What we’re about
Welcome! I'm so glad you found us... Welcome to our community. Our group is alive and well and growing by leaps and bounds. We host both online and live events, mostly but not exclusively in the Orange County area.
As of 2022, I am leading transformational groups to Greece in September and once in Costa Rica in June. Please check out my travel website at lesbiangetaways.com for trip info. I would love it if you joined the mailing list. This separates out our special announcements from all the other meetup emails which can be overwhelming at times. The occasional emails will come from Lesbian Getaways.
I have been so touched by the intimacy and connections that are being created ongoingly through our group interactions. Lots of close friendships and circles have been made and yes, even some romance! I try to mix it up and keep it interesting and I’m always open to new ideas and feedback. My commitment to every member is that there are no "outsiders" and all folks that identify as a woman loving women are welcome. I believe that the experience of feeling welcome and included is palpable in our group events whether live or on Zoom.
For FB users, please follow us (facebook.com/somanywomensolittletime/). If you would like to be part of our secret FB group or our So Cal Lesbian Pickleballers group, please email me at lesbiangetaways@gmail.com and let me know. Once in, you can invite your friends directly from there.
I ask that you please set your notifications at minimum to receive organizer messages and new event announcements. This has to be done while actually on our group site. You can find the settings by clicking on your round profile photo on the top right corner and select email and notifications.
I am so looking forward to meeting you whether it be online or in person when that time comes.
With Enthusiasm,
Your organizer, Jody
### Lace up those dance shoes and get yourself out to our summer dance! This night is all about dancing, laughing, connecting, and radiating good vibes with an amazing crew of women—mostly (but not exclusively) fabulous 40+ ladies who know how to bring the fun.
We’re back at our favorite upstairs spot at On the Rocks—our own private banquet room with a big dance floor, lots of seating and a private bar to keep your fuel flowing. Perfectly located between Long Beach and the OC, and a breeze to get to from the freeway!
$10 in advance-purchase tickets here
$15 cash at the door
Please, invite all your friends so we can keep the ball rolling and the dances coming! They are totally dependent on your attendance, right?
I'm happy to say that I have successfully found a brand new queer DJ!
### WILD WILD WEST DANCE MIXER - 7:30PM
Are you single or just flying solo? No worries! We've got you. Don't waste any time. Get ready to kick up your boots for a side-splitting, toe-tapping, interactive mixer that'll have you giggling and mingling in no time. This one's too fun to miss! Once you're warmed up, you're already on the dance floor... and once you're on it, why leave?
DJ Christine is here to spin so let's give her a warm welcome for her first time with us!
### THE SCHEDULE:
5:30 PM – Volunteer crew arrives (you rock, thank you!)
6:00 PM – Dinner downstairs (RSVP under that event)
7:30 PM – Dancing mixer kicks off (don’t miss it!)
8:00 PM – DJ Christine blasts off!
First come, first served for seating upstairs
### Dinner First? Yes Please!
We’ve got tables downstairs just for us—come early to enjoy a tasty meal and drinks to ease into the evening with laughter, stories, and community. RSVP under the separate dinner event if you want us to save you a seat. (Can’t make it after all? Please cancel so we don't hold your seat)
### Wanna Lend a Hand?
Come join our community crew! I know some of you love to help and others feel more comfortable with a job. If that is you, please arrive at 5:30 PM to help with setup. Then, at 6pm we'll have dinner together downstairs. At 7:15, we'll go back upstairs and you can meet lots of women by helping at the entrance to greet guests and give nametags. Text me at (707) 484-2066 if you’re in—I’d love your energy and support! It really means a lot to me.
$10 in advance-purchase tickets here
$15 cash at the door
Please note: So sorry but the dance room is upstairs and not handicap accessible. Dinner downstairs is accessible.
The Spring Fling was so darn much fun, we'll just do it all over again but this time WE ARE HOT TO TROT!
If you keep dancing, I’ll keep throwing the party. Deal?
With great anticipation,
Jody
Upcoming events (4+)
See all- Intro Zoom Meeting for "Soul of the Nile" Riverboat Cruise in 2026Link visible for attendees
Come and discover the mysteries of Egypt with us! Imagine an all women group, floating down the Nile and traipsing through this ancient land with me, and my new friend, Kathia who has been leading groups to Egypt for 9 years and who is also an amazing holistic doctor, priestess and sound healer. We will also be accompanied by an Egyptologist (did you know there was such a thing?).
I know. It is a bit hard to visualize. Together, we will lead you on an amazing journey to this ancient, enchanted and mystical land. We will not just learn about all the stuff you usually learn on international tours, but we will EXPERIENCE the MAGIC of Egypt. That's very different. Imagine, trekking in to a pyramid and participating in an actual experience....to feel the energy. The pyramids are one thing to see and another to feel...Which one will impact you most?? That is my question. The answer is to be discovered.
This is an experiential journey. Come and join us for this introductory zoom meeting to meet Kathia and learn about what we intend for this once in a lifetime experience. Yes, we will learn about Egyptian culture and history... just like everyone else does who tours Egypt. HOWEVER, there will be more.
Ask your questions. Discover some answers. Indulge your curiousity (I made that up-not chatGPT by the way!). Decide whether this journey is right for you. You are welcome to join if you are simply curious. No obligation at all. Join us for a fun and informative evening.
My main motivation for this adventure is to travel with Kathia, who is amazing, and engage with the mysteries of Egypt.
CLICK THIS LINK TO REGISTER FOR THE MEETING
I hope you will take this opportunity to subscribe to our monthly Lesbian Getaways newsletter to stay up to date with 2026 travel opportunities as well as photos of past events and recommendations for learning and exploring more of our lesbian community.
View our most recent newsletter!I hope to see you online at our meeting!
With Great Enthusiasm,
Jody - Hot to Trot Summer Dance Party!On the Rocks Bar & Grill, Garden Grove, CA
### Lace up those dance shoes and get yourself out to our summer dance! This night is all about dancing, laughing, connecting, and radiating good vibes with an amazing crew of women—mostly (but not exclusively) fabulous 40+ ladies who know how to bring the fun.
We’re back at our favorite upstairs spot at On the Rocks—our own private banquet room with a big dance floor, lots of seating and a private bar to keep your fuel flowing. Perfectly located between Long Beach and the OC, and a breeze to get to from the freeway!
$10 in advance-purchase tickets here
$15 cash at the doorPlease, invite all your friends so we can keep the ball rolling and the dances coming! They are totally dependent on your attendance, right?
I'm happy to say that I have successfully found a brand new queer DJ!### WILD WILD WEST DANCE MIXER - 7:30PM
Are you single or just flying solo? No worries! We've got you. Don't waste any time. Get ready to kick up your boots for a side-splitting, toe-tapping, interactive mixer that'll have you giggling and mingling in no time. This one's too fun to miss! Once you're warmed up, you're already on the dance floor... and once you're on it, why leave?
DJ Christine is here to spin so let's give her a warm welcome for her first time with us!
### THE SCHEDULE:
5:30 PM – Volunteer crew arrives (you rock, thank you!)
6:00 PM – Dinner downstairs (RSVP under that event)
7:30 PM – Dancing mixer kicks off (don’t miss it!)
8:00 PM – DJ Christine blasts off!
First come, first served for seating upstairs### Dinner First? Yes Please!
We’ve got tables downstairs just for us—come early to enjoy a tasty meal and drinks to ease into the evening with laughter, stories, and community. RSVP under the separate dinner event if you want us to save you a seat. (Can’t make it after all? Please cancel so we don't hold your seat)
### Wanna Lend a Hand?
Come join our community crew! I know some of you love to help and others feel more comfortable with a job. If that is you, please arrive at 5:30 PM to help with setup. Then, at 6pm we'll have dinner together downstairs. At 7:15, we'll go back upstairs and you can meet lots of women by helping at the entrance to greet guests and give nametags. Text me at (707) 484-2066 if you’re in—I’d love your energy and support! It really means a lot to me.
$10 in advance-purchase tickets here
$15 cash at the doorPlease note: So sorry but the dance room is upstairs and not handicap accessible. Dinner downstairs is accessible.
The Spring Fling was so darn much fun, we'll just do it all over again but this time WE ARE HOT TO TROT!
If you keep dancing, I’ll keep throwing the party. Deal?
With great anticipation,
Jody - The One And Only, So-Cal Gals Biggest Lesbian Beach PartyHuntington State Beach, Huntington Beach, CA
YOU ARE INVITED: Please join the So Many Women...So Little Time contingency at the annual beach party! We usually have a spot in one of the far corners closest to the water. Our sign will be up (hopefully early). You are always welcome to come and hang with us at any point.
If you have any games or toys that would be fun to play together, please bring them. We will also have a table set up for shared food.
If you have any decoration ideas, by all means share them!IMPORTANT INFO: You can come for any and all of this day. The parking lot will fill up by noon so I would recommend coming by 11am or waiting until 4pm. Another option is to park somewhere else and take a Lyft. They will probably have to drop you off across the street or nearby.
We will be a lifeguard station 11. Look carefully at the exact location of the pin drop to find us. There will be a bunch of canopies set up in a big square and there should be pride flags around. If you can't find us, CALL me. Don't text because I probably won't hear it.
(707)484-2066 See you there, Jody**Here is the organizer, Andi's invitation to you:
Click here for facebook eventLove & Community, Over Competition
“Love Out Loud—Tower #11 Style”The Vibe
Imagine an ocean horizon filled with laughter and freedom. Canopies stretch like wings across the sand, each one a little sanctuary where old friendships rekindle and new sparks fly. Music pulses. Feet dance. Bodies sway. The air is electric with joy, care, and a little flirtation. You bring yourself, we’ll bring the love. This is what you will experienceWhat to expect:
Welcome to our annual heart-powered beach celebration gathering planned especially for you, for us! Where joy, music, and radical love take center stage. This is about “Community over Competition”, and LOVE over everything. Because joy, respect, friendship and play remind us that community is still one of the most powerful things we have. Because spending a day with beautiful people who celebrate with each other can help restore a little hope.This is about choosing ease, choosing laughter, choosing togetherness—especially now. No pressure, no pretense, just shared sunshine and good company. Leave the luggage and politics behind. Our beach transforms…the beach becomes our temple. The music, our spell. The community, our revolution. You bring the magic. We’ll hold the space!
Who’s Invited-
This Year! It’s Community Pride Edition
You’ve shown up, spoken out, made space, and stayed proud. This day is for you!At the, SO~CAL BIGGEST LESBIAN BEACH PARTY, with open arms we extend the invite to all the LGBTQ+ communities and allies who are holding it down in their own way. If you believe in joy, friendship, and taking up space with love—you belong here.
This group will remain private. This post is sharable. Share with your “safe” and personal groups, friends/communities.
What to Bring:
The Canopy Village: Bring your own canopy and decorate it with your personal flair. Turn it into a pop-up lounge. Don’t be shy—jump from canopy to canopy. Invite others to visit, share food and snacks, host a game and create your own mini vibe.•Bundle of wood for the community bonfires.
• Food & Drinks (follow the rules and regulations of Huntington State Beach)
• There is a food stand nearby in tower #14
•Bundle of wood for the community bonfires.
•Connection Games & Beach Olympics: Low-stakes, high-love competitions designed to unite, not divide- SAND SCULPTURE SHOWDOWN, Beach Ball Toss, Flag football, Frisbee, Limbo, Water Ballon Toss, Bingo, Tug-a-War, Cards, Loteria, Slip and Slide, Water-Guns, ect…
• Music: House, Disco, 70’s, Afro-Latin, Salsa, Soul…whatever you vibe to, to keep your hips swaying. Maybe a line dance?
•Bundle of wood for the community bonfires.
• Water, Sunscreen, layers, & snacks
• Musical instruments
• Good Vibes!
In short: Essentials
• Beach gear: towels, umbrella or canopy, WOOD, cooler, snacks, sunscreen
• Something to share—food, drinks, vibes, kindness
• Optional extras: costume pieces, games, music, something that screams you!
Make sure you bring warmth for the evening. It gets really WINDY & COLD!
Closing- Sunset Beats & Bonfire: Fire Pits will be reserved at 6:30am. You bring the S’mores and wood…fair game?As daylight fades and the day mellows, we light the bonfire. It’s a space to relax, cuddle up, converse, make s’mores or toast marshmallows, listen to music or just enjoy the heat and the heartbeat of the evening.
Fire pits are reserved for everyone. No need to take ownership of the reserved pits.Bring a blanket and a beach chair join one of the fire pits, this is that softer side of the party where laughter drifts with the smoke and time slows down just enough to make the moment last.
RSVP + Spread the Word
Let us know you’re coming, invite your social media contacts, groups, friends, and help this wave ripple even wider.This has always been a judgment-free celebration where our identities are not just welcomed—they’re exalted. We gather not to compete, but to connect.
Let’s build something beautiful and continue creating memories to last a lifetime!
Your So Cal Gal, Host and Organizer,
Andie (Andrea Patricia)
