Happiness

Great Conversations at the Pub

This Valentine’s Day, skip the small talk and build something together instead! 🥳 PLEASE, JOIN THE WAITING LIST TO BE APPROVED This is a special edition of our 2-hour vibe coding jam, sponsored by [Lovable](https://lovable.dev/), for singles and others who are open to meeting people in a low-pressure way. You don’t need to be a developer or have an idea. **You don’t even need to be single!** We’ll team up in **small groups**, and **use AI tools** to **build an app**, or **experiment**. No pitching yourself. No awkward speed-dating questions. Just make something together and see if the vibe arises! **Join our What'sApp Chat:** https://chat.whatsapp.com/BxLUpQMiXwo6d1vG7YSirT **New to vibe coding? ✨** No worries! We begin with a simple starter guide with example prompts and tips so even total beginners can dive in without stress. **Who it’s for** •⁠ ⁠Singles who’d rather build than swipe •⁠ ⁠People open to friends, collaborators, or more •⁠ ⁠Designers, GameDevs, Product folks, Artists, Sales, curious humans... •⁠ ⁠Anyone! **How it works 🚀** •⁠ ⁠Quick welcome + what “vibe coding” means •⁠ ⁠A Valentine-themed challenge •⁠ ⁠90 minutes of building with AI, chatting, helping, and experimenting •⁠ ⁠Switching up teams every so often, so you meet more people •⁠ ⁠Optional demos •⁠ ⁠Hangouts **Opt-in badges to signal your vibe** 💘 Open to dating 🌼 Open to friends 💻 Just here to build **What to bring:** * ID to verify that you are 18+ 🪪 * Laptop! 💻 * Vibes ⚡ **What you’ll leave with** •⁠ ⁠A funky project you made in one evening •⁠ ⁠New friends •⁠ ⁠Possibly a crush, but definitely a story **Location 📍** **Brewhouse & Kitchen Highbury** 2A Corsica St, N51JJ, London 👉 **No pressure, no gatekeeping.** Come solo, or as a couple. Leave with something built, and maybe someone to build with again! 🔞 This event is strictly for people who are 18+. We may ask to see your ID if you look younger, in which case you may be denied entry.

**ECSTATIC DANCE LONDON presents:** **MY ECSTATIC ODYSSEY (a Valentine's Special)** Euphoric & Uplifting Dance Music + Cacao Ceremony + Fruit Social Saturday 14 February 2026 \| 7:00pm–9:45pm Devoted to all Lovers of Heart-Opening Electronic Dance Music. **Tickets & more info:** [https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/my-ecstatic-odyssey-euphoric-uplifting-dance-music-ecstatic-dance-london-tickets-1980637149030?aff=oddtdtcreator](https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/my-ecstatic-odyssey-euphoric-uplifting-dance-music-ecstatic-dance-london-tickets-1980637149030?aff=oddtdtcreator) **💚 SIGN UP! to our mailing list for updates and discounts:** [https://ecstaticdancelondon.myflodesk.com/we-are-london](https://ecstaticdancelondon.myflodesk.com/we-are-london) **Ecstatic Dance London** \- pioneers of the UK Ecstatic Dance scene since 2009 \- are thrilled to share our 16th My Ecstatic Odyssey\. This is your sober Saturday night dance ritual: a freestyle movement journey\, part rave\, part meditation\, part community unified experience\. **What is My Ecstatic Odyssey?** Inspired by our summertime sunset open-air dances… because there’s something mystical about twilight: that threshold between day and night where the world feels extra alive, and we drop straight into The Now. We’ll be channelling the spirit of Ibiza, Goa, and sunrise/sunset dancefloors worldwide, bringing warm, euphoric, uplifting energy into the heart of winter. **Come and dance to:** \- Open up and shake off city stress \- Move in more lightness\, joy\, and freedom \- Drop into a deep\, embodied journey through electronic dance music \- Meet new human dancing friends\! **Cacao Ceremony (facilitated by Seth)** We’ll begin with ceremonial-grade cacao and a short guided meditation to connect with your body, your heart, and a positive intention for the journey. No dance experience needed. All welcome. **Ecstatic Dance Guidelines** No booze • No shoes • No phones • No chit chat Move however you wish • Respect yourself and others. Zero-tolerance sober space: Please don’t arrive drunk or high — you may be refused entry or asked to leave. No refunds. **Disclaimer:** Dancers enter at their own risk. We accept no responsibility for spontaneous joy, open-heartedness, or sore cheeks from excessive smiling **Practice Flow** Warm-up: gentle stretch + landing + intention The Journey: a full-spectrum DJ “sound wave” with some facilitation/guidance Closing: a grounding wind-down and relaxation to integrate **Please arrive on time.** This is a shared journey from beginning to end. No late entry: if you’re more than 30 minutes late, you won’t be able to join — thank you for respecting the container. See you on the dancefloor 💛🌀

**Celebrate VALENTINE's DAY this** **Saturday night, the party is getting started on the boat of fun!!!! LET'S ENJOY IT TO THE MAX! BOOK VIA THE LINK: [https://fatso.ma/3d4i](https://fatso.ma/3d4i) or [https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/singles-or-not-valentines-traffic-light-social-party-romantic-views-tickets-1982331011418?aff=oddtdtcreator](https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/singles-or-not-valentines-traffic-light-social-party-romantic-views-tickets-1982331011418?aff=oddtdtcreator)** *YOU MUST HAVE A TICKET IN ADVANCE & RSVP PLEASE* **This event has been designed for everyone, whether you are SINGLE or you may be enjoying this evening with YOUR SPECIAL ONE or with friends!** ***Celebrate LOVE! Socialise, meet new people and party on, while enjoying the STUNNING, ROMANTIC VIEWS of central London skyline on the Thames!*** The concept for the evening is **a fun “TRAFFIC LIGHT” social and party,** designed to encourage easy conversations and interactions! *ASK FOR ELENI'S EVENT, BE SHOWN TO OUR AREA AND CHOOSE THE RIGHT COLOUR WRISTBAND FOR YOU!* **\- Choose a GREEN wristband IF YOU ARE SINGLE AND OPEN TO MEET NEW PEOPLE WITH A POTENTIAL DATE\!** **\- Choose an AMBER wristband IF YOU WOULD LIKE TO SOCIALISE\, MIX\, MINGLE AND ENJOY CONVERSATIONS\!** **-Choose a RED wristband IF YOU ARE TAKEN & IN LOVE OR SIMPLY THERE TO ENJOY THE ATMOSPHERE, THE VENUE & THE PARTY WITH YOUR FRIENDS.** HOW TO FIND : -ASK FOR ELENI'S & OUT & ABOUT LONDON - SOCIALISING AREA UPON ARRIVAL. Welcome on board! -INTRODUCE YOURSELF, PICK THE RIGHT COLOUR WRISTBAND AND ENJOY THE VIBE! \- A**rrive from 20:00 till 20:30 and be in the flow of the introductions.** ***This is a hosted event so you can be*** ***introduced to all attendees (unless you chose a RED wristband) and be included throughout the evening.*** ***Connect with people of various backgrounds and age range, make friends, form connections, perhaps bump into somepne that can make your heart sing or simply enjoy the evening, on board the moored, historic boat, TATTERSHALL CASTLE.*** We're all on the same BOAT this evening after all! **The legendary venue, in London's heart, ours too, for the younger to know and the older to remember!** **You may stay only for the social part, or stay for as long as you may like.** **Tattershall Castle Boat - Bar - Nightclub** offers a unique location upon the Thames, overlooking the shinny BIG BEN and London's always impressive sky line, moored right opposite London Eye. ***YOU MAY STAY ONWARDS AT THE PARTY FREE OF CHARGE INCLUDED IN YOUR TICKET TILL CLOSING TIME.*** **ID : MUST HAVE or NO ENTRY. The venue reserves the right of** **admission**. **Bag search is applied.** **DRESS CODE: smart casual.** **Tattershall Castle Boat - Bar - Nightclub** offers a unique location upon the Thames, overlooking the recently revamped BIG BEN and London's always impresive sky line. **Delicious food is availalble to order for that craving.** Refunds only in case of the event being cancelled. If you get declined at the door as per the venue's policies, refunds are not offered.

This is a small-group, quiet-ish meetup for ADHD brains who to connect with their tribe without their nervous system going, 'Aiiight, I'm outta here!' We’re meeting at **Picturehouse Central** (Piccadilly) because it’s one of those places where you can actually hear yourself think. Mostly. This is more of a tea/coffee and cake kinda venue. Sorry, booze hounds! **The vibe is**: relaxed, validating, welcoming It won't be like whispering to each other at the back of the class, just… less sensory Armageddon. **What to expect** A small group (human-scale, not “who are all these people” scale). A quiet-ish venue where you don’t have to shout your personality into existence. Conversation that can be normal (well, probably far from normal 😅. There is no need to worry about trying to fit in, no need to mask. A soft landing. Come late, ease in, do a gentle hello, no one’s timing you. Low-pressure hanging out. If you want to chat, great. If you want to sit and decompress near other people, also great. **The unofficial theme** How to be social without being assaulted by: fluorescent lighting overlapping conversations surprise music that one table doing a full volume podcast recording next to you. **Important Note:** If you cannot make it, please put 'Can't go'. This ensures there's space for others who want to attend 🙂 ‐------------------------------------------------------ Boundaries (quick, clear, important) Yay!-DHD is a consent-led space. Some people are chatty, some are quiet, some are pacing themselves. Please don’t push for personal details, contact info, or continued connection if someone isn’t offering it. This isn’t a dating event. ‐------------------------------------------------------- For you robots out there: ADHD | Low sensory meetup | Inclusive | AUDHD |

🌌Ever look up and marvel with insatiable curiosity at both the beauty and wonder of the **universe?** That wild sobering thought that somewhere in the chaos of creation - the emergence of life - the universe became **conscious** enough to look back and ask the existential questions; How it all started, our evolution and place in it, and where else in the cosmos other complex life might exist (we know almost every star you see has planets orbiting with up to **20 billion habitable exoplanets** easily in our galaxy alone!)? 🪐🌟🌟🌟 🌍Then RSVP to view the potential life harbouring moons of **Jupiter**, comets, the famous **Orion Nebula** where stars like our sun were born, the majestic rings of **Saturn**, the international space station, well known star fields, remnants of **supernova** witnessed by our early ancestors, multi-star solar systems (think the double sun in Starwars), the Tau Ceti star with **2 Earth like planets** orbiting in the habitable zone, plus a range of other fascinating celestial wonderments (comets, galaxies) over drinks and engaging chats and banter this Jan fully hosted by a passionate amateur astronomer and former global Journalist covering big picture stories including cutting edge science related ones. 🚀In between observing - we'll have **drinks and engaging chats** on all astronomy related topics for those inclined - space exploration, Fermi Paradox, Astrobiology, Cosmology, paleontology, SETI/Drake Equation (I have my own augmented version giving more realistic estimates of likely alien civilisations!), exoplanetology etc as well as non space chatter and banter too. No doubt we'll hear the usual jokes we've all heard before! If those don't make you laugh, my impersonation of Los Angeles ET will! 👽 And to help set the mood and make the night feel even extra galactic, I’ll put my DJ hat to play some space‑themed tunes and songs about the stars! **======= Joining Astronomers Group & Telescopes =======** I'm able to take a limited number of people (please only RSVP if you can make it) to join my friendly informal relaxed London amateur astronomers' club that have been for over a decade with their regulars made up of up to about 150 people. As there will be people attending from this private Astronomers group as well as others from one of my other groups - the total attendees will be far higher than rsvps here and the public liability insurance only covers a max number of people - hence I need to impose strict limits on attendance. Over the years we have enjoyed numerous social evenings of stargazing and thought provoking chatter with people of all ages and varying levels of astronomy knowledge - so complete beginners that are genuinely curious about the universe are very welcome. If you are just looking to meet generic randoms then there are others groups that will better cater for that. The world renowed **BBC Television Sky at Night** also attended our events pre covid and interviewed some of us for it's show that aired on BBC1 in Feb 2019. BBC **Radio London** (94.9 FM / digital) were there Aug 2023 to cover our meteor shower event broadcasting live to millions of Londoners for 3 hours You don't need a telescope as you will be able to view through scopes belonging to me and other club members (as long as you behave responsibly and don't temper with expensive equipment). If you have your own telescope/binoculars feel free to bring along and I can help you setting it up if you're a newbie **==== Food & Drinks With Seating From Warm Indoor Cafe ====** Alcoholic beverages (wine, beer, cider only), hot drinks and food/snacks will be available to purchase from an indoor cafe at the observation point which Regent's park keep open exclusively for the astronomers group so please don't bring your own drinks **==== ITINERARY =====** We will meet outside Camden Station. After a short wait for anyone delayed, I will escort everyone to our observation point in the local park 15 minutes walk away and brief you in terms of what to expect, observing etiquette, tips, equipment handling and take any questions you have - weather general or astronomy/cosmology related. **After Drinks:** Unless I have a very important 9AM Thursday deadline for a client presentation or something that I'm still gonna be writing 2 mins before start - most of us usually head our way back to Camden for another drink. If so - I will annouce the pub when we leave the park **==== What Can You Expect To See (this time of year)? ====** * Orion Nebula * Jupiter and 4 moons * Meteors * Andromedia Galaxy * Saturn, rings & moon * Star clusters such as the Pleiades & Owl Cluster etc * International Space station fly by * Venus & Mercury * Binary & tripple star systems (think planet *Tatooine in* Starwars!), * Neptune * Uranuus * Mars * Our moon * A look towards the galactic centre where that supermassive £22b Labour black hole sits (Sagittarius A) More here from Jodrell Bank Observatory/Astrophysics Centre: [http://www.jb.man.ac.uk/astronomy/nightsky/](http://www.jb.man.ac.uk/astronomy/nightsky/) Guide to viewing the cosmos for beginners: [https://phys.org/news/2018-05-universe-distant-starstips-cosmology-backyard.html#jCp](https://phys.org/news/2018-05-universe-distant-starstips-cosmology-backyard.html#jCp) **===Weather Dependent=====** The event is subject to clear skies forecasts on the night so if on the actual afternoon of the event the weather forecasts looks unsuitable beyond doubt then I will postpone so please check the event status on the day of the event . If this event is still listed here at 5PM on the day, it will be going ahead at the designated day and time! Happy Stargazing Lucas Skywalker - The Singin, Dancin, DJ-in Astronomer

**Sunday 15 February** Valentine’s Day is over… whether you loved it, hated it, or successfully ignored it 😄 So come and **walk it off** with us. This is a **free Sunday walk** focused on **movement, fresh air, and good company** — no romance required, no awkward hand-holding, and absolutely no pressure to discuss your love life. ### 🥾 The Walk * **Meeting Point:** Outside Finsbury Park Station (main exit - station place (East side)) at 10:15am (walk starts at 10:30 sharp) and finish by 2pm. * **Distance:** Approx. 12–15 km * **Pace & Difficulty:** Steady and purposeful with some elevation of approx., 250m. * **Terrain:** Well-maintained paths, suitable for winter * **Breaks:** Brief catch-up stops only * This is a **pre-lunch walk**, and we’ll aim to **finish before 2:00 pm**, so please be comfortable maintaining the pace. **About the walk** \- This route is a **varied and scenic North London loop**, with a mix of **urban green corridors, woodland paths, and elevated viewpoints**. A steady climb rewarded with some of the best panoramic views over London, and peaceful woodland stretches of Highgate Wood. ### ❤️ **Why join?** * Walk off the Valentine’s chocolate, cake, wine… or all three 🍫🍷, or * Clear your head of bad cards, bad dates, or bad TV * Walk with like-minded people who chose fresh air over brunch * Be done, dusted, and virtuous before 2 pm ### ⚠️ Important * Please arrive **on time** * Stay within sight of the group * This walk suits those happy with **continuous walking at a decent pace** Whether you’re **single, coupled, complicated, or gloriously unbothered** — you’re welcome. *** ### **After-Walk** We’ll finish near **Finsbury Park** **Station** at **Finsbury Park** with packed picnic style lunch and then go to pub nearby for a warm drink/pint and/or to unwind. *** ### ⚠️ Important Notes * Please stay with or behind the hike leader. This helps to manage group pace and cohesion. * Participation is free, but you are responsible for your own safety and well-being. No risk/liability is inferred or accepted by the organiser. * Please be mindful of others, respect the countryside, and keep the group spirit positive. * Read the **About Us** section before joining: 👉 [About Us](https://www.meetup.com/free-hiking-outdoor-fitness-and-social-activities/) 📲 **Contact:** If you’re running late, lost, or need to reach me on the day, message/WhatsApp me at **07830 374 629**.

As you may or may not know--I didn't until late last year--Aristotle wrote extensively on "friendship" in the Nicomachean Ethics. After 69 years the concept of friendship still creates questions and uncertainty. I had close friends in high school and for a few years after high school but our interests diverged and people moved all over the country so it was hard to maintain connections. * So if I/you haven't talked with a friend for several years, are you still friends? Are we friends who meet at Drunken Philosophy or Omnipresent Atheists? * Can you be friends with someone with whom you have virulently divergent political views? Sartre and Camus could not. * Aristotle regarded friendship as essential to a good life, not merely an added "bonus." Do you agree? * In the Nicomachean Ethics (Books VIII and IX), he claims that wealth and power are meaningless without friends. Trump has wealth and power but seems to have no real friends, but wealth and power seem meaningful to him in perverted ways. Can you have meaning in your life without friends? * Do men and women view and maintain friendships in different ways? * Aristotle categorizes friendship into three types, based on what forms the bond: * **Utility**: Based on mutual benefit, but this type is fragile and ends when the usefulness ceases. * **Pleasure**: Based on shared enjoyment (e.g., humor, hobbies). Common among youth but fades as interests change. * **Virtue (The "Complete" Friendship)**: Based on mutual respect for each other's character and goodness. You wish good for the other for their sake, not yours. * **Key Principles of "True" (Virtuous) Friendship:** * **Permanence**: Virtuous friendships last a lifetime whereas those based on utility and pleasure are fleeting. * **Reciprocity**: Requires mutual goodwill; secret or unreciprocated affection does not qualify. * **The "Second Self"**: A true friend is "another self"—their virtue helps you understand and improve yourself. * **Time and Intimacy**: Deep ("complete") friendships are few, built on time and shared experiences. * **Self-Love and Friendship:** * Good friendship starts with being a friend to yourself. * They distinguish shallow egoism (chasing honors) from real self-love (pursuing virtue). * A virtuous person’s pleasant self-company allows them to be a stable, good friend to others. * Aristotle argues that one's social circle ultimately reflects one's character—a view with striking relevance today. Well--the Drunken Philosophy social circle certainly reflects good character!

***THERE ARE BIG SCREENS FOR THE START OF THE WINTER OLYMPICS*** 👍 After being cooped up all week with this snow and cold, it’s a great time to get up out of the house and join us for a fun time at the Pint House!! **Come anytime during 4-8. Stay as long as you want. No set time*** **WE’RE NOW IN A BIGGER AREA!** It’s a chance to meet people in our age group regardless if you’re in your fifties, sixties or seventies! Retired or still working.

We will have lunch at Cap City Diner in Gahanna at 12:00 then walk over to the theater afterwards. The Movie Solo Mio starts at 1:20.It will be posted when tickets available to purchase probably the week before then we’ll post our seat number so we can all sit together 😎

*Happy Hour fans?* Each month, our group is going to try to meet at some of the best happy hours around town! This month, let's meet for drinks and small bites at **[Rail Craft Kitchen](https://www.railcraftkitchen.com/menu?menu=happy-hour#1)** in Dublin on Frantz Road. *Happy Hour is 3-6pm weekdays*. Every drink or shareable is only $6.00! **Happy Hour** is inherently social. It’s a time when people come together to unwind and enjoy each other’s company. For many, it’s a way to catch up with friends, network with colleagues, or simply meet new people in a relaxed setting. The casual atmosphere of happy hour encourages conversation, making it easier to bond over shared interests and experiences.

**Community Dance – Every Friday at Unity of Columbus** Let go of the week’s stress and move into joy! Join us every Friday for an evening of community, connection, and dance at Unity of Columbus. It’s a chance to meet new friends, express yourself through movement, and experience the emotional healing that comes from music and rhythm. No dance experience needed — just bring your energy, an open heart, and your dancing shoes! Dance is freedom. Dance is healing. Dance is fun.

In this local meeting, you will discover knowledge that you can use to get over the past. The key to improving your personal motivation, self-confidence, and happiness is to get over your painful memories. When you become free of your past, you will be free from stress, anger, anxiety and depression. Studies show that negative emotions can affect your health. By being free of negative emotions, believe it or not, you will most likely even look younger, feel more energetic, and become healthier! Be sure to click on the red "Attend" button below to come to this local event. We look forward to seeing you there. This group is brought to you by the Dianetics and Scientology life improvement center.