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We are thrilled to unveil our first Cocktails & Conversation Gay Mixer, a curated collaboration with [Joyeux Bordel](https://www.instagram.com/heyjoyeuxbordel/). Set against one of London’s most breathtaking backdrops, it’s tailored to be a sanctuary of sophisticated connection and style. Join us at Sabine Rooftop, with stunning views of St Paul’s Cathedral, for an evening designed to feel effortless, social, and beautifully grown-up. [Tickets Available Here](https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/gay-mixer-at-sabine-rooftop-age-26-45-tickets-1982670658311?aff=oddtdtcreator) This mixer is for men who like men and are open to meeting like-minded guys for friendship or dating. From the moment you arrive, you’ll be welcomed with a complimentary cocktail, while our resident DJ sets the tone with chilled, stylish background music and engaging icebreaker games — perfect for conversation without competing for attention. This is an evening to mix and mingle with like-minded professional men, in a space that feels relaxed, inclusive, and quietly confident. Our experienced hosts will be on hand throughout the night to make introductions and ensure no one feels left out — whether you arrive solo or with friends. Step out onto the heated rooftop terrace for magical moments under the city lights, or settle in at the bar with a cocktail and see where the evening takes you. We’re thrilled to be joined by Joyeux Bordel, known for bringing a sophisticated queer energy to the city’s best spaces. Together, we’ve designed a well-balanced guest list to ensure the room feels lively yet intimate… Exactly what you need for genuine conversation and an easy-going night. **What to expect** Welcome cocktail on arrival 7.00-7.30pm Chilled DJ soundtrack Semi-Private Area Reserved for our guests [Tickets Available Here](https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/gay-mixer-at-sabine-rooftop-age-26-45-tickets-1982670658311?aff=oddtdtcreator)

Join OutdoorLads popular weekly Thursday Bouldering evening at The Arch in Bermondsey. OutdoorLads London boulderers welcome all members of the LGBTQ+ community You'll be meeting with a supportive group of 5 to 10 plus boulderers who are always happy to introduce complete beginners or solve difficult bouldering problems with enthusiasts. We usually follow up with a pub visit. This event is for members of all levels of experience and all are welcome to come along to any of the sessions. Bouldering is a form of climbing where instead of long high routes, the 'problems', as they are referred to, tend to be shorter and focus on technique, balance, body positioning and sometimes power. Because of this different emphasis, bouldering doesn't have the hassle of climbing with ropes, harnesses and belaying, which makes the activities excellent for newcomers to the sport. If you're a seasoned climber you won't need convincing about the benefits of bouldering, but for those who've never climbed more than a staircase, the benefits are wide ranging: from the physical - improved strength, tone, balance, power and coordination; mental - problem solving, focus, concentration and body awareness; to the emotional - relaxation, a sense of achievement and a feeling that mind and body are working together perfectly ('feeling psyched'). On top of all this, bouldering tends to be a very social sport where you can hang out with mates and each have a go as you feel regardless of what level you climb at.

Join us for a safe space to connect, share, and uplift each other in our monthly Sisterhood Support Group! SASH and Naz have relaunched our Sisterhood Support Group. This group is specifically aimed at Black women & non-binary folk. Through our organisations' active engagement with community groups, services and service users, we have encountered numerous sexual and reproductive health issues faced disproportionately by Black women & NB folk. The lack of available support, sex education disparities, cultural barriers and desire for community connections all point to the clear need for this support group. The Sisterhood Support group was created in response to the lack of supportive, non-judgemental and intersectional safe spaces for community members to come together, improve sexual health knowledge, de-stress and address concerns in a culturally sensitive environment. The group will utilise crafting activities to allow attendees to tap into their creativity and freely express themselves. This will be held monthly on every second Thursday at the Naz office from 6-8 pm. The sessions will have varying themes, crafts and activities as well as the opportunity to connect and uplift.

**BOOK HERE**: https://sportas.co.uk/games/45522 **Game Description:** Come and play in a men's casual 7 aside footy game on a Thursday night in Balham 😎 The entrance to the pitch is via Boundaries Road (large green gate). **Directions:** 🚶‍♂️2 min walk from Balham Station 🚿 Changing rooms and toilets available **Rules** \- Change keepers every 6 minutes \- No slide tackles \- No aggressive behaviour \- Be positive and encouraging towards all players\. We're all here to have a good runaround and get some football in

## **What we explore in the circle** Each session may include gentle discussion and guidance around: * Understanding grief beyond the early days and months * The ripple effect of secondary losses and hidden struggles * How to offer and receive calm, grounded presence * Holding space safely when strong emotions arise * Boundaries, language and emotional safety * Managing vulnerability, triggers and group dynamics * Rebuilding connection and confidence in life after loss * Compassionate, validating ways to talk about grief There is **no pressure to share**. You are welcome exactly as you are. ## **Who this is for** This circle is for: * Anyone who has experienced bereavement * Those feeling isolated in their grief * People wanting gentle connection and understanding * Those looking for ongoing support in a safe space You do not need to have attended before. You are welcome whether your loss is recent or many years ago. ## **What to expect** * A warm, confidential and supportive environment * Small group setting * Kind, compassionate facilitation * Tea, connection and understanding * The freedom to simply be This is a peer support space, not therapy, but it can feel deeply therapeutic to be among people who understand. ## **Event details** **When:** Monthly, 2nd Saturday of each month, 10 am - Midday **Where:** The Net Community Hub, 70 Silverweed Road, Chatham ME5 0QX **Duration:** 2 hours **Cost:** Free, but if you wish to make a Donation, I will have a box available. Low-cost refreshments will be available for purchase. Spaces are limited to keep the circle safe and supportive. ## **About your host** Jude has over 30 years of lived experience with grief and supports bereaved individuals through compassionate, heart-led spaces that honour loss while gently supporting life after loss. She is a Grief coach, Energy Healer & Life after loss Mentor.

Re-learning intimacy and caring connection with other man. Tantric massage workshops in London for men aged 18-40. Join us for transformative workshops focused on intimacy, consent, and deep connection. These sessions have been incredibly well-received, with many participants sharing that they were life-changing experiences. * We explore how to ask for the touch you want and connect with another man in a slow, sensual, and meaningful way. * We focus on holding boundaries, asking for what we want, and taking a little risk in allowing intimacy rather than performance. * It's a safe and supportive space to connect deeply with yourself and others, far from the impersonal app culture. **What to Expect:** ✨ Playful, erotic, and nourishing connection with other men in a shame-free environment ✨ Massage and intimacy skills to use with partners and lovers ✨ Being fully present with others in a caring, heart-centred setting ✨ Gentle paired and group activities (nudity and genital touch included) ✨ Building intimacy and connection rather than performance or pressure ✨ Connecting in a safe and sober community ✨ Learning language for exploring consent ✨ Relaxing into a welcoming space for men who may feel nervous or stuck around sexual connection 👉 [Click HERE to reserve your spot](https://bookwhen.com/evolvingminds#focus=ev-s933g-20260314140000) **What You’ll Learn:** ✨ Slowing down and enjoying sensual foreplay as a form of erotic connection ✨ Breathwork and energy circulation to revitalise sexual energy without rushing to orgasm ✨ Asking for the touch you want and setting clear boundaries **Want to know more?** Click to watch a short video overview [👉 ](https://youtube.com/shorts/_ktn7iVyc0Y)**[CLICK HERE](https://youtube.com/shorts/_ktn7iVyc0Y)** 📅 Event Details **Date:** Saturday 14th March **Time:** 2–7.30 PM (doors open 1:45 PM) **Location:** Canary Wharf **Nearest tube:** Jubilee or Elizabeth line: Canary Wharf (15 min walk) DLR: East India (8 mins walk) 🎟️ Tickets **Full price:** £69 **Reduced rate:** £39 (students/unwaged) 👉 [Click HERE to reserve your spot](https://bookwhen.com/evolvingminds#focus=ev-s933g-20260314140000) We usually have between 10 - 14 men at each monthly workshop, as we advertise over a number of Meetup groups RSVP responses are not an indicator of how many are coming. **Facilitator** **Nick Kientsch** — trauma-informed practitioner with 20+ years’ massage experience and a background in Tibetan Buddhist Tantra and Neo-Tantra. A former Buddhist monk, Nick brings depth, compassion, warmth, and safety to every session. **Testimonials** ✨ "Nick creates a safe and positive space for exploring human connection through touch. I felt uplifted, seen, and valued. I highly recommend his sessions." ✨ "Nick's workshops are a glorious affirmation and celebration of our bodies, sexuality, and the importance of caring touch. His facilitation is gentle, open, and encouraging, creating a truly accepting atmosphere." – Chris ✨ “Nick holds a safe, affirming space for deep connection. I highly recommend his workshops.” – Paul ✨ “Nick creates such a beautiful and welcoming space — I left feeling blissful and connected to myself and others.” – Sam

Join OutdoorLads weekly Saturday bouldering morning event at Vauxwall West - please check our main event page on our website (link in the comments below). We welcome all members of the LGBTQ+ community, and you will be socialising with a supportive group boulderers who are always happy to introduce complete beginners to the sport or solve difficult bouldering problems together. This event is for members of all levels of experience and all are welcome to come along to any of the sessions. Bouldering is unique. There are few sports out there that offer a mental and physical challenge no matter what skill level you are at. Each route consists of several holds that the climber uses, focusing on problem-solving and technical movements to help them reach the top. No two routes are ever the same, and the colour-coded system indicates the difficulty level, so there's a climb for everyone to enjoy! If you have never tried bouldering before, please ensure that you have gone through the centre's safety and induction video beforehand (https://londonclimbingcentres.co.uk/pre-register/) as you will be required to answer a few safety questions when registering at the centre.

Join us for the first NoVA Gay Men 40+ meetup. Casual dinner. Real conversation. If there’s a game on, we’ll watch it. This group is for grounded gay and bi men 40+ in Northern Virginia looking for connection beyond nightlife. Recently out or long out — all welcome! No pressure. No drama. No expectations. Just show up, eat, talk, and build something real. Come solo. Leave whenever you want.

**Welcome to Men's Circle, hosted at Sticks and Stones!** This is a group oriented towards fostering connection between men in our local community, while also accomplishing magickal working and intentional discussion around metaphysical topics. Please read the following code of conduct for our group, and message the facilitator or call the shop and ask for Merlin for any questions. Code of Conduct 1. We are all, in good faith, men. Whichever way that manifests, we take it on good faith that all attendees are male identifying. 2. We respect all walks of life and spiritual practice. We honor and respect men from every walk of life and spiritual practice. Freedom ends where it infringes on the practice of another. We do not evangelize, prostelitize, or talk down on others. There is no initiation, or universal code of spiritual conduct here. 3. What happens in Men's Circle stays in Men's Circle By attending, you accept a sacred duty to keep the trust and faith of the other attendees, do not share or discuss anything we share in circle. *(The secret answer to the question is "Salt on the Wind")* 4. Respect the circle Once the circle is cast, we are focusing our energy on magickal topics, and making the best use of everyone's time. With great love, we may ask you to redirect or keep a line of thought shorter or more intentional. 5. Arbitration is immediate and help-oriented If you run into a pain point or offense in our group, please speak up immediately and let your thoughts be heard. We are here to respect and grow and support each other as a community, let us help and grow together. **The next few weeks, we will be focusing discussion and practices around the following topic:** TBD

If you missed them at 2 Silos, here's your opportunity to catch them at Jimmy's 1 Silo! Or go to both! Time to radiate the NOVA Live Music Mingle Love 💕💞💘

Join us for a high-energy night of live music with one of the popular DC-area bands! Pool Boys! Pool Boys are a rock cover band from Herndon, VA specializing in an eclectic mix of rock, pop and hip-hop cover songs from the last 30 years. Brothers in music, Jim Welfley locks in the beat on drums, Steve Linstrom nails down the bottom end on bass, and Dan Blanchet delivers the main melody on guitar and lead vocals. Great music. Great people. See you at Jimmy’s Old Town Tavern.

**Black Hill Regional Park → Paris Baguette (Germantown)** **Sunday \| March 22\, 2026 \| 10:00 AM** **Join us for a Sunday morning in nature, centered on meaningful conversation along the trail.** **We’ll meet at the Black Hill Regional Park Visitor Center parking lot around 10:00 AM and spend about 60–90 minutes on the scenic lake trails, surrounded by water, trees, and open sky. The morning setting offers space to be present, notice the landscape, and let conversation unfold naturally as we walk.** **After our time on the trails, we’ll continue on to Paris Baguette in Germantown Town Center for coffee or a pastry and keep the conversation going.** **This group is for gay men who enjoy being outdoors, care about how food is grown and gathered, appreciate thoughtful conversation, and value authentic friendships built at a natural pace. This is not a hookup space, a dating pool, a nightlife extension, or a professional networking circle. The aim is simply to share time outdoors, exchange ideas, and see what connections take root from there.** **What to bring:** * **Comfortable walking shoes** * **Water** * **Weather-appropriate layers** **Feel free to arrive a few minutes early so we can gather and get started together.**

Who’s the bowling pro? Theres always that one. Join us for bowling … it will be fun..followed by a lunch social! See you there!