About us
We're shaking up the Bay Area social scene with Singles Mingle!
We have 4-10 events per month!
Join us at bars, breweries, and restaurants for fun, friendly mixers where you can meet local singles face-to-face—no swiping required.
THIS IS NOT SPEED DATING!
Whether you're looking to connect, make new friends, or just enjoy a great night out, our monthly events are the perfect place to start.
The only requirement to attend a Singles Mingle event is that you are single! 🥂 We welcome everyone, but we also believe in the power of true alignment and connection. To better serve our community, we have launched a dedicated chapter: Singles Mingle LGBTQ+. 🏳️🌈
If you feel that community would be a better fit for your journey, be sure to follow that group for specific events and updates! https://www.meetup.com/singlesminglelgbtq/
🎉 Free all-ages events
$10 age-specific mixers and $20 special events!
📍 Stay in the loop by following us on Meetup, social media, or visiting [SinglesMingleCA.com](http://singlesmingleca.com).
❤️ Donations are appreciated via Pledge on the "About" page or Venmo @Adeline-Farrer. Every dollar helps keep Singles Mingle alive and thriving.
Upcoming events
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Singles Mingle @ Big Al's in Milpitas FREE ENTRY! 21+
Big Al's, 275 ranch dr, Milpitas, CA, US## Singles Mingle: Big Al’s Milpitas Takeover!
Friday, August 7th | 6:00 PM – 9:00 PM Big Al’s, Milpitas
We're going BACK to Big Al’s in Milpitas!The Vibe & Space
While we usually spread out both inside and out, this time we are taking over the entire outdoor patio! We’ll have a private bar, plenty of fire pits, and a really amazing outdoor ambience.
Big Al’s has a massive private event space tucked away in the back left of the facility. It’s the perfect spot to meet new people in a high-energy, relaxed setting.### Entertainment Galore! ✨
There is something for everyone here:
- 🎮 Arcade Games
- 📺 Wall-to-wall TVs
- 🎯 Darts & Foosball
- 🎳 Bowling
- 🍔 Delicious Food
- 🔥 Fire Pits
- 🥂 Private Party Area (Exclusive patio access)
### The Essentials:
- 🎟️ Entry: This event is FREE! No RSVP or ticket required—feel free to bring as many guests as you’d like.
- ⌚ Wristbands: Distribution is from 6:00 PM – 9:00 PM, but the party continues until closing!
- 📍 How to find us: Upon entry, head to the left-hand side of the venue (past the arcade area). Our team will be wearing "Singles Mingle" sweaters, so you can’t miss us.
Don’t miss out on this one-of-a-kind opportunity to mingle with local singles and have an amazing time. See you there! 🎉
This event is FREE! Just show up! No RSVP required!
Be sure to locate the host upon arrival to receive a wristband and an icebreaker game! I'll be right at the entrance, impossible to miss me!Check-in information: Arrive between 6pm-9pm. Locate the host. Receive wristband and icebreaker game. Mingle :)
After 9pm, the festivities will continue but the wristbands will be no longer be available. Wristbands allow other members to identify you as a fellow party member.Age Info: This event is for ages 21 and up! If you’re curious about the typical age range, it can be hard to predict, as many attendees discover the event through online advertising and don’t RSVP in advance. Because of this, I don’t always know exactly who or what ages will be attending—this is also a big reason the event is free to attend. Based on my experience hosting 100+ events, the predominant age range tends to be 30–65, though each event is unique and attracts a diverse mix of people.
DISCLAIMER: This event is advertised on multiple social media platforms, so the RSVP count may not reflect the actual attendance. The host is not responsible for lost, stolen, or damaged belongings. Additionally, the host is not responsible for the DJ, live band, or any music played at the venue. Please bring PHYSICAL ID ~
Only requirement to attend is that you're single (your wing person does not have to be single, they just won't receive a wristband or an icebreaker game but they are welcome to attend with you).ADDITIONAL DISCLAIMER: Food and drinks are available for purchase and not included with Singles Mingle.
Mission Statement: Singles Mingle is on a mission to get singles off of dating apps and out meeting one another in person. Our goal is to offer a refreshing alternative to dating apps by providing monthly events where singles can meet, make friends, and enjoy a lively social atmosphere. We believe in the power of face-to-face connections and aim to create a space where individuals can step out of their comfort zones, delete the dating apps, and experience the genuine joy of mingling. Join us at Singles Mingle and let's redefine the way you approach meeting new people.
Visit us at [[[[[SinglesMingleCA.com](http://singlesmingleca.com/)](http://singlesmingleca.com/)](http://singlesmingleca.com/)](http://singlesmingleca.com/)](http://singlesmingleca.com/ "http://singlesmingleca.com/") and follow along on social media @Singles_Mingle_CA!330 attendees- $10.00
Singles Mingle Age Specific 45&UP @ Barnyard in Danville
Barnyard Epicurean, 400 Sycamore Valley Rd West (in The Livery & Mercantile), Danville, CA, USHey 45&UP!
Back by popular demand - another Age Specific :)Let’s meet at Barnyard in Danville on Sunday August 9th from 5–8 PM. Barnyard is a great space, especially for an age-specific event. Our 21&UP events here can get pretty crowded, so this one will feel more spacious and relaxed.
Our last event here was a 50&UP and we had 90 attendees!
🎟 $10 Entry
Pay via Meetup (PayPal), Venmo @Adeline-Farrer, or at the door.
Your PayPal or Venmo receipt is your ticket—please have it ready at check-in to receive your wristband and icebreaker game!
Prefer to pay at the door or via Venmo (@Adeline-Farrer)? Just message me directly and I’ll switch your RSVP to “Going”! 🎉Age Info: This event is for ages 45 and up, but if you’re between 40 and 44, you’re absolutely welcome to join—especially if you’re interested in dating or making friends within this age range.
Refund Policy: 🎟️ Tickets are fully refundable if your plans change—anytime before the event takes place!
If you need a refund, just send me a direct message or request it through PayPal. You’ll have no problem getting your funds back. Thank you!Be sure to locate the host upon arrival to present your ticket and receive a wristband and an icebreaker game! I'll be right at the entrance, impossible to miss me!
Check-in information: Arrive between 5pm-8pm. Locate the host. Receive wristband and icebreaker game. Mingle :)
After 8pm, the festivities will continue but the wristbands will be no longer be available. Wristbands allow other members to identify you as a fellow party member.DISCLAIMER: This event is advertised on multiple social media platforms, so the RSVP count may not reflect the actual attendance. The host is not responsible for lost, stolen, or damaged belongings. Additionally, the host is not responsible for the DJ, live band, or any music played at the venue. Please bring PHYSICAL ID ~
ADDITIONAL DISCLAIMER: Food and drinks are available for purchase and not included with Singles Mingle.
Food and drinks are available for purchase and are not provided by Singles Mingle.Mission Statement: Singles Mingle is on a mission to get singles off of dating apps and out meeting one another in person. Our goal is to offer a refreshing alternative to dating apps by providing monthly events where singles can meet, make friends, and enjoy a lively social atmosphere. We believe in the power of face-to-face connections and aim to create a space where individuals can step out of their comfort zones, delete the dating apps, and experience the genuine joy of mingling. Join us at Singles Mingle and let's redefine the way you approach meeting new people.
Visit us at [[[[SinglesMingleCA.com](http://singlesmingleca.com/)](http://singlesmingleca.com/)](http://singlesmingleca.com/)](http://singlesmingleca.com/ "http://singlesmingleca.com/") and follow along on social media @Singles_Mingle_CA!11 attendees 
Singles Mingle @ Renaissance Hotel in Walnut Creek FREE ENTRY 21+
Renaissance ClubSport Walnut Creek Hotel, 2805 Jones Road, Walnut Creek, CA, USThe Mingle is taking over Walnut Creek! 🥂✨
We’ve booked an incredible new spot for a singles party: Citrus Fresh Grill inside the Renaissance Hotel & Bay Club! We’re taking over the entire restaurant and the outdoor patio for a massive indoor/outdoor celebration. Come join us for our private party!The Game Plan:
- 📅 When: Friday, August 14th
- ⏰ Time: 6:00 PM – 9:00 PM
- 📍 Where: 2805 Jones Rd, Walnut Creek (Renaissance Hotel)
- 🎟️ Entry: FREE (21+ only)
- 🚗 Parking: First 3 hours are on the house!
- 🍹 Food & Drink: Multiple bars open! (Cashless venue—cards only).
Upon arrival: Grab your wristband and icebreaker game at the entrance. No RSVP required, but appreciated! ***Look for balloons! That's where I'll be! ***Can’t wait to see you all there!
Suggested attire: Dress comfortably, but also take the opportunity to show up as your best self! Aim for something that feels good, looks great, and lets you feel confident while mingling—you never know who you might meet!
🚨 Note: This event is advertised on multiple platforms, so the RSVP count may not reflect actual attendance. Bring your friends or fly solo!
Can’t wait to see you there! 🎶🥂DISCLAIMER: The host is not responsible for lost, stolen, or damaged belongings. Additionally, the host is not responsible for the DJ, live band, or any music played at the venue.
Food and drinks are available for purchase and are not provided by Singles Mingle.
Please note: RSVPs are not required. Feel free to bring friends and simply show up – no tickets or RSVP needed. FREE ALL AGES (21+) EVENT.
BRING ID!Age Info: This event is for ages 21 and up! If you’re curious about the typical age range, it can be hard to predict, as many attendees discover the event through online advertising and don’t RSVP in advance. Because of this, I don’t always know exactly who or what ages will be attending—this is also a big reason the event is free to attend. Based on my experience hosting 100+ events, the predominant age range tends to be 30–65, though each event is unique and attracts a diverse mix of people.
Mission statement: Singles Mingle is on a mission to get singles off of dating apps and out meeting one another in person. Our goal is to offer a refreshing alternative to dating apps by providing monthly events where singles can meet, make friends, and enjoy a lively social atmosphere. We believe in the power of face-to-face connections and aim to create a space where individuals can step out of their comfort zones, delete the dating apps, and experience the genuine joy of mingling. Join us at Singles Mingle and let's redefine the way you approach meeting new people.
Visit us at SinglesMingleCA.com and follow along on social media @Singles_Mingle_CA!172 attendees
Singles Mingle @ McGees in Alameda FREE ENTRY 21+
McGees Bar & Grill, 1645 Park Street, Alameda, CA, US# Saturday Night Singles Mingle at McGee's!
We're heading back to McGee's in Alameda for another fun night of mingling! This time, we're taking over the indoor space, with access to the outdoor patio as well. Come meet local singles, enjoy great food and drinks, and spend your Saturday night making new connections.
📅 When: Saturday, August 15 | 6:00 PM – 9:00 PM (show up anytime during that window)
📍 Where:
McGee's Bar & Grill
1645 Park St, Alameda### What to Expect
- Great food available for purchase
- Delicious cocktails and full bar
- Fun icebreaker game to help get conversations started
- FREE Entry | Ages 21+
- Plenty of free parking
### IMPORTANT: How to Find Us
Please enter through the FRONT ENTRANCE (not the back entrance like our previous events).
As you approach the venue entrance, you'll find the Singles Mingle host table where you'll receive your wristband and icebreaker game. Look for the Singles Mingle signs and shirts—you won't miss us!### The Game Plan
- Icebreaker game to make meeting people easy and fun.
- Wristbands will be distributed from 6:00 PM – 9:00 PM so other attendees can easily identify fellow Singles Mingle members.
Please note: This is not a private event. McGee's remains open to the public, so your wristband is the easiest way to identify others attending Singles Mingle.
DISCLAIMER: This event is advertised across multiple social media platforms, so RSVP counts may not reflect actual attendance.
Food and drinks are available for purchase and are not included with free admission.
Sitting down at a singles event is not recommended. You'll have much more fun on your feet!
Music will be at a moderate level—loud enough to set the vibe, but low enough to have a conversation.### Age Info
This event is for ages 21 and up! If you're curious about the typical age range, it can be hard to predict, as many attendees discover these events through online advertising and don't RSVP in advance. Because of this, I don't always know exactly who or what ages will be attending—and that's also a big reason the event is free to attend.
Based on my experience hosting 150+ events, the predominant age range is typically 30–65, though every event is unique and attracts a diverse mix of people.Mission statement: Singles Mingle is on a mission to get singles off of dating apps and out meeting one another in person. Our goal is to offer a refreshing alternative to dating apps by providing monthly events where singles can meet, make friends, and enjoy a lively social atmosphere. We believe in the power of face-to-face connections and aim to create a space where individuals can step out of their comfort zones, delete the dating apps, and experience the genuine joy of mingling. Our events promise a fun and relaxed environment, making it easier for you to connect with other like-minded singles. Join us at Singles Mingle and let's redefine the way you approach meeting new people.
Visit us at [SinglesMingleCA.com](http://singlesmingleca.com/) and follow along on social media @Singles_Mingle_CA!111 attendees
Past events
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