About us
Welcome! I'm so glad you found us... Welcome to our community. Our group is alive and well and growing by leaps and bounds. We host both online and live events, mostly but not exclusively in the Orange County area.
As of 2022, I am leading transformational groups to Greece in September and once in Costa Rica in June. Please check out my travel website at lesbiangetaways.com for trip info. I would love it if you joined the mailing list. This separates out our special announcements from all the other meetup emails which can be overwhelming at times. The occasional emails will come from Lesbian Getaways.
I have been so touched by the intimacy and connections that are being created ongoingly through our group interactions. Lots of close friendships and circles have been made and yes, even some romance! I try to mix it up and keep it interesting and I’m always open to new ideas and feedback. My commitment to every member is that there are no "outsiders" and all folks that identify as a woman loving women are welcome. I believe that the experience of feeling welcome and included is palpable in our group events whether live or on Zoom.
For FB users, please follow us (facebook.com/somanywomensolittletime/). If you would like to be part of our secret FB group or our So Cal Lesbian Pickleballers group, please email me at lesbiangetaways@gmail.com and let me know. Once in, you can invite your friends directly from there.
I ask that you please set your notifications at minimum to receive organizer messages and new event announcements. This has to be done while actually on our group site. You can find the settings by clicking on your round profile photo on the top right corner and select email and notifications.
I am so looking forward to meeting you whether it be online or in person when that time comes.
With Enthusiasm,
Your organizer, Jody
Featured event

CIRCLES Small Group Sharing w/Swim before, Dinner & Party After
PLEASE...IF YOU PLAN TO COME, IT IS IMPORTANT THAT YOU READ ALL THE DETAILS ALL THE WAY TO THE BOTTOM!
Are you longing for more meaningful interactions, closer friendships and authentic conversations? If so, please JOIN US! I am inviting you to a special day of relaxation and connection with my favorite event called CIRCLES.
PLEASE NOTE: RSVPing here is not an entrance ticket. Please only RSVP here if you plan to grab your ticket now ($20 or free) so I can accurately track attendance. I will be ordering food solely based on dinner tickets. If you are coming, you need to CLICK HERE and then either purchase your dinner ticket or grab your free ticket if you are not eating with us. Space is limited.
SCHEDULE
Swim/play time: 1-2:45
Arrive by: 2:45 Come early to start meeting women & grab a drink
CIRCLES: 3-5:30 Please arrive no later than 2:45
Dinner & Playtime: 5:30-8
We are hosting at our home and would love for you to come. You will make new friends and may even walk out with some dating opportunities if that is what you are interested in. Please note that this is not a dating event per se. Keep in mind that singles and couples are very welcome.
PLAY TIME
We are including some very important for the spirit PLAY TIME both before and after CIRCLES (refer to the schedule below)
Whether you want to swim or just hang out, feel free to walk through the gateway to paradise (our yard) anytime between 1 and 2:45. I do not know ahead of time how many women will come early...
If you absolutely have to be late, please reach out to me ahead of time. If it is your first time to CIRCLES, please be here early or on time.
WHAT IS CIRCLES?
This is my favorite event because it catalyzes so many new connections. We will sit in groups of five and I will ask a thought provoking question. Each person will have a few minutes to respond at any level you are comfortable with, while everyone else listens with a non-judgemental, open heart. An example of my favorite question is "share an accomplishment or experience that you are proud of". I am always amazed at how much I learn about people just from this one response.
Afterwards, there are a few minutes to continue the conversation. Then, we will form new circles with new women and do it all over again with a new question. By the end of the day, you will most likely have gotten to connect with every woman.
I would encourage you to come, even if you don't know anyone. The point of this day is to connect and we will make it easy for you to do just that. In fact, we start with introductions! When I say it is a great way to make new friends, I really mean it.
TICKETS
CLICK HERE to obtain your ticket through the events page on Lesbian Getaways website (whether you RSVPd here or not, sorry). Space is limited to 32. Again, we now have a CIRCLES with or without dinner ticket. If you sign up with no dinner, I will provide some non-alcoholic drinks and snacks. You do not need to bring a printed ticket-I will have a list.
**************The address will be on your ticket********************
DINNER: The $20 dinner ticket includes non-alcoholic beverages plus all-you-can-eat delicious Mediterranean food consisting of fresh salad, falafel, chicken, grilled veggies and other fresh toppings! Your reservation is non-refundable (fully transferrable) up until 24 hours ahead. There is a very small service fee on top that.
After CIRCLES is complete, we will enjoy our delicious Mediteranean catered dinner and continue getting to know one another. There are plenty of ways to enjoy our time including ping pong, hot tub, foosball and enjoying the sunset together lounging in the treehouse on the top of the hillside.
**********I will provide some bubbly waters and ice tea. There will be an ice chest available if you want to bring something different.
I would highly recommend bringing your swim suit and a towel in case you want to come early or stay after and get wet! The hot tub will be on after dinner and it usually ends up to be the poplular spot after dark.
GET YOUR TICKET HERE-be sure to click on the events link
***********Be sure to park outside the cul-du-sac to keep my neighbors happy (don't double and triple park in our driveway or block anyone else's driveways. Yes, it has happened!) Please enter through the side gate to the right of the house.
The address will show up when you purchase your ticket. If you have any questions or can not locate the address, please text me at (707) 484-2066.
See you here!
Jody
Upcoming events
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Kristin Key at the Irvine Improv!
Location not specified yetGet ready for a night of big laughs with the hilarious Kristin Key! Known for her quick wit, musical comedy, and relatable stories, Kristin always puts on a fantastic show. Whether you've seen her before or this is your first time, you're in for a fun evening with a great group of women.
Date: Wednesday, August 5
Show Time: 7:30 PM
Location: Irvine Improv
Please purchase your own ticket in advance. Seating options include:- General Admission (GA)
- GA Booth
- VIP
We'll plan to meet inside before the show so everyone has a chance to say hello before the laughs begin.
Purchase tickets here: https://www.livenation.com/event/rZ7HnEZ1Af7sP0/kristin-key
Looking forward to sharing a fun evening of laughter together!Melissa
21 attendees
Concert: Larisa Stow & Shakti Tribe: An Aquarian Exposition
Seaside Center for Spiritual Living, 1613 Lake Drive, Encinitas, CA, USOverview
Join me for a very entertaining and memorable concert. You can jump up and dance all you want if the spirit moves you! Larisa is a close friend, my mentor, healing and coach. She is an exquisite human being and I highly recommend you come and enjoy this special evening. Her band are very extremely talented as well so this is sure to be a musical and vocal oddysey.## Larisa Stow & Shakti Tribe: An Aquarian Exposition
Get ready for a vibe-filled night with Larisa Stow & Shakti Tribe! Let's enter the Lions Gate with the peace vibes of a Woodstock generation.This in-person event is all about unity, good energy, and soulful tunes that lift your spirit. Come join the tribe, dance, and connect in a magical atmosphere. Perfect for anyone looking to dive into good vibes and transformative music—don't miss out on this unique Aquarian experience!
Larisa Stow & Shakti Tribe return to Encinitas after a 3 years.
BUY TICKETS HERE: $44 - Get your tickets as soon as possible as we know it will sell out!
Concert starts at 7:00 ~ doors open @ 6:30.Larisa Stow & Shakti Tribe are here to wake, shake and create a vibration-raising revolution with their edgy blend of mantra-infused rock. Their music is an East meets West fusion of English and Sanskrit Mantra and deep feeling world music. Let them take you from the sublime to the ecstatic. They are described as “a seamless fusion of edgy, urban rock and sacred mantra-with-a-message (that) will very likely have you dancing …contemplating the nature of your true existence.” Deep heartfelt energizing rhythms will lift and transform you.
I recommend going down early as traffic can get challenging from OC to Encinintas. We may post a dinner ahead of time or not. Keep an eye out. See you there I hope!
Jody4 attendees
CIRCLES Small Group Sharing w/Swim before, Dinner & Party After
Private Mission Viejo Residence, 123 Fun St, Mission Viejo, CA, USPLEASE...IF YOU PLAN TO COME, IT IS IMPORTANT THAT YOU READ ALL THE DETAILS ALL THE WAY TO THE BOTTOM!
Are you longing for more meaningful interactions, closer friendships and authentic conversations? If so, please JOIN US! I am inviting you to a special day of relaxation and connection with my favorite event called CIRCLES.
PLEASE NOTE: RSVPing here is not an entrance ticket. Please only RSVP here if you plan to grab your ticket now ($20 or free) so I can accurately track attendance. I will be ordering food solely based on dinner tickets. If you are coming, you need to CLICK HERE and then either purchase your dinner ticket or grab your free ticket if you are not eating with us. Space is limited.
SCHEDULE
Swim/play time: 1-2:45
Arrive by: 2:45 Come early to start meeting women & grab a drink
CIRCLES: 3-5:30 Please arrive no later than 2:45
Dinner & Playtime: 5:30-8We are hosting at our home and would love for you to come. You will make new friends and may even walk out with some dating opportunities if that is what you are interested in. Please note that this is not a dating event per se. Keep in mind that singles and couples are very welcome.
PLAY TIME
We are including some very important for the spirit PLAY TIME both before and after CIRCLES (refer to the schedule below)
Whether you want to swim or just hang out, feel free to walk through the gateway to paradise (our yard) anytime between 1 and 2:45. I do not know ahead of time how many women will come early...If you absolutely have to be late, please reach out to me ahead of time. If it is your first time to CIRCLES, please be here early or on time.
WHAT IS CIRCLES?
This is my favorite event because it catalyzes so many new connections. We will sit in groups of five and I will ask a thought provoking question. Each person will have a few minutes to respond at any level you are comfortable with, while everyone else listens with a non-judgemental, open heart. An example of my favorite question is "share an accomplishment or experience that you are proud of". I am always amazed at how much I learn about people just from this one response.Afterwards, there are a few minutes to continue the conversation. Then, we will form new circles with new women and do it all over again with a new question. By the end of the day, you will most likely have gotten to connect with every woman.
I would encourage you to come, even if you don't know anyone. The point of this day is to connect and we will make it easy for you to do just that. In fact, we start with introductions! When I say it is a great way to make new friends, I really mean it.
TICKETS
CLICK HERE to obtain your ticket through the events page on Lesbian Getaways website (whether you RSVPd here or not, sorry). Space is limited to 32. Again, we now have a CIRCLES with or without dinner ticket. If you sign up with no dinner, I will provide some non-alcoholic drinks and snacks. You do not need to bring a printed ticket-I will have a list.**************The address will be on your ticket********************
DINNER: The $20 dinner ticket includes non-alcoholic beverages plus all-you-can-eat delicious Mediterranean food consisting of fresh salad, falafel, chicken, grilled veggies and other fresh toppings! Your reservation is non-refundable (fully transferrable) up until 24 hours ahead. There is a very small service fee on top that.
After CIRCLES is complete, we will enjoy our delicious Mediteranean catered dinner and continue getting to know one another. There are plenty of ways to enjoy our time including ping pong, hot tub, foosball and enjoying the sunset together lounging in the treehouse on the top of the hillside.
**********I will provide some bubbly waters and ice tea. There will be an ice chest available if you want to bring something different.
I would highly recommend bringing your swim suit and a towel in case you want to come early or stay after and get wet! The hot tub will be on after dinner and it usually ends up to be the poplular spot after dark.
GET YOUR TICKET HERE-be sure to click on the events link
***********Be sure to park outside the cul-du-sac to keep my neighbors happy (don't double and triple park in our driveway or block anyone else's driveways. Yes, it has happened!) Please enter through the side gate to the right of the house.
The address will show up when you purchase your ticket. If you have any questions or can not locate the address, please text me at (707) 484-2066.
See you here!
Jody10 attendees
PRIDE NIGHT @ Chance Theater to see Shakespeare's "The Bed Trick"
Chance Theater, 5522 E. La Palma Ave., Anaheim, CA, USWE'RE GETTING OUR CULTURE ON! Let's go to this Shakespeare production of Bed Trick @ my favorite local theater, The Chance on PRIDE NIGHT! It is owned by an LGBTQ ally whose mother is a member of SMWSLT. I am a theater member and have seen many plays there before and have never been disappointed.
We will meet for dinner beforehand. Please see separate meetup event and RSVP there if you want to join us.
TICKETS: Members: Free, Non-members: $36 (30% group discount)
We have 20 reserved seats. If you want to sit with us, CLICK HERE to buy your Non-Member or reserve your member ticket. Members must go through the payment process and use the code MEMBER TO GET YOUR FREE MEMBER TICKET!If our SMWSLT tickets are sold out on the LG site, you can still go directly through the box office and say you are with Jody's meetup group to see if you can still get the group 30% discount. Also, don't pay attention to the RSVP count here on meetup to determine whether there are tickets left with our group because some people may have signed up here but are coming separately with friends.
You can always go on another day if this date does not work for you. It goes from Sept. 11 to 27th.
CHANCE BOX OFFICE TO PURCHASE TICKETS FOR ANOTHER DATE
Box office: (888) 455-4212Many of us are members of the theater. For
$15-20/month, you get tickets to the entire season plus other benefits like a free drink while you're there and various readings. Besides being a good deal, it helps them get their grant funding.
CLICK HERE TO LEARN MORE ABOUT MEMBERSHIP!CLICK HERE TO WATCH VIDEO FROM CHANCE ABOUT BED TRICKS
ABOUT
Shakespeare’s infamous “bed trick” from All’s Well That Ends Well gets a bold and frisky remix in this comic college romp. When deception and desire collide, three friends are forced to navigate the messy, hilarious, and sometimes shocking consequences of choices, crushes, and consent. From unexpected hookups to tangled friendships, The Bed Trick probes the question: what does consent really mean, and who gets to decide? Equal parts whip-smart comedy and pointed social commentary, this show takes the Bard’s mischief into the 21st century, exploring sex, ethics, and the timeless chaos of human desire with razor-sharp wit and a provocative edge.7 attendees
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