About us
A collective of the Bay Area Polyamory & Consensually Non-Monogamous Groups. A place for polyamorous* people to have a collected source for many poly-friendly happenings and resources in Marin, North Bay, San Francisco, Peninsula, East Bay, San Jose and Santa Cruz. Each group represented here is a separate entity. To learn about each group, please visit our ABOUT pages (menu bar on left hand side of this page). The group itself is not a dating or hookup app. If you're looking for that, there are many others to choose from. This is a place to list events of interest to polyamorous, open, RA, multiamorous, etc people. If you are unsure of what polyamory is, please spend some time here: www.lovemore.com
*This group also welcomes people who are Consensually Non-Monogamous (CNM); Ethically Non-Monogamous (ENM); Relationship Anarchist (RA); Solo-polyamorous; in an Open Relationship, and more!
Upcoming events
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SAN FRANCISCO: SF Cuddles - Cuddle Party at HeartLab! April 25 2026
HeartLab, 3095 21st St, San Francisco, ca, USRSVP's do not reflect actual attendance. Events are listed on multiple calendars. Sign up on Eventbrite only - to join our Cuddle Party!
Due to COVID-19, you must be fully vaccinated and boosted in order to attend the event.
Saturday April 25 - Cuddle Party at HeartLab!
RSVPing here DOES NOT guarantee a spot - make sure to REGISTER ON EVENTBRITE. All other details can be found on Eventbrite.
What is a Cuddle Party?
Cuddle Party is a 3-4 hour workshop experience where participants engage in communication exercises, explore touch in a non-sexual space, experience personal exploration and intimacy, and have fun with like minded people.
More details are in the Eventbrite.
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/sf-cuddles-cuddle-party-at-heartlab-sat-apr-25th-2026-tickets-1974571812445?aff=ebdsoporgprofile?aff=bapcmu1 attendee
Consent & Ethical Nonmonogamy @ LGBTQ & Polyamory Peer Power Group
·OnlineOnlineJoin us as we unpack the nuances of consent as it relates to nonmonogamy.
Questions to consider?- Is blanket consent the inverse of a veto?
- How does consent differ between a sexual encounter vs an ongoing relationship?
- Can you withdraw consent in the middle of an interaction? If so, what happens next?
- How do consensual and ethical nonmonogamy differ?
Do you have other questions? Bring them with you.
REGISTER IN ADVANCE for this meeting:
https://tinyurl.com/smpcpolypeerpowerAfter registering, you will receive a confirmation email containing a link and information about joining the meeting. Each computer/device will need their own registration. It's ok to have more than one person on a single screen/Zoom account. Keep your link! You can use it for future months. (If you are asked for a code, it's "poly" -- not capitalized, no quote marks, no punctuation!)
Accessibility information: this group meets in English on Zoom and closed captioning is available.
Questions? Contact Ishani Dugar (they/them or xe/xem at ishani.dugar@sanmateopride.org or 650-554-1234
MORE INFO:
This is a social and discussion group for polyamorous/open/RA/poly-friendly/poly-curious/etc folks in San Mateo County (and beyond).Come share your experiences and ideas with others, and learn from them in return. Get to know other poly/open/etc people in San Mateo County (and beyond)!
The San Mateo County Pride Center is open to all, including LGBTQ, polyamorous, monogamous, monogamish, open, RA, poly-friendly, queer allies, as well as people from any background, race, gender or sexual identification, religion, political affiliation, and length of hair (or lack thereof!). If you are interested and respectful of diversity, we're happy to have you join us!
We look forward to seeing you on the first Wednesday at 7pm!
Dawn Davidson, Paula, and the Pride Center staff6 attendees
Past events
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