About us
We're shaking up the Bay Area social scene with Singles Mingle!
We have 6-10 events per month!
Join us at bars, breweries, and restaurants for fun, friendly mixers where you can meet local singles face-to-face—no swiping required.
THIS IS NOT SPEED DATING!
Whether you're looking to connect, make new friends, or just enjoy a great night out, our monthly events are the perfect place to start.
🎉 Free all-ages events, $5 events (capacity control fee), $10 age-specific mixers and $20 special events!
📍 Stay in the loop by following us on Meetup, social media, or visiting [SinglesMingleCA.com](http://singlesmingleca.com).
❤️ Donations are appreciated via Pledge on the "About" page or Venmo @Adeline-Farrer. Every dollar helps keep Singles Mingle alive and thriving.
Upcoming events
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- $10.00
Singles Mingle Age Specific 21-39 @ Cellar Door in Pleasanton
Cellar Door, 4469 Railroad Avenue, Pleasanton, CA, USWe’re heading to Cellar Door in Pleasanton for our first age-specific 21–39 event.
I see so many people in this age range at my events hoping to meet others their age, so let’s make it happen!Cellar Door is great spot with plenty of indoor and outdoor areas to mingle, complete with heaters and firepits. It’s the perfect setting to break the ice and connect with local singles! 🔥🍷✨
Come enjoy:
✔️ Full bar and yummy food
✔️ Icebreaker game
✔️ Dance floor - Band: Chris Rogers 8-11pm
✔️ Heated front patio area (and an indoor space)
✔️ Tons of free parking
✔️ A fun, semi-private space filled with local singles🎟 $10 Entry
Pay via Meetup (PayPal), Venmo @Adeline-Farrer, or at the door.
Your PayPal or Venmo receipt is your ticket—please have it ready at check-in to receive your wristband and icebreaker game!
Prefer to pay at the door or via Venmo (@Adeline-Farrer)? Just message me directly and I’ll switch your RSVP to “Going”! 🎉Refund Policy: 🎟️ Tickets are fully refundable if your plans change—anytime before the event takes place!
If you need a refund, just send me a direct message or request it through PayPal. You’ll have no problem getting your funds back. Thank you!Be sure to locate the host upon arrival to present your ticket and receive a wristband and an icebreaker game! I'll be right at the entrance, impossible to miss me!
Bar info:
Food/Drinks available for purchase
Cash, card, tap accepted
Free and paid parking near by
Loud event due to musicCheck-in information: Arrive between 7pm-10pm. Locate the host. Receive wristband and icebreaker game. Mingle :)
After 10pm, the festivities will continue but the wristbands will be no longer be available. Wristbands allow other members to identify you as a fellow party member.DISCLAIMER: This event is advertised on multiple social media platforms, so the RSVP count may not reflect the actual attendance. The host is not responsible for lost, stolen, or damaged belongings. Additionally, the host is not responsible for the DJ, live band, or any music played at the venue. Please bring PHYSICAL ID ~
ADDITIONAL DISCLAIMER: Food and drinks are available for purchase and not included with Singles Mingle.
Food and drinks are available for purchase and are not provided by Singles Mingle.Mission Statement: Singles Mingle is on a mission to get singles off of dating apps and out meeting one another in person. Our goal is to offer a refreshing alternative to dating apps by providing monthly events where singles can meet, make friends, and enjoy a lively social atmosphere. We believe in the power of face-to-face connections and aim to create a space where individuals can step out of their comfort zones, delete the dating apps, and experience the genuine joy of mingling. Join us at Singles Mingle and let's redefine the way you approach meeting new people.
Visit us at [[[SinglesMingleCA.com](http://singlesmingleca.com/)](http://singlesmingleca.com/)](http://singlesmingleca.com/ "http://singlesmingleca.com/") and follow along on social media @Singles_Mingle_CA!19 attendees Singles Mingle @ Decodance in SF
Decodance Bar-Lounge, 1160 polk street, San Francisco, CA, USYou guys, we're going back to DecoDance in SF!
DecoDance is pure swank and class! 🍸✨
Think amazing cocktails, delicious food, cozy couches, gorgeous décor you’ll fall in love with, and an all-around vibey atmosphere. This hidden gem on the side of Polk Street is truly something special.
Last time it got pretty hot in here so dress for dancing and a full house!
I will also bring a coat rack this time :)Come join us for:
- Free entry
- A fun icebreaker game to get everyone mingling
- Tons of local singles
- Great food, drinks, and unforgettable vibes
- DJ starts at 9:30pm
Please note this isn’t a private party, the venue will remain open to the public. You’ll receive a wristband at check-in so it’s easy to spot fellow attendees 🙂
Wristband and ice breaker distribution is 7pm-10pm but the event continues until closing (2AM).DISCLAIMER: This event is advertised on multiple social media platforms, so the RSVP count may not reflect the actual attendance.
ADDITIONAL DISCLAIMER: Food and drinks are not included with the free entry. They are available for purchase.
This event will be on the LOUD side since it's a night club. I recommend showing up between 7-9pm to mingle before many of us hit the dance floor!
DJ starts @ 9:30pm!Age Info: This event is for ages 21 and up! If you’re curious about the typical age range, it can be hard to predict, as many attendees discover the event through online advertising and don’t RSVP in advance. Because of this, I don’t always know exactly who or what ages will be attending—this is also a big reason the event is free to attend. Based on my experience hosting 100+ events, the predominant age range tends to be 30–65, though each event is unique and attracts a diverse mix of people.
Mission statement: Singles Mingle is on a mission to get singles off of dating apps and out meeting one another in person. Our goal is to offer a refreshing alternative to dating apps by providing monthly events where singles can meet, make friends, and enjoy a lively social atmosphere. We believe in the power of face-to-face connections and aim to create a space where individuals can step out of their comfort zones, delete the dating apps, and experience the genuine joy of mingling. Our events promise a fun and relaxed environment, making it easier for you to connect with other like-minded singles. Join us at Singles Mingle and let's redefine the way you approach meeting new people.
Visit us at [[[SinglesMingleCA.com](http://singlesmingleca.com/)](http://singlesmingleca.com/ "http://singlesmingleca.com/")](http://singlesmingleca.com/) and follow along on social media @Singles_Mingle_CA!359 attendees- $10.00
Singles Mingle Age Specific 40&UP @ Barnyard in Danville
Barnyard Epicurean, 400 Sycamore Valley Rd West (in The Livery & Mercantile), Danville, CA, USHey 40&UP! Back by popular demand - another Age Specific :)
Let’s meet at Barnyard in Danville on Sunday March 1st from 5–8 PM. Barnyard is a great space, especially for an age-specific event. Our 21&UP events here can get pretty crowded, so this one will feel more spacious and relaxed.🎟 $10 Entry
Pay via Meetup (PayPal), Venmo @Adeline-Farrer, or at the door.
Your PayPal or Venmo receipt is your ticket—please have it ready at check-in to receive your wristband and icebreaker game!
Prefer to pay at the door or via Venmo (@Adeline-Farrer)? Just message me directly and I’ll switch your RSVP to “Going”! 🎉Age Info: This event is for ages 40 and up, but if you’re between 35 and 39, you’re absolutely welcome to join—especially if you’re interested in dating or making friends within this age range.
Refund Policy: 🎟️ Tickets are fully refundable if your plans change—anytime before the event takes place!
If you need a refund, just send me a direct message or request it through PayPal. You’ll have no problem getting your funds back. Thank you!Be sure to locate the host upon arrival to present your ticket and receive a wristband and an icebreaker game! I'll be right at the entrance, impossible to miss me!
Check-in information: Arrive between 5pm-8pm. Locate the host. Receive wristband and icebreaker game. Mingle :)
After 8pm, the festivities will continue but the wristbands will be no longer be available. Wristbands allow other members to identify you as a fellow party member.DISCLAIMER: This event is advertised on multiple social media platforms, so the RSVP count may not reflect the actual attendance. The host is not responsible for lost, stolen, or damaged belongings. Additionally, the host is not responsible for the DJ, live band, or any music played at the venue. Please bring PHYSICAL ID ~
ADDITIONAL DISCLAIMER: Food and drinks are available for purchase and not included with Singles Mingle.
Food and drinks are available for purchase and are not provided by Singles Mingle.Mission Statement: Singles Mingle is on a mission to get singles off of dating apps and out meeting one another in person. Our goal is to offer a refreshing alternative to dating apps by providing monthly events where singles can meet, make friends, and enjoy a lively social atmosphere. We believe in the power of face-to-face connections and aim to create a space where individuals can step out of their comfort zones, delete the dating apps, and experience the genuine joy of mingling. Join us at Singles Mingle and let's redefine the way you approach meeting new people.
Visit us at [[[[SinglesMingleCA.com](http://singlesmingleca.com/)](http://singlesmingleca.com/)](http://singlesmingleca.com/)](http://singlesmingleca.com/ "http://singlesmingleca.com/") and follow along on social media @Singles_Mingle_CA!30 attendees Singles Mingle @ Renaissance Hotel in Walnut Creek
Renaissance ClubSport, 2805 Jones Rd, Walnut Creek, CA, USThe Mingle is taking over Walnut Creek! 🥂✨
We’ve booked an incredible new spot for a singles party: Citrus Fresh Grill inside the Renaissance Hotel & Bay Club! We’re taking over the entire restaurant and the outdoor patio for a massive indoor/outdoor celebration. Come join us for our private party!The Game Plan:
- 📅 When: Friday, March 6th
- ⏰ Time: 7:00 PM – 10:00 PM
- 📍 Where: 2805 Jones Rd, Walnut Creek (Renaissance Hotel)
- 🎟️ Entry: FREE (21+ only)
- 🚗 Parking: First 3 hours are on the house!
- 🍹 Food & Drink: Multiple bars open! (Cashless venue—cards only).
Upon arrival: Grab your wristband and icebreaker game at the entrance. No RSVP required, but appreciated! ***Look for balloons! That's where I'll be! ***Can’t wait to see you all there!
Suggested attire: Dress comfortably, but also take the opportunity to show up as your best self! Aim for something that feels good, looks great, and lets you feel confident while mingling—you never know who you might meet!
🚨 Note: This event is advertised on multiple platforms, so the RSVP count may not reflect actual attendance. Bring your friends or fly solo!
Can’t wait to see you there! 🎶🥂DISCLAIMER: The host is not responsible for lost, stolen, or damaged belongings. Additionally, the host is not responsible for the DJ, live band, or any music played at the venue.
Food and drinks are available for purchase and are not provided by Singles Mingle.Please note: RSVPs are not required. Feel free to bring friends and simply show up – no tickets or RSVP needed. FREE ALL AGES (21+) EVENT.
BRING ID!Age Info: This event is for ages 21 and up! If you’re curious about the typical age range, it can be hard to predict, as many attendees discover the event through online advertising and don’t RSVP in advance. Because of this, I don’t always know exactly who or what ages will be attending—this is also a big reason the event is free to attend. Based on my experience hosting 100+ events, the predominant age range tends to be 30–65, though each event is unique and attracts a diverse mix of people.
Mission statement: Singles Mingle is on a mission to get singles off of dating apps and out meeting one another in person. Our goal is to offer a refreshing alternative to dating apps by providing monthly events where singles can meet, make friends, and enjoy a lively social atmosphere. We believe in the power of face-to-face connections and aim to create a space where individuals can step out of their comfort zones, delete the dating apps, and experience the genuine joy of mingling. Join us at Singles Mingle and let's redefine the way you approach meeting new people.
Visit us at [[[[[SinglesMingleCA.com](http://singlesmingleca.com/)](http://singlesmingleca.com/)](http://singlesmingleca.com/)](http://singlesmingleca.com/)](http://singlesmingleca.com/ "http://singlesmingleca.com/") and follow along on social media @Singles_Mingle_CA!300 attendees
Past events
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