About us
We're shaking up the Bay Area social scene with Singles Mingle!
We have 4-10 events per month!
Join us at bars, breweries, and restaurants for fun, friendly mixers where you can meet local singles face-to-face—no swiping required.
THIS IS NOT SPEED DATING!
Whether you're looking to connect, make new friends, or just enjoy a great night out, our monthly events are the perfect place to start.
The only requirement to attend a Singles Mingle event is that you are single! 🥂 We welcome everyone, but we also believe in the power of true alignment and connection. To better serve our community, we have launched a dedicated chapter: Singles Mingle LGBTQ+. 🏳️🌈
If you feel that community would be a better fit for your journey, be sure to follow that group for specific events and updates! https://www.meetup.com/singlesminglelgbtq/
🎉 Free all-ages events
$10 age-specific mixers and $20 special events!
📍 Stay in the loop by following us on Meetup, social media, or visiting [SinglesMingleCA.com](http://singlesmingleca.com).
❤️ Donations are appreciated via Pledge on the "About" page or Venmo @Adeline-Farrer. Every dollar helps keep Singles Mingle alive and thriving.
Upcoming events
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Singles Mingle @ Brittania Arms Almaden FREE ENTRY 21&UP
Britannia Arms, 5027 Almaden Expressway, San Jose, CA, USSingles, we're heading back to Britannia Arms (Almaden)! 🎉
Join us for a fun night of mingling with local singles and free entry!
🕖 Wristband distribution: 7–10 PM
🍹 Happy Hour Specials on food and drinks!
🎶 DJ Mike Lopez
🍻 Wristband distribution ends at 10 PMWHAT TO EXPECT DISCLAIMER: THIS VENUE WILL BE LOUD AND THIS WILL BE A FULL HOUSE. PARKING MAY GET DIFFICULT TOWARDS MID-EVENT SO ARRIVE ON TIME IF YOU CAN!
There will be two bars (indoor and outdoor). Drinks are allowed outside, so feel free to roam and enjoy!
When you arrive: I’ll be stationed inside near the bar. As soon as you open the entry door, look for the sign pointing you my way (to the right), or just look for Singles Mingle shirts next to the bar!
This event is free! No RSVP or ticket required and bring as many guests as you'd like!
Age Info: This event is for ages 21 and up! If you’re curious about the typical age range, it can be hard to predict, as many attendees discover the event through online advertising and don’t RSVP in advance. Because of this, I don’t always know exactly who or what ages will be attending—this is also a big reason the event is free to attend. Based on my experience hosting 100+ events, the predominant age range tends to be 30–65, though each event is unique and attracts a diverse mix of people.
DISCLAIMER: This event is advertised on multiple social media platforms, so the RSVP count may not reflect the actual attendance.
The host is not responsible for lost, stolen, or damaged belongings. Additionally, the host is not responsible for the DJ, live band, or any music played at the venue.
This event will be LOUD due to lots of people and background music.
Food and drinks are available for purchase and are not provided by Singles Mingle.RSVP Note: Please note that RSVPs are not required. Feel free to bring friends and simply show up – no tickets or RSVP needed. FREE ALL AGES (21+) EVENT.
Mission statement: Singles Mingle is on a mission to get singles off of dating apps and out meeting one another in person. Our goal is to offer a refreshing alternative to dating apps by providing monthly events where singles can meet, make friends, and enjoy a lively social atmosphere. We believe in the power of face-to-face connections and aim to create a space where individuals can step out of their comfort zones, delete the dating apps, and experience the genuine joy of mingling. Our events promise a fun and relaxed environment, making it easier for you to connect with other like-minded singles. Join us at Singles Mingle and let's redefine the way you approach meeting new people.
**www.singlesmingleca.com**264 attendees
Singles Mingle @ Poppy Bank Epicenter in Santa Rosa FREE ENTRY 21&UP
Poppy Bank, 3214 Coffey Ln, santa rosa, CA, USSanta Rosa, we’re doing something TOTALLY different! 🎳✨
I am so excited to announce our next event at the massive Poppy Bank Epicenter on July 24th! This isn't just a bar meet-up; we have reserved a private 4-lane bowling suite exclusively for our group.🗓 Friday, July 24th | 6:00 PM – 9:00 PM
🎳 The Perk: Endless FREE bowling for our group! (NO bowling shoes required)
🎟 The Crowd: Tons of local singles in a space built for fun.Finding the party: The Epicenter is huge, so keep an eye out for our signs! You can enter through the far right entrance for direct access to our room. If you come through the main doors (the middle entrance), just head past the arcade and upstairs the little set of stairs toward the bowling area—we are tucked away at the private banquet space by the restrooms.
Come as you are and get ready for a night of bowling and mingling! 🎳🍻Side note: You do not have to participate in the bowling part of this event. Singles Mingle will also be providing an icebreaker game to get the conversations started!
This event is FREE! Just show up! No RSVP required!
Be sure to locate the host upon arrival to receive a wristband and an icebreaker game! I'll be right at the entrance, impossible to miss me!Check-in information: Arrive between 6:00pm-9:00pm. Locate the host. Receive wristband and icebreaker game. Mingle :)
This is a private party!This event will be promoted across the Singles Mingle network, including our Bay Area Meetup groups, Eventbrite, Facebook, Instagram, TikTok, and other marketing channels.
Because attendees come from multiple platforms, the RSVP count shown on any single platform will not accurately reflect the final attendance. Historically, a significant portion of attendees discover and attend events through channels other than the platform where the event is listed.Age Info: This event is for ages 21 and up! If you’re curious about the typical age range, it can be hard to predict, as many attendees discover the event through online advertising and don’t RSVP in advance. Because of this, I don’t always know exactly who or what ages will be attending—this is also a big reason the event is free to attend. Based on my experience hosting 100+ events, the predominant age range tends to be 30–65, though each event is unique and attracts a diverse mix of people.
DISCLAIMER: This event is advertised on multiple social media platforms, so the RSVP count may not reflect the actual attendance. The host is not responsible for lost, stolen, or damaged belongings. Additionally, the host is not responsible for the DJ, live band, or any music played at the venue.
Please bring PHYSICAL ID ~Only requirement to attend Singles Mingle is that you're single (your wing person does not have to be single, they just won't receive a wristband or an icebreaker game but they are welcome to attend with you).
ADDITIONAL DISCLAIMER: Food and drinks are available for purchase and not included with Singles Mingle.
Mission Statement: Singles Mingle is on a mission to get singles off of dating apps and out meeting one another in person. Our goal is to offer a refreshing alternative to dating apps by providing monthly events where singles can meet, make friends, and enjoy a lively social atmosphere. We believe in the power of face-to-face connections and aim to create a space where individuals can step out of their comfort zones, delete the dating apps, and experience the genuine joy of mingling. Join us at Singles Mingle and let's redefine the way you approach meeting new people.
Visit us at [[[[[[SinglesMingleCA.com](http://singlesmingleca.com/)](http://singlesmingleca.com/)](http://singlesmingleca.com/)](http://singlesmingleca.com/)](http://singlesmingleca.com/)](http://singlesmingleca.com/ "http://singlesmingleca.com/") and follow along on social media @Singles_Mingle_CA!77 attendees- $10.00
Singles Mingle 40&UP @ Oakland United Beerworks
Oakland United Beerworks, 262 2nd St, Oakland, CA, US# Singles Mingle 40+ at Oakland United Beerworks
Looking to meet other singles 40 and over in a fun, relaxed setting? Join us at Oakland United Beerworks for an afternoon of great conversation, craft drinks, and new connections!
We've reserved a private upstairs mingling area overlooking the brewery, giving our group a dedicated space to mix, mingle, and get to know one another.### What to Expect
✨ A private upstairs area just for our group
🍻 Excellent craft beer, wine, and non-alcoholic options available for purchase
🍔 Food available for purchase
🎲 A fun icebreaker game designed to make meeting new people easy and natural
🚗 Easy parking
❤️ A welcoming crowd of local singles ages 40+### Event Details
🎟️ Entry: $10
Pay online via Meetup (PayPal), Venmo @Adeline-Farrer, or simply pay at the door.
⏰ Check-In: 6:00 PM – 9:00 PM- If your app allows it: Please mark yourself as "Attending"—you can still just pay the $10 at the door. *
- If it won't let you: Don't worry! No RSVP is required to join us. Just show up, pay at the door and mingle!
- Let me know in the comments or DM me if you'd like to be moved to "going" and pay at the door!
Why it helps: While you don't need to RSVP, seeing higher numbers encourages even more people to join the party. Either way, we can't wait to see you tonight! 👋
Upon arrival, head up the stairs, you'll see me! We'll get you checked in, provide your wristband, and hand you an icebreaker game.
### RSVP Information
No RSVP is required to attend.
You are welcome to simply show up and pay at the door.
If you'd like to be marked as "Going" while planning to pay at the door, feel free to comment below or send me a message.Come discover one of Oakland's hidden gems and enjoy an evening of drinks, conversation, and new connections. We can't wait to meet you!
Age Info: This event is for ages 40 and up, but if you’re between 35 and 39, you’re absolutely welcome to join—especially if you’re interested in dating or making friends within this age range.
Check-in Information: Arrive whenever you'd like, but wristband and icebreaker distribution is only from 6:00 PM to 9:00 PM. Wristbands are essential as they allow other members to identify you as part of the group.
Based on my experience hosting 100+ events, we expect a great turnout. Don't rely on the RSVP count here, as many guests discover us through outside advertising and pay at the door. Come ready to meet new people in a relaxed, private setting!DISCLAIMER: This event is advertised on multiple social media platforms, so the RSVP count may not reflect the actual attendance. The host is not responsible for lost, stolen, or damaged belongings. Additionally, the host is not responsible for the DJ, live band, or any music played at the venue. Please bring PHYSICAL ID ~
ADDITIONAL DISCLAIMER: Food and drinks are available for purchase and not included with Singles Mingle.
Food and drinks are available for purchase and are not provided by Singles Mingle.Mission Statement: Singles Mingle is on a mission to get singles off of dating apps and out meeting one another in person. Our goal is to offer a refreshing alternative to dating apps by providing monthly events where singles can meet, make friends, and enjoy a lively social atmosphere. We believe in the power of face-to-face connections and aim to create a space where individuals can step out of their comfort zones, delete the dating apps, and experience the genuine joy of mingling. Join us at Singles Mingle and let's redefine the way you approach meeting new people.
Visit us at [[[[[[SinglesMingleCA.com](http://singlesmingleca.com/)](http://singlesmingleca.com/)](http://singlesmingleca.com/)](http://singlesmingleca.com/)](http://singlesmingleca.com/)](http://singlesmingleca.com/ "http://singlesmingleca.com/") and follow along on social media @Singles_Mingle_CA!18 attendees 
Singles Mingle @ Rebel Kitchen & Libations 21&UP FREE ENTRY
Rebel Kitchen and Libations, 2369 First Street, Livermore, CA, USGrab your single friends and come mingle at Rebel in Livermore! 🎉
FRIDAY JULY 31ST!
No excuses—join us for a night out featuring:
🍴 Delicious food
🎱 Pool tables
🎲 A fun icebreaker game
🎶 DJ entertainment
🛋️ Comfy couches and all-around good vibes
✨ Wristbands Distributed: 7:30–10:30 PM
✨ DJ Starts: 9:30 PM
Let’s make it a night to remember! It’s the perfect setting to break the ice and connect with local singles! 🔥🍷✨
Come enjoy:
✔️ Full bar and yummy food
✔️ Icebreaker game
✔️ Dance floor
✔️ Heated front patio area (and an indoor space)
✔️ Tons of free parking
✔️ A fun, semi-private space filled with local singles (7:30-8:30pm)This event is FREE! Just show up! No RSVP required!
Be sure to locate the host upon arrival to receive a wristband and an icebreaker game! I'll be right at the entrance, impossible to miss me!Check-in information: Arrive between 7:30pm-10:30pm. Locate the host. Receive wristband and icebreaker game. Mingle :)
After 10:30pm, the festivities will continue but the wristbands will be no longer be available. Wristbands allow other members to identify you as a fellow party member.Age Info: This event is for ages 21 and up! If you’re curious about the typical age range, it can be hard to predict, as many attendees discover the event through online advertising and don’t RSVP in advance. Because of this, I don’t always know exactly who or what ages will be attending—this is also a big reason the event is free to attend. Based on my experience hosting 100+ events, the predominant age range tends to be 30–65, though each event is unique and attracts a diverse mix of people.
DISCLAIMER: This event is advertised on multiple social media platforms, so the RSVP count may not reflect the actual attendance. The host is not responsible for lost, stolen, or damaged belongings. Additionally, the host is not responsible for the DJ, live band, or any music played at the venue. Please bring PHYSICAL ID ~
Only requirement to attend is that you're single (your wing person does not have to be single, they just won't receive a wristband or an icebreaker game but they are welcome to attend with you).
ADDITIONAL DISCLAIMER: Food and drinks are available for purchase and not included with Singles Mingle.
Mission Statement: Singles Mingle is on a mission to get singles off of dating apps and out meeting one another in person. Our goal is to offer a refreshing alternative to dating apps by providing monthly events where singles can meet, make friends, and enjoy a lively social atmosphere. We believe in the power of face-to-face connections and aim to create a space where individuals can step out of their comfort zones, delete the dating apps, and experience the genuine joy of mingling. Join us at Singles Mingle and let's redefine the way you approach meeting new people.
Visit us at [[[[[SinglesMingleCA.com](http://singlesmingleca.com/)](http://singlesmingleca.com/)](http://singlesmingleca.com/)](http://singlesmingleca.com/)](http://singlesmingleca.com/ "http://singlesmingleca.com/") and follow along on social media @Singles_Mingle_CA!70 attendees
Past events
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