What we're about

This group is for ladies in their 30s (plus or minus a few years is ok, ~27-43) looking for authentic friendships with some really cool yet nerdy women. Some of us may be new to town, or maybe we're just realizing we need some more awesome, genuine friendships in our lives. You might be more inclined to enjoy some wine and a good book rather than go out. You might enjoy deep conversation over tea more than a night at a dance club. If this sounds like you, you might have hit the jackpot!

We try new restaurants, play games, watch movies, craft together, check out the arts and entertainment, explore the Denver area, and much more. Our events seldom have more than 12 people present, because small groups make for better conversations and connections. If you have ideas or would like to host an event, please email an organizer! Let's make this fun and keep it interesting.

Events take place throughout the Denver metro area, including the surrounding towns of Aurora, Lakewood, Englewood, Greenwood Village, Littleton, Centennial, Highlands Ranch, Lone Tree, Cherry Creek and more.

Your Hobbies/Interests may include: NPR, knitting, crocheting, quilting, tea and coffee, thoughtful, engaging conversations, learning, cooking, gardening, books, post-graduate studies, exploring nature...

You may describe yourself as: introverted, funny, cerebral, unique, intelligent, fun-loving, genuine...

You might like: movies, food, teahouses, art, book clubs, crafting, game or trivia nights, other cool/nerdy ladies...

Nerdy 30s Ladies of Denver is part of a large network of sister cities around the world!

The only real "rule" is that you be accountable. Show up to events you RSVP for, or give your host a (timely) heads-up that your plans have changed. "No-shows" (i.e. not showing up at an event you've RSVP'd "YES" to) create extra work for our hosts, limit others from potentially participating in events, and are a disappointment to those who have spent their time and energy planning these events. To summarize: no-shows are a bummer and will not be tolerated (i.e. more than 2 "no-shows" could result in removal from the group). So, please be courteous, keep your RSVP's updated, and everyone is happy!

Upcoming events (4+)

Free Your Closet Clothing Exchange

North Capitol Hill

Get rid of all those clothes that don't fit, aren't flattering, or just don't get worn--find something new & fun to wear!
(The event encompasses any kind of clothing or accessories, including bags, shoes or jewelry.)
Here's how it works:

  1. Clean out your closets and jewelry bins. Shirts, pants, dresses, heels, belts, earrings: any clothes, shoes, or accessories are fair game. Bring with you anything that you don't care to keep anymore. You won't get it back! This isn't about borrowing. Make sure you are okay with letting it go for-ev-er.
  2. At the party, we'll hold up the items for everyone to call dibs. If more than one lady is interested, they'll try it on & whomever it looks best on will take it home. (Yes ladies, we want you to look good in what you're wearing!) ;)
  3. Afterwards, you can go through the reject pile for anything you might've missed, and finish trying things on.
  4. Any items not claimed can either go back to their owner or be donated--we'll consolidate the leftovers and decide who will drop them off.

You should bring with you:
• Your clothing & accessories to give away.
• Snack or beverage to share.
Invite another girlfriend not in the group, if you like! The more, the merrier (and more options for everyone!).

👶Brittany's Baby Shower 🍼

Castlewood Library (Arapahoe Libraries)

We're celebrating Brittany and her upcoming Baby Boy!

It's her first baby so let's help get her set with the essentials!
Snacks and Water/Flavored Water Provided.
Please bring an item to help our new Nerdy 30's Mama prep for Baby ❤️
(NOTE: If you happen to be ill, or feeling suspect, please comment and/or update your RSVP. Keeping Mom and Baby healthy is priority number 1. )

Handmade, Hand-me-down, and New items are all welcomed.

Registry Link:https://www.babylist.com/list/baby-boy-macrostie

Mama's Preferences:
Any Cloth Diapering hand-me-downs (planning to cloth diaper part time)
Natural/Organic/Unscented Products if possible, but not super picky
Clothing: Earth toned/Nature or Neutral colors, 3M+ or bigger
Nursery is nature/woodland themed

Silent Book Club!

East Simpson Coffee Company

Treat yourself to some time for reading and meeting folks!

We'll meet at East Simpson Coffee in Lafayette on Saturday at 3 pm. They have a nice atmosphere, great drinks, and plenty of indoor and outdoor seating. Haven't been to a silent book club before? No problem. Here's the general plan:

3 - 3:20 pm - Bring a book, and grab a drink or treat.
3:20 - 3:30 pm - Brief introductions/share what youre reading
3:30 - 4:30 pm - Quiet reading hour
4:30 - 5:00 pm - Optional socializing, or just keep reading, or head home

Cat Cafe Visit @ Teddy Cat

Teddy Cat Cafe

Come pet and hang out with cats! This is a new cat cafe that opened recently in Denver. The cats are all adoptable, if you're looking for a new furry friend, but I'll be going just to hang out.

Tickets for one hour time slots are $13. Book here for the 4:00 time slot on Saturday, April 1st: https://www.teddycatcafe.com/bookyourvisit

I haven't been to this location yet, but it looks like they just have brewed coffee/tea and no food, so don't come hungry!

Leave a comment if you've bought a ticket so that I know for sure who to look out for. Hope to see you there!

Past events (958)

Monthly Crafting - South West

Erin's Place

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