What we’re about
A collective of the Bay Area Polyamory & Consensually Non-Monogamous Groups. A place for polyamorous* people to have a collected source for many poly-friendly happenings and resources in Marin, North Bay, San Francisco, Peninsula, East Bay, San Jose and Santa Cruz. Each group represented here is a separate entity. To learn about each group, please visit our ABOUT pages (menu bar on left hand side of this page). The group itself is not a dating or hookup app. If you're looking for that, there are many others to choose from. This is a place to list events of interest to polyamorous, open, RA, multiamorous, etc people. If you are unsure of what polyamory is, please spend some time here: www.lovemore.com
*This group also welcomes people who are Consensually Non-Monogamous (CNM); Ethically Non-Monogamous (ENM); Relationship Anarchist (RA); Solo-polyamorous; in an Open Relationship, and more!
Upcoming events
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SAN FRANCISCO: SF Cuddles - Cuddle Party at HeartLab! Dec 28th 2025
HeartLab, 3095 21st St, San Francisco, ca, USRSVP's do not reflect actual attendance. Events are listed on multiple calendars. Sign up on Eventbrite only - to join our Cuddle Party!
Due to COVID-19, you must be fully vaccinated and boosted in order to attend the event.
Sunday, Dec 28th - Cuddle Party at HeartLab!
RSVPing here DOES NOT guarantee a spot - make sure to REGISTER ON EVENTBRITE. All other details can be found on Eventbrite.
What is a Cuddle Party?
Cuddle Party is a 3-4 hour workshop experience where participants engage in communication exercises, explore touch in a non-sexual space, experience personal exploration and intimacy, and have fun with like minded people.
More details are in the Eventbrite.
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/sf-cuddles-cuddle-party-at-heartlab-sunday-dec-28th-2025-tickets-1508196037949?aff=ebdssbdestsearch?aff=bapcmu1 attendee
•OnlineInformation Sharing in Polyamory @ LGBTQ & Polyamory Peer Power Group
OnlineInformation Sharing in Polyamory. How much do I share with my partners about my other relationships? Join us for a discussion about when and how we share information about our relationships with other partners. We will use these questions to guide our conversation.
How should I talk to my partner about my other partners and what should I tell them?
- When should I share updates with my other partners?
- How do I have that conversation? How do I make that easier?
- What do I need to share and what's okay to share?
- How can I make sure I'm respecting my other partner's privacy while also being honest and forthright in my other relationships?
To get a preview of this content you could listen to the Multiamory Episode: How Much is Too Much Information About My Other Relationships?
REGISTER IN ADVANCE for this meeting:
https://tinyurl.com/smpcpolypeerpower
After registering, you will receive a confirmation email containing a link and information about joining the meeting. Each computer/device will need their own registration. It's ok to have more than one person on a single screen/Zoom account. Keep your link! You can use it for future months. (If you are asked for a code, it's "poly" -- not capitalized, no quote marks, no punctuation!)
Accessibility information: this group meets in English on Zoom and closed captioning is available.
Questions? Contact Ishani Dugar (they/them or xe/xem at ishani.dugar@sanmateopride.org or 650-554-1234
MORE INFO:
This is a social and discussion group for polyamorous/open/RA/poly-friendly/poly-curious/etc folks in San Mateo County (and beyond).
Come share your experiences and ideas with others, and learn from them in return. Get to know other poly/open/etc people in San Mateo County (and beyond)!
The San Mateo County Pride Center is open to all, including LGBTQ, polyamorous, monogamous, monogamish, open, RA, poly-friendly, queer allies, as well as people from any background, race, gender or sexual identification, religion, political affiliation, and length of hair (or lack thereof!). If you are interested and respectful of diversity, we're happy to have you join us!
We look forward to seeing you on the first Wednesday at 7pm!
Dawn Davidson, Paula, and the Pride Center staff
NOTE: As of July 28, 2025, have a new Zoom Link. If you haven't registered for the Polyam Peer Power group on Zoom since that date, you will need to register again:
https://tinyurl.com/smpcpolypeerpower
OR
https://zoom.us/meeting/register/gVsUCYwpSt2-OayQAtavXA#/registration7 attendees
Past events
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