What we’re about
A meetup for LGBTQ+ folks (and allies) who want to connect without the pressure of loud bars or big crowds. Whether you're introverted, selectively social, neurodivergent, or just enjoy deeper, slower-paced hangs, we’re creating space for meaningful community. Our events range from:
- Bookstore strolls and cozy café chats
- Try-it-together fitness like indoor rock climbing, yoga, acrobatics, dancing, or gym day passes
- Group volunteer days with local organizations
- Low-pressure mixers, art walks, and casual drink/speakeasy nights (always ensuring non-alcoholic options are available)
We’re looking for folks who want to see each other more than once, because real connections happen when we show up, again and again, in low-pressure ways. We’re mostly based in Oakland but open to the greater East Bay. Help us shape a queer-friendly space that values rest, play, and connection.
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Quietly Queer: Let’s Glow SF Walk
Ferry Building, Embarcadero, San Francisco, CA, USLet’s take a quiet, cozy walk through the Let’s Glow SF light art installations together!
This is a low-pressure hangout, perfect if you want something social but gentle, or if you’re new and easing your way in. We’ll meet up at the Ferry Building and stroll at a relaxed pace, stop to look at the art, and chat in small pockets. No need to be “on,” no expectations. Just a peaceful evening with other LGBTQ+ introverts and allies.
Afterward, anyone who wants to keep the evening going a bit longer can join for sipping at Last Drop Tavern in Nob Hill (NA options are available).
🗓 Date & Time: December 13 at 6PM (we'll hang out for 15 minutes)
📍 Meeting Spot: Ferry Building, San Francisco
💡 Vibe: Come as you are! Strollers, dogs, and sneakers all welcome.
I will keep an eye out on the weather in case we need to cancel.10 attendees
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