About us
We're shaking up the Bay Area social scene with Singles Mingle!
We have 4-10 events per month!
Join us at bars, breweries, and restaurants for fun, friendly mixers where you can meet local singles face-to-face—no swiping required.
THIS IS NOT SPEED DATING!
Whether you're looking to connect, make new friends, or just enjoy a great night out, our monthly events are the perfect place to start.
The only requirement to attend a Singles Mingle event is that you are single! 🥂 We welcome everyone, but we also believe in the power of true alignment and connection. To better serve our community, we have launched a dedicated chapter: Singles Mingle LGBTQ+. 🏳️🌈
If you feel that community would be a better fit for your journey, be sure to follow that group for specific events and updates! https://www.meetup.com/singlesminglelgbtq/
🎉 Free all-ages events
$10 age-specific mixers and $20 special events!
📍 Stay in the loop by following us on Meetup, social media, or visiting [SinglesMingleCA.com](http://singlesmingleca.com).
❤️ Donations are appreciated via Pledge on the "About" page or Venmo @Adeline-Farrer. Every dollar helps keep Singles Mingle alive and thriving.
Upcoming events
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Singles Mingle @ Renaissance Hotel in Walnut Creek FREE ENTRY! 21&UP
Renaissance ClubSport, 2805 Jones Rd, Walnut Creek, CA, USThe Mingle is taking over Walnut Creek! 🥂✨
We’ve re-booked an incredible spot for a singles party: Citrus Fresh Grill inside the Renaissance Hotel & Bay Club! We’re taking over the entire restaurant, again!
Come join us for our private party!The Game Plan:
- 📅 When: Friday, May 15th
- ⏰ Time: 6:00 PM – 9:00 PM
- 📍 Where: 2805 Jones Rd, Walnut Creek (Renaissance Hotel)
- 🎟️ Entry: FREE (21+ only)
- 🚗 Parking: FREE garage parking
- 🍹 Food & Drink: Multiple bars open! (Cashless venue—cards only).
Upon arrival: Grab your wristband and icebreaker game at the entrance. No RSVP required, but appreciated! You'll see me as you're approaching the venue.
Suggested attire: Dress comfortably, but also take the opportunity to show up as your best self! Aim for something that feels good, looks great, and lets you feel confident while mingling—you never know who you might meet!
🚨 Note: This event is advertised on multiple platforms, so the RSVP count may not reflect actual attendance. Bring your friends or fly solo!
Can’t wait to see you there! 🎶🥂DISCLAIMER: The host is not responsible for lost, stolen, or damaged belongings. Additionally, the host is not responsible for the DJ, live band, or any music played at the venue.
Food and drinks are available for purchase and are not provided by Singles Mingle.Please note: RSVPs are not required. Feel free to bring friends and simply show up – no tickets or RSVP needed. FREE ALL AGES (21+) EVENT.
BRING ID!Age Info: This event is for ages 21 and up! If you’re curious about the typical age range, it can be hard to predict, as many attendees discover the event through online advertising and don’t RSVP in advance. Because of this, I don’t always know exactly who or what ages will be attending—this is also a big reason the event is free to attend. Based on my experience hosting 100+ events, the predominant age range tends to be 30–65, though each event is unique and attracts a diverse mix of people.
Mission statement: Singles Mingle is on a mission to get singles off of dating apps and out meeting one another in person. Our goal is to offer a refreshing alternative to dating apps by providing monthly events where singles can meet, make friends, and enjoy a lively social atmosphere. We believe in the power of face-to-face connections and aim to create a space where individuals can step out of their comfort zones, delete the dating apps, and experience the genuine joy of mingling. Join us at Singles Mingle and let's redefine the way you approach meeting new people.
Visit us at SinglesMingleCA.com and follow along on social media @Singles_Mingle_CA!286 attendees- $10.00
Singles Mingle Age Specific 50&UP @ Barnyard Epicurean in Danville
Barnyard Epicurean, 400 Sycamore Valley Rd West (in The Livery & Mercantile), Danville, CA, USHey 50&UP! Back by popular demand - another Age Specific :)
Let’s meet at Barnyard in Danville on Sunday May 17th from 5–8 PM. Barnyard is a great space, especially for an age-specific event. Our 21&UP events here can get pretty crowded, so this one will feel more spacious and relaxed.
🎟 $10 Entry - 50&UP!
Pay via Meetup (PayPal), Venmo @Adeline-Farrer, or at the door.
Your PayPal or Venmo receipt is your ticket—please have it ready at check-in to receive your wristband and icebreaker game!
Prefer to pay at the door? No problem! Just show up and pay at the door!A quick update on RSVPs! 📱✨
Meetup has recently changed how organizers manage paid events, making it nearly impossible for me to manually add you to the "Going" list (especially for those with common names!).- If your app allows it: Please mark yourself as "Attending"—you can still just pay the $10 at the door. *
- If it won't let you: Don't worry! No RSVP is required to join us. Just show up, pay at the door and mingle!
Why it helps: While you don't need to RSVP, seeing higher numbers encourages even more people to join the party. Either way, we can't wait to see you tonight! 👋
Age Info: This event is for ages 50 and up, but if you’re between 45 and 49, you’re absolutely welcome to join—especially if you’re interested in dating or making friends within this age range.
Refund Policy: 🎟️ Tickets are fully refundable if your plans change—anytime before the event takes place!
If you need a refund, just send me a direct message or request it through PayPal. You’ll have no problem getting your funds back. Thank you!Be sure to locate the host upon arrival to present your ticket and receive a wristband and an icebreaker game!
I'll be right at the entrance, impossible to miss me!Check-in information: Arrive between 5pm-8pm. Locate the host. Receive wristband and icebreaker game. Mingle :)
After 8pm, the festivities will continue but the wristbands will be no longer be available. Wristbands allow other members to identify you as a fellow party member.DISCLAIMER: This event is advertised on multiple social media platforms, so the RSVP count may not reflect the actual attendance. The host is not responsible for lost, stolen, or damaged belongings. Additionally, the host is not responsible for the DJ, live band, or any music played at the venue. Please bring PHYSICAL ID ~
ADDITIONAL DISCLAIMER: Food and drinks are available for purchase and not included with Singles Mingle.
Mission Statement: Singles Mingle is on a mission to get singles off of dating apps and out meeting one another in person. Our goal is to offer a refreshing alternative to dating apps by providing monthly events where singles can meet, make friends, and enjoy a lively social atmosphere. We believe in the power of face-to-face connections and aim to create a space where individuals can step out of their comfort zones, delete the dating apps, and experience the genuine joy of mingling. Join us at Singles Mingle and let's redefine the way you approach meeting new people.
Visit us at [[[[[SinglesMingleCA.com](http://singlesmingleca.com/)](http://singlesmingleca.com/)](http://singlesmingleca.com/)](http://singlesmingleca.com/)](http://singlesmingleca.com/ "http://singlesmingleca.com/") and follow along on social media @Singles_Mingle_CA!30 attendees - $10.00
Singles Mingle Age Specific 40&UP @ Cali Club in Berkeley $10 entry
Cali Club, 2367 Telegraph Ave, Berkeley, CA, US### Come Join Us for a 40+ Singles Mixer in Berkeley!
Cali Club offers a private spacious downstairs entertainment area with comfy couches, pool, giant Connect Four, TVs, food, and drinks.
We are utilizing the private downstairs space specifically for our group to mingle.
Note: There will be no DJ for this event; music will be kept at a lower volume so everyone can easily talk and connect.- Check-in: 7:00 PM – 10:00 PM (private party just for us)
- Wristbands provided: Identify fellow members easily
- Icebreaker game: To help get the conversations started
- Food and drinks available for purchase
- DJ and dancing starts @ 10pm
🎟 $10 Entry Pay via Meetup (PayPal), Venmo @Adeline-Farrer, or at the door. Your PayPal or Venmo receipt is your ticket—please have it ready at check-in to receive your wristband and icebreaker game!
Prefer to pay at the door? No problem! Just show up and pay at the door!A quick update on RSVPs! 📱✨
Meetup has recently changed how organizers manage paid events, making it nearly impossible for me to manually add you to the "Going" list (especially for those with common names!).- If your app allows it: Please mark yourself as "Attending"—you can still just pay the $10 at the door. *
- If it won't let you: Don't worry! No RSVP is required to join us. Just show up, pay at the door and mingle!
Why it helps: While you don't need to RSVP, seeing higher numbers encourages even more people to join the party. Either way, we can't wait to see you tonight! 👋
Age Info: This event is for ages 40 and up, but if you’re between 35 and 39, you’re absolutely welcome to join—especially if you’re interested in dating or making friends within this age range.
Check-in Information: Arrive whenever you'd like, but wristband and icebreaker distribution is only from 7:00 PM to 10:00 PM. Wristbands are essential as they allow other members to identify you as part of the group. While the venue stays open late, I will only be at the door until 10:00 PM.
Based on my experience hosting 100+ events, we expect a great turnout. Don't rely on the RSVP count here, as many guests discover us through outside advertising and pay at the door. Come ready to meet new people in a relaxed, private setting!
DISCLAIMER: This event is advertised on multiple social media platforms, so the RSVP count may not reflect the actual attendance. The host is not responsible for lost, stolen, or damaged belongings. Additionally, the host is not responsible for the DJ, live band, or any music played at the venue. Please bring PHYSICAL ID ~
ADDITIONAL DISCLAIMER: Food and drinks are available for purchase and not included with Singles Mingle.
Food and drinks are available for purchase and are not provided by Singles Mingle.Mission Statement: Singles Mingle is on a mission to get singles off of dating apps and out meeting one another in person. Our goal is to offer a refreshing alternative to dating apps by providing monthly events where singles can meet, make friends, and enjoy a lively social atmosphere. We believe in the power of face-to-face connections and aim to create a space where individuals can step out of their comfort zones, delete the dating apps, and experience the genuine joy of mingling. Join us at Singles Mingle and let's redefine the way you approach meeting new people.
Visit us at [[[[[SinglesMingleCA.com](http://singlesmingleca.com/)](http://singlesmingleca.com/)](http://singlesmingleca.com/)](http://singlesmingleca.com/)](http://singlesmingleca.com/ "http://singlesmingleca.com/") and follow along on social media @Singles_Mingle_CA!10 attendees 
Singles Mingle @ Side Gate in Concord FREE ENTRY! 21&UP
Side Gate Brewery and Beer Garden, 1822 Grant Street ,, Concord, CA, US## Singles Mixer at Side Gate Brewing
Sunday, May 24th | 3:00 PM – 6:00 PM Side Gate Brewing & Beer Garden, Concord
Join us for a social mixer at Side Gate Brewing in Downtown Concord! This is a great opportunity to meet local singles in a relaxed environment with low music and no DJ, so you can actually enjoy the conversation.### Event Details:
- Entry: Free!
- Music: Extremely low volume—no DJ. Perfect for meeting and talking to new people.
- Food: White Oak BBQ will be on-site serving homestyle BBQ. Outside food is also welcome.
- Drinks: Wide variety of craft beers and customizable Hard Seltzers (choose your own flavors!). Please note: This is a brewery; no wine or cider is served.
### Venue & Parking:
- Age Requirement: The venue is 21 and up.
- Parking: Side Gate has its own dedicated parking lot for guests. You can also utilize the Wells Fargo lot, street parking, or the nearby parking garages just down the street.
- Payment: We accept Cash, CC, and Apple Pay for all purchases.
This event is FREE! Just show up! No RSVP required!
Be sure to locate the host upon arrival to receive a wristband and an icebreaker game! I'll be right at the entrance, impossible to miss me!Check-in information: Arrive between 3pm-6pm. Locate the host. Receive wristband and icebreaker game. Mingle :)
After 6pm, the festivities will continue but the wristbands will be no longer be available.
Wristbands allow other members to identify you as a fellow party member.Age Info: This event is for ages 21 and up! If you’re curious about the typical age range, it can be hard to predict, as many attendees discover the event through online advertising and don’t RSVP in advance. Because of this, I don’t always know exactly who or what ages will be attending—this is also a big reason the event is free to attend. Based on my experience hosting 100+ events, the predominant age range tends to be 30–65, though each event is unique and attracts a diverse mix of people.
DISCLAIMER: This event is advertised on multiple social media platforms, so the RSVP count may not reflect the actual attendance.
The host is not responsible for lost, stolen, or damaged belongings. Additionally, the host is not responsible for the DJ, live band, or any music played at the venue.
Please bring PHYSICAL ID ~
Only requirement to attend is that you're single (your wing person does not have to be single, they just won't receive a wristband or an icebreaker game but they are welcome to attend with you).ADDITIONAL DISCLAIMER: Food and drinks are available for purchase and not included with Singles Mingle.
Mission Statement: Singles Mingle is on a mission to get singles off of dating apps and out meeting one another in person. Our goal is to offer a refreshing alternative to dating apps by providing monthly events where singles can meet, make friends, and enjoy a lively social atmosphere. We believe in the power of face-to-face connections and aim to create a space where individuals can step out of their comfort zones, delete the dating apps, and experience the genuine joy of mingling. Join us at Singles Mingle and let's redefine the way you approach meeting new people.
Visit us at [[[[[SinglesMingleCA.com](http://singlesmingleca.com/)](http://singlesmingleca.com/)](http://singlesmingleca.com/)](http://singlesmingleca.com/)](http://singlesmingleca.com/ "http://singlesmingleca.com/") and follow along on social media @Singles_Mingle_CA!109 attendees
Past events
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