R-Ladies
Meet other local people interested in R-Ladies: share experiences, inspire and encourage each other! Join a R-Ladies group.
2,577
members
5
groups
Largest R-Ladies groups
Newest R-Ladies groups
Frequently Asked Questions
Yes! Check out r-ladies events happening today here. These are in-person gatherings where you can meet fellow enthusiasts and participate in activities right now.
Discover all the r-ladies events taking place this week here. Plan ahead and join exciting meetups throughout the week.
Absolutely! Find r-ladies events near your location here. Connect with your local community and discover events within your area.
R-Ladies Events Today
Join in-person R-Ladies events happening right now
Cuddle Party ~ Clear Boundaries, Honest Communication
You are invited to a cuddle gathering.
The idea is to share fun, loving snuggles and physical and emotional connection with CONSENSUAL NON-SEXUAL touch.
If you are looking for a space to relax with people, discover what you like, learn to communicate clearly, or create boundaries, hugs, foot rubs, massage, or snuggling, this is the event for you.
This event is welcome to all people, creeds, and walks of life. Zero discrimination.
Registration:
To reserve your spot, e-mail cuddlemeclosetoronto@gmail.com.
Cost:
Early-bird by June 13: $45
Community member: $45
(For those who’ve been to a previous cuddle party with me)
Regular Admission: $55
Due to the limited capacity of participants, all ticket purchases are non-refundable. If you are unable to attend, you may transfer your ticket to another person or if given enough notice credit it toward a future event.
Location: East end Toronto. The nearest intersection is Queen and Broadview. The address will be disclosed upon registration.
Space is limited. 12 participants max.
Timing:
6:00 pm Arrivals & Check-In.
6:15 pm Opening circle
6:30 pm Doors Close; Review of Agreements, Connection Activities,
Cuddle Time
8:45 pm Closing Circle
ARRIVE ON TIME:
Arrive no later than the opening circle where we go over cuddle agreements and our intentions to create a safe space for all.
WHAT TO WEAR: Wear comfortable clothing similar to what you’d wear for dance or yoga or comfy pajamas. Think more comfy than sexy. No lingerie or overly revealing clothing please.
PLEASE NOTE: this is not a dating event; therefore I can’t guarantee a perfect gender balance.
CUDDLE AGREEMENTS:
1. Clothing stays on the whole time.
2. You don’t have to cuddle anyone at a cuddle gathering, ever.
3. You must ask permission and receive a verbal YES before you touch anyone. (Be as specific in your request as you can.)
4. If you’re a yes, say YES.
5. If you’re a no, say NO.
6. If you’re a maybe, say NO.
7. You are encouraged to change your mind at any time.
8)Respect any agreements you have in your relationship outside the cuddle party and communicate with your partner.
8. Talk to your cuddle facilitator if you have a question or concern or need assistance with anything during the cuddle party.
9. Tears and laughter are both welcome.
10. Respect people’s privacy when sharing about cuddle parties, i.e.: do not tell people who else you saw there without their permission.
WHAT TO BRING: You may bring a snack to share and a water bottle! Light snacks will be provided.
You optionally may want to bring a journal and pen to write down your thoughts or feelings during the experience.
ARRIVE SCENT-FREE, DRUG-FREE, and SOBER: We want to create a safe and fun environment where everyone is fully present.
Cuddle Party Facilitators
Amanda Clarke
Cuddlemeclose.ca
Speaking English language class with Certified Award-Winning teacher@Madison Pub
SPACE IS LIMITED! This is a much smaller class than our 7:30 pm event and we can only accept a limited number of students.
Key areas of focus: Practicing oral communication (speaking languages), for conversations, presentations, interviews and job skills
Schedule:
1. 6:30 - 7:15 pm : 45 -minute language conversation class with certified award-winning language teacher John Dias.
2. Language exchange social (7:30 - 11 pm): includes Free access to the Toronto's BIGGEST Language Party and Social Party also in the Madison Pub led by teacher John Dias (same location)
**Cost: just $ 5 while we have this promo.**
**PROMO (Limited Time): $5 fee will give you access to both events (usual rate: $15 total)**
Feel free to message us if you have any questions!
F*ck the Small Talk #3 🚀
**\* RSVP ≠ a ticket. Click the link below to confirm your spot \***
**[🎟️ Sign up here to grab your ticket 🎟️](https://luma.com/ftst3toronto)**
Viewing this on your phone and can't click the link? Go to the comments and click the link posted in there!
**📦 WHAT'S THIS ABOUT?**
F\*ck the Small Talk is an out-of-the-box social experience where strangers come together for an evening of meaningful, fun, and deep conversation. It’s also just a different & cool way of meeting new people by **getting out of your comfort zone** and **skipping the small talk!**
Join us for an evening of games, talks, and connections with friends you haven’t met yet. Join if you get **annoyed after being asked what you do**, **where** **you** **are** **from**, and how long you have been in Toronto, every single time you meet someone. If you feel that there are better questions in life then this is the place for you. 🙌
**📓 HOW DOES IT WORK?**
We start with a short and sweet intro talk followed by a few light-hearted group games to warm up. After that, we split you up into small groups and start some **conversation** **rounds** (3–4 people per group).
We have awesome **question** **cards** that will guide the flow of each conversation. (You never have to speak in public if you don’t want.) Our **experienced host will make sure everything goes smoothly**. 🍭 (Introverts, you'll love it too ❤️.)
**🕹 HOW TO JOIN**
**[Take a minute to sign up 👈](https://luma.com/ftst3toronto)**
Viewing this on your phone and can't click the link? Go to the comments and click the link posted in there!
Our events are **limited to 30 handpicked guests** to ensure a cozy atmosphere. **Confirm your spot on the link above** to make it happen! We try our best to prioritize a balance of gender and age. If you're invited you'll receive a confirmation within 48 hours via Luma (our ticketing platform)
NOTE: We won't validate your payment unless you've been accepted! (which you most likely will ❤️)
**Sold out or can't make it?** [Drop us your email ](https://epicllama.myflodesk.com/toronto)and we'll keep you in the loop for the next one! 😎
**🧧 HOW MUCH IS IT?**
The cost to attend is CAD 30 (Early Llama) or CAD 35 (General Llama), and includes the following:
⏰ 3 hours of **facilitated** and curated activities
👥 A space to meet **new** **people** in the least boring way possible
💛 Supporting our **mission** to eliminate small talk around the world
🍽️ A mid-way snack and drink of choice (you can purchase additional food/drink too, if you wish)
🎫 Those pesky **ticket** **fees**!
**🌳 WHERE IS IT?**
This event will take place at a private cafe in the Willowdale neighbourhood, close to **Finch subway station**, on Yonge Street. The exact location will be revealed once we confirm your spot! 🎟️
**💛 WHAT THEY SAY**
🗣 “This is the kind of activity **humanity needs every weekend**. Thank you for all.” - *Sonya*
🗣 “F\*ck the Small Talk changes the narrative from "Where are you from?" to "When was the last time you laughed uncontrollably?" and I think that's beautiful.” - Monika
🗣 "It’s a **wonderful** **experience**, it’s like being a kid again, when you were at the park, playing with other kids, and just decided you were going to be best friends for the next hours. Maybe you’ll never see those kids again. But that hour was amazing because you both opened up and trusted each other." - Sara
**[Read our 130+ Google reviews here 👈](https://goo.gl/maps/TpZy77bfPFkGoikn7)**
**🤓 FAQs**
**Can I come alone?**
Of course, we encourage it :)
**Can I be late?**
Please don't! Late arrivals will disrupt the floooooooow.
**I signed up but never got an invite. Why?**
We usually get a high volume of sign-ups yet we like to keep it cozy and only invite around 30 people. Please try again next time if you do not receive an invite - no hard feelings 💛
**Why do you charge?**
We value our time and put a lot of love, planning, and effort into creating and designing these experiences. ♥️ This is our project/business and what we give to the world and we think everything should be a fair exchange! 🎈 However, money should never be the reason for people not to attend. If you can’t afford it, send us a message!
**Is this a networking or dating event?**
Nope! Think of us as the *anti-networking* and *anti-speed dating* event. There’s no pressure, no pitches, and no cringy icebreakers. Instead, we create spaces where strangers can connect through fun & meaningful conversations. It’s all about authentic connection— no business cards or romantic expectations required. (doesn’t mean it *can’t* happen — it’s just not the intention!)
𝘾𝙤𝙢𝙚 𝙘𝙪𝙧𝙞𝙤𝙪𝙨, 𝙡𝙚𝙖𝙫𝙚 𝙘𝙤𝙣𝙣𝙚𝙘𝙩𝙚𝙙. ✨
\* Location is only revealed to ticket holders!
🙅♀️📱This event is a no-phone experience. 🙅♀️📱
We started in Berlin back in 2019 out of the frustration of being asked 'Where are you from?' multiple times at every single meetup! Now there are chapters in 11 cities including Medellin, Lisbon, Buenos Aires, Zurich, and London! 🗺️
\*\*\*
Follow us on[ Instagram ](https://www.instagram.com/epic.llama/)👈
Our [website](https://epicllama.com/fuckthesmalltalk)[ ](https://epicllama.com/)👈
🍂 Rouge National Urban Park Hike and Picnic🌳
🍂 **Fall Walk: Rouge National Urban Park** 🌳
is Canada's only Urban Park and is one of our most popular hikes that we do as it's really the only hiking trail in Toronto that you can get to by TTC. Once you are on the trail you will not believe that you are still in the City. Not only will we be walking up and hills but I will take you to one of the best lookout points in the Valley. You don't want to miss an afternoon of hiking.
This trail can be a bit challenging (with some ups and downs), so it may not be the best choice for beginners. But if you’re up for it, you’ll feel proud of yourself at the end — and you’ll have shared the experience with a great group of people.
After the hike, we’ll enjoy a **group picnic** (30–40 mins). Please bring something small to share — nothing too big so it’s easy to carry! 🥪🍎
***
### Meetup Details
📍 **Meetup Location (TTC):** On the platform for the **85B bus** at Don Mills Station. Look for me in my Moose Hat 🦌.
🕙 **Meetup Time:** 10:00am (I’ll wait until the bus comes, but remember: *Early is on time, on time is late*.)
🚌 **Bus Leaves:** 10:13am sharp. If you miss it, you won’t be able to join us.
🚗 **By Car:**
* Parking is **not available** where we are meeting. If driving, please park at the **Toronto Zoo** (paid parking) and walk to the **Park’s Welcome Centre (the house)**.
* Car Meetup Time: 11:00am (we might be a few minutes late arriving).
👟 **Hike Length:** \~2 hours 30 minutes + short break
🧺 **Picnic:** 30–40 minutes after the hike
💲 **Fee:** $5 cash 💵 or e-transfer 📲 to **mathewmaclean@hotmail.com**
***
### What to Bring
* Water 💧
* Good walking shoes 👟
* A snack 🍫
* Picnic item to share 🥗
📍 **End Spot:** Park’s Welcome Centre
***
✨ This group is open to anyone who wants to be social, make friends, and enjoy nature. We also run events like movies, hikes, arts & culture, and restaurants.
📱 **Don’t forget to join our WhatsApp group** – [CLICK HERE!](https://chat.whatsapp.com/H59mSCbsAi018gYANrKAnc?mode=ac_t)
🔔 Reminder: You can just show up on the day if you’re not sure ahead of time.
⚠️ Sometimes things happen and I may need to cancel — please keep an eye out for updates.
👤 Organized by Mathew. For questions, post on the wall or email **torontomoviesandoutings@hotmail.com**
R-Ladies Events This Week
Discover what is happening in the next few days
80s/90s Retro GUILTY Pleasures Video Dance w/ Elton John vs Billy Joel Spotlight
\- Living On Video & DJ Lazarus presents \-
Sat July 4 - 80s & 90s Retro 'GUILTY' Pleasures Video Dance Party w/ Elton John vs Billy Joel Spotlight - 4am Last Call
ADVANCED TICKETS ONLY $10: https://GUILTYjuly4.eventbrite.ca
'GUILTY' brings the 80s & 90s back to life with the BIGGEST HITS and ONE HIT WONDERS of the time.
\-\-\-\-\-
You'll have a blast dancing with hundreds of people as 'GUILTY' has become one of the busiest retro events in Toronto.
\-\-\-\-\-
'GUILTY' has 9 giant video screens playing the music videos you remember from Much Music and MTV.
\-\-\-\-\-
DJ Lazarus and 'Be Kind Rewind' spin a fun mix of big retro hits to keep you on the dance floor.
Saturday July 4, 2026
Retro 'GUILTY' Pleasures Video Dance Party w/ Elton John vs Billy Joel Spotlight - 4am Last Call
BIGGEST HITS and ONE HIT WONDERS of the 80's & 90's
Ground Control - 1279 Queen St West - Toronto
Lounge 9pm - Mainroom 10pm - 19+ Event
$10 Advanced Tix: https://GUILTYjuly4.eventbrite.ca
$15 at the door
INVITE: www.facebook.com/events/1263202235620510/
(please INVITE and SHARE with your friends)
\-\-\-\-\-
GUILTY is an unabashed night of HUGE RETRO HITS and ONE HIT WONDERS of the 80's & 90's.
\-\-\-\-\-
Hear and see popular artists like Madonna, Prince, Wham!, Culture Club, Cher, Spice Girls, Michael Jackson, Ace of Base, Van Halen, Huey Lewis, Britney Spears, Milli Vanilli, Cyndi Lauper, Backstreet Boys, and Pat Benetar, TLC, to one hit wonders such as Boys Don’t Cry, Phil Collins, Baltimora, Taco, Rick Astley, Aqua, Tiffany, and more.
Facebook: http://facebook.com/groundcontroltoronto
Facebook: http://facebook.com/djlazarusrocks
Instagram: http://instagram.com/djlazarusrocks
Group: http://www.facebook.com/groups/panicretroparty
Feminine Embodiment Coaching - Private Sessions
Please note: this is not a physical event but an invitation to experience private 1:1 feminine embodiment coaching. To book a session or for more information please contact Amanda Clarke at lusciousfeminine@gmail.com.
Feminine Embodiment Coaching with Amanda Clarke
https://secure.meetupstatic.com/photos/event/3/4/2/8/600_461233352.jpeg
There is a cosmic shift happening on the planet and women are tired of playing second fiddle in this game of life. Playing small not only keeps you from manifesting what you truly want, but it also holds you back from living out your divine purpose. I’ve been there, stuck, held back, and yearning to break free and frankly being in that place plain 'ol sucks!
What if you could step up and make a difference; a meaningful contribution in this world by just being you? How might the landscape of your life look?
Over for the past six years, I’ve worked with women who are looking to break out of the spell of smallness. It pangs me to see women depressed, depleted, disconnected and downright insecure. One of the reasons many of my clients rave about the work we do together is because I provide immediate results. What I teach is inherent within you but there are layers of gunk bogging you down from access this wisdom yourself. Spinning your wheels, and living a life of lack is no way to live, beautiful. You are so much more!
What can you expect from our sessions together:
• A solid understanding of what feminine energy is, and how to use it to have your way with the world
• Develop a physical and energetic presence that attracts what you want: personally and professionally.
• Feel more comfortable with your sensuality, and with receiving positive attention.
• Experience more passion in your life - particularly your love life.
• Be more at ease setting clear boundaries with others.
• Learn to be in flow rather than always pushing and striving to make things happen.
• Look and feel more sexy, confident and radiant
• Gain clarity about your life purpose and the greatest gifts you have to offer the world
• Establish or strengthen your intuitive guidance
Book a FREE 30-minute discovery call to learn how I can help support you on your journey to coming home to yourself as a woman. This means MORE self-love, MORE self-confidence, MORE clarity, MORE empowerment and saying YES to living out your divine mission.
For more information on my coaching packages please visit http://www.lusciousfeminine.com or to book a FREE 30-minute complimentary Discovery Call, email Amanda at lusciousfeminine@gmail.com
“Before working with Amanda, I was the dried-out, work-obsessed intellectual. I lived in my head and felt completely severed from the neck-down. I over-intellectualized emotionally-charged situations to avoid being present…I am [now] able to ease my ‘mind-babble’, step into my power as a woman knowing that I am safe and secure within my own space, and practice expressing my needs and desires from a more authentic place… Amanda helped me to be trust in the power of vulnerability, surrender, and acceptance. It has been a pleasurable journey! ~ Stefanie T.
Amanda Clarke
The Luscious Feminine
www.lusciousfeminine.com http://www.facebook.com/thelusciousfeminine
lusciousfeminine@gmail.com
🎳 Toronto Girls Bowling Night 💕
🎳 Toronto Girls Bowling Night 💕
Hi girls! 💗
It’s time for our next girls’ meetup! This time, we’ll be having a fun bowling night. 🎉
📅 Date: Saturday, July 4
🕢 Time: 7:30 PM
📍 Location: The Ballroom Bowl – Yonge & Dundas (10 Dundas St E)
There are 20 spots available, so if you’d like to join, please RSVP as soon as possible!
Please confirm your attendance at least 24 hours in advance.
Please arrive 10–15 minutes early so we can check in and get everyone organized before we start.
If your plans change and you can no longer attend, please update your RSVP or let me know as soon as possible so I can offer your spot to someone else.
Food and drinks are available at the venue, so anyone who wants to stay afterward for a bite or a drink is more than welcome! 😊
Everyone will be responsible for covering their own bowling fees, food, and drinks. Please see the pricing below.
I’m looking forward to another fun girls’ night and can’t wait to see you all! 💕🎳
——————-
Bowling Pricing :
ADULTS (13 YEARS OLD+)
Sunday to Thursday:
$27.50 (+HST) per person, per hour
Friday & Saturday:
$32.50 (+HST) per person, per hour
STUDENTS
Sunday to Thursday:
$13.75 (+HST) per person, per hour
言葉の架け橋 : Toronto X Japan #2
~Notice to all participants
~全参加者へのお知らせ
*****Event seating guidelines / rules for Native Japanese speakers, and non-native Japanese speakers are entirely different
***** イベントの座席に関するガイドライン/ルールは、日本語ネイティブスピーカーと非ネイティブスピーカーで全く異なります
**** This is an entirely free event for everyone!
**** これは、全員にとって完全に無料のイベントです!
*** Everyone will be in a waitlist and gradually moved into the going list to balance Venue seating availability and ratio of native/non native Japanese speakers
*** 全員がウェイトリストに入り、会場の座席の空き状況やネイティブ/非ネイティブの日本語話者の比率を調整するために、徐々に参加リストへ移行されます.
**Please carefully read the lengthy event description below and fill out the questionnaire to participate.
** 以下の長いイベントの説明を注意深く読んで、参加するためのアンケートに記入してください
————————————————————————
~Event guideline for Native Japanese speakers
日本語ネイティブスピーカーの皆さん、こんにちは! このイベントでは、参加するエリアやテーブルを選ぶことで、使用したい言語を選択できます。合計2回のテーブル移動があります。最初は45分で1回目、2回目は90分で行われます。イベントの合計時間は2時間15分です(45分で移動、90分で再度移動、2時間15分で終了)
座席配置のテンプレートは以下の通りです(3つの座席)
A:日本語重視。このテーブルではほぼ完全に日本語でコミュニケーションを取ります。言語比率の目安は日本語80%/英語20%(日本語が非常に堪能な学習者とコミュニケーションします)
B:ミックス交流。このテーブルでは英語を練習しつつ、日本語でもコミュニケーションを取ります。言語比率の目安は日本語50%/英語50%(中級/初級の日本語学習者とコミュニケーションします)
C:英語重視。英語を練習しましょう!言語比率の目安は英語90%/日本語10%(英語話者との気軽な交流や文化交流)
注意:すべてのエリアに座る義務はありません!どのエリアやテーブルに参加するか、どのように時間を過ごすかは完全にあなたの選択です。ただし、テーブルを変えて新しい友達に出会うことをお勧めします
*テーブルのサイズは、その時の状況や会場の収容人数によって変動します. イベントの質を皆さんのために保つため、特別な状況では主催者が別のテーブルへ移動をお願いする場合があります。可能な限り、男性が先にお願いされることになります
**暴力、ストーカー行為、ハラスメント、いじめは一切許容されません。違反者には警告が与えられ、重大度によってはグループから即時(永久に)排除される場合があります。極端な状況下では、法執行機関に連絡する義務が発生し、法の最大限の範囲で対処します
~Non native Japanese guideline
Hello all non native Japanese speakers.
In this event , we ask that you seat yourselves at your Japanese language PROFICIENCY level. There will be NO seating ROTATIONS for non-native Japanese once the event begins. You will remain at the same table for the entirety of the event. Only Japanese native speakers will be OPTED to change area / tables at 45m into the event and also at 90m, in which they can participate at whichever table they desire. Total event duration 2H 15m.
~Seating arrangement template is as follows
A: Nihongo focus. Practice your Japanese! Only sit at this table if you have high language competency and able to almost fully communicate in Japanese.
(Language Ratio approximation. Japanese %80 / English %20
B. Mixed social. Communicate in both English and Japanese.
Language ratio approximation. Japanese %50 / English %50
Only sit at this table if you can somewhat socialize in Japanese (at the very least you must have decent Japanese listening skills and/or understand when spoken to in Japanese)
C. English Social. Anyone and everyone is welcome to sit at this table. Just chill, culture exchange and facilitate English learning for our Japanese friends.
Language ratio approximation. English %90 / Japanese %10
ATTENTION: This seating arrangement template is formed to show gratitude to our friends from Japan, and respect how they would like to use their time, so they can maximize their energy and efforts in whichever they desire to do.
*Table sizes will range and vary on what’s available at the moment and by the venue occupancy. To sustain the quality of the event for everyone, event hosts may switch tables and/or place you at another table under special circumstances to help balance and supplement other tables that need more participants.
**** No acts of violence, stalking, harassment and bullying will be tolerated.
Violators will be given a warning, and depending on severity may be swiftly removed (permanent) from the group. Under extreme circumstances, there could be obligations to reach out to law enforcement in which we will pursue to the fullest extent of the law.
R-Ladies Events Near You
Connect with your local R-Ladies community
Melancholia
Be prepared for an entirely different type of sci-fi movie!
Unofficially, the second movie in director Lars von Trier's "Depression Trilogy," 2011 Melancholia depicts the events that occur before a rogue planet is about to collide with the earth. Considered by many to be a masterpiece, the film was included in BFI's 2022 Sight and Sound Poll of the greatest movies of all time.
It is available at the library as well as on Kanopy.
Bad Girls Book Club July 2026
**Our July novel is: *Listen for the Lie* by Amy Tintera**
**This month’s novel was named one of the best books of 2024. It’s a domestic thriller with crime, mystery, and murder, told from women’s perspectives. The story includes a detective, an unreliable narrator, and plenty of suspense. The book is 352 pages in print and 9 hours and 18 minutes on audiobook.**
What if you thought you murdered your best friend? And if everyone else thought so too? And what if the truth doesn't matter?
After Lucy is found wandering the streets, covered in her best friend Savvy’s blood, everyone thinks she is a murderer. Lucy and Savvy were the golden girls of their small Texas town: pretty, smart, and enviable. Lucy married a dream guy with a big ring and an even bigger new home. Savvy was the social butterfly loved by all, and if you believe the rumors, especially popular with the men in town. It’s been years since that horrible night, a night Lucy can’t remember anything about, and she has since moved to LA and started a new life.
But now the phenomenally huge hit true crime podcast "Listen for the Lie," and its too-good looking host Ben Owens, have decided to investigate Savvy’s murder for the show’s second season. Lucy is forced to return to the place she vowed never to set foot in again to solve her friend’s murder, even if she is the one that did it.
The truth is out there, if we just listen.
Monthly Meet Up (Masters of Death)
This month we’ll be reading Masters of Death by Olivie Blake. Feel free to attend even if you don’t finish the book!



















