Bonding Activities San Francisco

OAKLAND HILLS Cuddles - Cuddle Party in Oakland Hills! May 9th 2026

NOTE: This event is cross posted, so RSVPs on Meetup do not reflect the actual number of tickets sold. We often sell out a week or so before the event, so it is advised to get your tickets well in advance. **Visit the [Eventbrite](https://OaklandHillsPlatonicTouch050926.eventbrite.com) listing to buy a ticket and get more info!** This workshop and social event offers participants opportunities to learn about and practice communication skills, explore consent, and discover the power of platonic touch. Attendees will practice identifying and asking for what they want, saying no to what they don’t want and yes to what they do want, and experimenting with platonic touch in a safe, inclusive, and nurturing environment. This workshop and social event offers participants opportunities to learn about and practice communication skills, explore consent, and discover the power of platonic touch. Attendees will practice identifying and asking for what they want, saying no to what they don’t want and yes to what they do want, and experimenting with platonic touch in a safe, inclusive, and nurturing environment. If you... 1. have been suffering from skin hunger and lack of touch in your life 2. desire physical contact with other people in a non-sexual way 3. long for nurturing and healing touch 4. need a safe place to relax and rejuvenate 5. are looking to connect with an inspiring and welcoming community 6. want to stretch out of your comfort zone 7. often find yourself in the role of caretaker, but need a turn to be taken care of 8. have no idea how to answer the question "what kind of touch do you like?" 9. feel overwhelmed by both a desire for connection and a desire to run away from connection ....then our Platonic Touch Workshop & Practice may be just what you have been looking for! More details about this event: **WHAT TO EXPECT:** Participants will be required to bring their own rapid antigen Covid test to be taken upon arrival, or show a photo of a rapid antigen test taken the day of the event. Once they have received a negative result or have shown a photo of that day's negative result to the assistant, they will be escorted into the workshop space. The welcome circle and workshop will introduce participants to one another and offer guided exercises and support to practice communication skills. Afterwards, there will be approximately two hours available for practicing touch, eating snacks, or just hanging out. Our event ends a few minutes before 6:00pm with a brief closing circle. NOTE: Touch is not required at this event. Every activity is optional. You are welcome to come and observe only! You get to choose THE WHOLE TIME. **PUNCTUALITY:** Allow time for losing your keys and getting caught in traffic and looking for parking in order to be on time. Doors open at 1:00pm and close PROMPTLY at 1:30pm. In order to provide a safe and respectful environment for all participants, there will be no admittance after 1:30pm. **PARKING**: There is very limited street parking near the home, so please carpool if possible. Additionally there is a parking lot called Shepherd Canyon Parking Lot 1 mile away and we will provide a shuttle service with passenger car(s). More conversation to come about the shuttle as we get closer to the event. **ACCESSIBILITY**: There is one flight of stairs to get to the front door and another flight of stairs into the cuddle space. One cat lives in the home, but will be confined to a separate room during our event. **CLOTHING:** Wear pajamas or comfortable lounge wear. Shoes are not allowed in the cuddle space where we will be gathering, and there will be a space for you to leave your shoes. **FOOD & BEVERAGE:** Please bring a snack, a potluck dish, or non-alcoholic beverage to share with the group in the kitchen area. **PERSONAL HYGIENE:** Avoid perfumes or any other strongly scented products, as some people may be sensitive to these. Make sure you have showered or bathed recently. **TICKETS:** You must reserve your spot by purchasing a ticket through Eventbrite. Once you have purchased your ticket, you will receive a confirmation email with exact location details. Your email address will also be added to the Platonic Touch email list, so you can receive emails about upcoming events, as well as links to register. You can unsubscribe to this list at any time. **FINANCIAL AID:** If you are facing financial hardship, I invite you to **use the promo code SUPPORT to get a 50% discount on your ticket.** There are a limited number of these discounted tickets available, so please only apply it if you need the discount in order to attend. **Join us on Plura (formerly Bloom)** to connect and chat before the event! **ABOUT ME:** I am a Certified Cuddle Party Facilitator. I also have more than ten years experience working in the field of early childhood and parent education which help me bring empathy, compassion, clarity, creativity and strong leadership into my role as a Cuddle Party Facilitator. I love creating safe spaces for people to connect to themselves and each other. To learn more about Cuddle Parties, click here: http://www.cuddleparty.com/ (I choose to call my events Platonic Touch Workshops & Practice because I have found that the term "cuddle party" can be intimidating to individuals new to the world of platonic touch. It's important to me that my events appeal to a broad spectrum of people and feel safe for everyone. If you are feeling intimidated about attending, please know that one of the foundational rules of our events is that you never have to touch anyone you don't want to, ever. In fact, not touching or cuddling is always an available and viable option. Aside from practicing touch, there is also space for chatting, writing, coloring, reading, napping, and eating snacks!) If you have any questions, comments, or concerns, please message me through Eventbrite. All good things, Autumn Vandiver **About admittance: Participants will be asked to show a time-stamped photo of a rapid antigen test taken the day of the event, or bring their own test to take upon arrival. Thank you for your patience and understanding as we navigate how to gather safely in our new world.** **Visit the [Eventbrite](https://OaklandHillsPlatonicTouch050926.eventbrite.com) listing to buy a ticket and get more info!**

Richmond Neighborly Cleanup

Meet at Fulton Playground ([28th Avenue Entrance](https://www.google.com/maps/place/Fulton+Playground/@37.7735284,-122.4868916,15z/data=!4m6!3m5!1s0x8085870b8f8fd3eb:0x6d2eadfef297853b!8m2!3d37.7735284!4d-122.4868916!16s%2Fg%2F1tdyr03w?entry=ttu "https://www.google.com/maps/place/Fulton+Playground/@37.7735284,-122.4868916,15z/data=!4m6!3m5!1s0x8085870b8f8fd3eb:0x6d2eadfef297853b!8m2!3d37.7735284!4d-122.4868916!16s%2Fg%2F1tdyr03w?entry=ttu")) to grab our supplies and form our crew. Then, cleaning will occur from 3:00pm to 4:30pm around the neighborhood. Sign up on Meetup, this [Civic Joy Fund Mobilize](https://www.mobilize.us/civicjoyfund/event/755939/) page or email info@refuserefusesf.org with event name. \*By participating or registering in a cleanup or volunteer event, I acknowledge and agree to the Civic Joy Fund and Refuse Refuse volunteer waivers: [https://civicjoyfund.org/volunteer](https://civicjoyfund.org/volunteer) - [https://refuserefusesf.org/waiver](https://refuserefusesf.org/waiver)

Bay Area Relational Lab - Meet Singles & Experience Real Connection

Tired of dating apps or surface-level events? This is different. This is a **2-hour guided relational experience** designed to help you connect with other singles in your city — without small talk, pressure, or performance. **What happens:** • You join a 2-hour guided online session • You meet a small group of singles from San Francisco and surroundings • You’re led through structured connection exercises • Within 48 hours, you meet the same group in person • You stay connected afterward via WhatsApp **This is for you if:** • You’re done with shallow or random social spaces • You want deeper, more intentional connection • You’re open to a structured experience If you’re just browsing or looking for something casual, this likely won’t be a fit. **Important:** Spots are limited and booking happens through our website. 👉 Reserve your spot & stay in the loop with new events every month: [[https://consciousconnections.com/join](https://consciousconnectionsclub.com/join)] **When:** Online session: [7 - 9PM] In-person meetup: within 48 hours (details shared after booking) Most people come alone. Most leave having met people they genuinely want to see again.

Richmond Library Cleanup

Meet at the Richmond Library ([351 9th Ave](https://www.google.com/maps/place/Richmond+%2F+Senator+Milton+Marks+Branch+Library/data=!4m2!3m1!1s0x0:0x16b095dae03b1f88?sa=X&ved=1t:2428&ictx=111 "https://www.google.com/maps/place/Richmond+%2F+Senator+Milton+Marks+Branch+Library/data=!4m2!3m1!1s0x0:0x16b095dae03b1f88?sa=X&ved=1t:2428&ictx=111")) at 3:30pm where we'll to grab our supplies and form our crew. Then, cleaning will occur around the neighborhood until 4:30pm. Sign up on Meetup, this [Civic Joy Fund Mobilize](https://www.mobilize.us/civicjoyfund/event/756695/) page, or email info@refuserefusesf.org with the event name. \*By participating or registering in a cleanup or volunteer event, I acknowledge and agree to the Civic Joy Fund and Refuse Refuse volunteer waivers: [https://civicjoyfund.org/volunteer](https://civicjoyfund.org/volunteer) - [https://refuserefusesf.org/waiver](https://refuserefusesf.org/waiver)

Men's Group Meeting - Real Men, Real Visibility, Connection and Growth

AMTGARD - live action role playing (Marina Bay Park, Richmond Marina)

**AMTGARD - WYVERN'S SPUR** [https://ork.amtgard.com/orkui/index.php?Route=Park/index/132](https://ork.amtgard.com/orkui/index.php?Route=Park/index/132) **KINGDOM OF WESTMARCH** [https://ork.amtgard.com/orkui/index.php?Route=Kingdom/index/21](https://ork.amtgard.com/orkui/index.php?Route=Kingdom/index/21) Welcome to Wyvern's Spur, Berkeley/Richmond 's chapter of Amtgard! **Sunday Amtgard @Marina Bay Park, Richmond Marina!** ***Most of our organizing is on Facebook; if you have any questions you'll get a much faster response there than messaging here!*** * *Park location* - **Marina Bay Park at the Richmond Marina, Richmond, CA** * *[Google Map](https://www.google.com/maps/@37.914617,-122.3464533,16z)*[ ](https://www.google.com/maps/@37.914617,-122.3464533,16z) * *All are welcome* * *Free to play* * *14+ for foam combat* * *Come & observe, ask questions of our members or participate!* * *We have loaner garb & loaner weapons on site.* * *Look forward to meeting you!* Amtgard is fun and silliness. We are an action oriented LARP that has chapters across the country. If you feel like checking out the rulebook, wonder over to California Amtgard's website at [http://caamtgard.com/docs/ ](http://caamtgard.com/docs/)(but you don't need to look at the rulebook before joining us, we're happy to go over things in person!) Members start arriving between Noon and 1pm; sparing and light games start about 1pm; real games go until we're tired. To learn more about us - watch this YouTube video! [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dhq62QYwaGU](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dhq62QYwaGU) You can also find us on Facebook at - [https://www.facebook.com/groups/WyvernsSpur/](https://www.facebook.com/groups/WyvernsSpur/) and on Discord at - [https://discord.gg/hwMQKnBv](https://discord.gg/hwMQKnBv) Most of our organizing is on Facebook; if you have any questions you'll get a much faster response there than messaging here!

Social Volunteering -- Carnival Parade & Festival, SF

This is an info post, for people who are interested in **volunteering** with the Carnival Festival, or **help** with the festival social event we are holding. If you only plan to participate for social, see our other DiscoverSF: Carnival post. The volunteering for the event follows a different schedule, so we put up a separate event post. The Carnival Festival is one of the three **largest** Festival & Parade in SF, besides Chinese New Year & Pride. It is recruiting volunteers now, both for the 2 days festival and the Sunday parade. Here is the link: https://carnavalsanfrancisco.org/volunteer/ Benefits of the volunteering include lunch, T-shirt and festival insider experience, with said **half a million** attending this huge community event. By our past festival volunteering experience, you get plenty of chances to interact with people, but often **short and limited** to your assigned station. You will be simply let go after your shift. Your chance to connect with other volunteers, or have deeper conversation, is quite limited. We are **fixing** that, with two ways. One is that we will setup a real time whatsapp channel for (volunteer) social, so you can chat with other volunteers and set up **after shift coffee** / meal debriefing social together. We welcome people to host this after shift social, you volunteered already any way :). The other is that you are invited to attend the DiscoverSF **community structured social** in the event, as insiders guides to the festival. This would give you **unique** position to **get noticed** in the group. And if you are on duty the parade day, we can **visit** you on your shift along the parade route. So in addition to social with other volunteers, you get another chance to social a volunteer support group also. **Double** your chances. If you need any help in social, let us know. We set up the separate social event to **support** **our volunteers**. So if you are simply warm hearted to help acting as guides or assistants in the coming DiscoverSF -- Carnival social, you can signup here as well. And let us know if so. The volunteer application **deadline** is May 2nd. We would then change the date to actual event date afterwards. **[TownFlame](http://www.townflame.org/): Community & Connections.** **Liability Waiver:** Participation in TownFlame events is voluntary and involves social interaction in public spaces. Activities are designed to be inclusive and respectful. Participants assume all risks and release TownFlame, its organizers, volunteers, and affiliates from liability for injury, illness, or damages, except in cases of gross negligence or intentional misconduct. By attending, participants acknowledge that photographs, audio, and video recordings may be taken during events, and grant TownFlame the right to use such media for promotional and marketing purposes, in any format or platform, without further consent or compensation.

Bollywood Nights at Salesforce Park - Free

**Bollywood Nights at Salesforce Park 🎉** Join Rang De Bollywood for some high-energy, outdoor, bollywood fun! This event is sure to leave you feeling loved, lighter, and delighted in excitement after every session. 🌈 Open to all ages, all levels, all backgrounds. ✨ Come casual or dressed, no pressure! 🎁 Free to attend – just bring your joy, your people, and your dancing feet! 🚶🏼‍♂️‍➡️Register for free so we can prepare at rang.eventbrite.com 🕔 5:30 – 7:00 PM – we’ll start with a beginner friendly dance lesson, followed by an open dance party! 💫 This is a repeating event, happening every 1st and 3rd Friday of the month, May through October and you can register for as many dates as you like. Register now: [rang.eventbrite.com](http://rang.eventbrite.com) **About Rang De Bollywood** Hailing from the dream dance city of Mumbai and Amritsar, which is also home to Bollywood and Holy Vibes, our energetic, charismatic, and fun dance instructors-performers-entertainers, Manpreet (Certified in Indian Folk by India's Best and also an author) and Amit (percussionist, actor, dancer), have spread Indian dance music and moves across the length and breadth of India, USA, and Europe. Their recent performances were at National Center of Performing Arts in Mumbai and Herbst Theater in San Francisco. **Important Notes:** * Enter through transit center building and take the elevator to rooftop. We will be close to the elevator. * No solicitors allowed. * Classes might be video taped for marketing purposes. * All choreographies are Copyrighted and Original Works of Manpreet Komal/Rang De Bollywood. *"I recently had the pleasure of attending Manpreet’s Bollywood dance class, and I must say, it was an absolute blast! Whether you're a complete beginner or an experienced dancer, this class caters to everyone's skill level. The highlight of the class was undoubtedly her teaching style. With a knack for breaking down complex steps into manageable chunks, even the most intricate routines felt attainable. The pacing was just right, ensuring that beginners didn't feel overwhelmed while keeping experts engaged. Highly recommend!" — Kavneet Bindra* **We can't wait to dance together, see you soon!**

Discover SF: Free Embarcardero Waterfront Concert -- Outsides Lands Producer

Outside Lands' producer is throwing a massive free concert in Embarcadero square, and we are going. This is also to celebrate San Francisco's legendary Om Records turning 30. **RSVP**: https://apeconcerts.com/events/om-records-260509/ **What:** Free outdoor concert featuring Mark Farina, Colette b2b DJ Heather, Shiny Objects, and J Boogie — three decades of Bay Area house music on full display. Produced by Another Planet Entertainment (the folks behind **Outside Lands**) in partnership with SF Rec & Parks. https://secretsanfrancisco.com/free-concert-embarcadero-lineup/ **When:** Saturday, May 9th **Where to meet:** Red Bay Coffee, Shop 46, inside the Ferry Building. Grab a coffee, then we'll gather on the waterfront benches right outside before walking to the plaza together. * 12:00 PM — Meet at Red Bay Coffee, Ferry Building * 12:45 PM — Walk to Embarcadero Plaza as a group * 1:00 PM — Concert starts * 5:00 PM — Concert ends, after-event plans will form in the group chat **What to bring:** Good vibes, sunscreen, comfortable shoes. Maybe a light layer for the afternoon breeze off the bay. **Important:** This is a free event but RSVP is recommended on Another Planet's page as well. Come discover the sound that put the Bay on the map. Whether you're deep into house music or just want a great Saturday on the waterfront, this one's for you. See you at the Ferry Building. **[TownFlame](http://www.townflame.org/): Community & Connections.** **Liability Waiver:** Participation in TownFlame events is voluntary and involves social interaction in public spaces. Activities are designed to be inclusive and respectful. Participants assume all risks and release TownFlame, its organizers, volunteers, and affiliates from liability for injury, illness, or damages, except in cases of gross negligence or intentional misconduct. By attending, participants acknowledge that photographs, audio, and video recordings may be taken during events, and grant TownFlame the right to use such media for promotional and marketing purposes, in any format or platform, without further consent or compensation.

Mini-Meetup: Let's Play Charades!

Walk & Talk About Life's Big Questions

[The Board Walks](http://www.theboardwalks.com/) are for curious people who love deep conversations. If that sounds like you, **bring a thoughtful topic** and join us for a 5-mile walk (10,000+ steps!). **HOW IT WORKS** **Step 1: Bring a topic** Before you arrive, think of **one** topic you want to explore. A question. A thought that's been on your mind. An obsession you want to geek out on. This is your ticket to the event. **Step 2: Circle up & share** We gather in a circle. Your friendly walk host gives a speech to set the tone. Everyone shares: your name, what you're grateful for, and your topic. That's it. 60 seconds. **Step 3: Walk, talk & float** We walk 5 miles. You naturally drift into conversation with 2-3 people at a time, pulled by topics that spark your curiosity. When you're ready to move on, just say: "I'm going to float!" **Step 4: Feel more alive** Two hours flies by. You're back where you started — but you feel different. More alive. More energized. More connected to yourself and others. That's why regulars join 20+ times. *For more details, read our [Orientation Guide.](https://www.theboardwalks.com/orientation)* **HOW TO BRING A GREAT TOPIC** A great topic = something you're genuinely curious about. Recent topics include: * "What are you passionate about right now?" * "What makes a good friend?" * "What's a belief you used to hold that you've completely changed?" * "How do you want to be remembered?" * "What would you do if money wasn't a factor?" Think of your topic like the dish you're bringing to our conversational potluck. If everyone brings an A+ dish (i.e. energizing, uplifting, expansive), we'll all walk away feeling lighter and brighter. **WHAT TO EXPECT** This isn't a fitness event with casual chitchat. It's a walking think tank where we explore life's big questions together, beyond small talk. *If you're looking for light banter or a standard networking event, this probably isn't the right fit.* But if you crave depth, genuine connection, and conversations that make you feel alive? You'll love it here. **FAQ** * Wear casual athletic attire and sneakers. It's a long walk! * We have multiple first-timers at each event. We work hard to create a welcoming, inclusive, clique-free space. * We welcome people of **all** ages, backgrounds, and industries who align with the [intention](https://www.theboardwalks.com/ground-rules) of this space. * Rain or shine, we've been out here nearly every week since July 2022. If the event is cancelled, we'll let you know. * Dogs, babies in strollers, parents, and friends are welcome — please text/email them the event link so they can RSVP and prepare a topic! **LOGISTICS** * If you'll arrive over 10 minutes late, we suggest skipping the event. It's hard to find us once we start walking, and your host can't answer messages during the event. * This walk is designed for everyone to *move together at the same steady pace* (about 20 min/mile). This format works best when the whole group moves in unison. If you have mobility limitations, we kindly encourage you to find an event better suited to your needs. * Read our [Orientation Guide](https://www.theboardwalks.com/orientation) for full details. * If you enjoy the event, send **[this](http://www.theboardwalks.com/)** to a friend or sign up for our **[newsletter](https://theboardwalks.beehiiv.com/)**. We're in multiple cities with more on the way. 🤠👋 **IF YOU WANT TO GO DEEPER...** [The Board](https://stan.store/ellebeecher/p/the-board) is the next step: a high-trust collective for renaissance people devoted to creating, connecting, and building lives that light us up. * This is a global HQ for people who crave big talk, deep connection, and dream collaborations with people across industries. If the walks feel like a spark... The Board is the fire. Apply [here](https://stan.store/ellebeecher/p/the-board).

Scaling Bridges: Real Stories of Business Growth

San Francisco entrepreneurs share the real stories behind how their businesses evolved—through expansion, reinvention, and sometimes unexpected setbacks. Panelists reflect on the decisions, risks and opportunities that shaped their journeys, offering an honest look at what it means to grow a business while staying rooted in community. Moderated by **Cynthia Huie,** panelists explore how creativity, resilience and collaboration can help entrepreneurs scale new bridges toward the future.