About us
We're shaking up the Bay Area social scene with Singles Mingle!
We have 4-10 events per month!
Join us at bars, breweries, and restaurants for fun, friendly mixers where you can meet local singles face-to-face—no swiping required.
THIS IS NOT SPEED DATING!
Whether you're looking to connect, make new friends, or just enjoy a great night out, our monthly events are the perfect place to start.
The only requirement to attend a Singles Mingle event is that you are single! 🥂 We welcome everyone, but we also believe in the power of true alignment and connection. To better serve our community, we have launched a dedicated chapter: Singles Mingle LGBTQ+. 🏳️🌈
If you feel that community would be a better fit for your journey, be sure to follow that group for specific events and updates! https://www.meetup.com/singlesminglelgbtq/
🎉 Free all-ages events
$10 age-specific mixers and $20 special events!
📍 Stay in the loop by following us on Meetup, social media, or visiting [SinglesMingleCA.com](http://singlesmingleca.com).
❤️ Donations are appreciated via Pledge on the "About" page or Venmo @Adeline-Farrer. Every dollar helps keep Singles Mingle alive and thriving.
Upcoming events
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Singles Mingle @ Lafayette Park Hotel & Spa in Lafayette FREE ENTRY
Lafayette Park Hotel & Spa, 3287 Mount Diablo Boulevard, Lafayette, CA, USLAST-MINUTE AMAZING EVENT ANNOUNCEMENT!
I just added something VERY special to the September lineup!
On Friday, September 11th from 6:00–9:00 PM, Singles Mingle is heading to the beautiful Lafayette Park Hotel & Spa for a HUGE private party!
They’re giving us an incredible setup:- Private ballroom + outdoor terrace
- 3 bars with alcoholic & non-alcoholic options
- Small bites menu available for purchase
- FREE parking
- FREE entry to the party!
- Cashless venue - card only
DRESS TO IMPRESS!
This is a beautiful, upscale venue, so let’s have some fun with it and come looking fancy! No need for formal attire, but this is definitely the night to step it up a little.PARKING: FREE PARKING!
Come on time for the best parking! The hotel has an underground parking garage, outdoor parking lot, and street parking available.
Carpool and Uber/Lyft would also be great options for this venue.HOW TO FIND THE PARTY: When you enter the hotel lobby, look for the Singles Mingle signs directing you to check-in (aka me!). If you park in the underground garage and take the elevator up to the lobby, it will spit you out right at check-in!
Music will be kept low for background enjoyment—this is a mingling event, so you’ll actually be able to hear the person you’re talking to!
Friday, September 11th | 6:00–9:00 PM — save the date! This is going to be a GOOD one!
RSVP
No RSVP or ticket is required. Just show up, bring your friends, and come meet hundreds of local singles!Age Information
This event is for ages 21 and up! If you’re curious about the typical age range, it can be hard to predict, as many attendees discover the event through online advertising and don’t RSVP in advance. Because of this, I don’t always know exactly who or what ages will be attending—this is also a big reason the event is free to attend. Based on my experience hosting 180+ events, the predominant age range tends to be 30–65, though each event is unique and attracts a diverse mix of people.Disclaimer
This event is advertised across multiple social media platforms, so RSVP counts may not reflect actual attendance.
Food and drinks are available for purchase and are not included with free admission.
You're welcome to bring a wing person that is not single—they just won't receive a wristband or icebreaker game.Mission statement:
Singles Mingle is on a mission to get singles off of dating apps and out meeting one another in person. Our goal is to offer a refreshing alternative to dating apps by providing monthly events where singles can meet, make friends, and enjoy a lively social atmosphere. We believe in the power of face-to-face connections and aim to create a space where individuals can step out of their comfort zones, delete the dating apps, and experience the genuine joy of mingling. Our events promise a fun and relaxed environment, making it easier for you to connect with other like-minded singles. Join us at Singles Mingle and let's redefine the way you approach meeting new people.
🌐 www.singlesmingleca.com180 attendees
Singles Mingle @ Willow Den in San Jose FREE ENTRY!
The Willow Den, 803 Lincoln Ave., San Jose, CA, USWe're going back to Willow Den in San Jose!
Saturday September 12th 7-10pm!READ THE AGE INFO BELOW!
We finally have a live band and dancing!
Band name: The Tebo Experience
I'm pushing for the band and dancing to start at 9:30pm. I'll keep you posted once I get an answer.🍻 Heads up: Willow Den is definitely a dive bar — loud, gritty, and packed. If that’s your scene, you’ll love it!
🪪 Important: Please bring a physical ID — the venue checks at the door, and digital copies are not accepted.
🚗 Parking tip: Arrive early and you might score a spot behind the bar (the driveway is a little easy to miss). There’s also plenty of nearby street parking.
🍕 Food: No food is served at Willow Den, but outside food is allowed, so feel free to order from DoorDash or grab something nearby!
I’ve hosted 8 singles events at this spot, and it’s always a blast! The owner is awesome, and the staff love having us there.
Think: pool tables, giant Jenga, beer pong, ping pong, live music, and a fun icebreaker game to get everyone mingling!This event is totally free — no RSVP or ticket needed, and you’re welcome to bring friends!
Wristband distribution: 7 PM to 10 PM
Event runs until closing (2 AM).
Upon arrival you should see me since I'll be standing by the entrance. Look for a Singles Mingle gear! :)Age Info: This event is for ages 21 and up! If you’re curious about the typical age range, it can be hard to predict, as many attendees discover the event through online advertising and don’t RSVP in advance. Because of this, I don’t always know exactly who or what ages will be attending—this is also a big reason the event is free to attend. Based on my experience hosting 100+ events, the predominant age range tends to be 30–65, though each event is unique and attracts a diverse mix of people.
Suggested attire: Dress comfortably, but also take the opportunity to show up as your best self! Aim for something that feels good, looks great, and lets you feel confident while mingling—you never know who you might meet!
🚨 Note: This event is advertised on multiple platforms, so the RSVP count may not reflect actual attendance. Bring your friends or fly solo!
Can’t wait to see you there! 🎶🥂Disclaimer: The host is not responsible for lost, stolen, or damaged belongings. Additionally, the host is not responsible for the DJ, live band, or any music played at the venue.
ADDITIONAL DISCLAIMER: Food and drinks are not included with the free entry. They are available for purchase.
This event will be on the LOUD side since it's a dive bar. I recommend showing up between 7-9pm to mingle before the music gets turned up!Mission statement: Singles Mingle is on a mission to get singles off of dating apps and out meeting one another in person. Our goal is to offer a refreshing alternative to dating apps by providing monthly events where singles can meet, make friends, and enjoy a lively social atmosphere. We believe in the power of face-to-face connections and aim to create a space where individuals can step out of their comfort zones, delete the dating apps, and experience the genuine joy of mingling. Join us at Singles Mingle and let's redefine the way you approach meeting new people.
Visit us at SinglesMingleCA.com and follow along on social media @Singles_Mingle_CA!122 attendees
Singles Mingle @ Southern Pacific Brewing in SF FREE ENTRY!
Southern Pacific Brewing, 620 Treat Avenue, San Francisco, CA, USSF Mix & Mingle: Southern Pacific Brewing Takeover! 🚀
Looking for a chill way to meet new people? Join us at Southern Pacific Brewing for a massive Sunday social!READ THE AGE INFO BELOW!
✅ FREE ENTRY
✅ Ice Breaker Game + Wristbands
✅ Indoor/Outdoor Vibes
✅ Free Parking
📍 When: September 13th, 3 PM – 6 PM (event continues after 6 PM but wristband distribution ends at 6 PM)
📍 Note: Kitchen closes at 9:00 PM.
No RSVP needed—just show up!
This event is FREE! Just show up! No RSVP required!
Be sure to locate the host upon arrival to receive a wristband and an icebreaker game! I'll be right at the entrance, impossible to miss me!
Check-in information: Arrive between 3pm-6pm. Locate the host. Receive wristband and icebreaker game. Mingle :)
This is not a private party but we will take over ;)
Wristbands allow other members to identify you as a fellow party member.Age Info: This event is for ages 21 and up! If you’re curious about the typical age range, it can be hard to predict, as many attendees discover the event through online advertising and don’t RSVP in advance. Because of this, I don’t always know exactly who or what ages will be attending—this is also a big reason the event is free to attend. Based on my experience hosting 100+ events, the predominant age range tends to be 30–65, though each event is unique and attracts a diverse mix of people.
DISCLAIMER: This event is advertised on multiple social media platforms, so the RSVP count may not reflect the actual attendance. The host is not responsible for lost, stolen, or damaged belongings. Additionally, the host is not responsible for the DJ, live band, or any music played at the venue.
Please bring PHYSICAL ID ~
Only requirement to attend Singles Mingle is that you're single (your wing person does not have to be single, they just won't receive a wristband or an icebreaker game but they are welcome to attend with you).
ADDITIONAL DISCLAIMER: Food and drinks are available for purchase and not included with Singles Mingle.Mission Statement: Singles Mingle is on a mission to get singles off of dating apps and out meeting one another in person. Our goal is to offer a refreshing alternative to dating apps by providing monthly events where singles can meet, make friends, and enjoy a lively social atmosphere. We believe in the power of face-to-face connections and aim to create a space where individuals can step out of their comfort zones, delete the dating apps, and experience the genuine joy of mingling. Join us at Singles Mingle and let's redefine the way you approach meeting new people.
Visit us at SinglesMingleCA.com and follow along on social media @Singles_Mingle_CA!98 attendees
Singles Mingle @ Decodance in SF FREE ENTRY!
Decodance Bar-Lounge, 1160 polk street, San Francisco, CA, USYou guys, we're going back to DecoDance in SF!
DecoDance is pure swank and class! 🍸✨READ AGE INFO BELOW!
Think amazing cocktails, delicious food, cozy couches, gorgeous décor you’ll fall in love with, and an all-around vibey atmosphere. This hidden gem on the side of Polk Street is truly something special.
Last time it got pretty hot in here so dress for dancing and a full house!
I will also bring a coat rack this time :)
Come join us on FRIDAY SEPTEMBER 18th 2026 ~ 7-10pm- Free entry
- A fun icebreaker game to get everyone mingling
- Tons of local singles
- Great food, drinks, and unforgettable vibes
- DJ starts at 9:30pm
Please note this isn’t a private party, the venue will remain open to the public. You’ll receive a wristband at check-in so it’s easy to spot fellow attendees 🙂
Wristband and ice breaker distribution is 7pm-10pm but the event continues until closing (2AM).DISCLAIMER: This event is advertised on multiple social media platforms, so the RSVP count may not reflect the actual attendance.
ADDITIONAL DISCLAIMER: Food and drinks are not included with the free entry. They are available for purchase.
This event will be on the LOUD side since it's a night club. I recommend showing up between 7-9pm to mingle before many of us hit the dance floor!
DJ starts @ 9:30pm!Age Info: This event is for ages 21 and up! If you’re curious about the typical age range, it can be hard to predict, as many attendees discover the event through online advertising and don’t RSVP in advance. Because of this, I don’t always know exactly who or what ages will be attending—this is also a big reason the event is free to attend. Based on my experience hosting 100+ events, the predominant age range tends to be 30–65, though each event is unique and attracts a diverse mix of people.
Mission statement: Singles Mingle is on a mission to get singles off of dating apps and out meeting one another in person. Our goal is to offer a refreshing alternative to dating apps by providing monthly events where singles can meet, make friends, and enjoy a lively social atmosphere. We believe in the power of face-to-face connections and aim to create a space where individuals can step out of their comfort zones, delete the dating apps, and experience the genuine joy of mingling. Our events promise a fun and relaxed environment, making it easier for you to connect with other like-minded singles. Join us at Singles Mingle and let's redefine the way you approach meeting new people.
Visit us at SinglesMingleCA.com and follow along on social media @Singles_Mingle_CA!79 attendees
Past events
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