Singles Mingle - Getting Singles Together - Bay Area

🚨 New Location Alert! 🚨
We're excited to introduce Aracely's Lounge in Danville on Friday 10/9 from 6-9PM for our 35 & Up Singles Mingle—and in my opinion, it's the prettiest venue we've hosted yet! I absolutely love the layout.
We'll have the entire backyard to ourselves, featuring:
🌿 Plenty of shade
🍹 Outdoor bar/Full bar and non-alcoholic options
🍽️ Small bites menu
🎉 Private party space
🪑 Comfortable seating
💵 $10 entry
Come meet other singles in your age range in a fun, relaxed setting!
I know 35 & Up is a fairly broad age range, but I like to mix things up from event to event. Rotating the age ranges helps keep the crowds fresh while also bringing together more people who are in similar stages of life.
I'd love to see you there! ❤️

🎟️ Entry: $10
Pay online via Meetup (PayPal), Venmo @Adeline-Farrer, or simply pay at the door.

• If your app allows it: Please mark yourself as "Attending Unpaid"—you can still just pay the $10 at the door. *
• Let me know in the comments or DM me if you'd like to be moved to "going" and pay at the door!

Why it helps: While you don't need to RSVP, seeing higher numbers encourages even more people to join the party.

📣 IMPORTANT REMINDER FOR PAID SINGLES MINGLE EVENTS! ❤️
If you plan on attending one of my paid events, PLEASE get on the RSVP list!
I absolutely don’t mind people showing up and paying at the door, but if you have the option to RSVP beforehand, please take it! It makes a HUGE difference in helping both Singles Mingle and the venue properly prepare for the party.
Venues often make staffing and food decisions based on RSVP numbers. Sometimes low numbers mean fewer employees scheduled, no food truck, or less preparation overall. Then a bunch of people show up unexpectedly, and the venue isn’t prepared for the crowd!
You do NOT have to pay in advance to RSVP!
Simply comment “GOING” below or message me “GOING”, and I’ll mark you as attending but unpaid. You can still show up and pay at the door!
Even if you’re not 100% sure you can make it, I’d still appreciate your RSVP. If your plans change, just let me know and I can remove you from the list. No problem at all!
The more accurate the RSVP count, the better I can prepare for everyone and the better experience I can help create!
Thank you for helping me make these events successful! ❤️

### Check-In
I'll be at back patio entrance which is in the front right by the main entrance (just to the right of the main entry door). WE WILL NOT BE INSIDE, THIS EVENT IS HELD ON THE BACK PATIO.
Look for the Singles Mingle hosts and shirts when you arrive. We'll get you checked in, provide your wristband, and help you get started meeting new people.

### RSVP Information
No RSVP is required.
You are welcome to simply show up and pay at the door.
If you'd like to be marked as "Going" while planning to pay at the door, feel free to comment below or send me a message.
Whether you're looking for friendship, dating, or simply a fun night out, come join us for an evening of drinks, conversation, and new connections. We can't wait to see you there!

Age Info: This event is for ages 35 and up, but if you’re between 30 and 35, you’re absolutely welcome to join—especially if you’re interested in dating or making friends within this age range.

Check-in Information: Arrive whenever you'd like, but wristband and icebreaker distribution is only from 6:00 PM to 9:00 PM. Wristbands are essential as they allow other members to identify you as part of the group.
Based on my experience hosting 100+ events, we expect a great turnout. Don't rely on the RSVP count here, as many guests discover us through outside advertising and pay at the door. Come ready to meet new people in a relaxed, private setting!

DISCLAIMER: This event is advertised on multiple social media platforms, so the RSVP count may not reflect the actual attendance. The host is not responsible for lost, stolen, or damaged belongings. Additionally, the host is not responsible for the DJ, live band, or any music played at the venue. Please bring PHYSICAL ID ~
ADDITIONAL DISCLAIMER: Food and drinks are available for purchase and not included with Singles Mingle.

🎉 NEW VENUE ALERT — SAN JOSE! 🎉
Come join Singles Mingle at Mimosas of Willow Glen for a 21 & Up PARTY just for us! ❤️
🥂 21 & Up
🎟️ FREE Entry
🍸 Full Bar (available for purchase)
🍽️ Full Food Menu (available for purchase)
✨ Awesome Ambiance
Come grab a drink, enjoy some great food, meet local singles, and check out this beautiful new venue with me!
Willow Glen singles, I’m coming your way! 🥂❤️

❤️ AGE INFO
This event is for ages 21 and up!
If you’re curious about the typical age range, it can be hard to predict, as many attendees discover the event through online advertising and don’t RSVP in advance. Because of this, I don’t always know exactly who or what ages will be attending—this is also a big reason the event is free to attend.
Based on my experience hosting 200+ events, the predominant age range tends to be 30–65, though each event is unique and attracts a diverse mix of people.

Be sure to locate the host upon arrival and receive a wristband and an icebreaker game! I'll be right at the entrance, impossible to miss me!

NO RSVP REQUIRED! JUST SHOW UP AND JOIN THE PARTY!

Check-in information: Arrive between 6pm-9pm. Locate the host. Receive wristband and icebreaker game. Mingle :)
After 6pm, the festivities will continue but the wristbands will be no longer be available. Wristbands allow other members to identify you as a fellow party member.

DISCLAIMER: This event is advertised on multiple social media platforms, so the RSVP count may not reflect the actual attendance. The host is not responsible for lost, stolen, or damaged belongings. Additionally, the host is not responsible for the DJ, live band, or any music played at the venue. Please bring PHYSICAL ID ~
ADDITIONAL DISCLAIMER: Food and drinks are available for purchase and not included with Singles Mingle.

🎉 We're heading back to Devil's Canyon in San Carlos for our 40&UP event! Sunday October 11th 5-8pm!
This venue is huge, and since it’s a private event just for us, there’ll be plenty of space to mix, mingle, and move around comfortably!
✨ Enjoy:

• Great drinks
• Indoor & outdoor spaces
• Private event
• Food truck - TBD
• Plenty of free parking
• A fun icebreaker game to help spark connections

Let’s fill the place with good vibes and great people!
Check in is 5pm-8pm, last call is 8:30pm and venue closes at 9pm.
If you look up the venue online and it says "CLOSED" it's because it is. It's closed to the public, but it's open for OUR PRIVATE PARTY from 5-8pm :)

🎟 $10 Entry
Pay via Meetup (PayPal), Venmo @Adeline-Farrer, or at the door.
Your PayPal or Venmo receipt is your ticket—please have it ready at check-in to receive your wristband and icebreaker game!
Prefer to pay at the door? No problem! Just show up and pay at the door!
A quick update on RSVPs! 📱✨
Meetup has recently changed how organizers manage paid events, making it nearly impossible for me to manually add you to the "Going" list (especially for those with common names!).

• If your app allows it: Please mark yourself as "Attending"—you can still just pay the $10 at the door. *
• If it won't let you: Don't worry! No RSVP is required to join us. Just show up, pay at the door and mingle!

Why it helps: While you don't need to RSVP, seeing higher numbers encourages even more people to join the party. Either way, we can't wait to see you tonight! 👋

📣 IMPORTANT REMINDER FOR PAID SINGLES MINGLE EVENTS! ❤️
If you plan on attending one of my paid events, PLEASE get on the RSVP list!
I absolutely don’t mind people showing up and paying at the door, but if you have the option to RSVP beforehand, please take it! It makes a HUGE difference in helping both Singles Mingle and the venue properly prepare for the party.
Venues often make staffing and food decisions based on RSVP numbers. Sometimes low numbers mean fewer employees scheduled, no food truck, or less preparation overall. Then a bunch of people show up unexpectedly, and the venue isn’t prepared for the crowd!
You do NOT have to pay in advance to RSVP!
Simply comment “GOING” below or message me “GOING”, and I’ll mark you as attending but unpaid. You can still show up and pay at the door!
Even if you’re not 100% sure you can make it, I’d still appreciate your RSVP. If your plans change, just let me know and I can remove you from the list. No problem at all!
The more accurate the RSVP count, the better I can prepare for everyone and the better experience I can help create!
Thank you for helping me make these events successful! ❤️

Refund Policy: 🎟️ Tickets are fully refundable if your plans change—anytime before the event takes place!
If you need a refund, just send me a direct message or request it through PayPal. You’ll have no problem getting your funds back. Thank you!

Be sure to locate the host upon arrival to present your ticket and receive a wristband and an icebreaker game! I'll be right at the entrance, impossible to miss me!
Bring physical ID!

Age info: Calling all singles 40 & UP! 📢 Just a heads-up: if you’re in your late 30s and feel like this is the right age bracket for you, you are more than welcome to attend. No need to wait until your 40th birthday to join the fun!

Suggested attire: Dress comfortably, but also take the opportunity to show up as your best self! Aim for something that feels good, looks great, and lets you feel confident while mingling—you never know who you might meet!

🚨 Note: This event is advertised on multiple platforms, so the RSVP count may not reflect actual attendance. Bring your friends or fly solo!
Can’t wait to see you there! 🎶🥂

Disclaimer: The host is not responsible for lost, stolen, or damaged belongings. Additionally, the host is not responsible for the DJ, live band, or any music played at the venue.
Only requirement to attend is that you're single (your wing person does not have to be single, they just won't receive a wristband or an icebreaker game but they are welcome to attend with you).

We're going back to Mad Oak!
Event is Friday 10/16/26 from 6-9pm!
We’re throwing a big, lively Singles Mingle party at Mad Oak in Oakland! We’ll have the entire upstairs balcony to ourselves — complete with heaters, a private bar, delicious food available to order, light background music, and of course, our signature icebreaker game. Free entry!
📍 135 12th St, Oakland - 6pm to 9pm!
Bring physical ID/passport: This place scans your ID barcode so it is required in order to attend.
Take the stairs near the main entrance. You’ll find me or my cohost at the top of the stairs, ready to greet you with a wristband and your icebreaker game.
Parking: street parking is available, and there are two nearby garages that look promising online — Alco Parking Garage and Douglas Parking.
Come join the fun!
This event is free! No RSVP or ticket required and bring as many guests as you'd like!

READ AGE INFO BELOW!
READ RATIO INFO BELOW!
READ RATING INFO BELOW!

Age Info: This event is for ages 21 and up! If you’re curious about the typical age range, it can be hard to predict, as many attendees discover the event through online advertising and don’t RSVP in advance. Because of this, I don’t always know exactly who or what ages will be attending—this is also a big reason the event is free to attend. Based on my experience hosting 200+ events, the predominant age range tends to be 30–65, though each event is unique and attracts a diverse mix of people.

DISCLAIMER: This event is advertised on multiple social media platforms, so the RSVP count may not reflect the actual attendance.
The host is not responsible for lost, stolen, or damaged belongings. Additionally, the host is not responsible for the DJ, live band, or any music played at the venue.
Food and drinks are available for purchase and are not provided by Singles Mingle.
Only requirement to attend is that you're single (your wing person does not have to be single, they just won't receive a wristband or an icebreaker game but they are welcome to attend with you).

RSVP Note: Please note that RSVPs are not required.
Feel free to bring friends and simply show up – no tickets or RSVP needed. FREE ALL AGES (21+) EVENT.

A QUICK NOTE ABOUT THE MALE-TO-FEMALE RATIO:
The male-to-female ratio you see on Meetup is not the whole story. These events are promoted across numerous platforms, social media, online advertising, shared by members, sent to friends, and discovered in countless other ways. Many people who attend never RSVP on Meetup at all.
I’ve also been told by several women that they intentionally don’t RSVP because they prefer to attend more incognito, so please keep that in mind when looking at the RSVP ratio for any Singles Mingle event.
There is simply no way for me to know or guarantee the gender ratio beforehand, especially since the vast majority of Singles Mingle events are FREE and open to singles from everywhere.
On the rare occasion that an event does have a small entry fee, it’s typically only $10. Either way, you’re never committed to staying! Come check out the crowd, mingle for a bit, and if the event isn’t what you were hoping for, you’re always free to head out and continue with your evening. 😊

### ⭐ A QUICK NOTE ABOUT RATINGS
Please keep in mind that low ratings affect the entire Singles Mingle community, not just one event. The higher the group’s overall rating, the more likely new singles are to join, which means more people at events and more opportunities for everyone to make connections.
If you attend an event and don’t enjoy something about it, I strongly encourage you to DM me or share your constructive feedback in your written review, but please consider giving the overall group 5 stars. Tell me what worked, what didn’t, and what you’d like to see improved. I do read the feedback and use it when planning future events.
A few low ratings can bring down the overall group rating very quickly. If we fall into the 4.4 or 4.3 range, it becomes much harder to attract new members, which ultimately hurts the same members who want bigger and better turnouts. There really aren’t many outlets like Singles Mingle in the Bay Area, and I’m trying to protect what we’ve built and keep it growing. ❤️
Members who leave a 1 or 2 star rating may be removed from the Meetup group. You are still welcome to find and attend Singles Mingle events through the other platforms where they’re advertised, but Meetup membership is reserved for those who want to support the continued growth of the group.
Every 5 star rating helps more singles find us. ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Thank you for helping keep this community going!