ⭐️A.此次活動希望大家一起完成整個遊覧。除了事前已經要求提早離開，否則強烈希望大家一起遊覽直至解散為至。🙏🏻 ⭐B.參加本次活動必需要 like and follow facebook page 或 instgram ! https://www.facebook.com/TLKIN-KNWL-Herit-site-tour-hk-%E8%AC%9B%E7%9F%A5%E8%AD%98-%E6%B8%AF%E9%81%BA%E8%B9%9F-102455038646638 (☝🏻must be like and follow my page of facebook before you join my event) ⭐C. 希望閣下的 meetup profile picture 有一張能夠看見閣下樣貌的照片，否則可能會安排去 Waitlist 或暫時剔出此次活動。如有不便，敬請原諒 ! (☝🏻 clear profile picture is necessary) 1. 如遇下雨活動⛈️, 將會延期。(it will be postponed if there is rainning) 2. 請準時或之前到達，逾時不候⏰。(No waiting for late) 3. 將會有粵語歷史簡介，但並不準備英語講解🔠。 4. 完成後建議一起吃飯🍚 5. Welcome any Hong Kong Expat，but I do have History Introduction for those heritage site IN CANTONESE only, so sorry there is no english introduction ! (but i may get u english Introduction ahead via whatsapp before the trip) 需知 : -所有參加者請留下電話作聯絡之用，否則一律納入 waitlist 。 -本組織擁有是次活動最終決定權。 ⭐⭐免責聲明 : 所有活動均以自由形式參與，參加者必須完全充分明白，所有活動都潛在著風險，以及有相對應的危險性。參加者須自行承擔所有風險，為自己的安全和財物損失負上全部責任。如在活動過程中發生任何人身損害或財物損失，應立即通知有關部門協調處理相關事宜。本組織不會承擔任何責任及作出任何賠償。

Have you ever been in a situation where decisions, outcomes and emotions seemed suspended in time - where clarity was elusive and possibilities were endless? Tell us the story of your tales of adventure, introspection, wanderlust or embracing the unknown. Theme for our January show is Up in the Air If you've got a story or just an idea, come along and pitch it for the show. If your story is shortlisted for the show, our host will work with you as you polish and rehearse it. 📌 Story Requirements: - Your story must be true - It must be told in the first person—you are the main character - It should be between 5-10 minutes You don't need to have a completed or polished story ready - just a beginning idea is okay. This workshop is open to individuals at all levels, first-timers or old hands. The purpose of Hong Kong Stories is to help you become a better storyteller. Everyone has a story to tell, and everyone loves a story well told.

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**Details** Welcome every Expats, Foreigners and Non native speakers of Chinese. You can choose the language you like to learn ( Mandarin/Cantonese ). We have both Mandarin/Cantonese tutors, and all of them are native. Please fill in the following form(for the first time only) and RSVP to join. ***Walkin to join*** We meet every week in a group of 20 - 30 people. We will have nearly half of people are native speakers. There are professional and native Mandarin tutors from Hong Kong Mainland Student Association(msahk.org). Thank you for their help. Hard copy of notes are not provided. You may download and print yours from the links below or just bring any notes you like. ***Mandarin Basics*** [https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/2/20/Chinese_(Mandarin).pdf](https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/2/20/Chinese_(Mandarin).pdf) ***Cantonese Basics*** https://www.cantoneseclass101.com/cantonese-word-lists/?coreX=100 ***Venue*** Suite 1208, 12/F, Tower 6, The Gateway, 9 Canton Road, Tsim Sha Tsui · Hong Kong Some info about the venue: * Water provided for free and you may bring your own drinks * You can come straight right up to Times Square through Causeway Bay station Exit A, ***Contact***(Whatsapp Group) [https://chat.whatsapp.com/By08XQzNs2y1SbRyOh613t](https://chat.whatsapp.com/By08XQzNs2y1SbRyOh613t)

Better Life Meetup@Futian 周六华强北英语角 Theme: Share A Book/Movie/Story Time: Sat 19:00-21:30 2nd-November-2019 地址:广东省深圳市福田区福明路40号雷圳大厦4层锦囊青年寓 Venue: 4th Floor Leizhen Mansion Contact/联系: Kevin 15013515941Wechat/phone

Our January program is privileged to have Kristen Tregar as our speaker. Ms. Tregar is the co-author with John de Lancie (the actor who portrayed the character Q on Star Trek next generation) of a radio play depicting the events surrounding the Kitzmiller v. Dover Area School District trial. The trial decided the issue of some of the Dover school district board members attempting to insert creationism disguised as "intelligent design" into the 9th grade biology curriculum. She will discuss the trial and the process of writing the play. (Bob Leonhard has seen the play and it is riveting and tense). Ms. Tregar's bio is below: Kristen Tregar is a dramaturg, director, playwright, and theatre teacher. She earned her Ph.D. in Drama and Theatre from the UC San Diego and UC Irvine joint program. In addition, she has a MS in Forensic Science from City University of New York- John Jay College of Criminal Justice and a MA in Educational Theatre from New York University- Steinhardt School of Culture, Education, and Human Development. In 2013, in collaboration with Irish colleagues, she founded *The Ireland Project*, an intercontinental devised theatre work with high school students in New York and Tallaght, Ireland. Her original short story "Far From Here" was recently published in *Stay Awhile Longer: More Scenes From Temecula Valley*. She has two rescued dogs (Kira and Harry) and she rides, competes, and foxhunts with her horses, Andromache and Baker Street Irregular. Food and drinks will be provided at the event. Feel free to show up a little bit early to hang out and talk. Going forward our meetings will be hybrid. You can meet us in-person or attend online Join Zoom Meeting [https://us02web.zoom.us/j/87836564953?pwd=4Mi57ElZkDIFlb1fnlNwOJ0NiOK4tP.1](https://us02web.zoom.us/j/87836564953?pwd=4Mi57ElZkDIFlb1fnlNwOJ0NiOK4tP.1) Meeting ID: 878 3656 4953 Passcode: 760812 One tap mobile +19292056099,,87836564953#,,,,\*760812# US (New York) +13017158592,,87836564953#,,,,\*760812# US (Washington DC) The formal presentation will start at noon

Inspired by the successful events like "Pot Luck in the Park" and "Saturday Mornings @ East Market," this meetup promises a fun and engaging atmosphere where like-minded individuals can connect over a shared love for languages and cultures. Whether you're a language learner, ESL student, or simply passionate about exploring new cultures, this event is perfect for anyone looking to immerse themselves in a diverse and welcoming community. Come join us for an enlightening evening of language, culture, food, of course, and connections! (Everyone will choose from the menu and pay individually)

The topic for January is "Chemistry" Speak Easy: true stories, told live. The idea is simple: an audience, an open microphone, and great stories. Hilarious, gripping, poignant- it's up to you. Audiences are invited to come to listen or come to tell as folks from all corners of Columbus offer their stories live on stage! Held at Wild Goose Creative's warm, intimate space, this night of tales occurs on the 3rd Thursday of every month. Doors open at 7:00 pm, show starts at 7:30 pm. Please arrive early if you want to tell, as we generally only have room for a limited number of tellers, and the sign-up sheet has a tendency to fill up fast. Formed around the idea that people need stories--they're what hold and draw us together--SpeakEasy celebrates the strangeness and commonness of being human. And in a world of smartphones, Facebook, Twitter, and more . . . it gives people a real, breathing, in-person way to connect. The night is geared for true stories of all kinds, taking the best tales told around kitchen tables, in darkened pubs, on the street corner, and at late-night parties and giving them an audience. Speak Easy is also a great outlet for performers, writers, and artists looking to share their favorite stories and perfect their skills. We strongly encourage tellers to please tell the story rather than read it so we keep within the spirit of good storytelling and stay engaged with the audience. All are welcome. Hang around after the show for a drink and build community!

Sleep in on Sundays. When you've had your fill of pajama-time, roll out and have some tasty brunch with your fellow Humanists!

Jimmy V's Grill & Pub in Grandview Heights. You are responsible for your own meal/drinks. We usually don't have any agenda other than eat, drink and talk. :) If the weather is nice we will be on the back patio, otherwise we are in the cigar room. This group has been meeting every Tuesday evening for over a decade. Many attendees do not RSVP on meetup. Please don't let the small number here discourage you. Anyone/everyone is welcome to come. We'd love to have you join us. COTA bus #5 comes to W. 5th and Wyandotte Rd. And it's a minute walk to the restaurant. *** Did you know that there are atheists everywhere?!?! You may not know it, but we are! We're in your schools, diners, police force, military, government, and some are even still in your churches! So come and join us and meet other local atheists, along with agnostics, heathens, humanists, skeptics, and anyone else who's 'hell bound'! Vision: a Central Ohio that accepts atheism as a viable alternative in all areas of public and private life. Mission: grow, support, and provide community for atheists in Central Ohio. Social meetings held most Tuesdays at a local pub/restaurant at 7:00 PM (and often into the wee hours). Attendees call themselves agnostics, skeptics, humanists, non-theists, deists or even theists. All attendees are welcome but should support our vision. Atheists of Columbus (AoC) is part of Omnipresent Atheists (OA). AoC members are invited to join this OA meetup and/or OA Facebook group ( https://www.facebook.com/groups/omnipresentatheists/ ) but are free to continue conversations on the AoC Facebook group ( https://www.facebook.com/groups/columbusatheists/ ). AoC was founded in 2012 as a networking, social group for Central Ohio area humanists, skeptics, atheists, agnostics, nonbelievers, freethinkers, and the curious. It was a member of Columbus CoR and held weekly meetings, mostly on Fridays, for several years but then operated as an online only group for some time. In November 2018, Omnipresent Atheists (OA), a group that routinely meets on Tuesdays, invited AoC to merge. Omnipresent Atheists is a member of the Columbus Coalition of Reason (ColumbusCoR.org). Omnipresent Atheists is a member of the Columbus Coalition of Reason ( http://www.ColumbusCoR.org ). Omnipresent Atheists endorses the mission of the Secular Coalition for America ( http://secular.org ).

http://photos2.meetupstatic.com/photos/event/2/a/9/6/600_348310902.jpeg Instructor - Crow, HPS Class fee is $30 at the door or approved exchange RSVP with Advance pay of $25 (discounted) by PayPal on the web or by contacting Enchanted Elements (614) 437-2642. Reservations made directly to Enchanted Elements will be added to the class list manually not online. Private Instruction ~ Closed to the Public ~ Initiated Members Only Please come prepared for ritual. Blessings ~ Crow